i understand i too feel guilty once in a while
i wont lie trannys are some of the coolest down to earth laid back people i ever met so i forget about the guilt its not like u have to fuck them u can just be frineds until u feel comfortable enough

I'm not in the slightest bit ashamed- in fact I can't fathom the guys who 'settle' with genetic girls when deep down they really love tgirls. I was speaking to one older guy in the Wayout club who was lamenting that he'd wasted his life trying to be 'heterosexual'. Its easier for me I suppose as i'm openly bi and everyone knows including my folks- they're ok with it too. Well they can like it or lump it! Actualy i've dropped the bi tag as I exclusively date tgirls, i'm not wasting my life with a woman who I wont be satisfied with.

All I need to do know is find the right woman. ;)

Gulit?
 

When i had my first session with A ts i felt guiklty later. After a while that stopped. Now i'm fully into beautiful shemales and love them.
I'm in my 50's and have had a lot of sex over the years . I must say shemales are the best,sexy,sluttty horny.
I've even started swallowing cum for my bets partners..they lOVE it!

No, I never feel guilty for liking tgirls. Nor will I ever feel guilty for liking tgirls.

I have an Asian TS girlfriend and we adore each other - she's the best girlfriend and lover I've ever had.

I don't feel guilty or ashamed in the slightest, and since I don't want kids, there's no barrier to us being together for the long term. However, I do worry about other people's reactions if, as planned, we get "married" (civil partnership in the UK) and she comes here to live. I haven't got much family to speak of, but I'm pretty sure some friends will be weird about it.

In fact, does anyone have any advice in this area?

No, I do not feel guilty. I like what I like. A friend of mine says that no one can help what turns them on, and tgirls sooooooo turn me on. I know most of my friends wouldn't understand, but that's why sites like this are so important, filled with people who DO understand. :yes:

i've been into shemales since i was 18ish, i would not say i feel guilty about liing these beautiful t-girls but it does anoy me that its taboo and its fround apon, people see it the say as being gay but me personaly i do not find men attractive nore to i find men in drag attractive but shemales and females i do... however like after watching any porn once i cum i feel a lil guilty no matter what im watching lol but i havn't stoped nore do i plan to ...

No, I don't feel guilty. Why should I?

hell yeah i agree with you 100%:yes:

i am bored this kind of questions !!! i consider my self as a Pansexual (A group which is open to members of all sexual orientations or gender identities including straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transexual, or transvestite)
I like having sex and i don't care their genders but i just can't love a man. I like romantism only with females.
But if it is just sex gender is not important but i prefer mostly transexual, or transvestite.

If someone call me gay because of me loving shemales then call me gay. I don't care :D :lol:

Who cares what you are! Just live your life and have fun

Polysexual.

I thought about it for a LONG time and I still don't know...

But what I do know is,

Thoughts about sucking shemale's dick makes me horny.

Thoughts about sucking man's dick doesn't.

And then I thought there is no difference between shemale's dick, and my dick. A dick is a dick.

So I thought about sucking man's dick, again, and it started to make me horny a little bit. Actually, the more I think about it, the more I 'get it'.

I want to feel my dick being serviced, to a point where I scream and cum all over the place. I know not many women can do that. My wife? She can't do it even if she tried.

So I have to help myself. I have to masturbate, to thoughts that makes me sexually active. Horny, I mean.

And if there was a guy, who needed his dick to be serviced in a way that he will scream and ejaculate, I'd be happy to help out, and while doing it, get my share of pleasure too.

Is that gay?

I'm leaning towards, YES, that is so fucking gay....

I'm anal, married, and faithful. Hot shemales and my imagination is great for jerking off. I dont care what that makes me.

I do feel a bit guilty, but as others have said on here its because society dictates that my attraction would be described as ad-normal or perhaps even perverse. But I can't help what I'm attracted to and I've learnt that just because the views in a political society might dictate what people should think, we are individuals and part of the animal kingdom at heart, so we will always be defined by what each of us finds attractive. I mean for goodness sake, around 40 years ago gays were condemned....

carpe diem: I enjoy the day with my tgirl with every fiber of my body; am in partnership with my tgirl in line, not a bad degree, conventions have close to us only. friendly greetings

I do feel guilty sometimes. I can't stand the thought of having sex with a man but because it is a lady boy it makes it alright. twisted logic I suppose.

Well, my opinion is, that there is no point in shame, blame or such stuff. I have simple rule. If you like something, do it. :-). :hug:

Yes, I feel guilty some of the time, but not because I chalk it up to some sort of sin or anything along any religious lines. I used to work in an outpatient mental health facility, and we would sometimes get people in there suffering from sexual identity crisis, sometimes showing up crossdressing (and failing pretty miserably at being "convincing") and those particular cases were almost all brought on by sexual abuse at a very young age. Likewise, I have a male cousin who longs to be a lady, swearing and declaring he was born with the wrong plumbing, and yet he too suffered sexual abuse when he was very young.

So the main reason I sometimes feel guilty is because I feel like I just might be "cashing in" on somebody else's trauma. I don't know how or why all of these t-girls are or rather become what they are...the life decisions that have brought them to the point where I'm seeing pics or videos of them...but the nagging thought in the back of my mind is: "*What if* they were molested and/or abused? Am I feeding into their emotional turmoil?" In other words, I sometimes think I'm digging on exploitation of a deeper issue, and deriving pleasure out of somebody else's misfortune is simply not cool.

Another reason I feel guilty is that I sometimes think I'm doing nothing more than bullshitting myself. Every so often a "before" pic will hit the internet of a t-girl, and that kind of reality check is like a slap to the face. The way I see it is: I would never in a million years find a man attractive, but shave his body, grow his hair out, slap on some make-up and boobs, and suddenly I'm like "Oh what a beautiful woman!" Bullshit...I'm drooling over a guy that's had some work done. I'm not saying that is how I truly feel all of the time, just some of the time when I'm in those moments of guilt. Why? Who knows. Like our attractions, we can't always control our thoughts on things either, no matter how invasive they can be at times.

The only way you won't like the trannies nowadays is if your gay..
 

No offense but, the trannies nowadays; look more and more like gg's. So I'm simply saying if a man, doesn't get horny after viewing one, on lets say "Shemale Yum" he might be considered gay.

I would argue the inverse to be true, but that's just me. And not a very popular notion around here.

I agree that many, many t-girls can be immensely sexually attractive for straight men.... as long as their private parts aren't in view. But as soon as the cock and balls spring bravely into the light of day, most straight men would lose interest. And I've seen many t-girls on this forum saying the same things from experience.

So no, being gay isn't the only way you won't like trannies. Now if what you're looking for is placing yourself and your preferences as far away from "gay" as you can, that's something else..... but kinda superfluous I'd say...

Gay, straight, whatever... Labels are pretty meaningless at the end of it.

I've met a few guys are who are quite adamant that just because they like TVs they're straight and could never fuck another guy - even some of the ones who are desperate to get their lips round your cock will tell you this ;)

WRONG! All of the shemale porn sites emphasize the Tgirls cock, the bigger the better. Surveys indicate that it is straight white males that are their best customers. Many straight men find shecock a tremendous turnon. :turnon::inlove::yes:

I go through stages where I'll try to block them out.
Lasts for a couple weeks but I always go back, I don't know if I'll ever be able to be completely comfortable with my lust for transexuals.

An excellent post.
I haven't thought much about why a person wants to become a tranny. I was not aware that abuse could be the cause for some cases. Some men just seem to be wired to be women. I have some erotic feelings about femaleness although I have no desire to be a female or wear female panties. I love transsexual fantasies and would like to have a tranny lover, however. I never thought about transsexuals until I discovered them on the internet. Now its almost an obsession.
I really relate to your comment about men making themselves look like women and all of a sudden they are sexually attractive, yes this is bullshit especially for the so called ladyboys in Thailand. They are "cute" boys pure and simple.
Yes the horny male mind does strange things.

Now the discsussion has shifted from self-centered concerns to those of social responsibility. There is no doubt in my mind that Gor Gar is right that some, if not many, cases of transgenderism are caused by abuse. I would like to broaden the definition of abuse to include mental abuse, and not just actual sexual abuse. I would suggest that there are many roads that lead to transgender status, and the map is far from being finished. From postings on this forum it is obvious that some members are inclined in a homosexual way in that they rave on about pics of guys butts and dicks, while at the other end of the spectrum we have guys who only like very feminine looking Tgirls. Then there are the members who are fully Tgirls, whose inputs are a very valuable asset to this forum and should be fully considered.

So...just like the Tgirls we all have pasts ( our path ) that has lead us to the present. You could just as well ask if the Tgirls are contributing or, as Gor Gar put it, "cashing in" on our behavior and fantasies. The nitty-gritty of the matter is that we all use one another. It is up to us to do so in an equitable manner. I see no reason for anyone to feel guilty about their participation in any facet of life if they are not harming others. Now that may be a very difficult thing to determine and in some cases impossible. Who can forsee every consequence of their actions? The best we can do is think (meditate, pray, etc) and inform ourselves about the matter and follow our conscience. Just remember that we all rationalize our behavior; it is your duty to get as much data as possible and never to set your conclusions in stone; more information may present itself to modify or reverse your conclusion.

For those of you who read these discussions and never comment; I, and others here, urge you to do so. Your input is valuable data and is appreciated by many regardless of your position.

it is terrible
i wish i would never had experience with lb
but it is like drug, u become addicted to it

No never felt guilty...!!!

I don't feel any guilt when looking at it myself, I enjoy normal porn as well, but shemales really do it for me, I don't care what people think I should or shouldn't like.

However, I don't really tell anyone about it because they'll think I'm gay or a freak, of which I am neither. Just because I like a cock on a girl doesn't mean I like a cock on a guy, by that logic if you love pussy on a girl you must therefore like a pussy on a man (think buck angel). I'm sure most straight men are definitely not into a muscular man with a vagina, that is somebody elses cup of tea. The point is that the logic behind stereotypes make no sense but you still may be ridiculed for it. Although it may be cause for ridicule, it is NOTHING to feel guilty about, there's nothing wrong about liking a chick with a dick... You just don't have to tell anyone about it if you don't want to xD

The point is, that it's a fact that T-girl porn is gaining a lot of popularity nowadays. I read that article as well, and I was quite imprssed about it. Never though I'd see that coming.

No, never. Why? I like them, I´m happy with them. Why to be guilty?
Never must feel guilty with what gives you happines. If you feel guilty, there is something wrong with you.

Initially yes, but I got over it real quick when I discovered there were so many guys like me out there

No Guilt from me
 

I have read many of the replies most from younger guys, my views as a older male, guilt feelings are generated when you have done wrong, it is not wrong to look, enjoy, or love another no matter what the gender may be.
:respect:

I don't have any reaon to feel guilty because I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. I'm wondering where other people's guilt comes from... letting down family? Offending your god? Fortunately, neither of those things apply to me. I would, however, feel guilty and ashamed if if I didn't to do what makes me happy.

I don't feel any guilt now but the first few times I went with a TS in Thailand and the Philippines I felt like everyone on the street was watching me. Actually they probably were. ha ha.

Now I don't even notice. I'm proud to be with a TS.

hi
 

Well I do feel guilty mostly because of my twisted reason for being attracted to t-girls. I adore athletic and muscular bodies on my woman and when I see that kind of body (often) on shemales it turns me on. I find myself lookingat the arms and legs hoping to see flexing. In fact I was with a few shemales with muscular bodies and the only thing I didnt want to touch or know about was the Penis. but what could I say my fetish is met minus the vagina. This being said I am oddly attracted and want to play with that Long Mint's penis...
Weird, I may freak out when faced with it but it looks like fun to play with.

And the point is?
 

Does it matter? Be comfortable in who you are. But for those who feel the need for an answer, IMHO the feminine form is not something attractive to someone "gay".

Why is this thread still active its ridiculous you can be totally straight and love shebabes or gay and love shebabes why is this such an issue with some ppl. I myself have a beautiful full figured all female girlfriend that I love to death but I also love shebabes. Honestly somebody needs to close this thread down.

You may feel shame over your desire, I still do have a little shame too. Here's my take. I spent a bizzillion hours from 12-28 lusting after pussy. Dreaming of it, chasing it, spending untold amount of money for it. I've been a porn addict from the beginning. Even before I could get my hands on porn I was collecting pictures of lingerie models from the Sunday paper. I think kinky porn addicts tastes change over time. Big bust was my thing till my mid-20s, than I went to feet and leg fetish magazines. I think if you are submissive, like me, that also pulls you toward trannies in a strong way, because what is more dominating than a big hard cock. So I'm gay right? But then why do I desperately my fucking my busty Asian girlfriend, hearing her babble in Korean as I pound her tight pussy? So I'm bi? Maybe, but I think I'm just a kinky guy obsessed with Asian femininity. Life is too short. Revel in what you love. Let the small-minded folks bicker.

Depends
 

I personally dont suck on t-girls and i would never let one bum me, i treat them like women. Get sucked and then fuck them. I think if you like them to dom you and you love sucking then you are gay. If im gay for bumming gorgeous t-girls then so be it

I am Bi not Tri
 

See there are three sexes I can say with confidence that I am Bi-Sexual. I love GG's and TS's but I pass on M4M. Sucking on a man's cock is definately not the same as a TS. You miss the smell, the feel and the sight of a beautiful lady.

Ask yourself this: Would you rather fuck a macho trans-man with muscles, shaved head, goatee and a pussy, or a beautiful, feminine trans-woman with a penis.

As far as I'm concerned, gayness hasn't got a lot to do with what's between the legs, and I wouldn't be attracted to a G-man or a T-man, nor a masculine woman for that matter.

To quote the film Trainspotting, "[attraction] is all about aesthetics".

No. It's idiotic to suggest it, but we live in a black and white society that doesn't show the complexity of life. The replies above me concluded the complexity. Stop living in a black and white universe, start seeing the grey and the complexity, and you'll suddenly come to see a much bigger, fuller, more interesting picture.

-Dory

yh i think it is personally but as you said humans are complex and you cant stick people into strict categories

I´m not a taker, and I just like ALL KINDS of girls :yes:
I dont consider myself gay, but another might would, whatever. That happened to me before when on a party I said Rob Halford was pretty awesome, damn, I didn´t mean I wanted to get laid with him! :lol:

big no here :no:

Personally I dont think that men that like girls are gay. Even if the girls they like happen to be born a male. As long as it is sex between a guy and a girl it is straight sex.

However, I'm sure if you took all the guys here and all the girls here and put us in a nice little christian church, we would all be labled as gay.

Who care, if you like chick with dick.

This topic has been run into the ground somebody please kill this.