New guy and nice
 

Hey everyone, I am just here to see if I can meet a nice shemale, tranny or whatever they like to be called, that I could possibly date.
I am basically a nice guy and I will not just ask for pics, unless you want to give me them.
I hope a can find a nice person who I could meet, I dont really mind the age as long as they are not way to old.
I have never dated a tranny (or whatever) before and never had sex with one and would like to try, I hope someone does reply :)

I believe the word you're looking for is WOMAN. :yes:

or goddess
or beautiful girl
and so on
=]

I was making a much different point, tin. The endearments (or however one might want to characterize the things in your list) come after recognizing that we are first and foremost talking about women, not something other than women.

Some friendly advice. I have been married twice and have dated a lot of women in my time. I think I can safely say none of them would have liked to have been referred to as ?or whatever.?

Example...

Me: ?My wife (or whatever) and I are going to celebrate our anniversary with a night of wild sex.?

Her: ?No we aren?t sweetie (or whatever).?

:lol:

Hey, my friend, what about "whomever"? ;)

and my point was that only a woman can be a godess and only a woman can be a beautiful "girl" . . so calling them either is equal to just using the word woman
they are not lesser words, just different words for the same outcome - which is that they are women

I stand by my original statement and my explanation that I was making a different point than you. While yours may only be "different words," the original point was to show -- in a gentle way -- the tilt toward ungendering in the OP's original post.

Likewise I observed his use of a derogatory term? ?tranny.? Followed by a dismissive one? ?or whatever.?

As I pointed out, if I ever referred to my wife as ?whatever? I?m quite sure I?d be sleeping on the couch. :(

I stil lcan;t see the difference, but I won't argue

I was backing you up on the ungendering, and given the nature of the OP and the smiley face inlcuded in my post, I don't think mine was "un" gentle

but don't worry
I shall keep my silence hereafter, sorry in advance

ZIP :respect: ZIP

Silence is not required. We are on the same wavelength.

We usually have in the past so I hope so!!!