Secret-ish
 

I would have to say that any significant partners in my life have know about my penchant for, particularly, ladyboys. I will ensure that that always remains the case.

I can equally conceive of being with a GG or a TS in a meaningful relationship. I suspect, being geographically challenged TS-wise [Holland], the former, but that won't detract from the underlying appreciation I have for a beautiful ladyboy. If she, a future partner [whatever], doesn't understand that then she won't know or understand me - ergo, a wholly pointless union...

Wow - how horrible to have to live that life. No judgment there, just an inward reflection.

btw - I am sooo happy to have found this place!

Baci,

Shini

very secret :(

Secret for now...

I'll be moving to Thailand (Bangkok) soon, and I don't intend to keep my passion for ladyboys secret when I'm there...

I'll send pics & vids...

See ya soon,

BriDog333

Great question, great poll...

I've chosen "secret for now", but I could easily have gone with "very secret"... I'm part of a very heterosexual, stereotypically macho group of friends, who always chase pussy... whilst I still absolutely love pussy, and do join them on a chase every now and then, I've kept my love of TS cock secret, for obvious reasons. But, if my dream scenario ever came true and I fell in love with a gorgeous TS, I wouldn't hesistate to declare my secret obsession to the world, regardless of what friends or family would think. But that's the ONLY circumstances in which I'd come clean.

1st post here, and telling my story already....

excuse my mistakes, english in not my native language...

I came across shemales on the web by chance...at first I just couldn't believe that there were "she-males", then, while surfing intensively on thumbnail posts (addicted really...and regretabilly) I became increasingly amazed... later when found them with portuguese names I just couldn't belive my eyes...it was the ultimate turn-on.

I reject any form of subjugation, abuse, or exploitation (children, hunger, drug deprivation, poverty) and sometimes you inadvertadly come across transexual content that make you wonder...that promotes transexuality as a bad thing, and also because of that it should be rejected...

apart from the above, androgeny is my thing...it just turns me on, not only sexually, but the whole idea of transgender ...i love it.


Kept it a secret for a long time... I don't consider myself gay (although there is a debate on wether...well technicalities) but having lived most of my life as a self reassured hetero some of You might understand and maybe even sympathise with the journey it has been...
I recently broke with a woman that is very special and that I really cared about... the main reason being that I confessed my fascination with shemales, just couldn't keep pretending anymore.. I'm glad I did it, as it came with a sense of relief...BIG sense of relief. At first she was...well, surprised... we then talked about the implications and in the end she decided she couldn't play along.
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I have had encounters with shemales, in my age and in my surroundings finding a tranny with whom you feel you can engage emotionally would be something extremely lucky....so most of my encounters were sexual...which is a part of transexualitty I DO like:-) but I wish I could meet someone in the real world and just be happy. Society isn't just ready yet, some of barriers will have to be broken towards acceptance if living with a transgendered, shemale, newhalf, doesn't become a sort of a freak show...at least in my european, democratic, developed yet conservative country

I personally feel that the future will be genderless in the sense that the traditional man/woman division will be played down ... everyone will be happy be with whoever they want to be, and rightly so...

just not right now...

it's probably up to us, T-lovers of today, to help its acceptance a bit more


Excuse the long speech...

All the best

Well, I replied "secret for now" but none of the choices are really appropriate for me. I don't care what other people think of me, I am much stronger than that, and I'd like to believe that my family would love and support me no matter who I loved. And it really isn't anyone else's business who I am attracted to.

I have never been with a t-girl, and it's been a long time since I had a girlfriend. I have fantasized about t-girls for more than half my life, and I have long since come to terms with that in my own mind. I do not consider myself "gay," I consider myself to be myself. (I only mention that because it seems to be THE first question every guy asks himself (and the first forum of this kind he finds!) when he realizes his attraction to tgirls. I know I asked myself that question long ago).

I figure I could have sought out a t-girl escort long ago, and many times since, but I have never paid for sex and do not know that I ever will, even if my fantasies never become reality. I find the idea of paying for sex to be depressing, to be honest. It's not a moral question for me as I believe prostitution should be legalized as it's never going to go away anyway, but a combination of my upbringing and my own outlook have thus far precluded me from seeking out an escort.

The fact is, I want to find my soulmate, and I would love that soulmate to be a tgirl. Is this a stupid dream with zero chance of being fulfilled? Perhaps, but if I compromise I will never know. I admit to being pretty stupid as I don't frequent any places that are known to be tgirl "haunts" and I haven't looked on-line for a tgirl girlfriend, but I still fantasize about finding that special girl. And if I did find her, you bet your bottom dollar I wouldn't hide her or be ashamed of her. She'd be ultimately the only thing that mattered, to hell with what anyone else thought.

Well, sorry for the long-windedness. Maybe I am just a hopeless romantic (well, hopeless certainly), but I can no more change that fact than I can change the fact that I think tgirls are the most beautiful girls on the planet, inside and out.

yeah no joke
 

i love right were you do in LaFollette TN between cumberland gap/harrogate and knoxville i havent told anyone from around here well besides you now anyways lol

Some of my more-open minded friends know. I confided into some woman friends of mine and they were positive about it. One even found it a turn-on.

Choose you audience wisely. It's no use trying to convert bigots. Stick to the people you know and trust.

I've never kept it a secret. No one ever asked me and I saw no reason to come out and say anything. Now though after constantly talking to my co-workers and others where I work, about trans issues, they have a good idea. I've gotten an amazing amount of acceptance. Should I one day be lucky enough to have a transwoman as a girlfriend or my wife I'm sure that none of my acquaintances will be surprised.

Its a fantasy, I dont really want it to come true

What a surprise
 

Wow,,, I never would've thunk it,, lol. Near 2/3rd's reply they seriously shy. It's no secret here that's for sure :)

Its a secret.

You may have heard, Yasmine Lee is giving up escorting and is looking for a husband. It would be hard to find a tgirl nicer than Yasmine.:respect:

I'm openly bi. On the tgirl front my family knows and accepts it, my gay friends know and also my close friends. I don't want to be too out as if i'm dating a girl in stealth then she isn't going to want to be outed. Thats the only reason though, I have no hangups. Most people don't seem to care, except some g girls won't date a bi man but thats about it.

For now, my wife knows (but we don't talk about it really) and my brother might know (I told him the day he came out to me, but we didn't really talk about it). Other than that, I don't think anyone else knows.

Not even my best friend who I've toyed with telling.

Its not a secret. If somebody wanted to know all they have to do is ask. However, I don't go around introducing myself as somebody who is bi and likes Trans women. Like I said its something that you can easily find out about me, but not something everybody and their brother knows.

I've told a few friends, but I'm terrified of telling my wife. I'm not sure how she'd react, but I'm willing to bet it wouldn't be positive. At all.

Nobody in real life knows.

secret. i dont see the point in telling anyone....
maybe after i get my first one i will......but well see

It had been secret, but since publicizing and participating in our local ?Day of Remembrance? last November, most of my friends have figured it out. I showed some pictures of Kelly Shore, Kimber, Yeidi, Camilla Saenz, Hazel Tucker, and a few other models to a couple of my male friends over Christmas--they thought they were all pretty hot (like who wouldn?t?!!). I don?t think it is any big deal actually. Almost all of my friends are in higher education and open minded, several are openly gay, and my family has always supported me no matter what. :cool:

It"s funny I never thought about telling anyone. Does anyone really need to know that much about me? I live quite an ordinary life with my Thai girlfriend Yao. I guess we are still regarded as a bit of a novelty, It was she who introduced me to the "ladyboy" phenomenon. I"ve never discussed our feelings with friends. Funnily enough Yao"s family accept "ladyboys" as a normal part of Thai society. It transpires she had a 4 year relationship with a "ladyboy" before moving to England! So whilst I wouldn"t volunteer the information, neither would I deny it if I were asked! At the end of the day don"t knock it until you"ve tried it. You never know you just might like it! Secret or not, it"s upto YOU!!

My first post, yay.
Secret for now, but who knows, right?
I have just recently awakened (if that is what you would call it) to TS women, and lord I am hooked. But, sadly, I live in the S.E. US in redneckville, and there is about zero chance of meeting anyone here.

Sex, drugs, my taste of music, ask and you'll get an honest answer, but I'm not running around with a sign around my neck.

Anyone ever caught themselves on giving what according to friends were "wrong" answers? And the most fun part: them trying to find an alternative interpretation of the remark to make it sound right in their skulls. :frown:

It's a secret but i have noticed that more and more guys are curious about them, so things might change.;)

Was very secret, but now some know
 

It was very secret, but one time i let some friends rent my room while i was on vacation, and they found some tranny porn i had stashed away on my old PDA.
I was devastated when i first got off the plane and saw the text message, claiming they found the pictures, but I swallowed it down and owned up to the pictures. With a little help from hunter s thompson i gathered myself.
"When the going gets weird the, the weird turn pro"
They were pretty cool with it, and when I got back i was the butt of a couple very inside jokes.
One of them even consoled to me in secret that he too believed shemales to be "hot"

VERY SECRET. i keep my collection stashed deep inside one of my my documents folder

no one knows i jerk off the shemale porn coz i'm a geniuenly straight bloke no one would ever guess, personally think 60% of straight guys are watching shemale porn, its a phenomena, its the biggest turn on i think most men know that spewcialy porn freaks

My love of t-girls is still very much a secret but I keep coming close to telling a close friend. I'm toying with the idea.

This is weird for me too.

And really don't know how to explain myself.

I'm pretty open about after all I'm 45 years old and been involved in the Transgender community since 1993 so it's not really any big secret.:cool::respect:

secret
 

It's secret I'm married living a double life, married straight, cock and ladyboy lover. I love cock but I love being treated with respect, until we get rid-of the perverts, it won't happen and that's what's stopping it, along with the molesters, we have to break the connection.:confused::no::confused:

Only 1 person knows(she also likes tgirls, crossdressers and btm boys so I didn't have a hard time coming out to her) besides the 2 tgirls I've been with.

Very, very secret for me. I'm not sure if my friends are into shemales like me and they would view me as a different person for ever. I'm sure one day i will be able to tell girlfriends that I have a like for shemales and maybe if I'm lucky, a threesome with a shemale. Wouldn't that be hot?

It's secret. If I ever have a shemale-girlfriend and we're getting serious, I'll tell everyone, but until then it stays secret.

Everyone knows! I don't give a flying f*ck what other people think about me- that's their problem not mine. If people can't accept me for who I am then they're no friends of mine- it's not as if my passions hurt anyone. I absolutely REFUSE to bow down to society's expectations of perceived "normality"- who the hell has the right to tell me what's normal anyway? If everyone was the same we may as well be inbred. I say celebrate whatever makes you unique-be proud of who you are, and anyone who looks down on you are merely weak-minded sheep herded by whatever fashion or religion currently dictates.
So my friends, rise above and be proud! Be a wolf amongst this sheepish society! Viva la revolution! :)

Voted "secret for now" but...
 

...I have no intention to keep this "in my closet" for another decade, shit!! My ex-wife knows (of course) and my 2 sons (both in their mid-20s) probably suspect something, seeing their dad totally single for the last 8 years now, though I don't feel it's necessary I tell them...

Nobody else knows but I'm in the process of searching the "right words" in order to let (at least) my close relatives know about it... Like me, they're all in their early 50s now so I'll definitely have to be careful, you see... Like, makin' the pill as easy to swallow as possible...

My current partner knows and is fine with it. We look at tgirl porn together. I'm very lucky :inlove:

Very Secret. Nobody knows, I'm currently in a very loving relationship with a GG, but I'm aloud my secrets and maybe one day I can fulfil my fantasy.

secret for me.
but if i ever got involved with a tgirl as a girlfriend then i would tell people. there is just no need to right now.

Very secret goes for me. That's cause I don't know If my friends would stay the same or they'll start thinking I'm gay and stuff. Nobody in my real life knows but I think one of my best friends kinda know it already since one time he saw two shemale pictures on my phone that I forgot to delete and a Tranny Cumpilation I forgot to delete from my desktop. I don't know but I want to and don't want to reveal it at the same time... I'm confused myself, I really would love a releationship or just a night with a shemale but I'm more into girls in real life. Shemales are like my fetish thing but starting to love them as hell.

A friend just phoned. Just before disconnecting, and knowing that a group of my students are coming over this afternoon for a couple of hours, she said that she hoped one of them would be a really hot shemale who would want to stay after.

I guess she knows my secret!

I have this same problem. People think i'm joking. :)

Secret for now, because liking a tgirl is still somehow and more or less a taboo.

But it might change soon since I am in a relationship with a (Thai) tgirl for some months. She will soon move to UK and then it?s just a matter of time she will meet my family and friends. I wanna be open about it in the near future.

None of my friends or family know about my lust for shemales. Having said that, i have been out in public in my home town with a shemale friend in the past. She was pretty convincing but perhaps not 100% so I could have been "outed" quite easily.

If i ever get into a relationship with a shemale then everyone will know - I'll tell them

I just let my friend know about my love for trannies a couple days ago. He doesn't quite get it but he's pretty cool about knowing about my secret desire.

None of my family knows about my love for shemales, or my friends. I don't think they would over-react or anything, but it's just not a chance I'm willing to take.

I've always thought that I would tell my family if I were to start dating a t-girl.