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ive been having a lot of trouble taking a dick. and i really need some help. i have to ask..does anyone have any tips to get the dick in lol. like how to get fucked and stuff like that. it would be great cause i wanna get fucked by a nice dick. lol.

Do you currently play with toys? I diddled my tush for years with dildoes and other toys before attempting the real thing. There are several "Anal Training" kits available that consists of a small, medium and large butt plug. T-girl porn queen Wendy Williams just released her own anal trainer set via Doc Johnson's sex toy web site. It's very cool and perfect for a newcummer that wants to safely learn to take cocks in their ass. Once you have that I suggest purchasing a realistic looking and average sized latex or jelly dildo and get comfortable with working it in and out of your ass. I would suggest an average size didlo at first of maybe 6" or 7". For most of us size matters and the more you play and fuck you may find yourself crazing bigger toys and cocks. The total body orgasm that you can obtain from being fucked by a good partner is incredible and hard to imagine until you experience it. :blush:

From my experience the best position for someone new to anal sex is cowgirl. In other words, your on top riding your parnters cock. :turnon: That way you can control how much of your partner's cock enters your tush and how quickly. When you ease his cock head into your asshole I suggest baring down on it like you are pooping. That may sound weird but it relaxes your sphincter and his cock should slide painlessly into your tush. Take it slow and let his cock ease inside you. Get used to the idea of a cock being inside you before you try to really go at it like a porn star! LOL! Seriously, that's important! Once you are relaxed you can try a variety of positions and discover what feels best. I like doggy, on my back and standing when my derriere is totally relaxed. Doggy is especially good for multi-tasking during three somes or group. I will admit when I first started it was hard to concentrate of giving a quality blowjob while another partner was fucking me. Now I adore sucking cock while a guy or t-girl fucks my white tranny ass!

Anal sex shouldn't be painful. Never let a partner make you do something that isn't to your liking. Know your partner is clean and STD and HIV free. Regardless always use condoms and a water based lubricant like Astroglide.

Have fun! Please tell us how it goes and feel free to PM with any questions.

Melissa

nicely said melissa, I concur, girl on top is definitely the best way to go for the first time cos then you are in control of the penetration and can go at exactly the right speed and depth for you.

Start off nice and slow and you'll be riding those boys like a cowgirl soon enough :yes:

Cowgirl is great for a starting position. Also if you're with a sensitive partner, missionary is great.

Something about the second entry is always easier than the first. If you try penetrating and it hurts...Take it out and immediately try again. For me, it usually goes in very smoothly on the second attempt at penetration.

As stated once you have been engaging in anal sex for a while you'll learn to prep your tush and relax and give pleasure to you and your partner(s). As i stated before take your time and use plenty of water based lube and a condom!

These are photos of me doing cowgirl with a mult-tasking twist and just doggy! I adore retro lingerie like corsets. The black PVC corset that I'm wearing in the photo makes me feel very sensual. The stud that I'm riding in the first photo is someone I dated last winter and his friend is a guy that he convinced me to fuck after he and I lost a bet about a football game. I'll post the story on another thread. I hope that you like them! I sure enjoyed posing and participating in them!

Melissa Pink
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hmm willl try. does anyone know anything to do during sex to feel more feminine while getting fucked?

I wanna fuck so I would say let it feel natural.

moaning. while I'm fucking and my tgirl partner moans it's hot.

I suggest a nice make over and some sexy lingerie are in order. Being feminine is mostly a state of mind but being en femme makes me feel sexier. Check out Fredericks of Hollywood or Secrets in Lace for some sexy outfits in a wide range of sizes.

Melissa

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From the giving perspective, spooning works well and depending on your partner may be preferable to cowgirl, but cowgirl definitely gives you superior control. Doggy style and missionary with heels on your partner's shoulders coupled with slow deep strokes permits deeper penetration. Liberal application of lube helps, as does taking a deep breath and releasing it forcefully as your partner inserts. Relax, and try to avoid dwelling on performance; instead, think how great it will feel and smile. Several deep breaths beforehand may also help.

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