I have posted extensively on this topic as I have come to terms with it myself. No you are not "gay." And yes, Rob Halford is awesome! Priest rule! :cool:

Not definately not Gay. Attraction and whatever that follows with members of the same sex can be considered gay, but we are attracted to a third sex, that is not similar to us.:inlove:

to quote butter from sp " I guess everyone is a little bi-curious" I love females n shemales the do my nuts in but i don't like guys not into it, i guess u have to look into how u feel, gay guys like guys and not anythong related to females, now if u cross dress but u like girls, is that gay, well is not as you just like to dress up cuase u like it, so if u like shemales are u gay, well i think the answer to that is evey simple ask this question and answer it

do you like females? y/n if u answer no u gay if u say yes then u not
do you like men? y/n if u answer yes u gay if u say no then u are not
do you like shemales? y/n if u answer yes ur nit gay if you said no then u don't know what y missing out on

I realize that only gays can answer this question......

thefuturesexual ?

I would like to point out that this is quite innacurate. I answered "yes" to question two, yet I am not gay.

well i meant it as sexual not as if i like men in general, is just putting a bit of common sense. I hate point the obvious so i will re-post the Q&A

Please take in mind that i am referring to sexual attraction e.g. you will actually like to have sexual experience

do you like females? y/n if u answer no u gay if u say yes then u not
do you like men? y/n if u answer yes u gay if u say no then u are not
do you like shemales? y/n if u answer yes ur nit gay if you said no then u don't know what y missing out on

why label yourself? who cares

No, never why i have tofeel guilty or bad for somethig that i like, or you feel guilty because you like the chocolat ice cream, or the comedy movies, while you don´t to take advantage, to hurt, or do something ilegall, i don´t have to fell guilty.

You are who you are, and so what!

Why does it matter?

This is so idiotic ppl lets move on

No, you are not gay if you want to suck shemales. I´m not attracted by men at all, but I love trannies, ladyboys and femboys.

CuriousGirl, I like your style :D

Your phrase "with every boundary crossed" is a good one. That's how I felt it - not guilt but some sense of breaking a taboo in my "regular" world. It fades quickly, though. It is a boundary thing - I'm comfortable now liking what I like. Which isn't to say I'm comfortable broadcasting things which would likely cause me difficulty in my "regular" world...

I don't feel guilty whatsoever. Why would I? There is nothing at all wrong with being attracted to a beautiful woman.:)

Hi! I'm new to this forum, but i thought i'd start here in this thread. I don't feel any guilt about loving Tgirls- why should i? I can't help what i do and don't like so why should i worry about it? I consider myself bisexual. I adore how women look- no man can compare to a woman's beauty (not even Johnny Depp!), but I prefer a penis to a vagina and flat chests to big boobs, so Tgirls are perfect for me! :)

I don't like labels, but i would have to say that when it comes to my sexuality i would say i'm "trisexual"- i'll try anything! ;)

Seriously though, i consider myself bisexual. I'm not a 50-50 mix (so few are), but i could never say i'm straight as i love cock too much! I prefer the overall look of a woman- from her face to her shape, smell etc, but i have always preferred cocks to pussy. I love pussy, especially unshaven, but cocks are so much more fun! So a Tgirl is for me, the best of both worlds: the beauty of a woman with the best bit of a man!

As for considering oneself "straight" whilst loving Tgirls... i can understand that to a point. Even the most well endowed of Tgirls is more "female" than the sum of her "male" part as far as attraction goes for admirers, but ask any "regular" straight guy if he'd suck a cock if it was attached to Halle Berry or Beyonce and he'd probably say no!

I guess i agree with most here. I don't consider it gay or straight. I don't consider myself gay or straight. But, i do consider myself very sexually open minded and T girls are very very sexy. I love who they are.

Are you gay for liking shemales? The age old question, with a simple answer...no.

In the context of a genetic male with feminine desires, when I have sex with another man, I'll dress the part...express myself emotionally as a woman, as well as sexually adopt the role of women.

The men I'm with want to be with me because I am (in part) a woman. If you are a man who loves the female form (although slightly altered), then you are not gay.

only tgirl

men ohhh nooooo

For me a shemale/transsexual girl represent the ideal woman.They use be more feminine and sexy than manny real women these days.

I am a "T-Lover"
 

Interesting to see how old these posts are! I remember reading Bionca’s response to “ShowMeLove” long before I was a member here and I thought what she said was right on. I know that it helped me to better understand my own feelings and what I was going through in my life at the time.

We are about to enter a new decade--hopefully this will at last be the start of the “21st century.” The last two centuries have been largely about physical, mechanical, and electronic discoveries. Human beings are amazingly complex and we are only just beginning to understand some of the events that occur as we develop. I have always believed that our next real breakthroughs will occur as we look inward. The Human Genome project was just the start.

I have only been aware of my attraction to trans women for about two or three years now. Although “open minded” I too have gone through the same questioning of my sexuality that others have gone through. I read the posts in the “If U Like Shemales R U Gay?” thread and find myself hoping that these individuals will come to understand their feelings just as I have mine and realize that the beautiful “shemales” they are attracted to are indeed women--as are their trans co-workers or friends. Is it really so hard to accept that a person could be born female and yet have external male genitals or vice versa? Science is only now learning what goes on during those nine months and I believe that someday we will come to a more enlightened view of human sexuality and not be so quick to place labels on who or what we are.

As the year ends I find myself doing quite well; I have a terrific career, a beautiful new ladyfriend, and of course my many new friends on this forum with whom I have been able to share something very special.

Happy New Year to all! :cool:

Here is my long, highly personal and slightly boring answer. I guess I'm just expressing myself for the sake of it as I think we all realise that the OP is suffering from minor embarrassment and mild self-disgust because he enjoys something that he was brought up to disapprove of. Looks like natural attraction is a stronger force that cultural prejudices!

Drugs, sex, relationships - we all grow up with ideas about these things without having experienced them ourselves. We have learnt, from family, peers, or the media, particular prejudices against certain things and against certain members of society, who are stigmatized. I think virtually everyone would agree with that as it seems self-evident.

Like many people, I have tried to flush those prejudices from my mind. I try to question everything I hear and reach a conclusion on my own. If I lack the experience to form a conclusion, I rely on a trustworthy source until I can attain that experience.

Strip away your prejudices and everyone is equal.

If everyone is equal, the question isn't why do some people like TS girls; the question is why doesn't everyone like TS girls?

Actually, the real question is why do many people actively dislike and ridicule TS girls? What have the girls done to deserve it except to simply be themselves?

I grew up being attracted to girls. Some TS girls look exactly like genetic girls, so I am attracted to them. That seems perfectly natural - only the prejudices of society make it seem otherwise. In my case, that's why a straight man can become a TS girl lover. It broadened my horizons; I woke up to myself. Now a TS girl doesn't have to look exactly like a genetic girl (with one obvious difference) to be attractive to me.

Why should I be turned off because TS girls have a penis? Penis' aren't disgusting - I have one!

For reasons I don't understand, I don't seem to be attracted to men, sexually. I like the idea of it, so I guess that in the right circumstances I could go all the way with a man. I hope so - I want to experience everything life has to offer.

I don't want to limit my experiences because of the prejudices of my society. Doing that would reinforce those prejudices, and I'd be disappointed with myself if I did that.

TS girls are individuals, so I'm not attracted to all just as I'm not attracted to all women. And it's not because they have or don't have a penis that I am attracted to someone.

^

its the case of "discrimination" I guess...

but for me as long as I live well I dont mind them ;)

im personally not attracted to men, but i like women with dicks.
not gay to me ;)

I have a Filipina TS girlfriend, but if I had to pick a label, as restricting as they are, I'd identify myself as a straight man.

Sexuality isn't confined to whether the person you like has a cock or a pussy; it's the whole package. I am attracted to femininity, and I even sometimes wonder if the juxtaposition of a cock and an attractive woman enhances her femininity. For example, my girlfriend is petite, feminine, gentle, and when I'm snuggled up against her soft, smooth skin, stroking her long hair, and smelling her flowery perfume, it never crosses my mind that she was born a boy... she's a girl who happens to have a cock. If anything, it seems to bring us closer together in the sense that we are opposites - me being a big, burly bloke, and she a girly girl - but we have our sexual parts in common, and we can please each other in the same way.

To further demonstrate what I'm getting at, take a look at some gay porn - my feeling is that the sight of hard, hairy fellas with short haircuts, banging the hell out of each other in jockstraps will be a massive turn off. Next, take a look at some pictures of a TS male with a beard, pecs, skin-head and pussy. He was born a girl right? Bet you don't think it's 'straight' to fancy him, which leads to the logical conclusion that it's not 'gay' to fancy transsexual women.

I think that our biggest problem is others' perceptions of us. Only a few close, liberally-minded friends know the full extent of my relationship. Others know that I have a Filipina girlfriend, which isn't a lie, but they don't know the full story. If our relationship continues and we decided to settle together in the UK, I know there will be a shit-storm, and I could lose a few relatives and friends over it. I'm also sure there will be some hate, and some ignorant whispers of "Did you know Jay is gay?" behind my back. I just hope I'm strong enough to rise above it, support my lovely girl, and stay true to myself.

Your story should be an inspiration to others on the Forum. Thank you for sharing it with all of us.:respect:

I like shemales, is that wrong?
 

I like the looks of shemales, I find it erotic.

But Im straight, I like girls and I've never find guys attractive, but why do I find shemales attractive?

Am I really gay, but I think Im Straight?
Am I Bi? Or Am I just a normal straight guy with fetishes?

Look! from my personal exp., You are not GAY! as you said. Because you don't fancy male, obviously. For myself, I have a ladyboys(post-op) fiancee. I've been into ladyboys since ever, these girls are the coolest living human-being ever. If you interest in faminine people (shemales, ladyboys, women) then you're not gay!. My family doesn't like the idea of gay things too, Its bugging me too... so don't worry, be the person you are! don't care what others said! you are what you are and no one can take that away from you!

IN MY OPINION,

as long as you didnt get a hard-on on straight guys that so masculine, then you dont have to question your sexuality... coz you are just attracted to us, shemales, because of feminine beauty.

and I agree with others too... as long as you are not harming anyone then just ignore what others will tell you... the right thing is youre happy :)

I have a question and im fuken confused
 

im not gay, im not attracted to masculine men, i hate their voices and the way that they look .

i never want to be fucked , i dont even want a girl near my ass.


but i got attracted to this tgirl named "doll" from texas,

is this wrong, is anybody else like me, that is straight but likes to look at shemales from time to time.





is this wrong? ...


plz discuss

I agree with you about the nature of shemales. And I also think that a man who is attracted by shemales is not gay, because they are not men! At most, I think I'm bisexual because I like girls, but I also like tgirls!!
Beginner

"Am i gay?"

That question is asked on alot of forums , let me ask a question.

"What do you think ?"

Your opinion should be the only one that matters , but i know all to well that pressure and judgement from society and family can make things harder than they need to be.

At the end of the day just be happy and live for yourself because you can't please everyone. Love and be loved ... be happy everyone.

Thank you! What you think and what you say is exactly what happens with me. I am portuguese,much older than you; my ts girlfriend is also portuguese and a liittle older than your filipina girlfriend. Those are the only differences! It is very good to find someone who feels and thinks like we do. Not that I ever thought that my love for a shemale woud make me gay, but that makes my belliefs stronger.
Beginner

You said it, baby:kiss:.
IMHO You like what you like. I don't know why some people have to get hung;) up on the whole "am I gay or am I straight" thing. What's wrong with being bi?

If ever there were a bunch of rationalizations for why a man liking cock is not gay, this thread is surely it.

Trans women are women. How can you possibly be “gay” for being attracted to them? If you don’t “get” this, you should read some of the biographies of the models you like. Or some of the postings on this forum. Or look up “gender identity” on the Internet.

I don’t know why this is so hard to understand. Also the “gay/straight” issue shouldn’t matter either--if you are attracted to someone, does it really matter what’s “down there”? However, I understand what many of you are going through because I questioned it myself--was I suddenly “gay”? After a great deal of consideration and reading other people’s posts on forums like this, I concluded that I wasn’t. But if I had decided that I was gay, I would still be “OK” with myself. So, much of it comes back to how you view yourself and who you are attracted to. If you like someone who has a hard, muscular body, or a hairy chest, and they must have a cock, then yes maybe you are gay. If you like all types, and have had sex with both men and women, then you are most likely bi. For myself, I like a very feminine face and body--most female bodybuilders and trans men do not “do it” for me.

Everyone on this forum knows that I would die for Kelly Shore. Also, a few months ago, I listed about 20-30 well known “tgirls” that I really like. And many of you know I was a judge for the 2009 “Tranny Awards.” Just for fun I thought I’d post some pics of a few of my favorite cis women. :drool: Don’t think they need any introduction! I would include a picture of my “ex” but I don’t need any legal problems… :lol:

Questions for the guys: Would you suddenly be “gay” if you found out any of the women below had a penis? How would you feel if you met someone you really were attracted to and discovered her “secret”--would you stop liking her--or would you be OK with it? How would you make love to her if you have only been with cis women? These are essentially the questions I asked myself when I first discovered I liked “tgirls.” Kate Walsh is a very special case as she did in fact play a trans woman on CSI. I wrote about that experience in another post.

Nice post. Worrying about whether you are gay or not seems rather trivial and it only seems like a gimmick by others to make themselves important somehow; as if your purported "gayness" somehow directly affects them in a negative manner.

I think Kate Beckinsale and Jennifer Aniston would look awesome with some "extra" between their legs. :yes::turnon:

Thanks, AngryPostman. I hope that the people posting on here and asking questions about whether or not they are gay learn to accept themselves just the way they are. It's all good!

Maybe one day society will drop this silly idea that we must "label" or "categorize" everything--the real world is much too complex for that...

I meant to include a link to my earlier post where I explain how Kate Walsh is really to blame for all of this... :lol: and also how I first came to be such a big fan of Miss Kelly Shore! :cool:

http://forum.transladyboy.com/showpo...4&postcount=57

I totally understand what many of you are going through--may you each one day come to a better understanding and acceptance of your own sexuality. :respect:

Hey everyone, I was about to ask the question of if it's gay or not to be aroused by ts girls.
Not for the sake of putting myself in a category, just for curiosity, to see what the general opinion is.

I've got a girlfriend (who sometimes puts on a strap-on during sex :turnon:), I am not attracted to men in anyway :turnoff:
I just normally assumed I'd be kind of "bi" due to the whole cock attraction of ts girls? Maybe semi-bi-sexual? :lol:

Does it really matter? I thought I was "normal" until my Thai girlfriend introduced me to the world of "Ladyboys". Now Yao and I can"t get enough. From Mint to Helen they"re all beautiful. WHO ARE YOUR FAVOURITES?

I feel the same way, my mom would not take it 2 well if she found out i was a shemale lover or if she found out that i'm an atheist, my friends in school would probably look at me differently.

Thanks i never looked at it that way.:)

Long mint does have one of the most glorious peanuses i have ever seen on a man or a t girl, it looks yummy.:lol::turnon::turnon::turnon:

I don't feel guilty at all for liking transwomen. If anyone can't accept me or any transwoman that I might be with then that would be that person's problem and not mine and definitely not the lady's problem. I will also not tolerate any disparaging remarks about transwomen. Anyone that shows any intolerance for transwomen (or transmen) or makes disparaging remarks about transpeople in front of me will get an earful of abuse from me. In conclusion I would like to say that I do not feel guilty for liking transwomen and I would be pleased and proud to have a transwoman beside me.

No. I feel no guilt. How could I? Guilt implies that you are doing something ?wrong? or something you are ?ashamed? of. I am not ashamed of being attracted to beautiful women or being seen with a beautiful woman.

Are you afraid of what your friends might say? Then perhaps you need to look inside yourself. Also you might want to find some new friends? ;)

Guilty? no I did for a long time think it was a "kink" or merely a passing phase, and that I was really a good old fashioned hetro boy... what I found out is if you go too far down the path there is NO turning back and it never leaves you.

The way I feel about it is, whether it is a hot girl with a vagina, or a hot girl with a cock, it is the girl I am wanting, not so much of what she has down there.
Seems to me we should feel lucky either way.

Interesting topic I think British Boy's quote was spot on. Being my age I have spent many years wondering the same thing I like TS but I'm not gay but why do I like TS cock? I've been into TS for 10 years plus now. No one knows apart from me & if my GF found out it would bring up some interesting questions, such as why explain the attraction? why haven't you told me before? etc I'm secure enough to a degree that it wouldn't ruin what we have, as she has some lesbian friends - which are now mine too (not that she is that way inclined) Yet if I'm honest its not the right time to tell her because at times I still feel guilty because of the deception as its a dirty secret

The way I ease up on myself is when I'm out even with my gf its the girls I look at not the boys - so that says to me I'm straight

I like tits and ass more than cock, but I like cock more than pussy. I'm attracted to almost 50% of the women/tgirls out there in the world but definitely less than 1% of men. To try and classify myself would be too much of a challenge so I just go with what gets the blood flowing.

i've spoken to a few of my gay friends about this and they assure me that i am not gay for liking shemales. the whole gay/strait thing refers to if you like women or men. since shemales are women, you arent gay

I cant tell you whats right for you but you need to find happiness.

there are way to many "am i gay "questions here too.. you are what you are .... you like what you like.... why are you asking someone else to label you as gay bi straight ....if you need to have a label .....well label yourself..

Very well said.

I agree that that there are way too many questions of this sort on our board; I have posted about this several times in the past. Over time, though, I've come to find them less bothersome. They reflect the tremendous pressure society puts on people who are "different" from what is (wrongly) considered "normal." This forum provides a place for people who are attracted to tgirls not only to explore that attraction but also to engage with others who may have some insights into how to navigate the obstacles and prejudices society throws their name.

I believe that if by providing a place to do that this forum helps anyone, even a single person, to embrace himself or herself as he or she really is, we have made the world a better place. The price -- a lot of threads about labels, and even a lot chock full of rationalizations with which some of us may not agree -- is a small one to pay.

I am not here to judge you.. your sexual preference is your own business and i will not like or dislike you for what you are sexually... if you question if you are bi /gay/straight ...i say sure feel free to ask but the only person that can truly answer that is you. you can get good advice here but you must explore your inner most thoughts and desires and if you must have a label it has to come from within.:innocent:

I don't know what is it about a woman with a dick but I know it drives me wild and the thought of sticking my cock in one drives me insane, just hope one day it will become a reality and not just a thought in my head !!!!Does that make me gay ........ I don't think so !!


Ladyboys all the way, I would never let a man put his cock but would gladly let a ladyboy stick her stiff cock deep inside me, infact I dream of the day this happens

,,, in a word NO,,,
 

only you can know if you're gay or not... fuck labels,,,go w/what's in your head,, how YOU think and feel is all that matters...

My Label: STRAIGHT: I love Girls and T-Gurls with straight cocks ---LOL
 

:turnon:Come on --give me hand here.

If you like girls only then you are straight :yes:
If you like guys only then you are gay :no:
If a girl likes a girl then you are a lesbian :yes:
If a guy like girls and guys then he is Bi- :no:
If you think that T-Gurls are girls with a cock (like I do) then you must still therefor be straight---right??? :inlove::hug::turnon:

Of course if you like girls, guys and T-gurls you should always be getting lucky.

This is clearly the definition of someone to whom it is important that you be identified as straight.

There are many, many threads and posts about this topic. The bottom line from those of us who are comfortable with our sexuality is this:

WHO CARES ABOUT THESE LABELS!!!

EXactly!!!!!!! if you like girl penis ... are you gay??? I dunno .... i like girl penis... am i gay... i dont think i am .... i dont want a mans penis... but what if i am gay .. so what .....other people dont have to know what you like.... who you like... its not like you have to put bi/gay/straight on your drivers license or your library card. Deep down inside you know what you are.. so embrace it and live life....today could be your last day on this earth... stop labeling and start living!!!

well, the way i think of it is like this. i like soft female beings. i love tits in all shapes and sizes. and i love them being delicate. all these things i can get from a female or a shemale. the difference, some may say penis others a really large clitors. the bottom line, thinking a human being is beautiful and getting sexualy aroused is alright rather male or female.

I read this thread with interest and tried an experiment. I watched my girlfriends gay porn dvd to see if it aroused me. it didn"t, in fact I felt a little embarrassed by it. Then I watched my copy of "spunk" a Ladyboy masturbation dvd, that got me really hot. I think that proves on the whole Ladyboy lovers are not Gay! They just love chicks with dicks!! Go on give it a try, you may just enjoy it! One day it may be too late.


Hey! We wouldn"t be using this forum if we were Gay! Would we?

This is a fascinating topic, albeit an age-old one. My perspective seems to be a little different from most on here. I completely agree that we should transcend the confines of fitting into a rigid "label", but we will be labelled by others whether we like it or not. Our complex personalities will be simplified into bitesize chunks for ease of use during other people's perceptions of us.

Where my perspective differs is that I know I would be labelled "bisexual" and I'm happy with it. I like men AND women. With women I love the way they look and dress- generally they are MUCH more attractive than guys. But with men i love their cocks, their hairiness. But it's not always the differences between men and women which satisfy my bisexuality- sometimes it's the similar traits. Whilst I love curvy full figured women I tend to prefer women with flat chests to big breasts. I also love muscular legs and hairiness on girls. And whilst I love hairiness on guys, the muscle I find attractive on a girl I find repulsive on a guy. I think for me I love androgeny- the blurring of the line between genders.

T-girls, for me, are the perfect celebration of bisexuality. They represent the best of both worlds. The beauty of a woman matched with the very best bit of a man. Normally I would have to satisfy my bisexuality separately, either with a man or a woman, but a t-girl is everything I could wish for, all in one amazing package! I agree that t-girl admirers vary with their "straightness", and that can be seen in their preferences. Being happily bi I tend to prefer flatchested donkey-dick'd femboys to their bigger breasted sisters, but that's just me.

Bottom line is that how we are labelled sexually doesn't matter, and if we HAVE to labelled, then "t-girl admirers" should be a label itself!

This topic always makes me laugh my ass off. Never do you see such a bravado attempt by men to try to rationalize why they like cock. They will try to paint it up like...It's only cock on a pretty feminine form that I like. Or...I don't like cock on gay men. But the fact of the matter is...Men like cock. That is as gay as it comes. And if for some reason you think you're exempt from this logic...Please, just TRY liking a girl like me for a little while. I guarantee you WILL BE CALLED GAY. So you might as well get over labels or get used to being considered gay, because all of you "t-girl lovers" are a bit gay in my opinion.

SMC, I think it's GREAT that you can admit that to yourself and to another human being. Especially without the normal disclaimers of "as long as it's attached to feminine form."

Because let's face it, most people are NOT interested in a person's "disclaimers." If you like cock, and you're a male, you're gay. It doesn't matter what it's attached to...At least to most people. And I assume that's what most people are REALLY worried about in this thread...And that is, what do MOST people think. And the fact of the matter is, to MOST people, liking ladyboys/shemales makes a person probably gay. Either get used to the label or get over it, that's my motto.

If anyone cares to they can read my other posts on this topic. There seems to be a very diverse range of responses and yes, it does seem like at times, some here are seeking to “rationalize” their desires. I can only speak for myself on this issue but I have never been attracted to men and have only had sex with cis women. I find many transsexual models very attractive and have no problem imagining myself in a relationship with a transwomen someday. I don’t want to disappoint some of you but I really am attracted to the “whole person” and not simply “the cock.” That said, I also find nothing wrong with “being gay” and if that is what it makes me--so be it. Although I don’t believe most gay men would be attracted to someone like Kelly Shore or Camilla Saenz or Victoria Holyns for example. As for the external sex organs involved… I do believe that it is all (for me at least) “in context.” When I see gay porn, I can’t imagine myself fucking or sucking any of the guys in the scene. I can appreciate a handsome or well built man but they just don’t “do it” for me. Sorry! I have seen pictures of Camilla “post op” and she is equally beautiful and sexy with a penis or vagina. It is the “absolutely totally drop-dead gorgeous tall long legged blonde goddess” that I am attracted to. And don’t even get me started on Kelly!

Anyway, this topic is obviously important for many and I myself have wondered the same thing as many of you. Personally, you shouldn’t worry if you are “gay” or “straight” or “bi” or whatever. Someone else here said that by society’s logic we would all be considered “gay.” Well I believe that that “logic” to be faulty--the issues involved are way too complex. But I understand it. I have developed my own plan for “coming out” if you will and have gradually begun to make progress. Since attending our local “Day of Remembrance” last November, I have made friends with several transwomen (and transmen) in our community. I shared my interest with two very good friends over the holidays and my colleagues (I’m a university professor) know I have supported gay rights for many years.

That’s my story. Again. To sum it up, I believe each one of us is unique and that’s why labeling is silly.

Dr. A

And how about you. GRH. I see you're a 'senior LB lover.' :p
There's still the distinction, at least for me, between those
males who genuinely would never have a sexual relationship
with a male and, especially, have no preference for that..
and are not inclined to touch guy's cocks, and who generally
prefer females, but, would play with an LB.
Me.
That 'little bit of dick' is a puzzle.
I take it, for you, the gold standard is guys, perhaps the vast
majority, who'd never touch a cock, period.
We can say they're 'straight'/hetero.
Everything else (all other situations involving cock) is/are 'gay'?

Someone gave me "rep" for my "Taracuda" posting of Tara Emory. Thanks!

I think the pic of her below is one of the sexiest photos I've ever seen--EVER! :drool:

Does being aroused by Tara make me "gay"? I mean, she's got a "cock"! OMG!!! You know, I could care less whether it "makes me gay" or not. But there is an important fact here that many of you who are wondering "if you are gay" are leaving out--transwomen are women.

We are not talking about male "crossdressers" or "drag queens." Although that's OK too. The women I am attracted to are women--period. To see them any other way would be an insult. That applies equally to Kelly Shore as it does to my new friends from the Day of Remembrance or any transwomen on this forum.

Something I wanted to add to my earlier post--I am probably "older" than most of you (late 30's) and discovered this "interest" much later in life. I was already comfortable with my sexuality and had been married for a long time. Even so, I went through the same questioning that many of you posting here are going through. One thing I have learned is that there are many "variations" on what each of us likes. My wish for you is that you will learn to accept who you are. Asking questions is part of learning. I also hope we can all accept each other as we are without "labels"--as I like to say "It's all good!"

Dr. A

I agree, it took a while but I agree. I only want to be with lady-cock, or fem-boys. Just finally said, I don't have any desire for ggs. I want be on the other team. Granted I prefer fem-boy, cross-dressing side. But I am in it for the cock. I

I myself am a gay male but i also love and have been with several shemales

Whats in a name?.......and does it really matter? If some law was passed that decreed that all "shemale lovers/admirers etc" are now to be classed as being "gay" would you suddenly change? Life's too short to worry about titles and being placed in catagories. Accept who you are and if others can't deal with that, just move on,....and most of all,...enjoy living life to the last second. I have the loveliest TS girlfriend and I bless that day that we met and if that makes me gay, I honestly could'nt give a damn!

I am no doubt straight. Although some times when im horny i crave cock from anybody.

A "straight" male that sometimes "craves cock." LMFAO!

Alright im no doubt bi

Isn't that a bit like being a vegetarian who eats meat now and again?

Eats and gets fucked by ''lady meat'' now and again.

:) I've met a few 'straight' guys in the last few years who, it turned out, had quite a liking for 'lady meat' ;)

Does anyone NOT like lady meat??

The vegetarian analogy is actually a very apt one. A lot of the "straight" guys seem to ignore the fact that they have a hankering for cock now and again. It reminds me very much of a self-proclaimed vegetarian who "sometimes eats chicken and fish." That is an issue close to my heart to, as I am in fact a full-fledged vegetarian and never eat meat (though I do eat eggs and cheese...different story there).

I think that's a good analogy too. For the most part I like eating and fucking pussy. But every now and then I sucking and fucking cock. I'd say i'm 75% straight and 25% gay.


The fact is gay men are attracted to other things about men not just his cock. And although i like some slightly masculine shemales, im really just attracted to WOMEN with dicks.

I Have Always Used To Be Ashamed About Being Bisexual But Now I'm Happy With My Sexuality And Am Happy To Tell People I Like Men, Women And Tgirls Etc... For Me Its About The Person Not What Gender They Are ... If I Like Them As A Person Then I Will Most Likely Go For Them

I never had any desire for natal females; it's always been about cock for me. On both men and ladyboys.

BUT as soon as pretty femmeboy tells me she's total TS and wants to have a poon, identifies 100% as a woman, the whole nine yards, I just can't get into her anymore. Can't really explain why, I just don't want to be with a person who's "all woman". If she lived full-time but both loved her cock and considered herself even 10% "male" (as much as personality can be sexed, anyway), then I'm good. Maybe it's weird, but I figure we're into what we're into.

I've read in some sexologist website (from Spain) a story from a man who was a shemale fan, that slept with a real men. He said could enjoy the anal sex only and felt great repulsion when he kissed and huged with him. So I think many men who like cocks, don't like men and they have the sensation of having sex with a woman when they're with shemale (they have soft skin, tits, or maybe the smell). Just in this case she has a cock to penetrate or be sucked isn't?

Maybe you know this site about real girls with plastic prosthesis of penis (huge) and cuming a lot of false semen (and when I mean a lot, it's really a lot)
I don't know if I can say the name of the site entire

at first I thought it was bullshit because I like watching porn with girls (between girl and boy or between girls) and I like shemale porn (maybe most between shemales or between shemale and man)
I said to me, it was stupid to watch action with false penis
and in fact it's not so bad

maybe because girls are pretty and act like non professionnal, just as they find this fun
and they do a lot of rubbing, snoodling, sword fight in these videos
but because 2 fakes plastic cocks, the sword fight isn't exciting ?
in fact, I find it really really exciting
I know they are both girls and we can see her pussies (nice little pussies by the way), watching just the enormous cock doesn't excite me
but when these 2 massive cock touch each other and the girls smile (acting as if they had pleasure), god I've a hard on !

(I precise that I've never been excited watching manga with shemales or hermaphrodites)

curious

to be closer to the discussion I would say
that I love girls, and I'm attracted to shemales

I'm probably curious about bisexuality (I have a big fantasay about "cock to cock"), but even if I find some men nice, in life I'm not attracted to them

I have feelings for girls, can be in love for girls
(can I be in love with a tgirl ? I don't really know, maybe because I consider them more like girls than boys)

would I prefer a transsexual operated or no operated ?
for my fantasy, it has no doubt, I would prefer with her cock

for a relationship with love, in real world ?
even if I lost the pleasure of sex with her cock, I think for my partner happiness, it's better that she has been operated to complete the transformation she always desired

I agree with You. I also have a lovely TS girlfriend and I don't mind what others think. But I somewhat also agree with Franalexes; only that what attracts me in she-males is the SHE with the COCK. And that's the mixture of both that I like. I don't think I'm gay, but if anybody thinks so it just does'nt matter.
Beginner

It is absolutely permissible to mention the name of the site. I assume you are referring to futanaria.com

Thanks for sharing your views of your own attractions. It is posts of this sort that really add to the great discussions that we often have here on the Forum.


Your perspective is both respectful and loving ... a very nice combination. I agree with you wholeheartedly.

Exactly.. I am new here so maybe should tread very carefully but have wondered this often myself recently.

Sure can say labels don't matter and don't want to get fucked in the ass (who does?), but in the end its finding a penis attractive.. IMO there is a gay element to that regardless.

You have probably read my other postings so you know it doesn’t matter to me if you consider yourself gay or straight. But speaking totally for myself, I am attracted to beautiful women. I was married to a beautiful woman and have always dated attractive women. Not men. Never have, and at 39, probably never will. Just to add something to this discussion I thought I’d post a few pics for you to consider. What has intrigued me is how this discussion keeps coming (no pun intended) back to “the cock” rather than the entire person.

The first two are Foxy Angel (one of my all-time favorites) and Mallory from “Mallory’s Feet” (to me a relative newcomer--and one of the cutest and sexiest girls I’ve ever seen). You can’t “see anything” in either picture--both are very beautiful and extremely feminine--most “straight” men would likely be attracted to either one of them. Don’t you think? I know I am!

Now consider the other two pictures. The first is Bev Francis, a champion bodybuilder. She is also the first woman to officially bench press over 300 lbs. When I was a teenager I followed her like I did “Arnold” and others. Anyway, I remember before I could do “300” myself, thinking “How can a girl do this”? :respect:

The last picture is of course Buck Angel, a well known transman and model. He also obviously works out and has a nice physique. I have read several interviews with him and he seems pretty cool.

Both Bev and Buck have vaginas yet I can say with certainty that I am not sexually attracted to either one--although I like and admire both of them. My question for those who keep insisting that we are all closeted gays is: Why is someone "gay" for liking cute, blond, Mallory (or Kelly Shore for instance)? Is it because she has a “cock”? Then is someone who likes muscular, shaven head, Buck, considered “straight” only because he has a “pussy”? Doesn’t make sense…

My own answer is that human sexuality is much too complex to be categorized and actually tends to fall on a continuum. Perhaps we are predominately gay or straight, but in reality, a little of both. Kinsey, I believe first proposed this idea. The following is taken from the American Psychological Association:

I think that applies to most of us. LOL! And I think that most importantly we should learn to accept and celebrate who we are. As I’ve said in other posts, “It’s all good”!

Dr. A

Of course. That's what LBs have (and fems don't.) Otherwise, why would
you bother with an LB?
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Which isn't to say that they don't have, in addition, attractive 'femininity.'

One for the "am I gay" brigade
 

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Enjoy.

Anything that cites Wikipedia as a legitimate source is instantly a joke.

Far too simplistic way of looking at things. I've used Wikipedia writing essays but cross referenced the facts using other sources. If you just use wikipedia then yeah fair enough. Just because there is some garbage on there it doesn't mean it all is.

Gay No!
 

I love beautiful shemales too and I have a girlfriend who by way doesn't mind me looking at shemales. I too have a lot of questions!

which do I prefer?
 

I agree with an earlier statement, most gay men I know are not attracted to anything female, there attraction lies in the male image. I love females, the female form, and I have to be honest, I love cock. I love sucking it, I love have it in me, but I am not really attracted to the stereotypical male image. It is the female form that really turns me on, males that look feminine, are always more attractive to me, then manly men. I have had sex with men, because they have cocks, but it is always the lure of the penis that pulls me in, not the men themselves. So am I a gay? Perhaps but only in a lesbian way, I would think. Who knows.

I don't consider myself gay at all. I can't stand the thought of seeing a male naked. Though, seeing the most "regular" woman with a penis. (Sorry, if I made anyone upset with that statement). But, I hope you get me?

It's a big turn on. Is it because I am attracted to both sexes? Or is it the thought of having both organs on a person? Anyway. It's a turn on! :coupling:

I mean. At times seeing my girlfriend with the strap on. It's the hottest thing ever! I sometimes even get hard without her touching me. It's cute to see her not know what to do at times... "Tell me how do I put this penis in you.." Or she gets tired so quickly..! ha ha


I feel weird at times. Guilty for that matter. The only one who kinda knows I'm into T-Girls is the current lady.

Do I feel guilt about liking TGirls?
 

When I was younger yes I felt guity about it but now that I older and more mature I found out there is nothing to fell guity about it, and finally I came into terms about it. Yes I like T-Girls a lot more than I like G-girls, and there is nothing wrong with it!

i dont think i feel guilty as much as confused. i haven't been with a t-women before, but when i see the pics or videos i really want to. they seem to really desire the ones there with, of course there are some who seem in pain because of the very large penis in their backside, but when there being hugged and kissed they look like they enjoy it( their large clits gets large and hard). women on the other hand, you can never tell. they can yell and scream but some times its just false. so why are they faking, what are they doing it for, they're not really enjoying themselves are they? so for me i find t-women more honest with what they want.

Guilty? No, although it's not something I broadcast. The only other person who knows I do is my wife. Even then, I don't really talk to her about it.

First of all, I think that whether 'it makes you gay' or not is not important. Having said that, IMO a guy and a TS are a man and a woman, simple as that. So I don't see how that would be a gay relationship. Look at the pictures below of girls and their men making love: does that look like gay sex to you?