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tlover 08-22-2007 02:39 PM

How "SECRET" is your love of shemales.
 
pal's post "am i gay" were he worried about other people knowing his secret love of shemales got me thinking, how the rest of us are with it.
Would love to know just how open or secret you all are about your love of shemales.
So a set up this poll.
A bit serious this one.:confused:

1. VERY SECRET. I have never told anyone, partner, family or friends about my love of shemales and i never will.
I'm to scared of the consequences or repercussion's.

2. SECRET FOR NOW. I have told no one yet, but might consider telling someone close in the future.

3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.

4. NOT A SECRET. Most people know about it and i'm quite happy and open about it.

5. EVERYONE KNOWS. I shout it from the rooftops, i love shemales and i want everybody to know about it.
Hell I'd suck my girls cock in public if i could!.. stuff what the world thinks.

eliogabalo 08-22-2007 03:11 PM

Very interesting poll !!
My love for ladyboys is bordering on worship and adoration and i talk about him with many persons. My mother and my father know i love shemales ( "You're the disgrace of our family!"; "You're a pervert" etc.) I told the truth to my mother 2 years ago, and she reported all to my father ... Very very amusing ... :lol:
I talk about my love for ladyboys with my friends too. It's not a secret.

guest 08-22-2007 03:58 PM

secret for now..

i hope one day i find a ladyboy soul mate, then obviously it won't be a secret at all..

i'm not even sure, maybe i will never find a ladyboy for me and it will always remain "very secret" as it is right now.. no one i know personally knows of this, and i don't plan on telling anyone SOON. maybe when i'm a lot older or something.

i think my mom would not care as she is a very kind hearted person, my dad would definately care because he has always been a "macho" man.. i do believe if i tell him our relationship would never be the same.

but whatever, i love ladyboys and i won't stop until something proves me wrong.

gizmo 08-22-2007 06:31 PM

I came back from Thailand, and told all my friend's!
They dont believe me? So I dont know what you call it?
I dont care, it's my life, and I'm gonna enjoy it! ;)

tlover 08-22-2007 06:50 PM

:respect:Wish i had your courage gizmo.

guest 08-22-2007 06:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tlover (Post 938)
:respect:Wish i had your courage gizmo.

hey tlover what about you?

tlover 08-22-2007 06:58 PM

i'm in the secret for now, hope to find understanding partner one day.
would love to be i dont care who knows but not where i come from, I'd probably be lynched, and I'm a bit of a coward, I'm afraid to say.:(

guest 08-22-2007 07:13 PM

nvm

was gonna ask where you live but then i read it on your thingy

tlover 08-22-2007 07:14 PM

UK north west area.
i work with a lot of macho types.

ts_lover 08-23-2007 01:15 AM

Very secret! Don't know but i think ill never tell it somebody... even not my gf :P

mykel73 08-23-2007 01:28 AM

There are a few people who know.

markknyc 08-23-2007 10:24 AM

Very secret...one of those things.

tlover 08-23-2007 12:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ts_lover (Post 954)
Very secret! Don't know but i think ill never tell it somebody... even not my gf :P

Why not? TS

Ogryn1313 08-23-2007 11:42 PM

Secrecy
 
Where I live it is wise to keep such interests secret. Too many rednecks here.

TranJesus 08-24-2007 12:45 AM

i love them and scream it out to the world

guest 08-24-2007 12:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ogryn1313 (Post 1058)
Where I live it is wise to keep such interests secret. Too many rednecks here.

haha where do you live man?

Ogryn1313 08-25-2007 04:10 AM

Ky...the state not the lube.
 
I live in Cumberland, Ky. It's right on the border with Tennessee and Virginia. Very rural and close minded about many things. And maddening! Johnson City Tennessee is about 2.5 hours from me and has a bar where gays, crossdressers, straights, and possibly shemales go. I've been there. And there were people from my town there! But I can't get there anymore. My car is too unreliable. It's the kind of trip you need to stay over night for. Same with Knoxville Tn. Seems that part of TN is quite openminded.

Nalos Surith 08-25-2007 04:25 PM

I prefer to keep it private, but I wouldn't, mind a friend in my area with a like minded love for ladyboys.

darkways 08-25-2007 07:14 PM

Personally, I'm not concerned about if anyone knows or not. I used to be, but just developed the attitude of it doesn't matter. Its my life and I have to answer for it not someone else. Now I don't go broadcasting it either. I feel that is a private decision, but if someone finds they just find out.

hankhavelock 08-26-2007 07:50 AM

From the minute I had my first relationship with a transsexual I was totally open about it. It got me some curious questions from time to time but I've basicly only been met with a positive attitude from friends and family.

I'm proud of my girl friend - she's beautiful and sweet - and showing up with her in hand in hand in public is a treat :-) I'm fairly handsome, so surely we get some looks, but that's only amusing. I'd say it's cool :-)

yobydal 10-10-2007 02:05 AM

3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it. :yes:

Distance 10-10-2007 03:29 AM

Noone knows but me.

EbonyTSLover 10-10-2007 04:53 AM

SOME KNOW. One or two close friends know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.:cool:

floydthebarber 10-10-2007 10:59 AM

I'm secret too
 
I think it would hurt my wife to know I look at TS Girls. The whole "what's wrong with me?" thing. Which, to be honest, I would understand. As I said before, I'm new to my sexual response to shemales, so I'm figuring it out myself. But for now, it's way too new to share.

cockntits 10-10-2007 11:58 AM

woe is me very secret:(

tlover 10-10-2007 06:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by floydthebarber (Post 5378)
I think it would hurt my wife to know I look at TS Girls. The whole "what's wrong with me?" thing. Which, to be honest, I would understand. As I said before, I'm new to my sexual response to shemales, so I'm figuring it out myself. But for now, it's way too new to share.

Iam into it more and more now, and i think this happens to all of us tlovers, you will probably find this out, but 3 years on its still a big secret for me.
Like you i think my girlfrend would be very disturbed by it and i would hate to upset her.
Its a difficult dilemma.:(

padeligne 10-11-2007 01:22 AM

everyone that knows me, also knows that i fall for shemales. i am not ashamed of it, on the contrary.

tgirl virgin 10-11-2007 08:46 AM

Only those in other shemale forums.

cucumber 10-11-2007 06:53 PM

Very secret... For now :D

Second Day 10-15-2007 12:49 PM

Very secret.
The thing is I got a gf who I love a lot and I think she would freak out if she knew...

Imconfused 10-15-2007 01:54 PM

I have a question. I recently found out that my boyfriend loves to "wank" off to shemales.
What is it about a shemale that turns you on?

Also one night (awhile ago) we were have sex and I wanted to see how he would react, I rubbed my hand down his ace crack and then started to insert a finger, he didn't stop me. Infact when we were done he said you prob think I am weird for letting you do that to me... I didn't know how to respond. Anyways he took my hand and put it down there for me to insert my finger again. So I did.
I don't have a problem doing that, but my question is....if he likes woman with c@cks does that mean he wants to be with a real shemale, rather then just watching them?
Also for about the last two weeks, he has been "wanking" off to the shemales and has completely ignored me in the sex deptartment. Is there a problem here? Maybe he is thinking he would rather be with a shemale?
someone please humor me

Excaliborg 10-15-2007 03:45 PM

a most likely answer is that he is fascinated by this new fantasy that he is experiencing. it can be a bit overwhelming at times. please try to understand a man's sexuality is every bit as complicated as a woman's.

there is a problem if he continues to ig nore you and refuses to talk about it.

tlover 10-15-2007 06:26 PM

I wouldn't worry too much most of the guys here love females and are not gay.
What turns us on about shemales?
That's quite complex, i think for me its the beautiful femiminity of the female with the fascination of the hard erection and slight masculine side.
I think most men have a bit of a fascination with there cocks and other men's cocks but don't get turned on by the male sex.
So the female form coupled with the cock is irresistible.

I think most men get turned on by the idea or the fantasy but wont admit it.
As for him rather being with a shemale, i think you will have to expect this is just another side of his sexuality, he may want to have sex with a shemale or just fantasize about it, it doesn't mean hes going to leave you for a shemale.
Many men here have wives or girlfriends and just visit shemales now and then, his might just be a fantasy.

How did you find out and how long has his interest been? i think you need to talk to him about it.

I agree with Ex that at first when you discover a new sexual interest or fantasy it can totally consume for a while but this eventually passes and things will probably return to normal eventually, so i wouldn't worry too much just yet, let him indulge for a while until it eases.

What about your fantasies mabey you should talk to him about yours, mabey you could work each others fantasises into the relationship.
Why should he have all the fun.

georgedemesa 10-16-2007 10:17 AM

VERY SECRET im am the only 1 who knows that i love ladyboys

SweetCharmer 10-18-2007 08:45 AM

i' keeping mine to myself for the moment but soon i'll let the world know ;)

danaik42 10-18-2007 10:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by yobydal (Post 5348)
3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it. :yes:

no one knows bt i always go to gay bars with my brother and his girl friend and if someone shows intrest in me i do talk to them but i can not live with them coz my brother is there.i think the main problem for is that my parents are catholic and black at the same time.i was also caught cross dressing and she beat me up

Shemlover 10-25-2007 06:46 AM

It's very secret, only I know so far. And at the moment I plan on keeping it that way. I don't think there's anything wrong with liking shemales, but right now I don't see why anyone else needs to know about my sexual fantasies. I have a very wide sexuality anyway, there are so many things that turn me on. I don't think any of my friends/family really want to know about all of that.

mobiryder 11-01-2007 03:45 AM

mmm well i own a tranny blog... and all my friends know about it... and i post true, accurate stories... so everyone knows about it, EXCEPT my family (thank god my mom would have a heart attack)

:rolleyes:

Imconfused 11-01-2007 07:43 AM

Ok so I have a question...as some of you know. I found out my boyfriend likes shemales. I told him I am here if he ever wants to talk and I also told him i'll indulge in his fantasies if he wants...and that I accept him 100%
So with all that..why still deny that you like shemales? Really what could he be afraid of?

2WayStreet 11-01-2007 09:58 AM

Have talked to a few close friends(Straight guys) about LBs, and all seem bewildered as they say a girl is better.

ripulinaama 11-01-2007 12:55 PM

Nobody knows , and thats ok that way :-)

orion_pax 11-03-2007 05:16 PM

very secret!

One I'll probably take to the grave! (which hopefully will be a very very long time! :) )

Jpone 11-03-2007 09:00 PM

I would rather keep it a secret

warblade 11-04-2007 04:11 PM

I love ladyboys specially they are so sexy but I have to keep it very secret because the rest of the world is not ready for it, I wish I had a friend or somebody who like them much as me

Dells 12-19-2007 03:39 AM

Very secret. I'm in no rush and feel no need to tell anyone about it, and unless I end up meeting and dating one irl things will probably stay that way for me.

lpegna 12-19-2007 11:23 PM

Trying to reply...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Imconfused (Post 7098)
Ok so I have a question...as some of you know. I found out my boyfriend likes shemales. I told him I am here if he ever wants to talk and I also told him i'll indulge in his fantasies if he wants...and that I accept him 100%
So with all that..why still deny that you like shemales? Really what could he be afraid of?

Hi. Well... This is kinda hard to explain, at least for me right now. But I'll try to make myself clear. If my wife would discover I like to watch shemales, ladyboys, etc. I'd panic myself! Because we always think our woman is going to leave us or something like that if she knows.

We always try to deny because we are not ready to face up the consecuences of the thoughts we have. Lets say, if you tell me you accept me _even_ with my special hobby, anyway I'd try to fix things saying I don't like and that was only a search that went wrong or something. I'm not really ready to handle that. I think I need to be a little bit more mature to accept that my wife is _accepting_ ME, the whole _me_.

Don't know. I'd last for a while before trying to talk to my wife and accept I like to watch, but I really enjoy making love to her.

How do you feel as his woman? You accept him AS IS, but are you afraid him to prefer eventually a shemale? How do you see his behaviour? I see a lot of shemale stuff, but anyway I am completely fullfilled with the relationship with my wife.

This is a kind of hobby. I'd like to have contact with a ladyboy, because I like that they are very femenine, but they have a penis between their legs, but sometimes I feel strange, because I like my wife a lot.

It is just this idea of having a kind of "dual body". It's facinating.

I hope you understand a little bit more my point of view.

Best wishes for you.

gunslinger1985 12-20-2007 10:36 AM

Secret for now. Some-day, I don't know. I have jokingly mentioned it to a friend, but I got a few weird looks. I think a lot of people find shemales at least a little interesting, but won't admit to it. kinda unfortunate.

knight 12-20-2007 10:43 AM

Some people know, my mum knows and some of my friends know and everyone here knows.:lol:

TSLuva 12-25-2007 01:51 AM

Huge secret, I was & still am excited (could hardly sleep the night I first found this site) about finding this forum & finally being able to communicate with others that worship these beauties.

curiousguy51973 01-02-2008 08:59 AM

My admiration of shemales goes beyond secret. I work for the government and it could possibly cost me my career, and I don't wish to test that.
I am married and my wife does not like my viewing porn. But we do occasionally go to sex toy shops to look around and see what we might enjoy. The last time we were there, we saw a "Shemale Love Doll" on the wall. Her response to it has led me to believe that if I play my cards right I may be able to introduce her to my love of shemales someday. At least, here's hoping anyway.

rancor169 01-02-2008 09:12 AM

I have been so afraid of consequences and had so many close calls... I know none of my friends would understand...at least the guys.

transpounder 01-02-2008 04:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ts_lover (Post 954)
Very secret! Don't know but i think ill never tell it somebody... even not my gf :P

+1 on that same boat for me

gta 01-02-2008 05:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TSLuva (Post 10397)
Huge secret, I was & still am excited (could hardly sleep the night I first found this site) about finding this forum & finally being able to communicate with others that worship these beauties.

This makes 2 of us.

storm11 01-02-2008 11:36 PM

Very secret for now, dont know if I will ever tell anyone.

inadaze 01-02-2008 11:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by curiousguy51973 (Post 11033)
My admiration of shemales goes beyond secret. I work for the government and it could possibly cost me my career, and I don't wish to test that.
I am married and my wife does not like my viewing porn. But we do occasionally go to sex toy shops to look around and see what we might enjoy. The last time we were there, we saw a "Shemale Love Doll" on the wall. Her response to it has led me to believe that if I play my cards right I may be able to introduce her to my love of shemales someday. At least, here's hoping anyway.


I thought most western governments were pro gay and transgender and inclusive since they legalised it all ? Or do you work for a non western government ? I think if you work for a western government your job will be secure and you can fuck around all you want. Even the US military has a policy of dont ask dont tell when it comes to gay/gender bending related issues. So they shouldnt ask you and you are under no obligation to tell them.

As for the shemale doll thing. I dont want to burst your bubble cruelly, (to know and live in your own true reality is the first step to dealing with it) but the reality is it could be wishful thinking on your part. But good luck and my best wishes in any case :)


The biggest danger facing anybody is if they post a picture and identifying information and then also post how important secrecy is to them. This could potentially lead to blackmail.
I urge anyone working for the government not to fall into any such trap as this as especially if government secrets are involved as it could get extremely messy for you.

epj290 01-03-2008 09:20 AM

its very secret with me....but i mean in NYC perhaps people are more liberal about things like this than other places in the world...still i love these boards for being able to share the same liking of shemales.

tshorny 01-04-2008 04:31 AM

Nobody knows for me, shame

rollon 01-05-2008 06:14 PM

No one should know
 
never been with a shemale before but have the most sexy wet dreams of them, going to thailand this winter and hope for the first time I will meet a very beautyful ladyboy like Amy or Moo to have a romance and try sex with one or more.

some of my friends have a litle clue of why I go to thailand of my own even that I`m completly strait. but in my younger days I was a transvestite but allways fell in love with feminine beautyful ladies..

so mabe I will fell in love with a ladyboy but never think I would share that with my friends, they would right away said I am homo..

so wish me luck in february this year

Aero 01-05-2008 06:17 PM

mine's secret, not going to tell anyone. don't got it in me. lol

ila 01-27-2008 02:03 PM

I have never told anyone of my love of shemales, except for those that have read my posts. A lot of people I know would probably not have much to do with me if they ever found out that I have this great desire to suck shemale cock and be fucked by them. There would also be a lot of suprised people if any knew that I would even want to marry the shemale of my dreams.

tlover 01-30-2008 04:48 PM

Isn't it a real shame that over 60% feel we need to keep what is just a sexual desire/preference or leaning very secret.
I think it says a lot about the oppressive nature of the world we live in.:no:

ila 01-30-2008 05:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tlover (Post 13626)
Isn't it a real shame that over 60% feel we need to keep what is just a sexual desire/preference or leaning very secret.
I think it says a lot about the oppressive nature of the world we live in.:no:


That is too true. There is always the possibility though that things may change in the future. After all look at how the world has changed for gays and lesbians.

tlover 01-30-2008 05:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ila (Post 13631)
That is too true. There is always the possibility though that things may change in the future. After all look at how the world has changed for gays and lesbians.

Your certainly right ive said this myself but thing like this change very slowly, but have you noticed things change more quickly when its given a label talked about and understand better, possibly another good reason for us to have a label?
Back on the hated subject of labels.:no: I'm becoming obsessed!

ila 01-30-2008 06:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tlover (Post 13633)
Back on the hated subject of labels.:no: I'm becoming obsessed!

Do I ever know that feeling.:)

vibesfan 05-11-2008 04:09 PM

Very much in the closet, people around here would NOT understand. I could not express my fantasies or preferences to anyone here. I am very happy that this forum exists for me to voice my feelings to others who DO understand.

belfagar 05-12-2008 11:56 AM

Its my secret. Plain and simple, I enjoy it. i would prefer to keep my secret masturbation hobby to myself. I am happily married and enjoy a normal sex life. This "Hobby" is for me and me alone. I just enjoy watching quality shemale movies and masturbating. It's private.

sexynova 09-08-2008 07:25 PM

very secret
 
i just told my best friend about it ...she was very supporting

troymcclure 09-09-2008 01:14 AM

I'm not totally secretive about it... but I don't want to be too out in the open about it because it's not like the girls I've dated want everyone to know that they are ts either...

trannycrazy 09-09-2008 04:42 AM

It's staying a secret for now, but one day i'm going to tell everyone because i intend to have a relationship with a ladyboy, in fact i've no intention of ever settling down with a gg. It would be quite funnythough to have a beautiful 100% passable ladyboy partner and you go to family functions or sunday dinner and nobody has any idea that she's a t-girl and you're a cock sucker.

just102 09-09-2008 09:46 AM

I would love to tell and share this with my partner

but I dont think it would go over to well

mrtrebus 09-09-2008 12:50 PM

Very VERY VERY secret...so secret even I don't know! :lol:

nmlss 09-09-2008 12:57 PM

If people's mind wasn't so closed.... FUCK PREJUDICES!!!

mrtrebus 09-09-2008 01:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nmlss (Post 38736)
If people's mind wasn't so closed.... FUCK PREJUDICES!!!

True, maybe I should be braver & go public. The only way to challenge prejudices is to be open & honest...?

Cadian122 10-01-2008 09:46 AM

I have told about 2 people I know, and am always worried that they'd say something. I have brought up the subject with a few other people @ work and uni etc, but using my 'mate Alex' who doesn't exist.
This guy I work with, who I'd like to call a mate, that when I brought up 'my mate Alex' and his tranny fetish, his response was so Intolerent (He says if he meets a Tranny he'd kill her), stopped me from planning on 'going out' with the news, really scared me off.
Another thing, I live in Adelaide, South Australia, wich has a small town Atmosphere, someone you know, knows someone else you know, etc, and there are a few people who don't really like me that go to Mars Bar, (The only Gay bar in Adelaide), which makes me kinda scared to go in and try to hook up with a tranny. :(

hankhavelock 10-01-2008 10:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mrtrebus (Post 38742)
True, maybe I should be braver & go public. The only way to challenge prejudices is to be open & honest...?

Ain't that the truth! :respect:

hankhavelock 10-01-2008 10:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cadian122 (Post 42546)
I have told about 2 people I know, and am always worried that they'd say something. I have brought up the subject with a few other people @ work and uni etc, but using my 'mate Alex' who doesn't exist.
This guy I work with, who I'd like to call a mate, that when I brought up 'my mate Alex' and his tranny fetish, his response was so Intolerent (He says if he meets a Tranny he'd kill her), stopped me from planning on 'going out' with the news, really scared me off.
Another thing, I live in Adelaide, South Australia, wich has a small town Atmosphere, someone you know, knows someone else you know, etc, and there are a few people who don't really like me that go to Mars Bar, (The only Gay bar in Adelaide), which makes me kinda scared to go in and try to hook up with a tranny. :(

Well, my man, small-town mind-sets are usually exactly that... SMALL! I can relate to your inhibitions and surely you will be met by laughs, stupidity and even hostility. But no matter what, YOU are the one who is RIGHT! The transfobic neanderthals in your community are mental midgets that will only move forward once provoked and forced to do so.

You'd be happier in a more developed urban place, I'm certain. Leave the "macho" shit-diggers to their rural shit-digging and fat, ugly bio-"women".

Best wishes and full support to you, my friend.

H

lolbats 10-02-2008 03:06 AM

very secret infact these are the only forums it alk about them on.

PEPE1970 03-26-2009 03:36 PM

By this moment this is my deep secret...........

TheSkronkDonkey 03-26-2009 03:59 PM

I don't go out of my way to tell people, but a few know.

My brother is one of them. I was actually looking at some t-girls on this very forum while he was in the same room. He looked across to see what I was doing and caught me checking out pictures of a cute ladyboy. He casually remarked that they weren't for him and carried on listening to his music. My brother is like that. Very matter of fact; no more, no less. He couldn't really care what I like or don't like. If only all relationships were like that, eh?

The other is a friend of mine. Well, more like ex-friend at this juncture. I let him go on my PC for a bit the last time he visited. He said he wanted to use the net and check out the football results (etc). Fine, I said. I went out the room for a bit because I'm not a guard dog and I had other things to do. Of course, he couldn't resist going through my favourites while I was gone. Transwomen this, shecocks that. I guess he got a nice surprise. :D The way I found out is when he made several not-so-subtle comments afterward. But really, if he's going to go snooping on someone else's computer, what does he expect? Sad that he had to betray my trust, though. Give people an inch ...

I think I wax and wane on the issue. Sometimes, I'm very uptight and it's my "big secret". Other times, I don't really care and whatever happens is whatever happens. I did subtly hint about my attraction to another friend, but he was quite snide and dismissive. Par for the course, really. Some people are tolerant; most people aren't. It can be a bit of a crapshoot. That said, if you're leaning one way or the other, lean on the person being intolerant -- more often than not, you'll be correct. After, and during, childhood, when you begin to shore up your beliefs, when the insidiousness of social conditioning has invaded almost every crack and crevice of your mind, when you begin to be convinced of what you know being more important than what you don't, difference is an enemy to your being, provoking fear and disgust, and the common way to dispel what one fears and finds disgusting is to mock, demean and destroy it. Sad, really.

hankhavelock 03-27-2009 03:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheSkronkDonkey (Post 73764)
I don't go out of my way to tell people, but a few know.

My brother is one of them. I was actually looking at some t-girls on this very forum while he was in the same room. He looked across to see what I was doing and caught me checking out pictures of a cute ladyboy. He casually remarked that they weren't for him and carried on listening to his music. My brother is like that. Very matter of fact; no more, no less. He couldn't really care what I like or don't like. If only all relationships were like that, eh?

The other is a friend of mine. Well, more like ex-friend at this juncture. I let him go on my PC for a bit the last time he visited. He said he wanted to use the net and check out the football results (etc). Fine, I said. I went out the room for a bit because I'm not a guard dog and I had other things to do. Of course, he couldn't resist going through my favourites while I was gone. Transwomen this, shecocks that. I guess he got a nice surprise. :D The way I found out is when he made several not-so-subtle comments afterward. But really, if he's going to go snooping on someone else's computer, what does he expect? Sad that he had to betray my trust, though. Give people an inch ...

I think I wax and wane on the issue. Sometimes, I'm very uptight and it's my "big secret". Other times, I don't really care and whatever happens is whatever happens. I did subtly hint about my attraction to another friend, but he was quite snide and dismissive. Par for the course, really. Some people are tolerant; most people aren't. It can be a bit of a crapshoot. That said, if you're leaning one way or the other, lean on the person being intolerant -- more often than not, you'll be correct. After, and during, childhood, when you begin to shore up your beliefs, when the insidiousness of social conditioning has invaded almost every crack and crevice of your mind, when you begin to be convinced of what you know being more important than what you don't, difference is an enemy to your being, provoking fear and disgust, and the common way to dispel what one fears and finds disgusting is to mock, demean and destroy it. Sad, really.

As I believe I've said numerous times before here on this good forum: WE are RIGHT, and the fascist trans-fobics around us are WRONG! There is no other way.

Maybe we should make a "come out of the closet club" for worried guys... I never were in that closet, but I'd probably be able to come with a few success-stories to ease the minds of the worriers.

My point is that why would we care what some fat idiot with a yiky unsexy cis-wife has to say about our honest atttraction?

Screw them... screw the whispering... instead smile, be proud and hold her hand a bit tighter. Because she feels the same. And she will hold your hand a little bit tighter too, letting you know that she is your's and you two share a very special and beautiful love.

Kiss her in public, adore her, love her, laugh with her... respect her! And be ever thankful that she let you have her.

Because having the love of a gorgeous trans-woman is, indeed, very, very special.

Sorry, if I keep repeating myself :-)

H

ila 03-27-2009 05:50 PM

No one has ever asked me. If someone does ask me then, without hesitation, I will say yes I do love transwomen. It would be nice if my special girl was with me the first time that I am asked. I will be able to show how proud I am of her and how strong my feelings are for her.

9yneGuy 03-27-2009 09:55 PM

I voted for "SECRET FOR NOW".

I've never told anyone and if the wrong person found out I'd be devastated. If my brother found out I'd never be able to look him in the face again (mainly because he's 12 and at that age where he doesn't fully understand the concept of sexual fetishes and personal interests). Maybe when he gets older he'd be more accepting.

I can see myself telling my girlfriend (if and when I get one) and my best friend. My best friend might not accept it, but he won't make a big deal out of it and he won't judge me for it. But as of right now, it's my little secret.

ladylover 03-27-2009 10:24 PM

My girlfriend kind of knows. I think that she would actually understand. We've looked at online porn together several times. She likes it as much as I do. We checked out youporn.com together one night. She suggested that we search for "shemale, or tranny porn". Of course, I was very excited. She was just as turned on as I was. That night, we had incredible sex. But, we have not mentioned that night since then......

I cannot help it. I love tranny's and I love women. They are the same in my book.........

ladylover 03-27-2009 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by 9yneGuy (Post 73945)
I voted for "SECRET FOR NOW".

I've never told anyone and if the wrong person found out I'd be devastated. If my brother found out I'd never be able to look him in the face again (mainly because he's 12 and at that age where he doesn't fully understand the concept of sexual fetishes and personal interests). Maybe when he gets older he'd be more accepting.

I can see myself telling my girlfriend (if and when I get one) and my best friend. My best friend might not accept it, but he won't make a big deal out of it and he won't judge me for it. But as of right now, it's my little secret.

Seriously, go ahead and put your situation out there. I'm struggling with the same thing. BUT, I know that my current girlfriend would be cool about it. I;m no cheater, but I think that is all she hopes for.

9yneGuy 03-28-2009 02:47 AM

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Originally Posted by ladylover (Post 73951)
Seriously, go ahead and put your situation out there. I'm struggling with the same thing. BUT, I know that my current girlfriend would be cool about it. I;m no cheater, but I think that is all she hopes for.

I really think I'd only admit it to my best friend if he admits he likes something that is, how you say, "not of the norm". That way I'd feel more comfortable sharing my "not of the norm" like to him.

There's nothing worse than your sexual preferences being judged by people who have no "not of the norm" likes. And as far as I know my friend is one of those people.

franalexes 03-28-2009 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by tlover (Post 13626)
Isn't it a real shame that over 60% feel we need to keep what is just a sexual desire/preference or leaning very secret.
I think it says a lot about the oppressive nature of the world we live in.:no:

Well then, 60% understand THAT secret.
I wonder if they would understand living it?:no:

chelsea 04-13-2009 11:55 AM

Mines vert secret

i've cheated on the wife several times with a shemale :)

Mellany 04-14-2009 01:47 AM

secret unfortunatly:(

I'm not ashamed of my passion i really don't but Things would be so unnessecry complicated if the world knew

tim4lb 04-14-2009 11:06 PM

Mostly secret
 
I have only told one friend of mine of my interest in ladyboys and I think he figured that it was just a curiosity. I live far from my family and won't tell them although I have shown them pictures of a very feminine, mostly passable ladyboy gf. I won't tell most people I know despite being completely comfortable going in public (dinners, movies, travelling together, beaches, everywhere) with a ladyboy. Part of it is my job and part is that some of my friends are not so open-minded.

ocinteeni 04-16-2009 02:03 AM

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Originally Posted by gizmo (Post 937)
I came back from Thailand, and told all my friend's!
They dont believe me? So I dont know what you call it?
I dont care, it's my life, and I'm gonna enjoy it! ;)


thats funny because i would tell me friends how i think trannies are hot and they would laugh cuz they thought i was joking, they eventually realized i was serious. I am totally open with them about it now, I even got one of my friends to come with me to meet kimber james, I think he likes trannies too though, he hasn't admitted it to me but he told me he watched a vid where a tranny did a genetic chick and he said it was alright.

theantipiste 04-16-2009 11:17 PM

Only a few people know, for instance my friend who walked in on me and his femboy friend in the midst of making out... oops.

trannylover3 04-17-2009 01:55 AM

No one knows.

neeka 04-19-2009 01:35 PM

lol....what kind of ques.....*cough* VERY secret.

Be it straight or gay, seems like shemales might have to be the most secret for some people. The secret makes it even more exciting.

I'm straight and shemale bi, I've never found a pure dude attractive, but a dude that's transformed himself into a herself is not half bad...pretty hot.
especially the most convincing ones.

Futanari is also my fav, cause it's 100% female with a dick, no questions asked.

zetter44 04-21-2009 12:50 PM

nobody knows it but me...

lacey_maxie 04-22-2009 07:59 AM

Very secret
 
in my case I'm a big admirer of shemales(like most of the guys visiting this forum) and I take any oppprtunity to have a glance or more at the websites with shemales.As far as I'm aware no one knows about my " addiction" and I always try to keep a low profile regarding my interest in shemales.So I want to keep it very secret now and in the future of course:;)

scubbf 04-23-2009 08:55 AM

very veery scret
note: i love them

01101101 04-25-2009 03:51 PM

Secret for now, but only in the sense that no one really asks. I don't actively hide my interest but I don't go around talking about it, either.

Theblindestpilot 04-25-2009 09:42 PM

You know, I'm so happy I've discovered this forum. For years now I've felt like such a freak for having this attraction, trying my absolute hardest to kick the "habbit". Some times successfully for months, but I always end up back where I started like an excited little puppy again.

Knowing that there are so many other men out there with the same taste is comforting to say the least.

Like most it seems I've never told ANYONE about my attraction and I don't intend to, not in the near future at least. Recently I've been wondering whether actually having intercourse with a transexual would finally feed this strange.. desire? Curiosity? Who knows..

Anyway, hi everyone, hopefully I'll be sticking around. :)

kilgoretrout 04-27-2009 11:13 AM

Mine stops here.

fbnuser 04-27-2009 11:34 AM

I voted secret but my wife knows about it. We had a talk about bisexuality and shemales and she understands. She has admitted to me that she is bi. Sje knows about this site and my Tgirl pic collection. She was checking out shemales with me just lastnight. She is the only person in my life who knows of my hidden desire. My family, friends and society in general would outcast me and disown me from the family. They would all hate me. She hides her bi side from her family too. :(


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