buttplugs or dildos
 

As some of you may know i once loved dressing in satin but what you did not know is for over 12 years i've suffered with ra among other things and about a year and half ago it got so bad that i can no longer stand or walk so i gave up dressing and all of my satin things wig and make up i sold on ebay now adays i seem to be stuck in bed most days so theres not much chance of me ever finding love as i surf the net i see alot of shemales and ladyboys lke useing buttplugs and dildos in there photo shot or solo videos and i was wondering if i should buy a buttplug or a dildo witch would be best to start of with a plug or dildo i was looking online as saw some made of jelly whatis involved do i just stick it up my ass or what plz help thanx :turnon:

I'd go for a dildo (or two or three!)

why a dildo this is my first time :coupling:

I like both.

I would start off with a small butt plug that will help teach your anus to relax and work up for there. You can insert a nice small plug and let your anus relax around it and get used to the feeling.

Once you feel comfortable with the small plug then start to move onto bigger and better toys.

i have been playing with buttplugs more than dildos. I love the way they stay in place. Plus its feels better going in and out. a dildo is same thickness all the way through. a buttplug has variety in thickness

A few days I posted about the benefits of purchasing an "anal trainer kit". It consists of a small, medium and large butt plug to train your tush for accomodating a dildo or a cock. I purchased one at the recommendation of Mandy Mitchell when I decided to date a partner with a large cock. Mandy correctly stated that it would "help stretch me out down there" :) I generally use the medium size to "prep" my tush for anal sex. I want to remain tight for my partner but not feel like they are going to "split me like a log" when they slide their cock inside me. If I'm feel horny before I go out for the evening I prepare my body for anal in the shower and insert a butt plug before going out for the evening. I also have an "anal jewel" which is a stainless steel butt plug that features a green rhinestone that protrudes from my puckered ass. I like to surprise new partners with it. When I'm buns up and they work there tongue between my cheeks they get quite a surprise! :turnon: Yes, I know I'm kinky .

Dildoes are a lot of fun and come in a variety of sizes. My favorite is an 8" latex brown cock with a set of balls. They are fun for solo play or with a partner(s) Jelly dildoes are hot too but don't look as realistic and seem to be harder to clean. It is a must to clean your toys with hot water and soap after use. I generally use condoms on my toys and always if I am playing with partner(s).

Toys are a lot of fun and can enhance anyone's sex life! The choice is up to you and your preferences. Have fun!

Melissa Pink
Transcougar and Kinky Cum Slut

Never tried a buttplug before but i generally like using dildos. Just don't rush into it and start off big, work your way up in size and length.

Those are very good words to live by! :)

Thanks. Learned that bit of wisdom the hard way.

It should be obvious but sometimes the obvious is over looked. Don't forget to use some kind of compatible lube with the toys, be it a plug or dildo. It make the experience easier and more enjoyable.

I prefer butt plug, I have found they are a lot more fun

I started with a plug, but have both now

What kind of dildoe(s) and butt plug(s) do you have.

Length
Width
Material (e.g. latex, jelly, etc.)
Favorite lubes

What is the longest that you have ever kept a butt plug in your ass? My personal best is about four hours LOL!

yes definetly the movement is more pleasurable. I like my jelly dong about 7 inches and 1.5/2 inches wide...suction cup end for putting on the edge of a bathtub adn straddle it up and down...up and down....grinding gently

A suction cup is a must for a dildo to enhance your experience and orgasm with "hands free" action :turnon:

The photograph is a little decorative article I purchased for my tush. Besides the red rhinestone I also have a green stone. :coupling: They are fun to surprise your partner with. There is no reason to let things get boring!

dildo first lots of lube

What is your favorite sized dildo?

just curious to see who has tried them and how they feel. i use a homemade one and wondering if im getting the same feeling as the real one. how long can u leave it in, is there any downfalls to leaving it in to long? i usually use mine at night and when i lay in bed insert it and just adjust myself so that i sit on it, i leave it for long periods of time, only cause it feels so good, keeeps me hard for a while. like to hear other experiences from anyone.

here is a picture of me and my homemade plug. what does everyone think?

I think that you might consider investing in a commercially manufactured butt plug or dildo. They are safer because they are designed for that purpose and I think you will find them more pleasurable. I have a nice toy collection. Feel free to ask me if you have any specific questions.

Ooh I like the jeweled plugs... How does the stainless feel inside you?

I've got a small black latex and a medium black latex butt plug in my collection that I use fairly regularly... No dildos, but there is a slim black vibe that I use to loosen my hole... :innocent:

The stainless steel butt plug is very smooth and slides right in with a gentle push and some Astroglide. It feels a bit cold at first but your body temperature warms it right up. After a while you forget it's there :rolleyes:

What if I don't want to forget it's there? ;)

forget !
 

It's stainless.
it's metal.
connect a wire to it and plug it in.
Should give a warm sensation one would not forget.:no:
( let's hope everything comes out okay in the end.)

Miss Fran Alexes,
I think I will pass at your suggestion, LOL! :eek: