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sesame 06-08-2008 02:52 AM

Come to terms
 
As far as your personality goes, you are a woman without a shred of doubt. I have never seen you apart from your avatar (plus those 2 imgs). But you look quite feminine in the photo.
What are your manly features? Let me guess... adam's apple perhaps, a small pelvis and a penis with nuts. You told us that you had facial reconstruction and got your body hairs removed. So, where is the "man" hiding?
We humans are social animals, we have our own idiosyncrasies. One of the human traits is, the need we feel for reaffirmation from our fellow humans, of the facts we already know as true. Call it mental weakness burned into our genes or collective psychology. If you look for assurance from outside, chances are you will be left wanting.:eek:
You have become a woman. You know it. But people of the world will always doubt it, once you reveal your secret. Make peace with this issue.:p

Bionca 06-08-2008 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by sesame (Post 25805)
As far as your personality goes, you are a woman without a shred of doubt. I have never seen you apart from your avatar (plus those 2 imgs). But you look quite feminine in the photo.
What are your manly features? Let me guess... adam's apple perhaps, a small pelvis and a penis with nuts. You told us that you had facial reconstruction and got your body hairs removed. So, where is the "man" hiding?
We humans are social animals, we have our own idiosyncrasies. One of the human traits is, the need we feel for reaffirmation from our fellow humans, of the facts we already know as true. Call it mental weakness burned into our genes or collective psychology. If you look for assurance from outside, chances are you will be left wanting.:eek:
You have become a woman. You know it. But people of the world will always doubt it, once you reveal your secret. Make peace with this issue.:p

adam's apple - yes. I'm tall for a woman 5'9". I have larger than normal feet. and manish hands. ugh my secret it out now.

You are correct I nee to make peace with the issue tha people with have an issue.

SJTCurious 06-10-2008 04:45 PM

Wow, I can only imagine how the struggle is. Finding love, or at least solid relationships is part luck in the best of situations. You have the support of everyone here in your journey.:heart:

Bionca 06-10-2008 09:26 PM

:D

Thanks!!!

You are right, finding even a good one is hard to do, not to mention "the right one" for everyone. I think I'm starting to like being single. It stinks because I'm painfully shy in person, but I do have some freedoms I didn't have before.

sesame 06-10-2008 11:00 PM

Yeah, think of a lonely soul hunting for a Lover in the desert!:innocent:

sesame 06-11-2008 05:08 PM

Practical Application of a Tip from Bionca:

Quote:

Get me a little tipsy on anything from a grape and soon enough I'm silly and giggly and eventually in the corner with my lips on some random guy
Sesame offers Bionca her favourite bouquet of flowers.
What flowers do you like, Sweetness?:innocent:
Then he offers her wine which she cannot resist.
Finally he whispers in her ears, sheafs of poetry on her exquisite beauty.
How smart and wise she is.... She is, actually.:inlove:
And as she drinks more and more, Bionca the wise undergoes a startling transformation...
The fire of lust has been kindled!
Goddess to Lioness :drool:

Bionca 06-11-2008 09:50 PM

Well.. I do have a special place for the Iris. Not sure why, but I love the flower... Wysteria also (but more growing than in a bouquet).

As to the rest.. my good man, I'd be afraid I'd ruin you for future girls and that wouldn't be fair to them at all.

sesame 06-11-2008 10:09 PM

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my good man, I'd be afraid I'd ruin you for future girls
Pardon me, senorita,
how can a sweet honeypot like yourself ruin me?:inlove:

Bionca 06-11-2008 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by sesame (Post 26209)
Pardon me, senorita,
how can a sweet honeypot like yourself ruin me?:inlove:

I'd set your expectations too high ... :innocent: and that wouldn't be fair to the next girl(s)

marlowe 06-13-2008 05:59 AM

flowers
 
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Originally Posted by Bionca (Post 26206)
Well.. I do have a special place for the Iris. Not sure why, but I love the flower...

The Iris was a favourite of the painter Georgia O'Keefe. Her many paintings of flowers are abstractions that also act as sexual metaphors.

The first pic below is called 'Light Iris' and the second 'Black Iris'.

Here's some quotes from Georgia O'Keefe:

"When you take a flower in your hand and really look at it, it's your world for the moment. I want to give that world to someone else. Most people in the city rush around so, they have no time to look at a flower. I want them to see it whether they want to or not."

"Making your unknown known is the important thing."

"You get whatever accomplishment you are willing to declare."

handehki 06-13-2008 08:06 AM

Where?
 
:turnon: Where is my lovely shemale :heart: :hug:

Bionca 06-14-2008 12:27 PM

Marlowe,

I love Georgis O'Keefe. Seriously one of my fave artists. Something about having a gigantic vagina disguised as a flower appeals to me.

Justme 06-17-2008 09:39 PM

Oh my, hope I'm not too late and have missed you, Bionca! You see, I happen to be a 19 y/o male from Ohio. Do you know the Mansfield area? That's where I'm located...anyway, if you'd like to get in touch, please reply to this and I can send a PM with my email address.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Bionca 06-17-2008 09:50 PM

Justme.. I'm here posting away. After my last two guys I'm a little gun-shy, but still open to meeting a nice fella. I am very well aware of Mansfield - my mom grew up close to there and I probably have family there also.

If nothing else a new Internet friend will be a welcome addition to my life. :hug:

mug3n 06-18-2008 02:36 AM

CUteness
 
U are a hottie cutie bionca! hehe, Im very curious! :respect:

Show Me Love 06-18-2008 09:25 AM


Don't Look Anymore! I'll Be Your Friend!
I'm Saying Officially - Bionka Be My Friend!

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Bionca 06-18-2008 01:09 PM

Wow
 
OK.. so some real work went into the last message, and I'm REALLY impressed. Show Me Love... tell me about you... what you like, don't like, and what you are looking for.

I also feel I need to make one thing clear to you and any other guys who are looking to date me. I am proud to be Trans, and I am not ashamed of my past. Can you handle the likely event that your friends and family will know I was born a man?

Show Me Love 06-18-2008 01:40 PM

i like to impress beautiful and smart t-girls ))
i'm looking to make a dozen of millions dollas to make happy all the beautiful t-girls.
better say that is what i'm doing now

i'v sent u pm, B with info how to contact me.

sesame 06-21-2008 03:51 PM

Bionca,
How are your job interviews getting ahead?
Did you have a go at writing in a magazine?
I think you are a natural columnist. Honest :respect:

Bionca 06-21-2008 04:41 PM

The job search is going... I may have to do some temp work short-term and fall back on my college job to make ends meet... a the joy of in-home phone sex *shrug*.

I did start up my blog with a friend of mine. We'll see how that goes...

sesame 06-21-2008 06:08 PM

my blog with a friend of mine

Aha! Can I see it?:)
What is it about?

mysticmyth 06-21-2008 06:30 PM

Good Luck
 
I wish you much luck in your endeavors. Wish you were here. :respect:

sesame 06-21-2008 10:39 PM

Girl with Integrity
 
Bionca,
I haven't seen your cheesecake pix,
neither do I really know how you look.
But one thing about you is clear of doubt:

You are witty and very brave.:innocent:

What more can anyone ask from a woman?
You have got all the strong points
for a good professional life,
and a personal life as well.
Cheers:respect:

Bionca 06-21-2008 10:45 PM

:hug:

Sesame.. you are one sweet guy!!

sesame 06-21-2008 11:12 PM

Hey, I'm not lying to get la**.;)
Truthfully, you are a smart bright girl.

How many girls are nearly as wise and clever as you?

We the citizens of TLBF, behold you with such high esteem!
My child, we expect great things from you.
Hmmm, the mayor will deliver the next speech.:p

sesame 06-23-2008 03:48 PM

Quote:

Sesame.. you are one sweet guy!!
Look, everybody, she thinks, I am sweet.:rolleyes:

Now that I have been honoured by the Queen,
I am fearless. :cool:

sesame 06-28-2008 03:49 AM

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Friendship is so sweet... "Grunt" "Grunt" "Grunt"

Friendship feels so cozy... "Grunt" "Grunt"

Frindship makes Life meaningful :p "Grunt"

Mel Asher 06-28-2008 03:34 PM

And Male Chauvinistic Pigs too - even when they meet up against Frigid Women ! And who doesn't like porking, eh ?

Mel

sesame 06-28-2008 05:33 PM

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Hey, dont undermine a Sweet little Pig.
Haven't you seen "Babe: Pig in the city" ?

If you overlook their food habits, pigs are such sweet cuddly creatues. :D

Also, in Harry Potter stories, J. K. Rowling has named the
school of magic: Hogwarts
The inn is named: Hogshead!
The magical village: Hogsmead.

Bionca 06-28-2008 07:01 PM

I love piggies!! they are so cute!! and can be very nice pets.

ItsmeLane 06-28-2008 08:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bionca (Post 24007)
In the past year I have broken up with my long-term b/f of 7 years. Unfortunately, we started to date shortly after I began my transition - so I have only really seriously dated this one guy (who turned out to be total crap). I won't date a guy who doesn't know that I was born with a guy body, aside from having an awkward conversation after emotional investment, I really don't want to put my safety at risk.

I have had 5 dates the past year - 3 of them stood me up (literally waiting at a coffee shop or restaurant alone for 30-45 min) and never heard from again. One guy took me out twice, first date was great, dinner and a movie with a very sweet kiss goodnight. Second date, just as nice and followed by a night of sex. He immediately left after an awkward silence. I saw him a couple days later and said "hi", he told me he "didn't like fags".

So, I'm here looking for somethign. I'm curious about guys who are interested in gals like me. Is this what I have to look forward to? One thing also, is I have been on Hormone treatment for 5 years, and I have not had an erection for some time - from reading here, that seems like the big deal-breaker for lots of guys.

I don't get it, I'm smart, funny and I guess pretty cute (the avatar is me from last summer). I'm just confused about guys and if I can actually find a functioning relationship with *ghasp* respect.

I would give away everything i own just for one date with you.. ive seen your threads youve made here and you are flat out amazing... and id love to get to know you more ona personal level. if you feel interested with me or maybe just want to talk message me on here or pm my yahoo..

sesame 06-29-2008 03:30 AM

Ok, Bionca is my ideal Tilf

Tilf == Tgirl I Love to Flirt (with)

Bionca 06-29-2008 03:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ItsmeLane (Post 28258)
I would give away everything i own just for one date with you.. ive seen your threads youve made here and you are flat out amazing... and id love to get to know you more ona personal level. if you feel interested with me or maybe just want to talk message me on here or pm my yahoo..

GOOG GOLLY MAN!! never EVER *give* stuff away... sell that on EBay for pity sake (dates cost money after all).

Honestly...that's very sweet, I'm a bit blushy..

Bionca 06-29-2008 03:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sesame (Post 28273)
Ok, Bionca is my ideal Tilf

Tilf == Tgirl I Love to Flirt (with)

You say that to all the gurlz

sesame 06-29-2008 03:36 AM

But I feel a pang in my heart to call her Tgirl.

There is no way of knowing that until she says so.

Bionca, you are the reason for many of us to be here.

We, I really really like to talk with you.:yes:

Bionca 06-29-2008 03:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sesame (Post 28276)
But I feel a pang in my heart to call her Tgirl.

There is no way of knowing that until she says so.

Bionca, you are the reason for many of us to be here.

We, I really really like to talk with you.:yes:

my my my... I'd think that the lovely ladies in the board two up from here was the reason for the site's popularity. I fear I pale when compared to them.

sesame 06-29-2008 03:47 AM

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I feel like an adolescent boy talking to a girl he secretly adores.

H'h'...H'hey... Hey-hey-hey...the-the-the-therr..there..

Hey there Bi-Bi-Bionca? (shaking, stammering, sweating...mouth dries up...:p)

sesame 06-29-2008 07:15 AM

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A little something for someone I like. :p

ItsmeLane 06-29-2008 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Bionca (Post 28274)
GOOG GOLLY MAN!! never EVER *give* stuff away... sell that on EBay for pity sake (dates cost money after all).

Honestly...that's very sweet, I'm a bit blushy..

lol i guess.. if you can help me? pretty please? lol ill be a good boy...

Bionca 06-30-2008 01:52 PM

Sesame!!!!! That's one of the sweetest things ever!!! I feel like a git not seeing that lovely drawing until now. :hug::hug::hug:

sesame 06-30-2008 02:25 PM

Bionca
 
Well? Does it look like you?:)

mickster 07-12-2008 12:17 PM

All you can do is don't give up , life is full of chances it's whether you take them or not, if you believe it's worth it go for it, you'll never know unless you chance it . You sound like a nice girl you deserve someone who is interested in you as a person and not be so judgemental . So take care and good luck in your quest .

sophiesky 07-12-2008 11:33 PM

hi
 
New here,

Let me know if you end up in the miami area.

Bionca 07-12-2008 11:44 PM

Unfortunately, it looks like the Miami/LA gig went away.... sigh.

mickster 07-13-2008 10:13 AM

Hi, Around what area in Ohio I'm from the Akron/Cleveland area .Right now I stay in the Houston Tx. area.

hankhavelock 07-18-2008 07:34 AM

Bionca, for some reason I never fell over this thread - it may be the title "New and looking". Anyway, that's nice to know a bit more about your history. I wasn't aware that you came out of a 7 year long relationsship. I'm oc course flappergasted to read about the guy who told you that "I don't like fags" after having been with you - just out of curiosity, but didn't you tell him up front that you are a transsexual woman? But according to your posting you actually had sex with him - and he didn't complain during that?

Regarding you "big" secret - hands, feet and... - that's actually a thing I find so endearing about quite a few trans-women (remember, I've for some reason had my share of friends at your height too) that they get a little embarrassed about these socalled "manly" features. Instead view it a charming attribute - when "guys like me" fall for "girls like you" I'm quite certain that the majority of us not only expect that but also appreciate it as a cute and indeed attractive thing.

... oh shit... enuff talkin talkin talkin... you're a goddess Mizzy B and you know it... my personal favourite... MMMMMMWWWWWWWWAAAAA!!! :yes:

sesame 07-18-2008 09:36 AM

na na na nA NA na... :p

Do you have any news, why Bionca is Kinda absent from class for such a long time? :innocent:

Mizzy B, we are seriously mizzing Yah!:inlove:

hankhavelock 07-18-2008 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by sesame (Post 30699)
na na na nA NA na... :p

Do you have any news, why Bionca is Kinda absent from class for such a long time? :innocent:

Mizzy B, we are seriously mizzing Yah!:inlove:

Well, let's give her a wee bit of space... and if she ain't back in about two days we get worried... and send the marines... (the good ol' American problem-solving way ;-) Shit, she may even have joined them... Mizzy B in battle-fatiques :drool: especially the quasi-transparent vinyl stuff they use for WET WEATHER! OMG... just imagine our personal lill goddess coming in waltzing in her size 4000 like she's being a bit pissed about the outfit and complaining to the colonel.... "Sir, Mr. Colonel, Sir... this is an outrageously lousy vinyl-quality... u should be SO ashamed of urself..."

Hmmm... not really her style, I reckon...

But sure we miss her - and I simply don't understand why you don't make a more serious move, my man! I promise you from deep within that if I were a lill bit closer and got the slightest chance, then I'd do all I could to make her mine... she's such a gorgeous person, so DO something! I get f****** frustrated here...

:-)

Peace!

H

ila 07-18-2008 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bionca (Post 25821)
adam's apple - yes. I'm tall for a woman 5'9". I have larger than normal feet. and manish hands. ugh my secret it out now.

I'm not so sure that I would even notice your adam's apple, the size of your hands, or the size of your feet. When I'm with a woman I look at her face. I'm interested in what she is saying and thinking. A person's face conveys so much information that it's important to look at her face when she is talking (or listening). Besides faces are beautiful to look at. I'm not totally unmasculine though. I will notice a girl's prominent physical attributes, but after the first glance I concentrate on the girl's face and what she is saying.

Bionca 07-18-2008 02:21 PM

Hey guys... nice to be missed - I feel like I'm popular or something.

Hank- Yeah the guy to called me a "fag" knew I was trans. I only date guys who know up front. In fact in that guys case, we met online on a Trans Dating site.

The hand and feet thing is just what people who clock me as Trans notice when they notice anything at all.


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