Actually, he never asked. He made a statement: "I do not know why ..." What you ascribe as a quotation never appears in his post. So, were this about being an English teacher ... well, figure it out.

But my point was not about being an English teacher, but precisely about the presumption that one can explain for another. And my point was not meant contentiously, but in the interest of real discussion. :)

Good question. No idea really :)

WuldLuv2Try maybe is on to something:

Perhaps it is such a turn on because we know, as WudLuv2Try says, ?exactly? how it feels. When I make love to a woman I get the most pleasure from knowing I am giving her pleasure. As many of us here are ?straight,? we are not attracted to the male face and body. But change that to a gorgeous woman and well? that changes everything. Go back and read my earlier post where I mention Kimber. It is awesome to imagine going down on someone like that and doing things to her that you yourself like.

As for those of us who are ?gay? or ?bi?--we are attracted to the male face and body. Or both. Which is fine too.

It is interesting to know that some pre-op transwomen do not want their partner to have anything to do with their penis. In real-life it is important to understand that and respect your partner?s preferences.

for myself, I am completely at ease with and love my cock .... but I think there is a lot to be said for the notion that, yes, we know exactly how it feels, what's good and what isn't so good, and that has to play into it all.

There's no way it wouldn't I don't think..... :innocent:

I think this is exactly right for me

I think it allows you to connect better with the opposite sex. I don't really know the psychology behind it, but here's my take:

Your penis is your pleasure center, and I'd say most males are very thankful to have one. You guard your package at whatever cost, and it's almost like another entity - give it enough attention and in return, it will give you pleasure. When you see that object transposed on a woman, it gives you a common grounds with her to connect with her sexually. I'm sure many of us were confused when we first saw a vagina and wondered where the penis was. In this way, seeing a penis on a woman "makes sense" even though a vagina should technically make sense.

Yeah man! :respect:

I like your train of thoughts. Makes sense to me.

I like a good time, and coffee
 

I didnt like dick until I saw shemale porn. Before strictly straight, now im bi but dont like guys unless they are trans or drag. this all started around 16ish years of age. so being exposed to it early on seems to help, thank god for the internet.

im not sure why i like dick i just do it doesnt make you gay thats just what you like
being gay is a lot deeper than liking penis
and even if you are gay so what stop with the labels as long as your happy thats all that matters

Very well put. There is nothing wrong with being gay and there is nothing wrong with liking or loving transwomen. I don't see that men liking transwomen as being gay. Transwomen are, after all, women.

I especially like your comment, Jayshawn, to stop with the labels. Like or love who you you want to and disregard the labels. Labels are given by others whose only intention is to hurt their target, so don't listen to others and enjoy what you enjoy.

quite honestly, i was never one of those women who hated her penis.

i loved the way it would swell and throb between my ass cheeks, i loved the way it felt throbbing and pumping cum and so hard my fist couldn't stop it.

i loved the way a vagina folded tightly around it with its velvet wetness and when a guy was fucking me in the ass, i loved how the penis i had felt like an extension of his.

i love, love, the taste of cum, its hot sticky musky saltiness, the iron fist in a velvet glove hardness of it in my mouth.

i love the feeling of nylon panties against my rockhard heat and feeling of cum tricking out my panties and down my leg as i rubbed myself to heaven.

which is why i want a she-male. i want to caress her body, make love to her cock and feel her cumming inside me as i suck her tits, i want my cum to run down her cock and i lick it all off...

This post makes me wish I could be that partner for you!

I'd say that cock is an acquired taste...

So, so true. When I realized I was bisexual, it was when I had an emotional connection to another boy that went along with a physical attraction. I still haven't been with a man physically, but I know I'm bisexual. Being attracted to dick is just an added bonus :)

dick
 

I can only speak from experience, but once I sucked cock a whole new world opened up, Icannot stop sucking cock, and ladyboys, shemales, femboys, and very sexy cross-dressers just make it all the more exciting, but I will still fuck pussy. but the fore-mentioned takes priority.

I like everything about cock.
The way one feels all greased up in my hand.
I like how they feel and taste in my mouth.
And what's better then a big sloppy cock driving in and out of my ass.
I wish somebody was here now to shoot their sticky load into my mouth.

Hello there, i'm new here!

Although i'm straight in the everyday usage of the word, technically there are no distinct or stable orientations.

I have quite a different take on this topic. For me, it seems my fetishism is born out of the eventual sexualization of childhood trauma; For whatever specifics i'm not sure, but my masculinty, my identity was called into question. It is possible that there is no obvious event to draw on, but there were reverberations. My earliest memories of what would have been wet dreams at about the age of eight involved me appearing at school after growing my hair or being alice in wonderland. Whats these dreams had in common is that the femininity was subjected, self conscious and turned me on, where in the past it was traumatic.

A "subjected femininity" can take many forms; I often like to imagine myself in drag or as a shemale, utterly feminine except for the nessesary "symbolic" remnant which allows me to recognise myself. A typical, logical extension of this scenario can invole me being made love to by a masculine man. The thought of two men having sex does little for me, or even repulses me... But if there is an imagined or visible feminization somewhere is there, then i'm good. Even I like to imagine that "this" is happenning to someone else, that this boy is being subjected to this or that scenario.

So for me, what can be sexy about cock is how it functions in the context of "subjected femininity".


Some of the theorizing on this thread has been really dodgy, I recommend (and love) Cal Y. Pygia's essays from Literotica

well the reason for my fondness for dick is because it gives me utter pleasure whether it is in my hands, or in my mouth or poking my butt;D

I'm starting to realize it's about being submissive. Unlike a lot of people here - TS girls are not my only "unusual" turn on. Some others are BBW girls, licking ass and i really want to be pissed on. I almost never watch a TS getting fucked by a guy. The fantasy is either taking it from a TS or more often, sucking a dick and getting cummed on. All of these things seem to point to me being submissive. What's more submissive than a beautiful girl forcing a dick into my mouth and forcing me to lick her asshole? This is clearly not a passing thing either bc I've been turned on by TS porn for 8-9 years ... as well as BBW porn - asslicking and watersports came a little later. Idk, I guess the idea of just sucking the dick of a beautiful girl is an amazing thing.

PS - I got really hard typing this. :turnon:

For me - i don't consider myself bi -- i can't bring myself to kiss a guy, i'm not attracted to men or want a relationship... now, for years i tried watching bi porn (MMF), sometimes it did the trick, not always. Now, when i found shemale porn -- that really does it for me.. i prefer the more feminine ladies. I still like straight porn and still like straight sex. When I'm with a shemale it's about me being submissive to her.. sucking her and having her fuck me. I know I prefer shemale cock over plastic strapon... it just feels so much better. I guess all of it just came out of wanting to experiment. I also have a number of other fetishes and fantasies...

I finally realized it is what I wanted
 

After being introducted to a ladyboy, by the Thai GG I was seeing. I had being with guys before but not in a while. Being with the ladyboy just brought me back. It did not take long for me to realize I should be on the boys team. I perfer the femboy/ladyboy look. thin, flat chested, hung. I like being the submissive one. I like being with someone who like similar things that I do. If there is no dick involve it is just no fun. I totally lost interest in pussy! I really like idea of two cocks working together to cum.

Same as me. Gay porn does nothing for me, but I love to suck a dick when a guy is in a dress. Go figure.

It's not that I just like dick..I don't like guy dick but give me a feminine dick and wow! Plain and simple. Just anything that's feminine is a huge turn on. :turnon:

I think exactly the way you think!!!! :respect:

I have been trying to theorize my fetish for a while now and coincidentally a day or two ago Amy referred to a theory called "Autogynephilia" which thoroughly matches that what I've been thinking *above*. Google search the short essay called "Emasculation trauma and autogynephilia".

I would like to reiterate the work of Cal Y. Pygia. check out "The Bisexualizing Effect of Erotica", "Procreative Fiction", "Transsexuals: The Better Choice", "How to Beautify Your Cunt" and "Thoughts on Pussies".

I don't really think anyone has really said WHY they like dick. What is the role of cock in the fantasy?

it's so hot, so hard, such a beautifully angry red and silky and throbs with a life of its own and can render its owner powerless... :turnon:

Take away the "angry" part and add how nicely it fills a behind and that it spurts out the most delicious elixir, and candypops' answer pretty much sums it up for me.

Probably the fact that women don't usually come with a penis and that such a sight is strange but interesting and somewhat taboo.

Perhaps for some, simply the cock psychologically functions as it would for the "average" female?

Maybe it is masochistic?

i like the small cocks also!

A big stiff cock with a shiny purple head is just so hot! I love pussy, and I'm not into guys at all - like many here probably I"m just turned on by a hard cock. I don't want to spend time with a guy, I just want to suck a dick. I want to make it feel just like I feel when I get a BJ. I love to rub my dick on another cock, and stroke them together. I think it's all about cumming. I love to cum, and I love to make a dick cum in big spurts. I'm just oversexed, and I love both pussy and cock. Why not enjoy the best of both worlds?

ready and able :)

We like a penis on a woman because it makes her into a TRUE transsexual woman who is not afraid of her gender identification - and that tops femininity.

As Mark Twain once wrote:

?Only kings, presidents, editors, and people with tapeworms have the right to use the editorial 'we'."

I think the above is why Hank Havelock "likes dick" (the topic of the thread), but fortunately everyone is free to provide her or his own answer. ;)

Dick?
Personally, I prefer the term cock, it has more energy to it, like cocking a gun when ready to shoot. lol
Why do "we" (horny guys in this forum) like it. Well, I suppose most of us like our own cock, why not like a girl friends cock? Actually, I love mine (keep trying to suck it, jealous of Liberty). Also, as babies we sucked tits and many of us, later on, sucked pacifiers. Perhaps there is an innate desire to suck on things.
In the case of a transsexual lover, sucking her cock is analogous to eating a ggirls pussey, it gives her pleasure and it is an extremely sexy thing to do and we like doing sexy things, don't we? :turnon::inlove:

What's not to like?

I prefer ladyboys. For me, having a dick in my mouth or ass is just more intimate. Pussy is good too but it can't penetrate and it's the act of penetration and being penetrated that I enjoy. But only with ladyboys. I'm not attracted to men at all. Zero percent.

lets face it, dick tastes better.

and really people reading into people leading ts into sex under false pretenses regarding sex etc. man sex is sex. its an act. some people get off having an orgy, a threesome, sex with a horse.. do these people want this all the time or need to marry these things inorder to enjoy a brief encounter?

seriously, i lived with a ts, i would probably would live (to the best of our ability marry) with the right one, and by the same token i would quite as easily be with the right GG woman for the rest of my life if i met her. Doesnt mean i should stop having sex untill i take a girl out on a date and meet her parents and get there consent to violate there daughter.

if a person is having sex with someone, then its the decision of both of them to engage in that.

I jumped into a discussion on Chix
Kelly Osbourne Apologises For Use Of Transgender Slurs, Says She?ll Never Use The Word ?Tranny? Again


Oh no!
I just ungendered myself! :lol:

I'm just a very bad person
Sorry.

Um does saying "sorry" mean that if you could go back, you would do things differently?
-No.
Ok, in that case I'm not sorry after all and here are some videos of a woman un gendering herself.







{I so totally love Jenna Marbles}

I just used your post as an excuse to post a Jenna Marbles video.
{Did I mention that I love her?}:p



Oops!
I just posted another one.
MeBad!

Funny vid, I LOL.:hug:

I love women. Always have, always will. Pussy is amazing, but there's just something about a girl with a dick. I'm not into guys at all, but when I see a penis on a chick I go nuts. They just make me so hard.

female/male
 

To me there are females, pussy and males, and they both have their flaws.:yes: If you could combine the best of the two, a beautiful sexy body with a cock:turnon: a shemale the best of the two, thats why I like them:yes: my opinion only:innocent:

i like women, and women with dicks (or transgender). not men. pretty simple. at first i was repulsed by women with dicks, but then i looked again out of curiosity and have never looked back. now i just wish i could meet one and fulfill a fantasy that has been giving me the hardest boners for years.

hey buddy.
why did i waste money on friends?
why did i waste time on a college education?

THERE's ONE ANSWER TO ALL OF OUR QUESTIONS THE CONCERN THE REGRET THAT ALL OF US SUFFER FROM:

We trusted and confided, we listened to, we believed in every other person except for, the A #1, ourselves. GO FOR AND TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS AND INTUITIONS MY BROTHER. Live long and prosperous.







ps.
if you can't trust me or leonard, peter cushing will reinstate your man powers

Why do we like dick ??? Have you ever sucked one and swallowed the cum ? Have you ever had one rammed up your ass, cum in you and then turn around and lick it ?? That's why we like dick !!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't like the penis that much. I find the balls a huge turn on though.

I do not know, why I love dicks. I feel mainly heterosexual, but I like a dick far more than a pussy. Strange, but I accept my desires as they are. Therefore I am looking more for shemales than for girls.