We don't live in a binary world, there's plenty between 0 and 1, i.e. hetero and gay. Life gets much easier when you stop pushing yourself into a single -perceived- niche.

I Like Everything I Like !!
 

I was sitting upstairs in a bar the other night in Bangla Road, Patong trying to get some decent pictures for my blog. Suddenly a waitress appeared and pointed out onto the street. "Ladyboys!", she said in a warning tone. "I know", I replied.

"You Like?" she said a little taken aback. "I like everything I like" I responded. That's the truth - and presently includes Ladies & Ladyboys (Pre & Post Op) but not Men.

I've had the same discussion with friends of mine who also have similar interests and the short answer is that none of us believe we are gay. Having said that we don't care what anyone else thinks of us either. Accept us or take a hike is our motto.

My view is that I always take the most beautiful/sexiest whatever. Here in Thailand the Ladyboys are always sexier than the ladies - they just have a particular look and/or are more extrovert or (frequently) have a better build match for the average European.

My other friends who say they are only into ladies have had to agree that Ladyboys are incredibly sexy. So, who's kidding themself. Not me.

I don't consider myself as gay. Possibly, bi-sexual but generally don't even think about it.

Am I Happy? Oh Yes!

For me the process started with a fetish for anal sex. In MF porn I mean. Then kinda got bored of it, so decided to try kinkier stuff-A2M and rimming. One heavenly day while looking at some rimming pics I glanced upon a shemale being rimmed. With that cock of hers erect in full glory and the guy with a raging hard on too, something clicked in my head. Its been two glorious years of whacking off to erect ladyboy cocks. My fetish is to one day lick of my anal juices off my shemale lover's cock and to look deep into her eyes while doing it.....
Sigh when will the day come?

I started looking at shemales when some friends played a prank on me and left shemale porn on my computer. I saw the images and pretended to be in disguist but really enjoyed the images. My love for shemales is a mix of what everyone else has already said.

On a non sexual level, shemales use to be male, so they have some of the tougher characteristics of males - yet also the grace and sensetivity of women. Intellectually knowing what men want to is a HUGE bonus.

I also cannot deny I like cock. I've been hit on by some gay men, one of them very feminine, but have turned all of them down. I live in an area that probably has little to no shemales. My ultimate dream, even though I'm with a gg, is to find a shemale to be with.

So as the cliche goes, I love shemales cause they are the best of both worlds.

There are some simpler reasons guys go for "shemales" too.
Like the internet makes it so easy.
Like if you're old and single, you want more "flavor" than when you were young and horny.
With the divorce rate at 80% in the US now, and workdays for men and women at 10-12 hours, traditional romance is real work.
There are much worse sex lives than being "gay"
Even Rick Blaine and Ilsa Lund had a stormy romance.
There are no ordinary sex lives.

For me it was 2 things that initially got me lusting over shemale porn. Before that, like a lot of guys I was hooked on watching lesbian porn. When I ran across shemales it seemed like a natural. If one of the girls in a lesbian couple had a dick, then they could really have sex. I tossed aside pictures of guys sucking shemale cocks and looked for the ones where real girls and/or shemales were sucking off shemales or especially shemales fucking girls.

The 2nd thing is I like to crossdress, and I liked to fantasize that I am a shemale making love to a woman. Like my sig says... I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

Well, here is my explanation. But before I get into it please keep in mind I speak for myself only and cannot answer for other men. But perhaps my reasons might be the same as other men. Also keep in mind, I've never met a tgirl and have never been with one or even got to speak.

As a child I never went through that period many little boys have. I call it the "Icky Girls" phase. You know, where little boys act as if they hate women.

Nope. Not this ol' boy. I loved the women they moment I was born. But, as a child I didn't have a developed sense of sexuality. I didn't know society's notions of right and wrong when it came to things like sexuality, crushes, attraction etc. I was just a stupid kid who loved girls.

But I also liked boys it would seem. I recall, in the third grade having a crush on on male student in my school. And I even so far as to draw a silly little love picture of him. It was anonymously made and surreptiously left on his desk. And the teacher made such a big deal out of it and demanded who did it. Needless to say I kept my mouth shut and this was when I was first aware of sexual taboos.

But I didn't think much of it being a kid and all.

And so the years pass. I get older. And, like all kids, slowly encounter sexuality and society's views of it. And I repressed everything. Openly, I always liked girl. And I truly do love them. But I liked the boys too. Not as much as I did girls.

Here there during puberty I experimented with my sexuality, even dressing as a girl. But that might have been more kink than actual gender issues or such. I masturbate alot. Introduced to porn as a child. and as I grew older it became harder to ignore the feelings in me. In the past when seeing nude males and such I'd pretend it sickened me. But it got to the point they aroused as much as women sometimes.

This led to me experimenting in college many years ago. I decided at most I am bi. I couldn't be gay now could? A gay man wouldn't love girls. And so I love them. A pity they won't return the sentiment...bitches.:frown:...

But anyway, my only experience beyond only being with women was a threesome with a married couple. He went down on me. Then we did his wife. At the time I wanted this. Afterwards I hated myself for it. Long afterwards I came to accept it.

Tgirls..I didn't know much about them until around this period. I never saw them except the stereotypes you get in movies. My only exposure to them was through the way society would depict them. I knew a girl who was a hermaphrodite but it wasn't quite the same issue. So, to me, tgirls..or trannies, shemales, whatever people call them, were mysterious and as a man I am supposed to find them disgusting.

But I couldn't do that really. Quite the opposite. I found them appealing and interesting. I still don't quite understand my feelings for them. And it would seem rather foolish for a man who has never met one or spoke to one to even think about them. It's like wanting to go to the moon. Yet I do. Over the years my thoughts on them became more refined. Initially I saw them as guys wanting to be girls. Eventually I saw them as women. This was helped by my training as a counselor and through researching and education about gender identity and the like.

And so, I suppose I like them because they are women. And I like women. But as I said I like boys too. But my feelings for boys are only sexual based. Always, through it all, I could only ever be emotionally connected to a woman, including those ones who have a little something else down below. I don't know if it means I'm straight, gay, bi or what. I don't care. I think it is safe to assume anyone who is a male and is attracted to tgirls is someone with complicated and perhaps even painful feelings inside. And for many of us it could well be just a kinky sexual thing. For others it could be an evolution of sexual and emotional attraction. Either way, it's all a moot point for me. As I've not met one. And I have only the one experience with a man. I bring that back up only because the man has a dick like a pre-op. The two are not the same in my mind. But would I feel the same if I did meet one and have some experience or relationship? Would I turn against the idea or finally be at peace? Beats me. If it ever happens I'll let ya know eh?

Wonderfully put. I am new to this forum & that sums up my feelings better than I could haved wrote.:)

You're definitely not straight either :D You have to be at least 30% on hetero----gay scale to love cocks. All the shemale lovers that think they're absolutely totally 100% not gay make me laugh.

I don't know if you're gay or not, but I don't consider myself to be gay and I love shemales. I would never fuck a man and I don't get turned on by them at all, in fact the thought of messing with a guy is disgusting to me.

I love shemales, but iam not gay
i would never allow my arse to be penetrated that shit would scar me for life
but boy would i fuck the shit out of a shemale allanah starr/gia darling would be my dream

its mad i can bust a load watchin a tranny flick then go and watch a hetero porn flick and bust just as hard

.shemalesgetfucked.com----the shit!!!

I like shemales... and girls... but not guys.
Would you consider me gay? Or heterosexual?
Or what? Part-sexual? :P

i also like shemales and girls but not guys.I have never had a cock up my ass,although i've been with a shemale only twice.

i consider myself strait,shemale lover even though i don't like putting labels on any one

This is an interesting thread, and the original question ALWAYS comes up in tgirl forums. It's all to do with how you see yourself, not whether you're "gay" or not. (Also, the definition of "gay" becomes so personal in discussions like this that it comes to a point where it doesn't even matter). Some people will say, there's a cock attached to that person, so it's male regardless of any other physical, emotional, or mental characteristics of said person. Others will say, well yes, there's a cock, but if you didn't see it you'd never know it was there because the rest is so feminine. Others, like myself, will say, my god she's so feminine but has a hard cock...that's just beautiful!

For myself, I answer this question like this: I am not at all attracted to other men, and I have never been with a tgirl, but I do consider myself to have bisexual leanings because if I were lucky enough to get to be with a tgirl I would definitely want to suck her cock and have her fuck me in the ass. (And I have never even so much fingered my own ass so I realize I'd have to "warm up" first!) :lol: But when I watch tgirl porn I love how it looks when the girls are on "top." And the fact that they are so beautiful, I'd really get off myself knowing I was getting them off. (If that makes sense). I guess, as a tgirl admirer from afar, I tend to put tgirls on a pedestal, but that's part of the fantasy for me. I'd treat her like nothing but the lady she is, while hoping she'd get turned on enough to give me a good "seeing to." :eek: All this to reiterate my original point, such labels should only matter to you, and you are the one who needs to come to terms with your own psyche...sexual and otherwise. If we all lived our lives worrying about what others thought of us we'd be miserable indeed. Cheers. (And hopefully this is halfway readable!) :p

Does Anyone Ever Feel Any Guilt About Liking TGirls?
 

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on. I know i do from time to time. I've been into ladyboys since i was a teenager, I'm now 28. Every once in a while i start to feel bad and guilty for liking T-Girls and i try to just look at regular porn, but most of the time it does nothing for me, I just have to come back to shemale porn. As i say it doesn't happen very often just now and then, Just wanted to know if anyone experiences the same kind of thing.

No. I like what I like.

Yea sometimes
 

Yea. Sometimes. Im 24, really starting to come to terms with it, have to really. Was kind of a problem before. I make myself paranoid about it sometimes. Like "what if they knew" sort of thing when I interact with people. Really does my head in sometimes, like I get all nervous and stuff. Doesn't add to my confidence put it that way..

I never feel guilty liking a hot girl with a nice cock.

I love shemales, but I'm not gay. As a matter of fact I'm not sure I can explain why they excite me so. S.Freud may have spoken and written about it. If not...:censored:

But if I'm not gay, why di I love girls with cock?

Same question concerning the pleasure I get when I wear womens clothes...:confused:

no i don't feel guilty .... i can't find a reason

recently,not really.. but yes very rarely i do feel guilt. and not because i am ashamed of liking these beutiful people, but because i think of my family. my dad is very macho, and i dont know what he'd do if he knew about my interest in ladyboys..

I used to but have come to accept how I feel. The guilt feelings were stemming from society imposing its values on me. But we are are own people and we shouldn't feel guilty for a thing such as who we are attracted to.

I do. Im new to the whole shemale thing, it just turns me on but im afraid of what my family & frends would say.


well put, im a confused guy that has just got into shemales.

Most people on this forum are not gay, we are attracted to the feminine features of beautiful women with a little something extra, if you were attracted to hairy arse men then you'd be gay, But there's no way i would suck a mans cock, and that probably goes for most people here, So just enjoy liking shemales, enjoy their beauty, and stop worrying that you're gay.

No. I have never had the opportunity to be with one yet though. I live in a place where there are only a couple and they have lines of suitors lined up so ya. Someday though.

nope

I just want to fulfill my fantasy and actually be with one!

I dont feel guilty. But, the big problem for me right nowis this. I'm into Genetic girls and transexuals. I've never been with a transexual before, and I really want to. However, the girl I'm dating is amazing, but not so amazing as to just let me have sex with someone elde. We've been together for 4 years now, and I'm feel pretty confident I want to marry her. But, the thing that keeps holding me back is that if I do, I'll prolly never get to fulfill my fantasy...

I have no such problems, as I feel just as comfortable with a real girl or a LB. It is just a matter of getting used to it and prepare yourself for the role ahead.

There's no way ever i would go with a guy, As i'm sure most people here wouldn't, I am not even remotely attracted to men. Ladyboys are not men, they are beautiful girls with a little something extra, They just drive me absoluteley crazy, so much so that i have little interest in gg's now, although i wouldn't say no to hot gg.

does it turn you on to look up and see a guy getting turned on a blowing his load because of you?

:turnoff: still am waisting my time with gg's. But I'd love to fuck/be fucked by a cute guy, ideally would fuck a shemale, but since none in my area, I'll go with a sexy man - hopefully someday soon:turnon:

Yes, I do.

hmmm i bet your one hell of a cock sucker!

:turnon:

I do feel some shame, But in a way i get off on it.

Honestly, when I first starting viewing them I did feel a little weird/uneasy/conflicted about how I felt. Overtime though + reading and interacting in a forum like this, that all went away. I now embrace and welcome my love of TGirls with open arms. In retrospect I wish I discovered it earlier. I missed out on so much pleasure.

no more guilt
 

I admit when I was first 'exposed' to ladyboys I was kind of conflicted by my attraction to them. Since then I have been friends with several tgirls and have had a couple of brief relationships. I have to say now that tgirls are my sexual preference. I still like women, but not as much.
I don't feel any guilt anymore. I realize that I just didn't know before, and we're often afraid of what we don't know.

same here I am also new but hey you have to otherwise what is life all about

:turnon:Welllll for me!!

I wish I had as much guilt and shame as I used to because that feeling of having to wait for my parents to sleep and somehow secretly watch and wack off to this great new world of pornography I had discovered with no lock on my bedroom door and a huge family!!!!!......really, really turned me on!

Now before the grand realm of the shemale, I had lesbians which I felt no guilt at all for the whole world to know how drained I would get watching them...oh this began when i was 9 and first found out about my new best friend at the time, the internet!!

Maybe I felt a little shameful after awhile cuz all I could think of was lesbians....then I for some reason prayed to stop thinking of them.....and thats when my prayers were answered...but tragically for my soul, it was a twisted and grotesque revelation (:turnon::turnon::turnon::turnon::turnon:).....:dr ool:

Since then, 2 girl friends...and no ts experience...and Im currently engaged...soooo sadly, all I got now is a few good websites when she aint looking.....buttttt, :D that wonderful feeling of shame may finally return when we move in together :respect:


Sometimes I feel guilty when I go to sleep with a boner...and not do anything about it......just shameful....but sometimessss....I still get wet dreamz so its coool :cool:

I don't feel guilty personally but still I don't go around telling people I like t-girls. There's nothing to be gained by it, and a lot of hell to receive for it.

Between The Ears About Between The Legs
 

If you lived for everyone else, you'd have no life.

The fantasy to reality can lead to another guilt issue, like am I gay?

It can lead to another road, depending on who and what.

I would say that probably nearly everyone here is 100% hetrosexual, We just prefer our chicks to have dicks.:respect:

I wouldn't say prefer in my case. I love pussy, but if she happens to have a dick, I wouldn't have a problem with it. No way I would ever do anything with a man.

like most, i assume, i tend to think of shemales as women, and treat them as such..
the thought of being with a man is totally unattractive to me
i am fairly certain, however, that most shemales are indeed gay (please correct me if i am wrong)

wow interesting results. i like to look at mens cocks as well as shemales i like shemales more but some dudes cocks are just so hot. there are very few men that i am attracted too. mostly just their dicks. but i do have fantasys about men having sex with me. i dont think i would ever persue it. but if i was ever persued i would do it for sure.

im with you maximillian. I LOVE pussy. But if she has a huge cock, I'll take that too. gay male sex is a major turn OFF for me.

I adressed this before...
 

And I'm of the same opinion as many here...Personally I look at T-girls as females with male genitaila, and even some, so called Femboys as a lot of them are really are T-girls in their early stages. That's my take on this question and how I'll always respond to it.

Junior Ladyboy Lover
 

Give it a try. You'll like it, I guarantee.:coupling::coupling:

for me ,l think ,ladyboy is sex monster

i want fuck shemale ,but i think iam not a gay

to help some people thinking of having sex with a shemale is that wonderful space between straight or gay when its neither:lol:

I'm not gay. I had one gay experience while drunk with a friend. I thought, what the hell!? I hated it. I felt as though I needed to take a shower for days after the experience. My friend has asked me to "participate" with him several times since then, but I cannot and will not ever do that again. Even if I'm drunk, lol!

That being said, I did not know until recently that I am REALLY attracted to shemales. My favorite cousin had a sex change operation not too long ago. She (used to be he I guess) likes girls. This really confused me, but now I understand that is the way she feels. She was born a girl, but just had male genitals. She likes girls and that is what makes her happy. She used to be suicidal, but now all of those feelings are gone (since she had the operation). So, to me, she did the right thing by having a sex change.

After hearing this, I looked up shemales both pre op and post op. I was trying to understand why my best friend and closest family relative decided to do such a drastic change. While "investigating", I noticed that I am sooooooo attracted to shemales. At first, I kind of laughed and thought....."NO! They look just like girls! Therefore, I'm not gay and I don't like chicks that used to be dudes!"............

Right now, I'm in a wonderful relationship with a female. She's beautiful and everything that I've ever wanted. BUT, if I knew this before I got together with her, I would've pursued a relationship with either a female or shemale (which to me are females, but I have to be clear about things). My options would've been more open. I'm happy with who I am with though.

Now, when I look at porn, I like to look at females. Guys don't do it for me. BUT, almost every time that I look at porn, I will always check out shemales. There is something that makes my brain buzz while looking at shemales because I think they're beautiful (not all though! we like what we like).

I'll probably never experience sex with a shemale, because I want to spend the rest of my life with the girl that I am with and be monogamous. I'm happy with that. No regrets. BUT, if something happens to our relationship, you bet your ass that I would date a shemale and pursue a life together. But I wouldn't only pursue a shemale. I like girls. Some of them just so happen to have a dick! I'm an equal opportunity kind of guy.......


Sorry for the long post...but I'm glad to get this off my chest. I'm relieved that there are others out there that feel the same way. I hope you guys and gals accept me, and if I say something wrong...I'm sorry. I'm just trying to figure all of this out and accept myself for being...ME!