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smc 04-01-2010 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by crsd1970 (Post 140361)
First of all, I think that whether 'it makes you gay' or not is not important. Having said that, IMO a guy and a TS are a man and a woman, simple as that. So I don't see how that would be a gay relationship. Look at the pictures below of girls and their men making love: does that look like gay sex to you?

I have weighed in on this question from time to time, mostly to express my wish that the posts about it would all go away. But this time, I just want to thank crsd1970 for such an eloquent statement.

tgirllover789 04-10-2010 09:36 PM

Does this make me BI? I am only into Tgirls.
 
I am a young guy here, and I am still figuring out what I am into. I am not into men at all, and I find the sight of two men making out or stuff to be disgustinig (not that I think it's wrong). I just have no desire for a masculine body or person.
I want trannies w tits, and dicks. Does this make me bi? It's all very very confusing.
Have any of you dated them? I don't think I could ever do that. I want to go to Thailand and fuck around. What's the deal.

ladylover 04-11-2010 04:08 AM

Am I weird???????
 
Ok. I am not homosexual. I am straight. I love women. And I'm not just saying that. But, why do I love transgendered girls? I'm confused. I think, in my mind, that they are women. They are. I've never been with a transgender woman. But, if it ever happened, I'd treat her like I'd treat a girlfriend. I would not hide her from my family, etc...... Anywho, why am I even curious?

liesjeversteven 04-13-2010 06:27 PM

I'm not sure if I can add anything useful to this thread, but as a lesbian I am not attracted at all to men, only women. And... As it happens I also happen to be attracted to some feminine transwomen and even some femboys. Does that make me straight? I don't think so. If you're attracted to femininity, well, transwomen can be very feminine, can't they? Don't get hung up about it, just accept it and enjoy it. I think it's quite normal

justin84 04-16-2010 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by translover (Post 19556)
i am not gay but i am bisexual, i love to have sex with both genders but i really like shemales
and they are excited me so much. they have cock and they are like a girl.

i want a cock :innocent: but i want a girl :inlove: so answer is shemales :respect:

totally agree thats exactly how i see it:respect:


i love shemales and some guys and girls but i consider myself bisexual with a fetish for shemales, transvestites and femboys. i love cock and i love tits. on the same body or not, i just love it. but i need more:turnon:

RazorGV 04-17-2010 09:14 AM

I'm straight and i like shemales so my answer is NO

hugo87 04-18-2010 03:48 AM

I like shemales for their bodys and no to mention there cock, but i dont think im gay I like when they are very feminine so I think your just very kinky :yes:

IronCity 04-18-2010 06:24 PM

How can you be gay if you dont like men??

Tranny Sore-Ass Rex 05-14-2010 05:14 PM

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cyrthulem 05-14-2010 05:46 PM

Why does it have to be a transsexual for me to like the cock and not a guy's cock?

Tranny Sore-Ass Rex 05-14-2010 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by cyrthulem (Post 145856)
Why does it have to be a transsexual for me to like the cock and not a guy's cock?

If you're gay, then there's no problem at all.

I know it sounds strange to fancy she-males over males, a cock is a cock, right?
I simply find their (she-males) uniqueness to be more of an attraction than just a cock. That's me and I'm ok with that.

cyrthulem 05-14-2010 06:27 PM

I have been turned on by guys and drag queen before but not lately. What does it say about me sexually if I want them to give me a**l I also want to eat their c*m.

outofmymind 06-06-2010 11:35 PM

No, it's not gay. Gay men like men. Shemales are women. Any hormones or surgery done is to enhance the true gender they are inside. Penis or not they are women. Gays wouldn't be interested in a woman trans or not.

Verywierd 06-18-2010 04:27 AM

I've been with post-op ladyboys but not pre-op.

I would think that the desire to be anally penetrated by your partner's penis is a strong indicator of gayness. That is the one activity where you cannot rely on the excuse of the female appearance of your partner.

mezy1 06-18-2010 04:50 AM

dont worry
 
Your not gay for liking. Cock and if u are so wat its wat u like

outofmymind 06-19-2010 01:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Verywierd (Post 149547)
I've been with post-op ladyboys but not pre-op.

I would think that the desire to be anally penetrated by your partner's penis is a strong indicator of gayness. That is the one activity where you cannot rely on the excuse of the female appearance of your partner.


I disagree. Now the fact is there is nothing wrong with being gay. I'm a supporter of gay rights and everything. But what you posted is not gay. It's a woman's cock. There's nothing gay about it. It's fun, kinky but not gay.

Jayshawn! 06-19-2010 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by mezy1 (Post 149548)
Your not gay for liking. Cock and if u are so wat its wat u like

i agree :respect:

chrero 06-20-2010 07:44 AM

I love girls with and without cocks and I like cocks with and without girls, so I am bisexuell. And, yes, that includes gay.

ila 06-20-2010 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by chrero (Post 149786)
I love girls with and without cocks and I like cocks with and without girls, so I am bisexuell. And, yes, that includes gay.

Good for you for being true to yourself. :respect:

shiG1 06-22-2010 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by RazorGV (Post 142501)
I'm straight and i like shemales so my answer is NO

same for me :)

JazzMax 07-03-2010 04:54 PM

Definitely not gay...I love the femininity of the best shemales...it's what gets me off the most. If they are too masculine I'm turned off. Looked at gay porn out of curiosity but it did nothing for me.

Lord.Steve 07-03-2010 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by JazzMax (Post 151182)
Definitely not gay...I love the femininity of the best shemales...it's what gets me off the most. If they are too masculine I'm turned off. Looked at gay porn out of curiosity but it did nothing for me.


I'd say I'm the same.. Gay porn is just not for me..Though the thought of a slim,sexy figure shemale is just the best thing!

no1000 07-03-2010 05:26 PM

I'm with Lord.Steve and JazzMax. I love the femininity of tgirls and gg's but more so of tgirls.

BrnTGLvr 07-06-2010 11:29 PM

People can label themselves whatever they want but I don't understand why people are afraid of being called gay. I love femboys, TV and TG girls. If that's gay who the heck cares.

valentinetabitha 07-14-2010 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by fatbloke (Post 152117)
How is it that i can look at a beautiful TG cock and want to kiss it,suck it,taste her cum and want it in my bum,but the sight of a mans erect cock revolts me?

I used to have that problem too. The idea of a penis grossed me out unless a nice set of tits were attached as well. I've found its a progression. Slowly you'll start finding the less feminine girls on this site attractive, getting to the point where you know it is basically a man in a dress.

Once you reach that point it is only a matter of time before you accept that what you've been attracted to all along is cock and it has just taken a while for you to accept that it's okay. That's how it was for me. I still far, far prefer trans porn, but every once in a while I just enjoy looking at a nice, think cock glistening with precum :)

AmyW 07-14-2010 01:36 PM

I pretty much had to accept that if I was going to watch porn for any significant length of time, I was eventually going to see an erect male penis. I couldn't just watch lesbian porn forever, y'know?

But otherwise, yes, I was in the same situation. Female penis = yay, male penis = meh. Isn't this fetish fun? :)

sesame 07-14-2010 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by fatbloke (Post 152117)
How is it that i can look at a beautiful TG cock and want to kiss it,suck it,taste her cum and want it in my bum,but the sight of a mans erect cock revolts me?

Thats because you are attracted not to the cock itself, but to the feminine body it belongs to.;)

no1000 07-14-2010 09:53 PM

I'm with you brother. I've just grown to accept it. I like she-cock but no man-cock. :)

farce 07-16-2010 07:24 AM

You can't say you're gay unless you've looked at a man walking down the street and wanted to sleep with him. Having said that, liking shemales isn't exactly "straight" now, is it? :respect:

CI_Mahon 07-16-2010 06:29 PM

All forms of cock is hot, man-cock and she-cock alike, but when it s on a beautiful feminine form it s just so much more of a turn on, for me anyway.

no1000 07-17-2010 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by farce (Post 152351)
You can't say you're gay unless you've looked at a man walking down the street and wanted to sleep with him. Having said that, liking shemales isn't exactly "straight" now, is it? :respect:

True and liking shemales isn't exactly "gay" either. :)

smc 07-17-2010 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by farce (Post 152351)
You can't say you're gay unless you've looked at a man walking down the street and wanted to sleep with him. Having said that, liking shemales isn't exactly "straight" now, is it? :respect:

That is the most ridiculous measure of sexual preference I've ever read, even if it's meant only half-seriously. My gay friends, some of whom knew they were gay when they were quite young, would probably take offense.

aw9725 07-17-2010 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by BrnTGLvr (Post 151454)
People can label themselves whatever they want but I don't understand why people are afraid of being called gay. I love femboys, TV and TG girls. If that's gay who the heck cares.

I don?t think it?s that anyone is ?afraid? of being labeled gay. Nor is there anything wrong with being gay. It?s just that "gay" is not an accurate description of some of us who like transwomen. :cool:

TGirl Anna girly_feet_boy 07-17-2010 06:44 PM

i just wanted to stop by and say something. U totally dont need to be gay to be into shemales/crossdressers etc... i'm a femboy feet beauty model and i have tons of straight members and fans on my site and around the web who had never thought of t-girls etc before me. They seen my site and my feet thru, say youtube, and started to look into it more. I've always said u dont need to be gay to be into me as my feets are so feminine and girly. I dont do nudity whatsoever so the focus is always on my pretty feet. ive never loved labels, and say just enjoy what u enjoy. if its a beautiful thing there doesnt need to be barriers in the way :)

smc 07-17-2010 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by TGirl Anna girly_feet_boy (Post 152588)
if its a beautiful thing there doesnt need to be barriers in the way :)

Amen, Anna! :respect:

undercover faggot 07-18-2010 05:31 PM

no, you are gay because you like cock.

smc 07-18-2010 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by undercover faggot (Post 152695)
no, you are gay because you like cock.

You have a lot to learn. Most important is that labels don't matter.

kitty cox 07-18-2010 08:35 PM

I am very glad that SMC is one of our moderators.
 
I am very glad that SMC is one of our moderators. I say this even though; SMC has given me a warning or two for posting more than three Pictures from the same origin. I feel that we are in good hands when SMC says things like ?labels don?t matter? I agree whole heartedly, if the truth be known most people deplore being labeled. I know that some people will reveal little to nothing about them selves for fear of being labeled. Most of us will very cautiously and meticulously, reveal only carefully vetted facts about our selves to a new friend or potential spouse precisely to avoid being labeled. This could be why you only really get to know the person next to you many, many years after you met them, if ever.

On another issue; I would like all of you to know that I have first hand knowledge that the people that watch over this site do so with all of us in mind. I had that demonstrated to me with an email that someone had tried to logon to this website using my name but with the wrong password three times (this was really only me and my absentmindedness) I had not taken the time to commit to memory my password and was trying all of my favorite and usual passwords, when that did not work I gave up. When I got the email it told me that if someone was snooping around, I would have been given a heads up. Fortunately it was only me. I really do not know if it was SMC because I was very new to the site back then and I was quite lost at the time. Having said that let me say thank you to whoever that was, thank you for having my back. Kitty Cox

ila 07-18-2010 09:30 PM

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Originally Posted by kitty cox (Post 152708)
I am very glad that SMC is one of our moderators. I say this even though; SMC has given me a warning or two for posting more than three Pictures from the same origin. I feel that we are in good hands when SMC says things like ?labels don?t matter? I agree whole heartedly, if the truth be known most people deplore being labeled. I know that some people will reveal little to nothing about them selves for fear of being labeled. Most of us will very cautiously and meticulously, reveal only carefully vetted facts about our selves to a new friend or potential spouse precisely to avoid being labeled. This could be why you only really get to know the person next to you many, many years after you met them, if ever.

On another issue; I would like all of you to know that I have first hand knowledge that the people that watch over this site do so with all of us in mind. I had that demonstrated to me with an email that someone had tried to logon to this website using my name but with the wrong password three times (this was really only me and my absentmindedness) I had not taken the time to commit to memory my password and was trying all of my favorite and usual passwords, when that did not work I gave up. When I got the email it told me that if someone was snooping around, I would have been given a heads up. Fortunately it was only me. I really do not know if it was SMC because I was very new to the site back then and I was quite lost at the time. Having said that let me say thank you to whoever that was, thank you for having my back. Kitty Cox

The email that you got was automatically generated by the site software without any input from administrators or maderators.

smc 07-19-2010 05:56 AM

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Originally Posted by kitty cox (Post 152708)
Having said that let me say thank you to whoever that was, thank you for having my back. Kitty Cox

Quote:

Originally Posted by ila (Post 152714)
The email that you got was automatically generated by the site software without any input from administrators or maderators.

Kitty, what ila says is true, but on this site I have your back anyhow. :yes:

aw9725 07-19-2010 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by smc (Post 152698)
You have a lot to learn. Most important is that labels don't matter.

He does have much to learn. If he is in fact serious. Based on my experience, many of these types of posts are not. Most are very short and typically illiterate. Poor grammar, lousy spelling, and use of ?texting,? are prevalent.

They also never specify why the author feels the way they do. Most likely it is only to get a reaction from the other members. When I first became aware of my attraction, the ?gay/straight? question was one of the reasons I started researching the Internet and visiting forums in the first place--to learn more about myself--at that time I was still married and couldn?t talk to my friends. Haven?t any of these new members read what any of us has posted? There?s some good stuff on here! I remember reading other posts on this forum long before I joined up and made my first post. There were some great posts by ila, Bionca, Hank H. and others that really helped me out. I also knew a little something about transgender individuals--not much--but even an idiot should realize that ?shemale? or ?tranny? or referring to a ?M2F? transsexual as a ?man? is offensive. Good heavens!

Anyway? i gess I culd strt 2 post messags 4 U lik that BTW I think kely shor is HOT!!! i wud luv2 suk her cock! :drool:

U no I cant stay serius 4 2long! :innocent:

smc 07-19-2010 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by aw9725 (Post 152767)
Anyway? i gess I culd strt 2 post messags 4 U lik that BTW I think kely shor is HOT!!! i wud luv2 suk her cock! :drool:

U no I cant stay serius 4 2long! :innocent:

Hey, if I write "I wud luv2 sukk her cock," does that mean I get to do it longer than you? ;)

aw9725 07-19-2010 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smc (Post 152769)
Hey, if I write "I wud luv2 sukk her cock," does that mean I get to do it longer than you? ;)

Only if "U wud luuuuuuuuuuuuuv 2 sukk her cock"! :)

The Conquistador 07-19-2010 04:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aw9725 (Post 152767)

Anyway… i gess I culd strt 2 post messags 4 U lik that BTW I think kely shor is HOT!!! i wud luv2 suk her cock! :drool:

U no I cant stay serius 4 2long! :innocent:

Quote:

Originally Posted by smc (Post 152769)
Hey, if I write "I wud luv2 sukk her cock," does that mean I get to do it longer than you? ;)

Good God! Enough with the textspeak! My brain is becoming a pile of mush reading this. AUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

moar literacy in posts plz K thx!


The plague of textspeak is upon us! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/24294592/

smc 07-19-2010 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman (Post 152771)
Good God! Enough with the textspeak! My brain is becoming a pile of mush reading this. AUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

moar literacy in posts plz K thx!


The plague of textspeak is upon us! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/24294592/

I assure you that what I wrote above is the only time in my entire life I have ever used textspeak, even when texting with my cellphone, and that it will also be the last time.

virtualflower 07-20-2010 09:42 AM

I am like you - cock on a hairy guy does nothing for me.

Cock and hanging balls on a smooth feminine body and I am raring to go!

shiG1 07-22-2010 07:49 PM

To be honest... I dont care if this is gay or not, but i wouldnt suck the dick of a man, but i would love to suck a shemale.maybe its because i look at them as woman just with a dick.anyway try to have fun whatever other people call it!

send.the.love 07-22-2010 11:08 PM

Well I don't care for labels to complex situations, they create problems and negative stereotypes. Unfortunately mankind has been fighting steroetypes since the dawn of civilization.

Knowing that, I don't bother fighting other people's labels of me. Unless of course I can prove without of shred of doubt their label is inaccurate. Most times it's just plain impossible to prove in the most factual way. Labels are often times subjective and rarely is there a clear cut definition.

In other words, I consider myself bisexual. I'm attracted to women and the illusion of femininity. I have no qualms others labeling me as gay, if that's the only way they can process it or they just want to use the term in a derogatory fashion. Seriously I know what straight, and gay mean. So it's hardly an insult to me. I don't bother wasting time trying to convince others that gay isn't a putdown. I'd rather they rant and rave in their stupidity and go I can home and giggle about it.

There's no use confronting stupidity or deliberate ignorance, it only creates more problems. I just let them feel big and mighty calling me gay, when in fact they are using the term wrong. I feel better letting them feel big about it, because I know the truth and I know who and what I am.

WudLuv2try 07-23-2010 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fatbloke (Post 152117)
How is it that i can look at a beautiful TG cock and want to kiss it,suck it,taste her cum and want it in my bum,but the sight of a mans erect cock revolts me?

Think of it this way.

The 'cock' is the gift, and the 'person' is the gift box.

JodieTs 07-23-2010 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by luvmedo (Post 66645)
IF YOU LOVE TOO SUCK ON SHEMALES ARE YOU GAY, OR JUST KINKY. FROM A NON GAY PERSON POINT OF VIEW:frown::innocent::turnon: ANY INSIGHTS TOO THIS ONE :innocent::coupling:

For luvmedo only
{for starting this thread, which dehumanises us ts's & suggests we are fakes}

"Yes that is a penis,
& yes that does make you gay"

...carry on.

undercover faggot 07-23-2010 11:19 AM

now ladies, being hypocrites just isn't sexy.

i'm a real person, and i'm ok with the fact that i like an occasional penis in my mouth. i'm also ok with the fact that sucking on another man's cock is considered gay sex, whether they have lipstick and fake tits or not.

you can call it whatever you want, and "blah, blah, blah" about labels. you are just in denial, and putting me down for being honest. you can't hide in your own little universe forever.

smc 07-23-2010 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by undercover faggot (Post 153100)
now ladies, being hypocrites just isn't sexy.

i'm a real person, and i'm ok with the fact that i like an occasional penis in my mouth. i'm also ok with the fact that sucking on another man's cock is considered gay sex, whether they have lipstick and fake tits or not.

you can call it whatever you want, and "blah, blah, blah" about labels. you are just in denial, and putting me down for being honest. you can't hide in your own little universe forever.

It's notable that you did not quote any particular posts in writing this, perhaps to avoid any individual from taking exception and coming back after your post. By "ladies," do you mean only some members who have posted in this thread?

More notable though, is that by not quoting any particular post, you render your opinion rather useless. Who is hiding in whose universe? All of us? Point to the specific post.

As for the use of the word "considered" in your post. Everyone should keep in mind that just because something is "considered" to be something doesn't make it true. The world was once "considered" to be flat.

aw9725 07-23-2010 11:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by undercover faggot (Post 153100)
now ladies, being hypocrites just isn't sexy.

i'm a real person, and i'm ok with the fact that i like an occasional penis in my mouth. i'm also ok with the fact that sucking on another man's cock is considered gay sex, whether they have lipstick and fake tits or not.

you can call it whatever you want, and "blah, blah, blah" about labels. you are just in denial, and putting me down for being honest. you can't hide in your own little universe forever.


So you are saying that a transwoman is a man with “lipstick and fake tits”? Sounds like it to me.

The members of this forum are the least of your problems… I don’t think that you will be able to hide in your own little universe forever. :lol:

undercover faggot 07-23-2010 01:53 PM

so now two men sucking each others dicks isn't gay sex? how delusional. then you want to imply that i'm the one who is being dishonest with myself? trust me, i'm the one dealing with the real world.

aw9725 07-23-2010 01:59 PM

Christ, not another one! I've said what I have to say. I'll let others respond to your "lipstick and tits" comment if they want to. :cool:

Dougcair 07-23-2010 02:22 PM

Does liking shemales make you gay?
 
I am straight and I love shemales! Thank god for these lovely ladies!

smc 07-23-2010 02:26 PM

At issue in the exchange between undercover faggot and others in the posts from today is ungendering.

On this board, we make a point of respecting each and every person's right to self-determination of her or his gender identity.

undercover faggot wrote: "i'm also ok with the fact that sucking on another man's cock is considered gay sex, whether they have lipstick and fake tits or not." In doing so, and in the context of his other posts, undercover faggot has decided for others their gender identity. It may be the case that someone undercover faggot has sucked who has "lipstick ... and fake tits" identifies as a man. That is fine. But to imply that anyone with those attributes (however "fake tits" might be defined) is ungendering.

To defend one's ungendering by resorting to personal attacks and insults on other members, rather than discussing the issues -- even very, very sharply -- typically speaks volumes about how defensible the attacker's position really is.

send.the.love 07-24-2010 12:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by undercover faggot (Post 153116)
so now two men sucking each others dicks isn't gay sex? how delusional. then you want to imply that i'm the one who is being dishonest with myself? trust me, i'm the one dealing with the real world.

Lets be honest here...you're trolling. I mean if you think otherwise, obviously you're in a state of denial. ;)

diknut 07-24-2010 10:36 AM

i love pussy aswell as cwd so i dont think it makes you gay for me male attention is unwanted and i would proberly knock them out if it ever arose

smc 07-24-2010 10:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by diknut (Post 153211)
i love pussy aswell as cwd so i dont think it makes you gay for me male attention is unwanted and i would proberly knock them out if it ever arose

Now that's an unadmirable response to attention -- "knock them out" -- if ever I saw one. Beware!

bean 07-24-2010 11:27 AM

I'm not into guys, I prefer to see a Beautiful women on the end of the dick I'm sucking. I love sucking cock and I enjoy being a bottom the more I do it.
So I guess I'm gay, so I say who gives a S**T, I'm having a great time

aw9725 07-24-2010 01:12 PM

Found this and thought it might be "required reading" for this thread: http://ezinearticles.com/?Does-Datin...Gay?&id=906471 :)

aw9725 07-24-2010 03:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by diknut (Post 153211)
i love pussy aswell as cwd so i dont think it makes you gay for me male attention is unwanted and i would proberly knock them out if it ever arose

"Knock them out"? Why would you want to hurt them? I obviously can’t speak for everyone but I workout a lot and I am not offended if a gay man admires my physique. Last night my GF and I went to a bar with a gay and a lesbian couple and I had quite a few “admirers.” Of course it could be the Harley... ;)

mrallen9898 07-24-2010 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Bionca (Post 60633)
This gets asked lots. So much so I have 2 brief answers...

1) Does it matter if it makes you gay? If so, why?

2) It boils down to how you view Trans*women. Are they women who have/had a penis, or are they men with tits?

You tell the truth; I've always felt a ladyboy, Tgirl, or shemale was 100% mentally a woman and treated them that way with respect and kindness just as you would a "so called" normal woman. Speaking frankly I've felt more loved by my Tgirl then by any woman.

The Conquistador 07-24-2010 07:48 PM

No. A lady with a cock is like the embodiment of "opposites attract". It should not be there, but it is and it is very pleasing to look at. Think like magnetic levitation or a platypus. Or even an intricate animation with psychadelic colors like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCqZC...eature=related

JodieTs 07-25-2010 05:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kilgoretrout (Post 60601)
I have been with 4 shemales and really enjoyed it. It was all oral.

It is odd, I do not think I could do the same with a regular male, though I know technically it is the same. While I love being around shemales, I find gay males bothersome.

So I am a bit confused

It has caused some conflict for me.

Yes I have a penis
& yes
that does make you gay.




[threads like this,
call out transsexual persons as male, in the eyes of the OP'.
Which is why I post replies like this
....here, have some head-fuck, back]

smc 07-25-2010 07:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JodieTs (Post 153299)
Yes I have a penis
& yes
that does make you gay.




[threads like this,
call out transsexual persons as male, in the eyes of the OP'.
Which is why I post replies like this
....here, have some head-fuck, back]

But Jodie, you're presuming the OP reads, or reads the entire post. Meanwhile, other people read it and it spurs these inane threads. :frown:

ila 07-25-2010 08:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JodieTs (Post 153299)
Yes I have a penis
& yes
that does make you gay.




[threads like this,
call out transsexual persons as male, in the eyes of the OP'.
Which is why I post replies like this
....here, have some head-fuck, back]

Thanks, Jodie. I really enjoy your replies. :respect:

JodieTs 07-25-2010 04:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ila (Post 153314)
Thanks, Jodie. I really enjoy your replies. :respect:

Thanks.
I'm happy to give my perception and to entertain,
roughly in equal proportions!

J Dizzle 07-29-2010 04:41 AM

Hell no it's not gay, maybe a littlebi but thats just fun.
I :heart: lady :turnon:

alyssaluxor 07-29-2010 01:11 PM

you are Gay! lol

uhmmm!

:coupling:

kisses
Alyssa Luxor

smc 07-29-2010 05:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by alyssaluxor (Post 153731)
you are Gay! lol

uhmmm!

:coupling:

kisses
Alyssa Luxor

If I had the delightful opportunity to be in bed with you, Alyssa, and someone burst in and yelled, "smc, you're gay!," I would gladly embrace the label (assuming I was even paying attention to anything other than your absolute deliciousness). Who the hell cares about labels?!

outofmymind 07-29-2010 11:57 PM

No. It's not gay. A shemale is a woman so no it's not gay.

outofmymind 07-29-2010 11:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smc (Post 153799)
If I had the delightful opportunity to be in bed with you, Alyssa, and someone burst in and yelled, "smc, you're gay!," I would gladly embrace the label (assuming I was even paying attention to anything other than your absolute deliciousness). Who the hell cares about labels?!


You read my mind. :respect::respect:

alyssaluxor 07-30-2010 02:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by outofmymind (Post 153841)
You read my mind. :respect::respect:

Quote:

Originally Posted by smc (Post 153799)
If I had the delightful opportunity to be in bed with you, Alyssa, and someone burst in and yelled, "smc, you're gay!," I would gladly embrace the label (assuming I was even paying attention to anything other than your absolute deliciousness). Who the hell cares about labels?!

thanks sweeties actually im just joking and trying to break the ice :hug:

:coupling:

outofmymind 07-30-2010 02:33 AM

Break the ice?

You're an absolutley gorgeous woman.

To see such a perfect girl as you be so down to earth is a huge turn on.

If only we could meet Alyssa.

JodieTs 08-09-2010 03:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bionca (Post 60633)
2) It boils down to how you view Trans*women.
Are they women who have/had a penis,
or are they men with tits?

  • You men will look at us as women who have/had a penis
  • Your wife/girlfriend will look at us as men with tits

CI_Mahon 08-10-2010 04:55 PM

I'm sure this has already been said but I just thought I would post my view as well.
and personally I don t think liking shemales makes you gay, but so what if it does who cares!! I consider myself bi because I like women, guys and shemales, but you can call me what you like personally I don t mind.

no1000 08-12-2010 12:47 PM

I'm right there with you OP. Just do whatever makes you feel happy and fuck what everyone else does/thinks/says.

cherrboi89 08-12-2010 12:59 PM

i think being gay is that you like the same sex. therefore if you believe shemales are guys then your are gay. I had the same thoughts about am i gay but then realized that i wasn't. I like girls and probably would take them over shemales.

TigerDragon 09-16-2010 04:45 AM

Nail on the head
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Amy (Post 60779)
To be gay you need an openly recognisable sexual attraction to male characteristics. And I mean the whole nine yards. A gay man won't be attracted to mtf transexuals because of the female characteristics they openly display. A BISEXUAL man may do, because he finds female and male characteristics sexually attractive.
Whether you consider yourself straight or bisexual also can tie in to how much respect you show for trans women as well. If you think of them as women, respecting their sense of gender identity, then you think of yourself as straight. if you think of them as something in-between, then you most likely at least partly see yourself as bisexual, whereas if you see them as men, well, I don't think anyone fits that definition of both being attracted to them and seeing them as men.

Amy, you have described it, the way I view transexual girls. In their heart, mind and soul, they are without doubt a woman. I was so confused for so long, being attracted to a t/g?!! But, you are so right. You know within yourself if you are bi, gay, straight or a t/g lover! And, if it is not hurting yourself or anyone else...so what? Live and love.

TigerDragon 09-16-2010 05:17 AM

true love?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gor Gar (Post 109060)
Yes, I feel guilty some of the time, but not because I chalk it up to some sort of sin or anything along any religious lines. I used to work in an outpatient mental health facility, and we would sometimes get people in there suffering from sexual identity crisis, sometimes showing up crossdressing (and failing pretty miserably at being "convincing") and those particular cases were almost all brought on by sexual abuse at a very young age. Likewise, I have a male cousin who longs to be a lady, swearing and declaring he was born with the wrong plumbing, and yet he too suffered sexual abuse when he was very young.

So the main reason I sometimes feel guilty is because I feel like I just might be "cashing in" on somebody else's trauma. I don't know how or why all of these t-girls are or rather become what they are...the life decisions that have brought them to the point where I'm seeing pics or videos of them...but the nagging thought in the back of my mind is: "*What if* they were molested and/or abused? Am I feeding into their emotional turmoil?" In other words, I sometimes think I'm digging on exploitation of a deeper issue, and deriving pleasure out of somebody else's misfortune is simply not cool.

Another reason I feel guilty is that I sometimes think I'm doing nothing more than bullshitting myself. Every so often a "before" pic will hit the internet of a t-girl, and that kind of reality check is like a slap to the face. The way I see it is: I would never in a million years find a man attractive, but shave his body, grow his hair out, slap on some make-up and boobs, and suddenly I'm like "Oh what a beautiful woman!" Bullshit...I'm drooling over a guy that's had some work done. I'm not saying that is how I truly feel all of the time, just some of the time when I'm in those moments of guilt. Why? Who knows. Like our attractions, we can't always control our thoughts on things either, no matter how invasive they can be at times.

Gar Gor, you are like me and think too much. If you love the person, and 'she' was born with a bit more plumbing? So what! Does it really matter at the end of the day? I was raised a strict Catholic, right is right, wrong is wrong, no black & white...yet there is! I have found that t/g girls are what they beleive, in their minds, hearts and souls. What right have we to have our guilt trip upon them?! It is almost like judging them. Anyway, enough said. Your heart is probably in the right place, just don't think too much!:respect:

hankhavelock 09-16-2010 08:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by trannycrazy (Post 37742)
Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on.

No guilt, only pride...

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bionca (Post 60633)
It boils down to how you view Trans*women. Are they women who have/had a penis, or are they men with tits?

Bingo! As spoken by myself :-)

valentinetabitha 09-16-2010 10:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RobbyPants (Post 140023)
Guilty? No, although it's not something I broadcast. The only other person who knows I do is my wife. Even then, I don't really talk to her about it.

I feel guilty, but only because I haven't told my wife. She knows I'm bisexual, but that's the extent of it. Given that she's very conservative, I've decided that this is one of those things she just doesn't need to know about.

Still, I've told friends, but only ones that live out of state.

yumyum 09-16-2010 11:30 AM

I like T-girls. I like what I like. I can't help it. And I don't feel ashamed in the slightest. Not with myself anyway.

Sure, I might get embarrassed if my mum caught me sucking a girls dick but there you go. And I don't run around telling everyone in the world. But at the end of the day, how can you feel guilty for liking something that you like.

Jayshawn! 09-16-2010 01:04 PM

i did at first but i dont feel guilty about any of the porn i like, im not the only one who likes and i already like i cant change that so theres no point in feeling guilty about it, as long as your happy with yourself thats all that matters.

new believer 09-16-2010 01:54 PM

fair question
 
Good point about bringing up porn. But unnecessary. We really shouldn't equate porn and Trannyism(is that even a word?) Just like in the 'normal'(sic) world, many folk like porn, many more (?) do not. I may not be a TG, but I'll wager many do like porn and many don't.

As far as for the initial question, I may feel guilty about liking porn, but not about TG's.

joh 09-17-2010 07:56 AM

yes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by trannycrazy (Post 37742)
Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on. I know i do from time to time. I've been into ladyboys since i was a teenager, I'm now 28. Every once in a while i start to feel bad and guilty for liking T-Girls and i try to just look at regular porn, but most of the time it does nothing for me, I just have to come back to shemale porn. As i say it doesn't happen very often just now and then, Just wanted to know if anyone experiences the same kind of thing.

I do to sometimes I don't watch much porn but I have with many all pre ops and have had girl friends all tops that is the only way to go:turnon:

joh 09-17-2010 08:38 AM

I don't know
 
I don't know I know once a man has been with a shemale and fell in love with her and worshiped big cock the bond is very strong and being with a g girl doesn't compare

Joh:turnon:

mysteryorchid 09-19-2010 05:18 AM

To me the love of shemales is the love of both worlds.... makes me bisexual.... and proud ! :coupling:

gregg 09-24-2010 06:20 PM

I love women and men,but t girls most of all!! I guess I'm bi but who cares it is just a label.

Baron Von Bangkok 09-25-2010 09:36 AM

I've been in a relationship with a Laotian ladyboy for over two years and i'm still not sure how to answer this question. I know i'm not straight thats for sure, she also agrees with this. I'm rarely sexualy attracted to genetic females nowdays but on the other hand i've never been attracted to men.
Until they come up with a term to label me i'm just you're average human, be it one who's willing to fulfil his sexual destiny.

smc 09-25-2010 11:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Baron Von Bangkok (Post 159421)
I've been in a relationship with a Laotian ladyboy for over two years and i'm still not sure how to answer this question. I know i'm not straight thats for sure, she also agrees with this. I'm rarely sexualy attracted to genetic females nowdays but on the other hand i've never been attracted to men.
Until they come up with a term to label me i'm just you're average human, be it one who's willing to fulfil his sexual destiny.

I like the last part of your last sentence, but the part about "they" coming up with a "term to label" you seems unnecessary. Who the hell cares how "they" label you, or me, or anyone else?! You've already given your self the "label": human.

Baron Von Bangkok 09-26-2010 07:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smc (Post 159438)
I like the last part of your last sentence, but the part about "they" coming up with a "term to label" you seems unnecessary. Who the hell cares how "they" label you, or me, or anyone else?! You've already given your self the "label": human.

As a human i think it has become normal to want to categorise everything. Look at the vast number of musical genres for example. It would be great if everyone could accept eachother for who they are but people need a name. Gay/straight/bisexual but nothing for the vast number of people with the same sexual interests as ourselves. It would save me having to get into pointless conversations with people who have never met anyone whose primary sexual appetite revolves around transgenderism.
Just give me a label and i'll move along. Otherwise this gay/straight debate on such forums will go on forever and ever.

sunghung25 09-27-2010 12:55 AM

Neg
 
Nope i love pussy but i also like a chick with a big dick haha

luvigne 11-20-2010 07:55 PM

I tend not to use "labels" but I don't think I'm gay for liking shemales

I am attracted to both women and shemales but I am not attracted to men. Although on the rare occasion I do find I get turned on by a guys cock, but not the man whose cock it is...

I like women and cocks. I am straight with a cock fetish :yes:

sosed 11-21-2010 08:28 AM

I'm not interested in males, so I'm not gay. I'm interested in females, be it genetic girls or t-girls. It is not so important what she have between her legs, but that she is a girl in bed and in everyday life and that I could treat her as a girl. Even a genetic girl, who want to be more male than I am, is not what I wish.

bosbes 11-21-2010 04:30 PM

And even if it makes you gay, sow what?

As already stated in this thread, its just how you look at it. My love for shemales doesnt have anthing to do with males... its just that i love some cock now and then :turnon: ;) OK, guys have them to, but they cant turn me on at all!

OMG 11-22-2010 04:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by luvigne (Post 165055)
I tend not to use "labels" but I don't think I'm gay for liking shemales

I am attracted to both women and shemales but I am not attracted to men. Although on the rare occasion I do find I get turned on by a guys cock, but not the man whose cock it is...

I like women and cocks. I am straight with a cock fetish :yes:


Yep, what he said .

tsfever 11-22-2010 08:49 PM

I know many men look at this thread and wonder about their sexuality. Think of it this way:

1) You might be gay. If you like men you like men ... COOLIO! I personally do not think being attracted to a T-girl is a "gateway drug"...lol

2 You might be Straight. I personally feel this way. I LOVE gg's and very passable Tg's. If I really had to "Frued" myself I'd say it is because I am a Sub in bed...... so what better than a TG?

3) You are neither and both. You like what you like. Men, Girls, T-girls.... Nuthing wrong with that either!


You are who you are. You like what you like. None of this "makes " you gay, straight or otherwise,

Spend your time enjoying what you enjoy, instead of worrying about the "label" you need to attach to yourself.

We are all gonna die , so you got this life.... enjoy it!!!:cool:


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