Does liking shemales make you gay?
 

or better yet, are WE gay?

ok so for about a year now i've been extremely turned on by shemales (obviously or i wouldn't be here right now)... but i'm also very attracted to women. i really like the thought of a hard cock and large balls on a very feminine type of girl, it really turns me on. but i am confused because i see these shemales as girls, even though they have dicks. i am also very opposed to the idea of a dick in my ass, i really think it's sick and would never do it, but i would love to stick mine in a shemale. the thought of calling myself "bisexual" or gay annoys me because i don't like men at all. i don't have fantasies about wearing wemon's clothing or anything like that.. the only doubt about myself i have is my love for a women with a long hard cock. i can't talk about this to anyone personally becuase they will think i'm gay, and everyone close to me is opposed to gay things.. especially my friends, because i'm still in high school, and let's just say i'm probably younger than everyone here.

so i was wondering if anyone has similar feelings, or can give me some advice?

:D hi my friend, for me the same feelings are same with you. i like a hard cock on the feminine body and i love to be with ladyboys. but non of my friends like ladyboys, they think that ladyboys are gay and who likes ladyboys are gay too. but i don't think so we are gay i like girls but i like cocks on a girls. both make me crazy :drool: and i am not gay i don't like boys or men. but i don't talk about this with my friends. ;)

thanks for sharing, i'm glad you feel the same way.

i just joined this site a few hours ago and i don't know why but i feel really safe and at home here.. i guess i'm glad theres other people like me.

mate, dont worry too much about the gay/straight issue!
What ever you do, is fine if it make's you happy,
and does'nt harm anyone. I know you are confused now
but as you get older, you will decide for yourself, and what
your friend's think, wont be so important. Enjoy!

Hi mate, welcome to the site.
My advice would be don't waste your life worrying about what other people think, I've done that too many times in the past and missed out on some good experiences, life's too short mate.
Go with your feelings enjoy the moment, you will probably go through different fazes in your life, this infatuation with shemales might be one, or it might last.
Much better to have regrets about what youve done than regret what you haven't done.
Phew! a lot of sayings in their, but in my experience their all right.:)

Hell NO....when I go on tour, I definitely get my more that fair share of pussy, BUT, if a TGirl or girls are there, and liked the show and wanna chill...they are always welcome on our bus!! They are by far some of the coolest chicks to hang out with. I would rather have a Tgirl on the bus to ride with us than a regualr clingy, wishy washy groupie type whore; ya know? The shemales are always beyond cool, give great head and never want anything in return, other than maybe a cold brew or shot!!! Have fun dude. NOW, I usually don't get too involved with them, for me it is an occasional taboo type thing, the funny thing is, there are a lot more dudes into them than you think!! Its all good.

thanks for sharing, appreciate it. hey you mentioned being on tour or something? what did you mean if you don't mind?

i am a musician......get to see a lot of the world, all the time!!;)

if you don't mind again, what kind of music do you make? how popular are you?

rock and roll bud......played with some major acts. Not reallly at liberty to say who, but,if you have a radio, you have heard my work!!

I agree with tlover, I'm not one who cares much about others. I don't advertise or anything, either.

Hell no. If you are gay, you would be seeing muscular man flexing.

Just like the combination of female with cock
 

Don't know if that makes me gay or not. Don't care. Just like being with a t-girl so much better than the women. Wish I had been more open earlier on.

This question arises quite often among shemale-lovers. And there's NOT a single answer covering us all. It depends:

1. Some of us (probably most) are straight with no attraction to men

2. Some are bisexual (me for example - I've turned more "gay" recently and also like socalled femboys - very feminine gays - simultaneously my interest in genetic girls has diminished)

3. Very few are gay (gays in general like men and not shemales - I don't think I've ever met a gay who liked shemales - but surely there are some)

So don't worry, being a shemale-lover does NOT make you gay per se (some homofobics might LABEL you gay, but who cares? ;-)

Just enjoy it!

Peace!

Hank

Ditto
 

I know exactly what your trying to say, you want someone who you see as female but is male ? well it does get confusing to say the least.

pal, you're normal, dude. I am the same way as you. I'm probably a little bit older than you, I'm nearly 25 years old, and just discovered I love shemales in the last year. I've always loved women, I admire their beauty, but I just don't get turned on by pussy. I love cock and cumshots, but I hate the "manliness of men" - I can't stand their face and bodies. I consider myself straight as a board. Nothing turns me on more than a beautiful woman with a raging hardon accompanied by a pair of huge balls. There's just something about it, the way a cock swings, the arch of a cumshot as it goes through the air, I don't know. But I do know, you're not gay. And neither am I, we are just sexually advanced, we know what we want. There's no shame in it man...it's all good.

dude honestly every guy has a bit of gay and may not be attracted to men they might just like the idea of some cock but still want to be straight and see a chick honestly i love women cant get enough of them but sometimes i wish some had cocks so i could suck some cum fromt hem

hi friend it's also same with me sometimes even i fell that i m bisexual or gay. none of my friends knows that i m after shemales i be with them and comment on every cute gals. even we go to gals to some brothels once in a while . i m sure i m not a gay. but sometimes it comes in to my mind .but atlast i lust for shemales only shemales evenly with the women with out dicks. i love em both.

Not that it matters too much, but I think of myself as 80% straight and 20% bi. I enjoy cocks whether they are on men or women. However, I don't care if the guy I'm giving head to or a handjob to comes. With the girls, I want them to come all of the place. Why? The feminity aspect I suppose. It still a cock, but I appreciate the person more than just some dude.

I don't care if I am gay or not. Let other's judge about that if the want too. I know that I love ladyboys and that ladyboys make me happy. That's the important thing.

I've went through that in my head a few times for sure. Was strange for me to compute at first, but inside i knew what a felt and what i wanted and stopped caring. Finding this site and reading the post and stories from others truly helped. asian_ladyboy_lover's post pretty much describes how i feel too. Couldn't have said it better myself.

No you aren't
 

Gay/lesiban/bisexual i feel are pretty black and white defintions, Gays like only guys, lesbians like only girls, and Bisexuals like everyone :) . But unfortuantaly that doesn't work well with a ladyboy, because its hard to define them, and frankly they shouldn't. Sexuality is a free and open thing, where anyone can find anything a turn on, just look on the interent for that :). I Love women (JLH is the only reason i watch Ghostwhisper) and i love ladyboys. And that should be enough. :)

This is a really great thread, and i love the other replies, keep them coming.

I agree. Sexuality isn't black and white, there arent any yes or no answers here. I firmly believe everyone has his own scale of sexual preferences. It's like requiring that you choose to eat only meat or be a vegetarian. Some people are extremes at either end, but most (and I think like nearly all) experience some variations toward one end of the spectrum or the other. I was brought up in a strictly straight family, but as a child of the '70s was exposed to other sexual preferences. I used to share a bed during sleep overs with my best friend in 9th grade and after her parents went to bed, we made out and got into some really great sex without even knowing what we were doing. The thing is, don't worry about it. It's just sex. Do what feels good and say "fuck off" to those who would judge you.

What does it matter? Seriously, its all about enjoying what your doing, and the other person enjoying it too.

I refuse to allow social pressures dictate my pursuit of happiness.

I think being pure straight or pure gay is rare comparing to middle ones. Like Kinsey once described on scale 1..6 where 1 is heterosexual and 6 is homosexual, most of us are in 2..5 range. See the film Kinsey, you'll like it.

hmm.. i dont think i'm gay at all.

the way i see it kinda is..the concept and actuality of a shemale is probably a pretty recent thing, however the concept and words gay/lesbian have been around for a loooong time. i think once it becomes more widespread/accepted (it will..) i feel a new 'word' may emerge that defines us correctly

feel free to correct me if im wrong, factually, this is just the way i see it atm

I'm not gay..
 

At least I don't consider myself gay, anyway. There certainly is something to the almost independent sexuality TGirls that doesn't seem to bother when I see them and feel attracted to them. Doesn't seem to challenge my perceptions of my sexuality. Haven't shared this with anyone though. Does this make me a hypocrite? I don't know. But I just started checking out this are of sexuality. I'll see where it goes. But for now, I'm enjoying it. :yes:

I dont feel totaly gay but i must admit i go weak at the knee's when i see a nice cock

youd be gay if you liked guys and girls. ts arent men.

easy answer. no we aren't gay cos we're attracted to the femininity of ladyboys/shemales/dickgirls/whatever. basically, they're just a girl with a living strap-on dildo that can produce cum.

in other words, unless you feel the same about guys then no you're not a homosexual. technically, on a site called www.reneereyes.com we are 'paratrexual' cos we are nature's parallel to transexuals

It was this year...
 

Actually, it was last year, that someone posted a picture of a beautiful girl in a forum. Then I realized it came from a shemale site, so my brain told me to be turned off, although my "other brain" got turned on. I did not want to admit
the picture turned me on. That would make me a queer. (pardon the expression)

But as time went by, I got tired, and could not get turned on much anymore, I thought my sex drive was gone. I look at porn and jerked off all the time (I was never lucky getting laid, except a few times) but then I got tired of porn. I had no interest in sex. And I felt bad, because it would suck if my equipment died.

Then I was looking at porn again, and was directed at a shemale site. I was going to close the window, but one "girl" looked really cute, and I thought "if only she didn't have a dick" But, she had such a sweet face, and I guess I quit letting the fact she had a dick bother me. In fact, I wanted to suck it, to make her happy. Who cares if it's gay?? I still like pussy, don't get me wrong, but if the person turns me on, (feminine and pretty and sweet looking) I'll do them if given the chance.

What amazes me is that these shemales look so much like women, you would swear they were, until you saw their penises.

Now, if i had a hot shemale, ladyboy, etc, I'd suck them dry all of the time, just to hear them moan and groan in ecstasy, because to make them cum would get me off. I'd even fuck their ass, and maybe, let them do me. As long as they did not tear up my ass (oh, how embarrassing to go to the hospital like that)
Also, being in a small town, people would give me hell about it.
I am new here, but belong to 2 other shemale forums.

I finally figured myself out . Im just a perv :p lol

Sorry, friend, but i disagree totally with you. :( Your definition of shemales as "girls with a living strap-on dildo than can produce cum" is ridiculous, offensive and fully wrong. I've known many ladyboys and ensure you that, in spite of the appearance, a lot of shemales are androgynous. Many shemale-lovers project on ladyboys their desires, dreams and fantasies. They see only the feminine side of shemales, and don't look at the masculine side, what is less showy but more deep. After some months of relationship with a ladyboy, the masculine side becomes more and more evident, and you understand that she's at the meantime female and male.
I disagree also about the "gay-question". Love for shemales can have different causes, motivations and origins and shemale-lovers can be straight, gay and bisex ( the most are bisex). Recently i've devoted a poll to this subject. As you can see a close majority of the members (11) is looking for a complete femininity, but many (10) want a preminent femininity mixed with a bit of masculinity, and a few (4) are looking for an androgynous. I adore the androgynous-type, am totally passive and repute myself virtually gay.

well everyones different is my philosophy and generalisations are meaningless unless they spare one a headache from thinking too much ;)
i like girls and am exploring this side of myself because i guess my personality s anarchic in some ways. the day i actually meet a ts is the day i can maybe answer some of the questions posed on this forum :)

I like shemales
 

I know I like shemales because of their cocks. Couple that with their female beauty! I know I only want to be with someone who has a real cock. I have finally realized I am on the all male team but in the shemale league. If that makes gay so be it. I know I have no use for a "real girl"

very well said...

I agree that ladyboy lust is a way to get in touch with ones inner female side. Ive tried to turn it off, but i cant help but to find my fingers typing ladboy on searches. And it just really rocks me to the core. The more feminine the better. Exspecialy all shaved and little cocks,mmm. Heaven would be to find a women that understands this and wants to share in this turn on.

think about it from the transexual's perspective. she considers herself a woman. we call her a she. society calls her a she. if you're a man..is that really gay? it's more a very kinky woman. if your girlfriend likes to use a strapon with you..are you gay?

It seems there are a lot of us about............I still love women, and shemales really excite me.......but being with a man..................nah mate, not for me.......

Ive felt the exact same way 4 tha longest i love pussy so much but at tha sight of a shemale such as Areeya, Mint, or Jade im hard as a rock but im 7000% sure i am not gay because a dick in my ass is simply repulsive atleast a guys dick and i dnt get turned on or find guys attractive at all

All these answers prove that love for ladyboys can have 1000 different causes and origins. Nevertheless, i think that if you love the cock more than the pussy you are virtually gay. Even if the cock is inserted in a feminine body.
I'm crazy about ladyboys and like very masculine, dominant girls using a strap-on dildo. I'm a cock-addicted. I adore the cock and don't like the pussy. So i repute myself gay. :)

Agree; just shemale or femboys for me
 

I have always loved shemales and femboys, even when with real girls. Now after 3 or so years I have been pussy free. I have totaly seen the light. I only want to be with cock and have no interest in pussy. I just want to suck it and get fucked by a beauiful shemale or femboy. I know this makes me gay, but it is what I enjoy.

PS this site is awesome! The shemale is the new third sex. More men need to see the light of the shemale/femboy. Pussy is very overrated! When compared to a shemale! Play with a joystick, it is more fun!

Cool question -- I like the detail you went into, dude. The very fact you're asking and went into that detail shows you're a sensitive soul in tune with life at a deeper level than most. But I believe that it's also a pointless question in light of sexual attraction. The problem is that people are keen to label things. Labels make it easier to "explain" something, but things just aren't easy to explain. We all think in stereotypes because it's the quicker and safer thing to do; stereotypes even have elements of truth to them (more often than not). But stereotypes never tell the full story and neither do labels. "Gay" sounds like a very inadequate label for anyone, especially a shemale lover. However, in terms of neurological "wiring" or whatever, we must invariably have some level of "gayness" in us, if we desire various degrees of feminised males with penises, which we clearly all do.

I'm the sort that analyses and obsesses a lot, but the more I look back, the more pointless it all seems. Of course, I'm not saying that things shouldn't be examined and explored; we'd never be able to advance, artistically, socially, economically, morally, technologically, scientifically or spiritually without people pushing the existing boundaries, looking deeper and really making a go of life. pal, my friend ... I'm 24. From the sounds of it, you must be younger. Quite how much younger I don't know. But don't beat yourself up over anything. In fact, I wish I was back in my late teens. I discovered my love of shemales a couple of years ago. It's been growing since that time. Today, I get so aroused just thinking about them; it's now gotten to the point where it's become easier to become aroused thinking about shemales than females. I don't know if that's good or bad; I think it simply "is". It's reality, whether I care to try and make moral sense of it or not. Life favours diversity, so it's probably a "good" thing, if you want a hard and fast moral answer -- but there probably isn't one.

Enjoy yourself, dude! And enjoy being here. I'm glad I found this place. And remember: the Internet is growing all the time. Five years ago, we didn't have YouTube. Ten years ago, we didn't have Google. Fifteen years ago, virtually none of us had internet access. It blows my mind to think of that. The world is changing so much. Be excited that you're part of a new dawn in the era of humanity. And try not to obsess too much. It's only made things worse for me. Too much guilt and self-analysis will remove you from society and put you into depression -- and trust me, you can be guilty over more than just sexuality. But think of all the people that don't care; the people who wear their likes and dislikes and beliefs and foibles loudly and proudly. History demonstrates one thing above all else: if we can conquer fear, we can achieve almost anything. And the most important thing never to fear is being yourself.

hmm its weird but I would swear its like theres a feminising force field surrounding a transgirl which makes the cock a feminine thing

i am not a gay i am a ladyboy slave

I don't think we are gay. The fact that shemales are people who feel like and consider themselves women makes me think that we are attracted to femininity and just like the possibilities that a shemale offers that biological women don't.

My thoughts exactly

in short it's all down to different perspectives i mean some people that it's still being gay but to me its not coz its still a female body others will disagree but i can't really change their opinions so i'll just stick to mine

I don't think were gay, I just can't see them as being anything but women & I'm sure I'm not just trying to convince myself of that. I have just joined this forum & I am finding this so liberating talking about something I have kept secret for several years now, not because I am ashamed of it but because I just know none of my friends would understand it.

Ladyboy-Fans also Gay?
 

that would interest me. I love Ladyboys more than Girls but I cannot have Sex with a man. This is impossible.

no its perfectly arlright that you like shemales but don't like men in the end all you really like is a WOMAN with a cock is just that nothing to do with men coz you still this of them as women:respect:

Yes.. for me too.

For me, ladyboys are female

it is good to see I am not alone in these thoughts. I to see them as females.

i think that nearly everyone here has that same thought nearly everyone thinks of ladyboys as women

No, i am straight and i like to have sex with shemales, but not with men

For me Ladyboys are also female. I am very satisfied that I am not alone with this meaning.

same as me guys..

for me LB's are also female

i was talking to a gay friend of mine and he said if u like shemales or ladboys ur not gay. there is no gay man who likes shemales. this was his opinion.

Ditto..........:yes:

I dont think so

i am not gay but i am bisexual, i love to have sex with both genders but i really like shemales
and they are excited me so much. they have cock and they are like a girl.

i want a cock :innocent: but i want a girl :inlove: so answer is shemales :respect:

LBs are female. That's fro sure.:yes:

Guys whho like shemales aren't gay, they are attracted to females with cocks. That's not gay.

Totally i would never ever fuck a gay guy, but i would gladdly suck on a shemale cock, given the shemale is a fem type.

i figured there r 2 types of shemale fans

the gay ones who enjoys the man looking huge cock type

and the not gay ones who enjoys the fem looking cute cocks.

correct me if i m wrong, but thats how i see it.

I love ladyboys and I also love girls but I have never see ladyboys as men. I know I would not even think about having sex with another man. I like girls and ladyboys.

Shemales and gg's only. I have viewed gay porno and it didn't do anything for me. I do think however that there is a gay element in being attracted to penises. If we were all totally striaight we would not be attracted to anyone with a penis. A decidedly male face is not a turn on for me . A beautiful shemale with a large cock drives me crazy and all I can think of is to give her head. I have no such desire with a man.

I hate this whole gay or straight thing, to me its just sex, doesn't matter if its with a guy, a girl or a shemale, its there for 1 thing and thats to have fun:coupling:

i think it's quite possible when u love women and ladyboys and don't love men

what i've noticed is that, the longer i've enjoyed watching and masturbating to shemales, the more i've leaned toward femboys and even a guy with a hard cock.

I think ultimately we are just huge fans of a big hard cock taht explodes and fills the room up with juice

:turnon:

Four words, Best of both worlds!

Like what you like, transcend all labels, beat the system.

Or something.

Seriously, I don't think there's a label that could describe me. Nor would I wish for one!

The age old and ongoing question. Kinda tires me to see it all the time.

Just be yourself and enjoy whether your hetro, bi, or gay.

I think the segregation of gender into heterosexual, homosexual, transsexual, etc... is flawed. Case in point, the originator of this thread. I think a more appropriate classification would be something like "attracted to the male form", "attracted to the female form", etc... with subgroups pertaining to the extent or criteria of the person: and this is probably where hetero and homo come in.

For example, I would be "attracted to the female form" and "bisexual". Meaning, as long as the person looks like a girl (and has the looks, mind you), i don't really care what i find down there. :P

I don't think liking or loving she-males is a gay thing. human sexuality is to complex to sum up. I have never touched a penis that wasn't my own. I have no desire to have any kind of sexual relations with a man. But i would play with Barbie Woods. no conflict here.

Sometimes shemales are more feminine than females in their mannerism. Those who learn to become like a girl attain feminine traits and idiosyncrasies so much that they surpass natural girls. Plus you get the bonus feature hidden between her legs! A real "all in one" package. So I guess Ladyboys are really intrigueing, and thus they catch our attention. So my friend, fear not. One third of the world is behind you!:yes:

You know the whole thing is, it quite simply turns me on to watch a she-male strokin it. I get hard, follow thru. And i don't ask why i do it i just enjoy it. My slice of heaven. It's one of the few things i have in my life that brings me joy and satisfaction.

Gay Like Girl
 

I just think of shemales as females with dicks. I don´t have sex with males but enjiy "gay like girls". I also get turned on by small breasted shemales, but definitely am not turned on by guys.

I have no problem saying that I lean to the gay side and being a bottom only too. I only want to have sex with a parner who has a real cock. I prefer the femboy look though. GGs just don't cut it for me. Once you have a real cock hit your male gspot, there is no going back!

I think Ladyboy lovers are just Ladyboy lovers.

Junior Ladyboy Lover
 

:respect:I prefer shemales, but would be willing to play with a cute gay (a big cock is a plus:turnon:).:drool:

I think ALL people are inherently bi-sexual to some degree, wether they admit it or not. One can be in the lady boy camp and still be on the hetro side. I like very fem ladyboys, but I also like girls that are fem to. The idea of having sex with your average man is gross to me , more so if its a muscle head type. It is a personal thing, but the majority here seem to think it's not a gay thing, but perhaps closer to that middle ground.
Just more dessert on the plate to choose from!!

i like shemales, like their fem looking, their lovely cocks, would suck 'em, but i think i'd never be with a gay. i'm attracted to girls with dick, not to men !

Shemales are hot... am I gay?
 

I know some that are bi and gay but neither think she-males are hot. Are those that love shemales like us a whole different group and if so, what could we be called other than "Shemale Lovers"?

We're probably as diverse as any one else. And remember, sexuality is a moving and dynamic thing. Tomorrow you may be attracted to ways that you find uninteresting today :-) But you're most likely not gay - certainly not if the term "gay" means "homosexual".

There may be a slight degree of bisexuality in being attracted to a transsexual woman - or there may not. It differs from person to person.

Just enjoy and be happy that you can find the beauty in a transsexual woman.

Peace!

H

You're definately not gay. I mean, I think for the most part we are attracted to a feminine person with a little something extra.

Why do You Think Man Become T-Lover?
 

...better say cock-sucker?

U guys are killing me!
yall say ur stright most of u never seen any tgirl in person, but after reading forum for a day i feel like u going to suck anything w/ dick. i bet u would cum even on my pics if i get done some makeup couse i'm lookin better then good part of 'shemales' u'r hot about here.

how that could happen really?
i mean i like tgirls too even more i maybe will be the one too, but i'm very picky-choosy and sucking cock looks absolutely gay to me if u'r not a girl, tgirl or look like one. its kinda disgusting when i see such moments in porn - man giving a head. i would like to blow some cute tgirl though. thanks u can see youself when u do it(if there is no big mirrors there)

anyway how is stright guy could become shecock lover/sucker? especially destinationally?

Probably best to let the guys answer this, but here is my observation...

Most guys see a woman they find attractive who has a penis. Something "clicks" for them and they explore this more. For most guys it starts as a purely sexual impulse and curiosity. For many guys it firmly stays that way.

For other guys, they develop an appreciation for the women of their coriosity. They become attracted not only to our physical bodies, but also to our strength, courage, and determination. They find that we posess an insight into what it is to be a MAN as well as an understanding of what it is to be a woman. The non-sexual "best of both worlds".

Pleasuring one's sexual partner is important. So, sucking on some "sheinis" seems elementary to the guys who want to date/sex-up a T-gal. They view the activity not as "sucking cock", but as making sure their girl has a good time too.

As far as the comments on how some of the gals look.. that's really not fair. People are attracted to what/who attracts them. One man's goddess is another man's fugly. So, you may see a "man in a dress" (:censored:) where another man sees the perfect compliment to his particular taste.

Sexual expression is 100% beautiful all the time between consenting adults. Man/woman, woman/woman, man/man, man/trans, woman/trans, man/woman/trans/man/man/woman. Personally, I reserve "disgust" for pornographic depictons of rape. I may find particular "players" in a sex combo "disgusting" (Ron Jeremy), but the expression of the sex doesn't disgust me.

Well said Bionca.:respect::respect:

Bionca,

What you've said sums up what many of us feel.

Cham

ok, ok... she know all the answers but she is not a man who become t-lover so don't hides behind her, sysyadmins. yall post dozen of nasty dickaddicted screaming cumming messages and have nothing to say upfront?
there should be some difference between pleasuring your cute tgirl next to you and switch from straight to tranny porn and get into shedong dreams destinationally (virtually?). afterall, u know, dong is a dong. there is must be something serious to change your taste diametrically? isn't?

In Greece shemales call shemale lovers ''Balamos'' I don't know why

I'm not really sure why you are even here on the web site. You attack everyone's views and the comments they make. You don't like the fact that men like tgirls or want to have sex with them. Maybe you would find yourself happier and better off if you didn't come here at all.

Have to agree with this and with Bionca wholeheartedly.

if you're not TOO dim, think about why the 'rainbow' is such a fitting symbol. A spectrum of interests, desires, accepting them is the key, even if it isn't exactly your bag.

Bionca has explained things pretty well, but I might as well add my two cents.

To me, it started out of pure curiosity. I was like 16, just got the internet, had to look at porn you know. I came across the word "shemale" and got curious. I had a pretty good idea what to expect but you never know. I looked at the site, had a very beautiful lady..picture was loading (on dial up) she had awesome boobs too...then BAM, a huge hard cock.

I was like OH SHIT and closed it out. Later on however (like most teens I'm sure) I began to wonder about sex with another guy. Thing is though, I wasn't and still am not attracted to the male body. What I mean is I don't look at a guy and say "Wow, he's cute!" like I do with women. To this day I still don't...no, I'm not in denial or anything, I consider myself as bi as one can get and don't mind admitting I like cock. I just don't like the male body, I dig femininity. Smooth skin, hardly any or no hair at all; not huge muscles, sweat and body hair (I know, it's a generalization and there are very feminine boys out there, but bare with me). That being said, tgirls are my escape, they are the perfect way for me to have what I love. A feminine body but yet the extra tool that's always fun.

It's not all about sex either though. I believe it was someone on this site that mentioned tgirls know all about men, they grew up in the locker room with us! So, on an intellectual level I feel they really understand guys a bit better than a gg...which is sometimes good, sometimes bad, but that's part of the adventure. I just feel I can relate a little more with a tgirl...and after all, relationships are based around that very thing. Don't get me wrong, I still date ggs like always, mainly because there isn't an abundance of tgirls in my area, but one day I hope to experience something with 'a girl with a boys toy.'

- Ok there's my two cents, hope it made sense :yes:
I agree with this so much, I haven't been here long, but all I ever see Showmelove post are flames. It isn't my place to tell you to leave if you don't like it here, but you might find yourself a little better off if you did. Honestly, I don't think anyone here is *too* interested in hearing why we shouldn't like tgirls, we're here to discuss why we like them :).

The fact is that there are still no known psychological explanations of why people are homosexual, transsexual, straight, sadomasochists etc. etc. But we still are!

And we certainly should learn to enjoy it a lot more :-) Well, I do :-)

I've learned that sexuality is a dynamic thing that leads us many places.

All I know is that from the first time I was made aware of transsexual women I felt strangely attracted. I had this almost deep and warm feeling. Not purely sexual, actually - it went beyond that.

How ever, it took years before I actually acted on this attraction. But once I finally did I truly opened up a part of myself that I'll claim to be one of the most important steps in getting to know myself better.

My personal belief is, that there may be some part of bisexuality in it, but I'm just speculating. Because no matter how erect and beautiful her penis is, I simply cannot view her organ as a male-organ. In other words, a penis on a transsexual woman becomes a highly feminine "attribute" to me. There's NOTHING masculine about my transsexual gf with a hard on - in fact, there's nothing more FEMININE...

On the other hand I have turned more "gay" after my intro to trans-women. Would I then like to have sex with Brad Pitt? Not at all. But my explanation may be that (again I'm merely speculating) after my "discovery" that a penis is no longer just a male-symbol but to me as much a female-symbol, this has opened up further possibilities :-)

I don't know and I may be rambling, but the issue is that to me it's been a wonderful journey - and one that seems to be on-going.

So simply enjoy it, every body! I for sure do...

Peace!

Hank

This is also an excellent point, Bionca. It's not at all purely sexual. It's a matter of finding respect for people who are a little bit different in their views - to truly understand them - and then to let yourself go in your appreciation.

As mentioned in my message just above I really do feel an amazing warmth when being with even just my transsexual friends - it's not sexual and it may be based on aforesaid respect and appreciation of "another kind of beauty or personality or what ever".

To me it's a feeling that I've never before felt for cisgendered women (and I admit to having been a bit of a ladies man in my time). Transsexual women bring forward in me other and deeper emotions. That's a fact... could it have to do with the often bigger fragility and vulnerability in transsexual women? The fact that they often need protection from the big, cruel and not-understanfing world? Does that make transsexual women even more feminine than cisgendered women who today are emancipated and strong and running for president? I don't now - but transsexual femininity is in a class of its own...

And it's highly satisfactory :-)

Peace!

Hank

well i'm not trying to insult anybody here
i'm pretty sure i'm still way more sexually mutated than most of you so i have virtually full tolerance for almost everything
yea, sometimes i could be offending, blame on me. mood breaks you know. i'm fighting myself. don't mind. i luv you all.
H, you definetly got talent expressing your thoughts. i think i'm going to print your posts and stack it on bright place. i can sign up your every post, lot of sense.
Justme, i can relate to what you say too
peace

We're here to share our personal thoughts and experiences - at least that's why I'm here. Don't worry about being offending - express your feelings as you have them. If people get offended that's their problem.

I've been an insider for three years and I find transsexuality extremely beautiful. It's the essence of "being who you are" and I find that totally fascinating. I'm completely open about who I am and about my love for transsexual women - however, I wonder how courageous I'd be if I were actually a transsexual myself. I understand the pain and all the hazzle, that's why the term "admirer" has a bit of meaning. Admiring people who have the guts to be whom they truly are in spite of all the evilness in a basicly heterosexual socalled democratic society.

So be proud of who you are!

Peace!

Hank

:respect: Hope you get a chance to experience love with a nice transsexual woman. If you have the drive inside you, then you must act on it. Easy for me to say because I've already done it (and live in a place where it's much easier to actually FIND transsexual women), but do it, pal!

It's very rare now that I'm with a gg - it happens but I seem to find myself in a situation where I ask myself: "Hmmm - and why was it I did this?" When I'm with a transsexual lover I'm truly "at home". Maybe you will feel the same way!

Peace!

Hank

i think if you love shemales doesnt mean that your gay...