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Originally Posted by bi0mech81
the vast majority of guys who are attracted towards TGs see them only as sex objects/toys, drives most TG women towards prostitution/escorting, and/or entering the adult entertainment industry.
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BTW: Thanks to you and others for the great feedback and sharing some enthusiasm for the development of a community that may assist transwomen lovers.
Just a thought on your comment above - Yes, most of the tg loving crew seems to have scrambled out of the dark via the internet to recognize they have a sexual attraction to tgs. This combined with the fact that there are many barriers to developing serious long term relationship ensure that most man 2 transwomen experiences are almost entirely sexual and fleeting in nature. I'm no prude, but I think it's quite sad that such narrow relationships so dominate the experience of how these two complimentary people cooperate.
Having had a real relationship with a transwoman, I can assure those people who wonder about it that it is far more satisfying than short-time romps or web cam jerks or whatever else one must resort to for pleasure. You may just find that it fits you perfectly, like the 'girls born with vaginas' never could. And the fit is both sexually and emotionally satisfying.
There are people with experiences, lessons to guide others on their journey. For me it took over 20 years to work it all out for myself. A good community could speed that process for many, giving them the confidence to find and build relationships that can truly be satisfying for themselves and their tg partner.
What a shame so many are so lonely so long, not knowing much about how they might find more happiness together. Seems to me, a community, support groups, information should be made available to assist this process. The name, is just a step in self recognition, it does not define us, but assists in the process of association, cooperation and communication.
Another point: I found out the term Gynandromorphophilia was actually coined by those who would wish our condition to be included as a mental illness. I'd prefer not to promote it or have any association with it. I'd rather take some cuddles from my girlfriend than some anti-depressants to ease my pain
Here's one term a friend suggested to me: Men who Love Transwomen, which could utilise the acronym MELT.
Please Melters and Freinds of Melters (FOMELTERS) out there let me know what you think of that term, or if you have any other suggestions.