Shemales
 

I'm straight as can be, but love shemale body, boobs, cocks, even hairy legs and butts can be sexy and fun if the right shemale feminine look! Hehe

I considered myself to be straight. After spending a fair amount of time surfing the net and enjoying the sight of attractive shemales, I wondered if I might in fact be bi. I have had very limited experience with other guys (just two separate incidents) and I can say that while I had gained an appreciation for the sight of a hard cock, I felt awkward kissing another guy. I suppose that would make me bi with strong leanings towards being straight.

i dont believe u r considered to b gay. after all they are females just with a little bit extra to play with ;) thats the way i feel neways... each 2 there own

Gay means loving men. I can't imagine having sex with somebody who has hairy legs or arms haha. I like the body of a woman and trannies body looks nothing like men's. So NOT gay. But i like to feel something in my ass and would love to be fucked by a woman (strap on, or tranny).

Couldn't vote for some reason, but I voted "No".

Speaking for myself, I still enjoy the female body. The male body does nothing for me.

People telling me that I'm gay because I enjoy transgendered women are trying to pin a label on me, without trying to know anything about me.

I say screw their opinions. As the ole saying goes, "Opinions are like assholes, we all got one".

I'm straight, but love shemale body and boobs. I don't know, maybe I suck for Raquel Fox, maybe

Am I gay or am I straigh? Here's my no BS answer. I don't think gay or straight really matters. If you go by the ;)dicktionary:D:lol:, then you might be gay for sucking :drool:cock:drool: or wanting to get your ass fucked. I say that it doesn't really matter. You like what you like, just be happy wiht that. Lables don't really matter. Why the question of gay or straight? What's wrong with being bi?

Isn't gay by the dictionary beeing attracted by men? And trannies doesn't look like men.

If by " Gay" you mean happy ... then yeah i'm gay because my gf makes me happy every day and night. And i love her , and really that is all that matters.

no........

No. MtF transsexuals are mentally female.

PolishMan
 

No:kiss: :no:

Interesting Question
 

I love looking at pictures and videos of tgilrs, shemales and even some crossdressers and it really turns me on :turnon:. However pictures of gay sex do nothing for me at all. I would gladly fuck the arse off Joanna Jet, HAzel Tucker or any of the other beauties out there but doing it to a a 'bloke' doesn't interest me. Guess I'm not alone in that.

I love women and pretty shemales - not blokes in lipstick! If they are feminine then they give me the horn but I have never shagged a shemale and dont know if I could but would date one if `she` was a stunner- hairy arsed males make do nothing for me at all - I have a thing for nice asses and some of the shemales have amazing butts (just learnt to ignore the bollocks)

multiple choice
 

ARE YOU GAY FOR LIKING SHEMALES: yes:turnon:

No but it really depends on what your attraction is towards a Transsexual. If you are just all about what's between her legs then it's possible. But if you are attracted to her femininity and everything about her then its a no.

Who knows!
 

Yes, no, maybe? Maybe we're just human, If something is unusual and exotic it's automatically interesting to us. We're curious creatures.
I'll go a step further, I don't have testicles. So technically I'm a eunuch. I look male, I act male, I consider myself straight but technically speaking, am I actually male. Chromosomally I am, but technically,medically, I'm a eunuch.
So what am I like Sweden? Am I neutral? Does that mean I can go either way and it's not gay or lesbian or any other label?
It's the same with shemales, the gender line is smudged, so who's to say whether it's straight or not?
By the way, motorcycle accident, and I found this site looking for info, but found a whole lot more!

i dont think im gay... but if its gay to love and adore this feminin ts gender, by all mean call me gay.. who cares..

Ditto - either way, :respect: is the most important thing!

Maybe,,,but labels suck anyway
 

Seems the poll is closed, my vote though would've been 'no'. Sure you can be gay but you're not so because you love ts girls and lb's. Folks are more than 1 or 2 word descriptions,, at least I feel that's so,...

Gay?
 

Well lets put it this way. Are you gay if you want to suck your own cock? :p:drool::turnon::inlove:

According to dictionary definitions we are gay.

As a gay has an orientation to people of the same sex and a male is defined as someone with X and Y chromosomes, which includes most transwomen.

But, different people have different opinions on the definitions of gender. For those who accept transwoman as being of a female gender, or predominantly female, the term gay does not apply to men who are oriented towards transwomen.

But I think it's pretty obvious that, while there are parallels, and considerable diversity between gays and ourselves, the differences are significant enough to warrant a different classification.

We're bi. If you like cock, then you at least have gay tendencies and if you like women at the same time then you're bi and on the straight side of. If you only like shemale cock and like being submissive, then you're probably on the gay side of bi. While some might not be attracted to guys, you still like their package which means you're attracted to a part of them.


Really it doesn't matter, but bi is more accurate than gay or straight.

No.

If I were gay, I would like men. I like girls with something more :)

I agree totally with smlover. It depends on what you think makes men or women what they are.
For me, I like their femininity and the cock is just one part of them and not even an essential one.

I agree with wannabecut.
Personally I won't be able to fuck a guy, neither a transvestite.
But I love fucking girls and TS girls.

Hi there.

Gay men are attracted to men and their penises.

Straight men are attracted to women and their vaginas.

Bi men are attracted to both men and their penises and women and their vaginas.

OK.

Now, men who like shemales like their feminine bodies and their penises.

It is straight in the body part but gayish in the genitalia part, which would make it bi'ish, but not quite.

So none of the labels fit properly, maby we need a new one?

Like quasi-straight or mostly-straight?

Or maby Trisexual.

But not Quartersexual, then you'd do anything with anybody for 25 cents.

JohnDowe.

Doesn't make you gay, because I love all flavors of tranny as long as they are feminine and beautiful, but I am not attracted to men.

Although no matter how many times you try to explain the attraction to shemales, the stereotype/public-notion is too strong that it's always going to be labeled as gay no matter what.

It doesn't help that a lot of people associate trannies with grotesque looking (purposely unpassable) drag queen performers (who've undergone no hormones or surgery, etc) who identify as gay men (Completely different than a female identifying MtoF)

You can't wait for society to change, just got to deal with it

I am not attracted to men, in fact watching men kiss each other it is still kind of yucky. Swishy guys giggling and singing show tunes is not my thing at all...well, OK, I do like the show tunes. But lots of hair in way too many places, not enough curves...just not appealing.

There is also a mind set of men...gay, straight, or bi. I have met some t-girls that still have this male mind set but for the most part T-girls seem to act more like brash women than gay men and many here in Thailand are not even brash women. I remember a line, "If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, walks like a duck...it's a duck." I think this is pretty much accurate for describing T-girls. They look like women, act like women, and apparently feel like women. What are they? They ain't ducks... If this duck analogy is true, it falls in line with how I personally feel about sex with men and sex with women. Men yuck, women please.

I think society in general still wants to see the sexes in black and white, man or woman as was pointed out in an astute earlier post. A huge portion of Society (and religions) still view sex as primarily, if not solely, for procreation...not recreation. T-girl sex is not going anywhere when it comes to making babies (although I do keep trying :) ). It is strictly recreational sex (of course we know it can also be much more; love affection, commitment, and all the other things that go into making up a human relationship). Society in the West still has big problems with baby making sex between genetic men and genetic women...look at the bizarre aberrations that religion has imposed upon sexual relations now and historically! Sex is important and powerful and, as such, it gets lots of attention from folks that want to mold society...usually repressive attention sadly.

I digress. I actually feel t-girls (the majority anyway) are more women than women. GGs are born as girls and just grow up with all that that entails which makes it easy to take for granted. T-girls have had to work hard and have a strong desire to be women. They are studied in the ways of femininity where GGs just ...are. I personally feel that all this effort to become a woman gives them the right to be women and the right for me to see them as women. There is a MAJOR difference between a fem-boy and some dude in drag...even a gay guy in drag. A ladyboy is a woman in her mind and acquires the trappings (and now body parts :) ) of a women externally. Does one little Y chromosome make that much difference over choice?

So all that being said, are you gay if you love T-girls? Hell, if I know. I'm pretty sure I'm not, but I'm not dead yet and I really hate to predict what path my life will take.

Well I think if you're gay, you love men, not ladyboys, isn't? Surely, there might be a part of gay men who also love LBs, but the majority of gays prefer men, not girly boys or shemales, I suppose.
P.S. I tried to vote but couldn't. There's maybe smth wrong with the poll.

In a word,,, NO
 

This ? cums up often and everywhere,,, but it's kinda silly. Nothing makes us gay or st8, we each ourselves decide.

I myself love shebabes especially the ones who are very feminine with big tits big butts and a sexy cock. I am never ever turned on by guys but a shebabe like Vanity or Kimber James drives me wild wanting to fuck them suck them and them fuck and suck me. I also get very excited about all females I love pussy very much also. I really love to watch shebabes really hard fucking a girls pussy. No I dont think it makes you gay at all.

I'd like to see this
 

Wouldn't it be great if all of these polls and threads about whether you're gay if you like transgurls -- which are most often posted, I think, by people who are worried (for some reason) about being gay -- had this option to vote for:

Who the fuck cares!

I am not attracted to men....I am attracted to women and tgirls.....I don't know what the hell that makes me, and I don't care! I know what I like and that is all that matters to me.

Well coming from someone who has yet to suck a cock. I think once I suck a S.M's cock and if I really love sucking her cock. I would want to suck cock more and wouldn't really care if it was a shemale or fem boy. I'm not really into guy's but hey if I start loving to suck cock who cares as long as I'm getting my face stuffed with cock. I mean really a cock is a cock NO matter who's legs it's hanging between. So who cares as long as it's pumping cum in your face. Hell after thinking about it I think it may be nice going fishing and sucking my buddies cocks ever hour or so. I may have to start looking for the right fishing buddies after giving this some thought. :-)

So who gives a fuck what someone calls me. I wouldn't care if they were calling me a guy little slut while I was sucking their cock or being fucked in the ass by them. Because it don't MATTER as long as I'm getting mine!

I never really worried about labels and believe we are all capable of loving others, no matter the gender. I've always loved pussy and enjoy being with women. I've had dozens of female sex partners. However, I assumed that I was bi because I am attracted to certain males. Specifically, feminine males. I've only had sex with 2 males in my life (and have not yet experienced the delights of a T-girl). But realize that the 2 guys I had sex with were very feminine, that is they were small and petite, had round hips, walked like a female and kept their skin soft and shaved their legs and pubes. Neither was a TV or wore make-up, they were just very feminine gay men. I have never been attracted to masculine men and, frankly, think its repulsive to even consider having sex with a big muscular hairy guy (no offense meant to anyone).

However it is that we're wired, we pick up on the feminine part, even if who we're attracted to is genetically male, and go with it. I loved having sex with these 2 men, sucking their cocks came naturally, and I have met other fem men and T-girls that I have been attracted to and wanted to have sex with but didn't, for various reasons. Anyway, I seem to be rambling, but my point is that we are all wired in a particular way and its irrelevant if we call ourselves straight, gay or bi. Just go with what feels natural to you, be safe and cause no harm.

New to This
 

Like many others, I first encountered t-girls while surfing the Internet. I am a male in his 30's and have never been attracted to men or ever had sex with another man. Not that I think there is anything wrong with it! My relationships with women have included a marriage of almost 15 years.

The t-girls I have seen on the Internet are very beautiful and I find myself attracted to them in the same way I am attracted to "genetic" women. I do not consider myself "gay" and joined this forum hoping to learn a little bit more about myself and my own sexuality. It has been interesting reading the posts on this topic. Human sexuality is very complex and I don't think there is a simple answer to the "gay or straight" question. I believe it was Kinsey who first said sexual behavior falls on a "continuum." More recently, there was a "Klein Grid" that measured orientation.

A few years ago, the TV show "Cold Case" aired an episode where a teenager falls in love with a t-girl and invites her to the prom. Of course, his father and others react poorly and the relationship has a tragic ending. I found the episode to be a good lesson in tolerance and have often wondered how difficult it would really be to have such a relationship or to live as a transgendered individual. Currently, I live in the mid-western United States where things are perhaps not as tolerant as say, Brazil. My own personal feelings are that it shouldn't matter to anyone but the two people involved. It's no one else's business.

Hi there.

AW9725, you are 100% right about your "affairs" (of any and all kinds) are your busines and those that are involved in them, but there are two things that you are not taking into concideration.

First: Some people aren't happy unless they're sniffing in other people's busines, trying to find some things that they don't agree with or don't understand.

Second: Ignorenace and stupidity are incurable afflictions.

Combine the two and you got a whole lot of needless BS etc.

What can you do about those people? Well they DO have as much right to be alive as you do, even if they don't think you do, trying to reason with them is ususlly a waist of time, and they often resort to violence when they are out witted, civil wars have started like this.

If you have a rationnal solution, i'd be very glad to hear it, cuse i don't.

JohnDowe.

Ignorance and Stupidity
 

Nice to meet you. This looks like a pretty interesting place to say the least! I put some information about myself in my profile if you (or anyone else for that matter) are interested in learning a little about my background. As you have already read my earlier post, you know my own feelings regarding transgendered women. If you are curious who, specifically, I find attractive, go check out the pictures I have posted! On a more serious note: Even though my career is in higher education, which typically has been tolerant of diverse views and lifestyles, I feel that I can’t reveal too much about myself for reasons of job security. Someone else posted that the “TG/TS” lifestyle is still considered taboo for many and doesn’t get the respect/recognition that even the “gay/lesbian” community receives. Here in the good old “heart of the USA” that is sadly and most likely true.

Without writing a dissertation on it, I believe it has much to do with fear and misunderstanding and perhaps the presence of stereotypes. From my own perspective, I had never thought much about this until recently. In college, I became friends with several gay and lesbian students. I was married and never felt any sexual attraction toward my gay friends or any desire to “fool around.” I did, however, feel close to them--I have always been kind of a “big brother” to my friends anyway and I used to feel very protective of them--I knew the kinds of things they had to put up with and how hard it was to live that way. I am sick every time I hear about some “hate crime” or murder of a gay, lesbian, or transgendered individual. I remember watching the “Cold Case” episode mentioned in my earlier post with my (now ex) wife. We agreed that something like gender identity shouldn’t matter and how stupid and ignorant people shouldn’t rule what one can or cannot do. I personally would have liked to have kicked the father’s ass (but that is another story).

Anyway, what does one do about ignorance and stupidity? As an educator, I believe that information has power and over time, people can (and do) change. Sometimes, change comes slowly. Sometimes, you have to keep reinforcing the point. I used to teach a class in “project management” where we discussed ways to take the fear out of implementing a new computer system. One of the techniques was to get the employees who actually USED the system involved--to seek their ideas and make them feel that they were actively a part of the “change.” How many times do organizations actually DO it that way though? I think that the “transgendered” lifestyle will take some time to be accepted but there are already TV shows about it and people like Kelly Shore and Vicki Richter have been very outspoken advocates and probably quite effective in helping it to gain acceptance. Others will follow. This forum--and others like it--can serve to communicate as well.

As for how to handle people sticking their nose in other people’s business--the phrase “Fuck Off” comes to mind but you won’t find that in most textbooks. In my professional career, I typically recommend that organizations have policies regarding disclosure of information--and encourage them to be as “open” as possible with employees. For more personal matters--I advocate a combination of incomplete answers and “disinformation.” The old “I am not at liberty to disclose that” or a less diplomatic “it’s none of your business” can work as well. Not everyone or every question deserves an answer. This is the place where I tell my students to “think for themselves”!

Anyway, hope some of this helps to answer your questions and I look forward to talking more with you and others on here. This has been a most interesting Labor Day break! Tomorrow I take the bike out if it doesn’t rain and Wednesday it’s back to class.

BTW I LOVED your definition of “Quartersexual” from an earlier post!

Later...

Hi everyone!:D

I have been watching transsexual porn for a while. I find transsexuals attractive. As a christian this has been very hard on me. I don't find men attractive. I do find genetic women attractive. At times I feel confused about who I am.

I have read my reports about this question. Most legitimate doctors and psychologist have said men who like transsexuals are straight.

Transsexuals are very feminine. They look and act like women. However they do have a penis. They were born men. There has been research that supports that Transsexuals are intersex. The research has found many transsexuals have the brain structure of a woman and some have different hormone levels.

I dont feel guilt

I have no reason too

well i do like girls too so i would say i am a bi male, i go both ways
but no gay here.

Simple reply
 

YES
Why, ?? to want, to be with, or have, or whatever, its yes no matter what way you want to look at the question

I did a lot of soul searching when I became interested and no matter what way I looked at it yes I am gay to want a my partner [when I find her]

:yes:

No, you should not feel guilty at all. Robert Heinlein said that the only sin was hurting others unnecessarily and all other "sins" were invented nonsense. Also that hurting yourself was not a sin, just stupid.

So it is no sin for you to be attracted to Tgirls. However, it may be a sin to allow others, including your family, to know of this. And like some of the members urged above, it is a passion best kept to yourself. Like the old saying says: "what they don't know, can't hurt them."

Can it hurt you? That is only a question you will be able to answer. If you keep this passion where it belongs and do not allow it to rule your life you will be okay. You might meet a Tgirl you fall in love with or you might not. You may only love from afar. While sex is certainly a driving force in most humans, especially the young with their raging hormones; it is not the most important thing. As you grow older, you will find that it becomes less and less important. Life is too short to be feeling guilty about anything as trivial as sex.

Some times I do feel little ashamed from it, but i can't help it, I love it :yes:

there almost needs to be a new category to describe guys that like LBs, aside from bi.

I've come to an "understanding" with myself about my interest in T-girls, much the same as I did about my first heterosexual encounter; The guy was attractive, a gentleman, and was fun to be with in or out of bed. "OK", I said to myself, "This went better than I had been told to expect." Of course, multiple orgasms during one's first time MIGHT have contributed to the "OK!" There was some guilt after we parted that night but my Irish Catholic grannie had planted that seed from my childhood. Take THAT, Grannie!
The venture into sex with another female was more difficult to reconcile (Grannie again!) but as with my first guy the experience with the girl was romantic, sensual, and orgasmic to boot. I remember thinking to myself "Well, this may take a little more time to get used to." but that first time had been nice in every way so it was easier than I thought to admit to myself that I am bisexual. Now I have a lusty relationship with a wonderful guy as well as one with the girl referenced in this post. I guess at that point I was "Bisexually Monogamous", :innocent:
Then....Ruh Roh! I was introduced to T-girls via the internet, guided into it by the same girl with whom I first sampled Sapphic love. She, by the way, is still my best friend and lover.
I'd known that T-girls existed and had even been introduced to one in a bar but that was a world that was poles apart from mine. Then, after seeing some truly intriguing images and vids on the 'net I had to admit that I was more than just amused or mildly curious. I was absolutely fascinated! Seeing my first castrated T-girl really made me moist and giddy.
I remember thinking "Grannie will kill me if she ever finds out." Of course, If she'd found out about my first guy OR my lesbian fun, I'd have been dead long before now.
Now that I've become involved with a true T-girl, an Asian who has been castrated as well, I feel I've reached my limit, both morally and in my "comfort zone". In a way, I feel complete.
Guilt? Yes, at every boundary crossed. Resolution? So far, in that I realize that I am what I am.
NOTE: My parents know of my heterosexual love life and my father knows, I suspect, that my GF and I do more than shop, hunt and fish, and have pillow fights but he treats her like a daughter. She adores him as well and would seduce him if she thought she could.
If, however, either parent learned of my Asian "Ladyboy" and the things we do, not to mention my little kink for castration, they'd probably kidnap me and sequester me in a convent located in the Alps.
"Sister Curious"...has a nice ring to it.

Hey! I just realized that I am Trisexually Monogamous!:lol:

I used to
 

I did feel guilt until i dated one for a year. She was a woman in every way bar the obvious, and because she was just like any of my previous girlfriends the guilt went away.
I think you need to see shemales as real women who were born in the wrong body, which is mostly the case, and dont dwell on the fact they were born men. You will be fine then.
I sense you have never dated a shemale before, you need to ;)

I am exactly like u except I'm 25 now. My suggestion is go wit the flow. I'm headed to a tranny party on fri

No. I learnt not to feel guilty for being who I am a long time ago.

i understand i too feel guilty once in a while
i wont lie trannys are some of the coolest down to earth laid back people i ever met so i forget about the guilt its not like u have to fuck them u can just be frineds until u feel comfortable enough

I'm not in the slightest bit ashamed- in fact I can't fathom the guys who 'settle' with genetic girls when deep down they really love tgirls. I was speaking to one older guy in the Wayout club who was lamenting that he'd wasted his life trying to be 'heterosexual'. Its easier for me I suppose as i'm openly bi and everyone knows including my folks- they're ok with it too. Well they can like it or lump it! Actualy i've dropped the bi tag as I exclusively date tgirls, i'm not wasting my life with a woman who I wont be satisfied with.

All I need to do know is find the right woman. ;)

Gulit?
 

When i had my first session with A ts i felt guiklty later. After a while that stopped. Now i'm fully into beautiful shemales and love them.
I'm in my 50's and have had a lot of sex over the years . I must say shemales are the best,sexy,sluttty horny.
I've even started swallowing cum for my bets partners..they lOVE it!

No, I never feel guilty for liking tgirls. Nor will I ever feel guilty for liking tgirls.

I have an Asian TS girlfriend and we adore each other - she's the best girlfriend and lover I've ever had.

I don't feel guilty or ashamed in the slightest, and since I don't want kids, there's no barrier to us being together for the long term. However, I do worry about other people's reactions if, as planned, we get "married" (civil partnership in the UK) and she comes here to live. I haven't got much family to speak of, but I'm pretty sure some friends will be weird about it.

In fact, does anyone have any advice in this area?

No, I do not feel guilty. I like what I like. A friend of mine says that no one can help what turns them on, and tgirls sooooooo turn me on. I know most of my friends wouldn't understand, but that's why sites like this are so important, filled with people who DO understand. :yes:

i've been into shemales since i was 18ish, i would not say i feel guilty about liing these beautiful t-girls but it does anoy me that its taboo and its fround apon, people see it the say as being gay but me personaly i do not find men attractive nore to i find men in drag attractive but shemales and females i do... however like after watching any porn once i cum i feel a lil guilty no matter what im watching lol but i havn't stoped nore do i plan to ...

No, I don't feel guilty. Why should I?

hell yeah i agree with you 100%:yes:

i am bored this kind of questions !!! i consider my self as a Pansexual (A group which is open to members of all sexual orientations or gender identities including straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transexual, or transvestite)
I like having sex and i don't care their genders but i just can't love a man. I like romantism only with females.
But if it is just sex gender is not important but i prefer mostly transexual, or transvestite.

If someone call me gay because of me loving shemales then call me gay. I don't care :D :lol:

Who cares what you are! Just live your life and have fun

Polysexual.

I thought about it for a LONG time and I still don't know...

But what I do know is,

Thoughts about sucking shemale's dick makes me horny.

Thoughts about sucking man's dick doesn't.

And then I thought there is no difference between shemale's dick, and my dick. A dick is a dick.

So I thought about sucking man's dick, again, and it started to make me horny a little bit. Actually, the more I think about it, the more I 'get it'.

I want to feel my dick being serviced, to a point where I scream and cum all over the place. I know not many women can do that. My wife? She can't do it even if she tried.

So I have to help myself. I have to masturbate, to thoughts that makes me sexually active. Horny, I mean.

And if there was a guy, who needed his dick to be serviced in a way that he will scream and ejaculate, I'd be happy to help out, and while doing it, get my share of pleasure too.

Is that gay?

I'm leaning towards, YES, that is so fucking gay....

I'm anal, married, and faithful. Hot shemales and my imagination is great for jerking off. I dont care what that makes me.

I do feel a bit guilty, but as others have said on here its because society dictates that my attraction would be described as ad-normal or perhaps even perverse. But I can't help what I'm attracted to and I've learnt that just because the views in a political society might dictate what people should think, we are individuals and part of the animal kingdom at heart, so we will always be defined by what each of us finds attractive. I mean for goodness sake, around 40 years ago gays were condemned....

carpe diem: I enjoy the day with my tgirl with every fiber of my body; am in partnership with my tgirl in line, not a bad degree, conventions have close to us only. friendly greetings

I do feel guilty sometimes. I can't stand the thought of having sex with a man but because it is a lady boy it makes it alright. twisted logic I suppose.

Well, my opinion is, that there is no point in shame, blame or such stuff. I have simple rule. If you like something, do it. :-). :hug:

Yes, I feel guilty some of the time, but not because I chalk it up to some sort of sin or anything along any religious lines. I used to work in an outpatient mental health facility, and we would sometimes get people in there suffering from sexual identity crisis, sometimes showing up crossdressing (and failing pretty miserably at being "convincing") and those particular cases were almost all brought on by sexual abuse at a very young age. Likewise, I have a male cousin who longs to be a lady, swearing and declaring he was born with the wrong plumbing, and yet he too suffered sexual abuse when he was very young.

So the main reason I sometimes feel guilty is because I feel like I just might be "cashing in" on somebody else's trauma. I don't know how or why all of these t-girls are or rather become what they are...the life decisions that have brought them to the point where I'm seeing pics or videos of them...but the nagging thought in the back of my mind is: "*What if* they were molested and/or abused? Am I feeding into their emotional turmoil?" In other words, I sometimes think I'm digging on exploitation of a deeper issue, and deriving pleasure out of somebody else's misfortune is simply not cool.

Another reason I feel guilty is that I sometimes think I'm doing nothing more than bullshitting myself. Every so often a "before" pic will hit the internet of a t-girl, and that kind of reality check is like a slap to the face. The way I see it is: I would never in a million years find a man attractive, but shave his body, grow his hair out, slap on some make-up and boobs, and suddenly I'm like "Oh what a beautiful woman!" Bullshit...I'm drooling over a guy that's had some work done. I'm not saying that is how I truly feel all of the time, just some of the time when I'm in those moments of guilt. Why? Who knows. Like our attractions, we can't always control our thoughts on things either, no matter how invasive they can be at times.

The only way you won't like the trannies nowadays is if your gay..
 

No offense but, the trannies nowadays; look more and more like gg's. So I'm simply saying if a man, doesn't get horny after viewing one, on lets say "Shemale Yum" he might be considered gay.

I would argue the inverse to be true, but that's just me. And not a very popular notion around here.

I agree that many, many t-girls can be immensely sexually attractive for straight men.... as long as their private parts aren't in view. But as soon as the cock and balls spring bravely into the light of day, most straight men would lose interest. And I've seen many t-girls on this forum saying the same things from experience.

So no, being gay isn't the only way you won't like trannies. Now if what you're looking for is placing yourself and your preferences as far away from "gay" as you can, that's something else..... but kinda superfluous I'd say...

Gay, straight, whatever... Labels are pretty meaningless at the end of it.

I've met a few guys are who are quite adamant that just because they like TVs they're straight and could never fuck another guy - even some of the ones who are desperate to get their lips round your cock will tell you this ;)

WRONG! All of the shemale porn sites emphasize the Tgirls cock, the bigger the better. Surveys indicate that it is straight white males that are their best customers. Many straight men find shecock a tremendous turnon. :turnon::inlove::yes:

I go through stages where I'll try to block them out.
Lasts for a couple weeks but I always go back, I don't know if I'll ever be able to be completely comfortable with my lust for transexuals.

An excellent post.
I haven't thought much about why a person wants to become a tranny. I was not aware that abuse could be the cause for some cases. Some men just seem to be wired to be women. I have some erotic feelings about femaleness although I have no desire to be a female or wear female panties. I love transsexual fantasies and would like to have a tranny lover, however. I never thought about transsexuals until I discovered them on the internet. Now its almost an obsession.
I really relate to your comment about men making themselves look like women and all of a sudden they are sexually attractive, yes this is bullshit especially for the so called ladyboys in Thailand. They are "cute" boys pure and simple.
Yes the horny male mind does strange things.

Now the discsussion has shifted from self-centered concerns to those of social responsibility. There is no doubt in my mind that Gor Gar is right that some, if not many, cases of transgenderism are caused by abuse. I would like to broaden the definition of abuse to include mental abuse, and not just actual sexual abuse. I would suggest that there are many roads that lead to transgender status, and the map is far from being finished. From postings on this forum it is obvious that some members are inclined in a homosexual way in that they rave on about pics of guys butts and dicks, while at the other end of the spectrum we have guys who only like very feminine looking Tgirls. Then there are the members who are fully Tgirls, whose inputs are a very valuable asset to this forum and should be fully considered.

So...just like the Tgirls we all have pasts ( our path ) that has lead us to the present. You could just as well ask if the Tgirls are contributing or, as Gor Gar put it, "cashing in" on our behavior and fantasies. The nitty-gritty of the matter is that we all use one another. It is up to us to do so in an equitable manner. I see no reason for anyone to feel guilty about their participation in any facet of life if they are not harming others. Now that may be a very difficult thing to determine and in some cases impossible. Who can forsee every consequence of their actions? The best we can do is think (meditate, pray, etc) and inform ourselves about the matter and follow our conscience. Just remember that we all rationalize our behavior; it is your duty to get as much data as possible and never to set your conclusions in stone; more information may present itself to modify or reverse your conclusion.

For those of you who read these discussions and never comment; I, and others here, urge you to do so. Your input is valuable data and is appreciated by many regardless of your position.

it is terrible
i wish i would never had experience with lb
but it is like drug, u become addicted to it

No never felt guilty...!!!

I don't feel any guilt when looking at it myself, I enjoy normal porn as well, but shemales really do it for me, I don't care what people think I should or shouldn't like.

However, I don't really tell anyone about it because they'll think I'm gay or a freak, of which I am neither. Just because I like a cock on a girl doesn't mean I like a cock on a guy, by that logic if you love pussy on a girl you must therefore like a pussy on a man (think buck angel). I'm sure most straight men are definitely not into a muscular man with a vagina, that is somebody elses cup of tea. The point is that the logic behind stereotypes make no sense but you still may be ridiculed for it. Although it may be cause for ridicule, it is NOTHING to feel guilty about, there's nothing wrong about liking a chick with a dick... You just don't have to tell anyone about it if you don't want to xD

The point is, that it's a fact that T-girl porn is gaining a lot of popularity nowadays. I read that article as well, and I was quite imprssed about it. Never though I'd see that coming.

No, never. Why? I like them, I´m happy with them. Why to be guilty?
Never must feel guilty with what gives you happines. If you feel guilty, there is something wrong with you.

Initially yes, but I got over it real quick when I discovered there were so many guys like me out there

No Guilt from me
 

I have read many of the replies most from younger guys, my views as a older male, guilt feelings are generated when you have done wrong, it is not wrong to look, enjoy, or love another no matter what the gender may be.
:respect:

I don't have any reaon to feel guilty because I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. I'm wondering where other people's guilt comes from... letting down family? Offending your god? Fortunately, neither of those things apply to me. I would, however, feel guilty and ashamed if if I didn't to do what makes me happy.

I don't feel any guilt now but the first few times I went with a TS in Thailand and the Philippines I felt like everyone on the street was watching me. Actually they probably were. ha ha.

Now I don't even notice. I'm proud to be with a TS.

hi
 

Well I do feel guilty mostly because of my twisted reason for being attracted to t-girls. I adore athletic and muscular bodies on my woman and when I see that kind of body (often) on shemales it turns me on. I find myself lookingat the arms and legs hoping to see flexing. In fact I was with a few shemales with muscular bodies and the only thing I didnt want to touch or know about was the Penis. but what could I say my fetish is met minus the vagina. This being said I am oddly attracted and want to play with that Long Mint's penis...
Weird, I may freak out when faced with it but it looks like fun to play with.

And the point is?
 

Does it matter? Be comfortable in who you are. But for those who feel the need for an answer, IMHO the feminine form is not something attractive to someone "gay".

Why is this thread still active its ridiculous you can be totally straight and love shebabes or gay and love shebabes why is this such an issue with some ppl. I myself have a beautiful full figured all female girlfriend that I love to death but I also love shebabes. Honestly somebody needs to close this thread down.

You may feel shame over your desire, I still do have a little shame too. Here's my take. I spent a bizzillion hours from 12-28 lusting after pussy. Dreaming of it, chasing it, spending untold amount of money for it. I've been a porn addict from the beginning. Even before I could get my hands on porn I was collecting pictures of lingerie models from the Sunday paper. I think kinky porn addicts tastes change over time. Big bust was my thing till my mid-20s, than I went to feet and leg fetish magazines. I think if you are submissive, like me, that also pulls you toward trannies in a strong way, because what is more dominating than a big hard cock. So I'm gay right? But then why do I desperately my fucking my busty Asian girlfriend, hearing her babble in Korean as I pound her tight pussy? So I'm bi? Maybe, but I think I'm just a kinky guy obsessed with Asian femininity. Life is too short. Revel in what you love. Let the small-minded folks bicker.

Depends
 

I personally dont suck on t-girls and i would never let one bum me, i treat them like women. Get sucked and then fuck them. I think if you like them to dom you and you love sucking then you are gay. If im gay for bumming gorgeous t-girls then so be it

I am Bi not Tri
 

See there are three sexes I can say with confidence that I am Bi-Sexual. I love GG's and TS's but I pass on M4M. Sucking on a man's cock is definately not the same as a TS. You miss the smell, the feel and the sight of a beautiful lady.

Ask yourself this: Would you rather fuck a macho trans-man with muscles, shaved head, goatee and a pussy, or a beautiful, feminine trans-woman with a penis.

As far as I'm concerned, gayness hasn't got a lot to do with what's between the legs, and I wouldn't be attracted to a G-man or a T-man, nor a masculine woman for that matter.

To quote the film Trainspotting, "[attraction] is all about aesthetics".

No. It's idiotic to suggest it, but we live in a black and white society that doesn't show the complexity of life. The replies above me concluded the complexity. Stop living in a black and white universe, start seeing the grey and the complexity, and you'll suddenly come to see a much bigger, fuller, more interesting picture.

-Dory

yh i think it is personally but as you said humans are complex and you cant stick people into strict categories

I´m not a taker, and I just like ALL KINDS of girls :yes:
I dont consider myself gay, but another might would, whatever. That happened to me before when on a party I said Rob Halford was pretty awesome, damn, I didn´t mean I wanted to get laid with him! :lol:

big no here :no:

Personally I dont think that men that like girls are gay. Even if the girls they like happen to be born a male. As long as it is sex between a guy and a girl it is straight sex.

However, I'm sure if you took all the guys here and all the girls here and put us in a nice little christian church, we would all be labled as gay.

Who care, if you like chick with dick.

This topic has been run into the ground somebody please kill this.