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Originally Posted by Imconfused
Ok so I have a question...as some of you know. I found out my boyfriend likes shemales. I told him I am here if he ever wants to talk and I also told him i'll indulge in his fantasies if he wants...and that I accept him 100%
So with all that..why still deny that you like shemales? Really what could he be afraid of?
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Hi. Well... This is kinda hard to explain, at least for me right now. But I'll try to make myself clear. If my wife would discover I like to watch shemales, ladyboys, etc. I'd panic myself! Because we always think our woman is going to leave us or something like that if she knows.
We always try to deny because we are not ready to face up the consecuences of the thoughts we have. Lets say, if you tell me you accept me _even_ with my special hobby, anyway I'd try to fix things saying I don't like and that was only a search that went wrong or something. I'm not really ready to handle that. I think I need to be a little bit more mature to accept that my wife is _accepting_ ME, the whole _me_.
Don't know. I'd last for a while before trying to talk to my wife and accept I like to watch, but I really enjoy making love to her.
How do you feel as his woman? You accept him AS IS, but are you afraid him to prefer eventually a shemale? How do you see his behaviour? I see a lot of shemale stuff, but anyway I am completely fullfilled with the relationship with my wife.
This is a kind of hobby. I'd like to have contact with a ladyboy, because I like that they are very femenine, but they have a penis between their legs, but sometimes I feel strange, because I like my wife a lot.
It is just this idea of having a kind of "dual body". It's facinating.
I hope you understand a little bit more my point of view.
Best wishes for you.