Need some advice
 

Hi and thanks for reading this I will try keep this as short as I can.

I recently met a girl online and have been talking for a bit and get on fantastically and things have been going great. I was going to arrange a time later next year to fly up and meet her. She told me last night she was a pre-op transsexual, I was quiet shocked I had no idea at at all.

I have never been with a woman like this before so I am a little worried how it will go and flying to another country being Malaysia to meet her. She is pretty hot and we have much in common but I do worry a little about doing this, has anyone done this before? And if so any advice/tips I am a little confused and cant stop thinking about it. I would normally discuss issues like this with friends/family however I don't think they would take to well to this and probably call me gay.

try to find someone local.... Way to dangerous to fly to another country to meet someone