I have posted extensively on this topic as I have come to terms with it myself. No you are not "gay." And yes, Rob Halford is awesome! Priest rule! :cool:

Not definately not Gay. Attraction and whatever that follows with members of the same sex can be considered gay, but we are attracted to a third sex, that is not similar to us.:inlove:

to quote butter from sp " I guess everyone is a little bi-curious" I love females n shemales the do my nuts in but i don't like guys not into it, i guess u have to look into how u feel, gay guys like guys and not anythong related to females, now if u cross dress but u like girls, is that gay, well is not as you just like to dress up cuase u like it, so if u like shemales are u gay, well i think the answer to that is evey simple ask this question and answer it

do you like females? y/n if u answer no u gay if u say yes then u not
do you like men? y/n if u answer yes u gay if u say no then u are not
do you like shemales? y/n if u answer yes ur nit gay if you said no then u don't know what y missing out on

I realize that only gays can answer this question......

thefuturesexual ?

I would like to point out that this is quite innacurate. I answered "yes" to question two, yet I am not gay.

well i meant it as sexual not as if i like men in general, is just putting a bit of common sense. I hate point the obvious so i will re-post the Q&A

Please take in mind that i am referring to sexual attraction e.g. you will actually like to have sexual experience

do you like females? y/n if u answer no u gay if u say yes then u not
do you like men? y/n if u answer yes u gay if u say no then u are not
do you like shemales? y/n if u answer yes ur nit gay if you said no then u don't know what y missing out on

why label yourself? who cares

No, never why i have tofeel guilty or bad for somethig that i like, or you feel guilty because you like the chocolat ice cream, or the comedy movies, while you don´t to take advantage, to hurt, or do something ilegall, i don´t have to fell guilty.

You are who you are, and so what!

Why does it matter?

This is so idiotic ppl lets move on

No, you are not gay if you want to suck shemales. I´m not attracted by men at all, but I love trannies, ladyboys and femboys.

CuriousGirl, I like your style :D

Your phrase "with every boundary crossed" is a good one. That's how I felt it - not guilt but some sense of breaking a taboo in my "regular" world. It fades quickly, though. It is a boundary thing - I'm comfortable now liking what I like. Which isn't to say I'm comfortable broadcasting things which would likely cause me difficulty in my "regular" world...

I don't feel guilty whatsoever. Why would I? There is nothing at all wrong with being attracted to a beautiful woman.:)

Hi! I'm new to this forum, but i thought i'd start here in this thread. I don't feel any guilt about loving Tgirls- why should i? I can't help what i do and don't like so why should i worry about it? I consider myself bisexual. I adore how women look- no man can compare to a woman's beauty (not even Johnny Depp!), but I prefer a penis to a vagina and flat chests to big boobs, so Tgirls are perfect for me! :)

I don't like labels, but i would have to say that when it comes to my sexuality i would say i'm "trisexual"- i'll try anything! ;)

Seriously though, i consider myself bisexual. I'm not a 50-50 mix (so few are), but i could never say i'm straight as i love cock too much! I prefer the overall look of a woman- from her face to her shape, smell etc, but i have always preferred cocks to pussy. I love pussy, especially unshaven, but cocks are so much more fun! So a Tgirl is for me, the best of both worlds: the beauty of a woman with the best bit of a man!

As for considering oneself "straight" whilst loving Tgirls... i can understand that to a point. Even the most well endowed of Tgirls is more "female" than the sum of her "male" part as far as attraction goes for admirers, but ask any "regular" straight guy if he'd suck a cock if it was attached to Halle Berry or Beyonce and he'd probably say no!

I guess i agree with most here. I don't consider it gay or straight. I don't consider myself gay or straight. But, i do consider myself very sexually open minded and T girls are very very sexy. I love who they are.

Are you gay for liking shemales? The age old question, with a simple answer...no.

In the context of a genetic male with feminine desires, when I have sex with another man, I'll dress the part...express myself emotionally as a woman, as well as sexually adopt the role of women.

The men I'm with want to be with me because I am (in part) a woman. If you are a man who loves the female form (although slightly altered), then you are not gay.

only tgirl

men ohhh nooooo

For me a shemale/transsexual girl represent the ideal woman.They use be more feminine and sexy than manny real women these days.

I am a "T-Lover"
 

Interesting to see how old these posts are! I remember reading Bionca’s response to “ShowMeLove” long before I was a member here and I thought what she said was right on. I know that it helped me to better understand my own feelings and what I was going through in my life at the time.

We are about to enter a new decade--hopefully this will at last be the start of the “21st century.” The last two centuries have been largely about physical, mechanical, and electronic discoveries. Human beings are amazingly complex and we are only just beginning to understand some of the events that occur as we develop. I have always believed that our next real breakthroughs will occur as we look inward. The Human Genome project was just the start.

I have only been aware of my attraction to trans women for about two or three years now. Although “open minded” I too have gone through the same questioning of my sexuality that others have gone through. I read the posts in the “If U Like Shemales R U Gay?” thread and find myself hoping that these individuals will come to understand their feelings just as I have mine and realize that the beautiful “shemales” they are attracted to are indeed women--as are their trans co-workers or friends. Is it really so hard to accept that a person could be born female and yet have external male genitals or vice versa? Science is only now learning what goes on during those nine months and I believe that someday we will come to a more enlightened view of human sexuality and not be so quick to place labels on who or what we are.

As the year ends I find myself doing quite well; I have a terrific career, a beautiful new ladyfriend, and of course my many new friends on this forum with whom I have been able to share something very special.

Happy New Year to all! :cool:

Here is my long, highly personal and slightly boring answer. I guess I'm just expressing myself for the sake of it as I think we all realise that the OP is suffering from minor embarrassment and mild self-disgust because he enjoys something that he was brought up to disapprove of. Looks like natural attraction is a stronger force that cultural prejudices!

Drugs, sex, relationships - we all grow up with ideas about these things without having experienced them ourselves. We have learnt, from family, peers, or the media, particular prejudices against certain things and against certain members of society, who are stigmatized. I think virtually everyone would agree with that as it seems self-evident.

Like many people, I have tried to flush those prejudices from my mind. I try to question everything I hear and reach a conclusion on my own. If I lack the experience to form a conclusion, I rely on a trustworthy source until I can attain that experience.

Strip away your prejudices and everyone is equal.

If everyone is equal, the question isn't why do some people like TS girls; the question is why doesn't everyone like TS girls?

Actually, the real question is why do many people actively dislike and ridicule TS girls? What have the girls done to deserve it except to simply be themselves?

I grew up being attracted to girls. Some TS girls look exactly like genetic girls, so I am attracted to them. That seems perfectly natural - only the prejudices of society make it seem otherwise. In my case, that's why a straight man can become a TS girl lover. It broadened my horizons; I woke up to myself. Now a TS girl doesn't have to look exactly like a genetic girl (with one obvious difference) to be attractive to me.

Why should I be turned off because TS girls have a penis? Penis' aren't disgusting - I have one!

For reasons I don't understand, I don't seem to be attracted to men, sexually. I like the idea of it, so I guess that in the right circumstances I could go all the way with a man. I hope so - I want to experience everything life has to offer.

I don't want to limit my experiences because of the prejudices of my society. Doing that would reinforce those prejudices, and I'd be disappointed with myself if I did that.

TS girls are individuals, so I'm not attracted to all just as I'm not attracted to all women. And it's not because they have or don't have a penis that I am attracted to someone.

^

its the case of "discrimination" I guess...

but for me as long as I live well I dont mind them ;)

im personally not attracted to men, but i like women with dicks.
not gay to me ;)

I have a Filipina TS girlfriend, but if I had to pick a label, as restricting as they are, I'd identify myself as a straight man.

Sexuality isn't confined to whether the person you like has a cock or a pussy; it's the whole package. I am attracted to femininity, and I even sometimes wonder if the juxtaposition of a cock and an attractive woman enhances her femininity. For example, my girlfriend is petite, feminine, gentle, and when I'm snuggled up against her soft, smooth skin, stroking her long hair, and smelling her flowery perfume, it never crosses my mind that she was born a boy... she's a girl who happens to have a cock. If anything, it seems to bring us closer together in the sense that we are opposites - me being a big, burly bloke, and she a girly girl - but we have our sexual parts in common, and we can please each other in the same way.

To further demonstrate what I'm getting at, take a look at some gay porn - my feeling is that the sight of hard, hairy fellas with short haircuts, banging the hell out of each other in jockstraps will be a massive turn off. Next, take a look at some pictures of a TS male with a beard, pecs, skin-head and pussy. He was born a girl right? Bet you don't think it's 'straight' to fancy him, which leads to the logical conclusion that it's not 'gay' to fancy transsexual women.

I think that our biggest problem is others' perceptions of us. Only a few close, liberally-minded friends know the full extent of my relationship. Others know that I have a Filipina girlfriend, which isn't a lie, but they don't know the full story. If our relationship continues and we decided to settle together in the UK, I know there will be a shit-storm, and I could lose a few relatives and friends over it. I'm also sure there will be some hate, and some ignorant whispers of "Did you know Jay is gay?" behind my back. I just hope I'm strong enough to rise above it, support my lovely girl, and stay true to myself.

Your story should be an inspiration to others on the Forum. Thank you for sharing it with all of us.:respect:

I like shemales, is that wrong?
 

I like the looks of shemales, I find it erotic.

But Im straight, I like girls and I've never find guys attractive, but why do I find shemales attractive?

Am I really gay, but I think Im Straight?
Am I Bi? Or Am I just a normal straight guy with fetishes?

Look! from my personal exp., You are not GAY! as you said. Because you don't fancy male, obviously. For myself, I have a ladyboys(post-op) fiancee. I've been into ladyboys since ever, these girls are the coolest living human-being ever. If you interest in faminine people (shemales, ladyboys, women) then you're not gay!. My family doesn't like the idea of gay things too, Its bugging me too... so don't worry, be the person you are! don't care what others said! you are what you are and no one can take that away from you!

IN MY OPINION,

as long as you didnt get a hard-on on straight guys that so masculine, then you dont have to question your sexuality... coz you are just attracted to us, shemales, because of feminine beauty.

and I agree with others too... as long as you are not harming anyone then just ignore what others will tell you... the right thing is youre happy :)

I have a question and im fuken confused
 

im not gay, im not attracted to masculine men, i hate their voices and the way that they look .

i never want to be fucked , i dont even want a girl near my ass.


but i got attracted to this tgirl named "doll" from texas,

is this wrong, is anybody else like me, that is straight but likes to look at shemales from time to time.





is this wrong? ...


plz discuss

I agree with you about the nature of shemales. And I also think that a man who is attracted by shemales is not gay, because they are not men! At most, I think I'm bisexual because I like girls, but I also like tgirls!!
Beginner

"Am i gay?"

That question is asked on alot of forums , let me ask a question.

"What do you think ?"

Your opinion should be the only one that matters , but i know all to well that pressure and judgement from society and family can make things harder than they need to be.

At the end of the day just be happy and live for yourself because you can't please everyone. Love and be loved ... be happy everyone.

Thank you! What you think and what you say is exactly what happens with me. I am portuguese,much older than you; my ts girlfriend is also portuguese and a liittle older than your filipina girlfriend. Those are the only differences! It is very good to find someone who feels and thinks like we do. Not that I ever thought that my love for a shemale woud make me gay, but that makes my belliefs stronger.
Beginner

You said it, baby:kiss:.
IMHO You like what you like. I don't know why some people have to get hung;) up on the whole "am I gay or am I straight" thing. What's wrong with being bi?

If ever there were a bunch of rationalizations for why a man liking cock is not gay, this thread is surely it.

Trans women are women. How can you possibly be “gay” for being attracted to them? If you don’t “get” this, you should read some of the biographies of the models you like. Or some of the postings on this forum. Or look up “gender identity” on the Internet.

I don’t know why this is so hard to understand. Also the “gay/straight” issue shouldn’t matter either--if you are attracted to someone, does it really matter what’s “down there”? However, I understand what many of you are going through because I questioned it myself--was I suddenly “gay”? After a great deal of consideration and reading other people’s posts on forums like this, I concluded that I wasn’t. But if I had decided that I was gay, I would still be “OK” with myself. So, much of it comes back to how you view yourself and who you are attracted to. If you like someone who has a hard, muscular body, or a hairy chest, and they must have a cock, then yes maybe you are gay. If you like all types, and have had sex with both men and women, then you are most likely bi. For myself, I like a very feminine face and body--most female bodybuilders and trans men do not “do it” for me.

Everyone on this forum knows that I would die for Kelly Shore. Also, a few months ago, I listed about 20-30 well known “tgirls” that I really like. And many of you know I was a judge for the 2009 “Tranny Awards.” Just for fun I thought I’d post some pics of a few of my favorite cis women. :drool: Don’t think they need any introduction! I would include a picture of my “ex” but I don’t need any legal problems… :lol:

Questions for the guys: Would you suddenly be “gay” if you found out any of the women below had a penis? How would you feel if you met someone you really were attracted to and discovered her “secret”--would you stop liking her--or would you be OK with it? How would you make love to her if you have only been with cis women? These are essentially the questions I asked myself when I first discovered I liked “tgirls.” Kate Walsh is a very special case as she did in fact play a trans woman on CSI. I wrote about that experience in another post.

Nice post. Worrying about whether you are gay or not seems rather trivial and it only seems like a gimmick by others to make themselves important somehow; as if your purported "gayness" somehow directly affects them in a negative manner.

I think Kate Beckinsale and Jennifer Aniston would look awesome with some "extra" between their legs. :yes::turnon:

Thanks, AngryPostman. I hope that the people posting on here and asking questions about whether or not they are gay learn to accept themselves just the way they are. It's all good!

Maybe one day society will drop this silly idea that we must "label" or "categorize" everything--the real world is much too complex for that...

I meant to include a link to my earlier post where I explain how Kate Walsh is really to blame for all of this... :lol: and also how I first came to be such a big fan of Miss Kelly Shore! :cool:

http://forum.transladyboy.com/showpo...4&postcount=57

I totally understand what many of you are going through--may you each one day come to a better understanding and acceptance of your own sexuality. :respect:

Hey everyone, I was about to ask the question of if it's gay or not to be aroused by ts girls.
Not for the sake of putting myself in a category, just for curiosity, to see what the general opinion is.

I've got a girlfriend (who sometimes puts on a strap-on during sex :turnon:), I am not attracted to men in anyway :turnoff:
I just normally assumed I'd be kind of "bi" due to the whole cock attraction of ts girls? Maybe semi-bi-sexual? :lol:

Does it really matter? I thought I was "normal" until my Thai girlfriend introduced me to the world of "Ladyboys". Now Yao and I can"t get enough. From Mint to Helen they"re all beautiful. WHO ARE YOUR FAVOURITES?

I feel the same way, my mom would not take it 2 well if she found out i was a shemale lover or if she found out that i'm an atheist, my friends in school would probably look at me differently.

Thanks i never looked at it that way.:)

Long mint does have one of the most glorious peanuses i have ever seen on a man or a t girl, it looks yummy.:lol::turnon::turnon::turnon:

I don't feel guilty at all for liking transwomen. If anyone can't accept me or any transwoman that I might be with then that would be that person's problem and not mine and definitely not the lady's problem. I will also not tolerate any disparaging remarks about transwomen. Anyone that shows any intolerance for transwomen (or transmen) or makes disparaging remarks about transpeople in front of me will get an earful of abuse from me. In conclusion I would like to say that I do not feel guilty for liking transwomen and I would be pleased and proud to have a transwoman beside me.

No. I feel no guilt. How could I? Guilt implies that you are doing something ?wrong? or something you are ?ashamed? of. I am not ashamed of being attracted to beautiful women or being seen with a beautiful woman.

Are you afraid of what your friends might say? Then perhaps you need to look inside yourself. Also you might want to find some new friends? ;)

Guilty? no I did for a long time think it was a "kink" or merely a passing phase, and that I was really a good old fashioned hetro boy... what I found out is if you go too far down the path there is NO turning back and it never leaves you.

The way I feel about it is, whether it is a hot girl with a vagina, or a hot girl with a cock, it is the girl I am wanting, not so much of what she has down there.
Seems to me we should feel lucky either way.

Interesting topic I think British Boy's quote was spot on. Being my age I have spent many years wondering the same thing I like TS but I'm not gay but why do I like TS cock? I've been into TS for 10 years plus now. No one knows apart from me & if my GF found out it would bring up some interesting questions, such as why explain the attraction? why haven't you told me before? etc I'm secure enough to a degree that it wouldn't ruin what we have, as she has some lesbian friends - which are now mine too (not that she is that way inclined) Yet if I'm honest its not the right time to tell her because at times I still feel guilty because of the deception as its a dirty secret

The way I ease up on myself is when I'm out even with my gf its the girls I look at not the boys - so that says to me I'm straight

I like tits and ass more than cock, but I like cock more than pussy. I'm attracted to almost 50% of the women/tgirls out there in the world but definitely less than 1% of men. To try and classify myself would be too much of a challenge so I just go with what gets the blood flowing.

i've spoken to a few of my gay friends about this and they assure me that i am not gay for liking shemales. the whole gay/strait thing refers to if you like women or men. since shemales are women, you arent gay

I cant tell you whats right for you but you need to find happiness.