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Like some of the other guys I am married. But I voted full time girl friend because Ideally my wife and I would both love a tgirl. I?ve finally let my wife into my fantasy world (why not take all of me, as the song says). I was surprised to find out my wife gets just as turned on as me by watching my shemale porn with me.
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id love to be in a relationship with a hot ts girl
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This is very interesting question. One think is sure. I like girls and I'm not interested in males. Talking about girls, i would like to say, that I like both genetic girls and Tgirls, so the answer is actually for both, when we are talking about long term relationship or marriage. It is not, what she have between her legs, but about our personalities, how we are compatible that we could live together and what we feel to each other. She will be my girl, I will live with her, not others.
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Well my boyfriend wants to marry me
My girlfriend also wants to marry me {civil partnership} I just want to play Call of Duty: Black Ops callofduty! :lol: >>>This video is brill. Hummm.....I think I've got trouble brewing! :yes: |
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Sorry for the OT, Jodie. I just figured I'd try to take your mind off the potential upcoming trouble that is a' brewing.;):lol: |
Sex is for fun, marriage is sex for life.
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But as for the poll. I voted on marriage. Because I would marry a girl like myself, she would be my ideal partner. But I am pan-sexual (basically bi), so I would also be open to marrying cis-gendered men or women. |
I want something serious maybe even marriage
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Steady, committed relationship would be my choice. I've never been one for flings; No offense to those who enjoy that lifestyle, it's just not for me. I'm a bit of a (hopeless) romantic, so having one person to be with would be ideal.
As for marriage...I don't know. I'm a little afraid of marriage. Not the commitment part, but because almost all my friends have been married - and divorced - at least once and I've seen firsthand how it's changed them. They're...not happy. They used to be. Not anymore. |
the majority that chose casual sex strike me as cowards.
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Bascally, full-time girlfriend. I chose marriage though, as I want to show that no matter what her past is, the one I will truly and deeply love deserves that I dedicate my life to her, and to us. But also because it is a way for me to point out that it is awfully wrong that marrying a girl is forbidden or allowed based on what hangs (or hangs not) between her legs...
I can understand what Bionca wrote. I'd like to add it's hard for men who just want to have a nice chat to begin with but are not given the chance because they are not HAWT. But I guess that on this as on anything else, things are never a given, you have to go get it. The other thing is that of course talking about common interests is the key. But let's be honnest, someday, if things get as far as being more than friends, or you picture to go there, you'll have to talk about sex. And trust me, I have seen girls being frigthened to talk about it so much they ran away calling me pervert, though they wanted to try a relationship with me too. (And no, I was no longer 17 at that time). Sorry for the messed up post, I have a nice headache this morning that prevents me from writing something... better tought out Oh, and if one of you like to talk about computer sciences, computer networks sciences, fantasy and SF universes or the Cthulhu Mythos, mp me. :) Got a lot of work but I drop by every morning. I'll definitely answer. |
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Second, if it's not too personal, could you please tell us the reason why they're cowards in your eyes?? For me, well i voted ?not sure? as it is very much how i feel after 19 years of marriage, a divorce, two encounters with money-hungry MILFs (first one Disappointing, second one Disastrous), the 'discovery' that i was not-so-straight-after-all and, for good measure, a rapidly growing taste towards young femboys:blush: Now i guess i'll just see what the future brings... ______ Dennis. |
Marriage!
I would go for full time marriage, I have been married before to an "ordinary" girl and now i have tried that and no more! Ladyboys are my passion in life now and i can?t even imagine me going back to "ordinary" girls again. You know once you got a taste of it ;-).
I only date ladyboys now and i definitely hope to find my future wife some day. The problem is that many beautiful ladyboy wants to make the surgery and become full time women as fast as possible, i understand that but the problem for me is to find a sweet and good looking ladyboy that won?t do the surgery and become at post-op ladyboy. The one i would like to marry and spend my life with should stay pre-op, I just love them the way they are. |
i chose marriage because i am effectively already married to a ts.
in the near future i willm get a ring and a civil ceremony (as close to same sex marriage in aus as u can get). |
I would love a long term relationship that led to marriage - but I am an old guy and so see that as an impossible dream now. :inlove:
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If I met the right girl then I would want to get married to her.
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It would depend on the individual. I was never too partial to "one night stands".:inlove:
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something casual with no strings,id want to pre arrange a time and have her call me when she wants some action.
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You have seen the entire world, Dhobi, sailorman, you have seen exotic beauties and extravagant wonders, weird animals, unexplored islands, tormented seas, every type of humans and cultures. Who knows, my friend ? Everything is possible... |
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I voted Full Time Girlfriend
Though I am married. If I wasn't then I would have no problems being in a relationship and have no problems with people knowing I am seeing a ladyboy. If you are happy then it shouldn't matter who you are with, be they girl/boy/ladyboy. For me not it's not likey to happen unless I have complete breakdown of my relationship. Would I like to have casual sex with a ladyboy? Of course, they are extremely attractive and beautiful |
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Because emotional pleasure goes hand in hand with physical pleasure for me. ;) |
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Yes indeed, ila, we see that all over personnal ads and pages after pages. We live in a pretty cold world, and the fact that we all meet here on this forum might be either a demonstration of that or an escape from it -i'm not the first "genius" to point that one out... But in this precise case, as expressed by ThirdEyeGirl, it would mean that someone would care for a relationship with a gg, but show total disdain for the feelings of a t-woman in a potential affair, which would seem utterly contemptuous and disgusting. I don't understand how anyone can envision any person like that. They in such case would might as well use a doll or a dildo (or what is it, a "fleshlight" ? is that how it's called ? -anyways...) I'm always puzzled by such demeanor and/or frame of mind... |
i want my lady to marry me :heart:
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hopefully a romantic relationship with the possibility of marriage. sex may be fine and good for some people but i think i could only really do it with someone who i trust and care for so i should at least be friends with whoever i end up doing it with i think.
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I voted Casual sex, but I'm open to a discrete relationship
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I'm looking for just super hot sex, I'm turned away from relationships at Tue moment thanks to my ex.
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I went for Full Time Tgirlfriend. I would have gone for marriage, but that is a horrible deal for men/breadwinners, at least in the West. I wouldn't marry a gg either.
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Have a TGirlfriend
I'm currently in a relationship with a TGirl (pre-op). We have been seeing each other for over 6months. Things are going well--pretty much a typical developing relationship as we continue to get to know one another. She's very passable and lives her life completely as a woman. we've discussed moving in together, but not marriage. WE'll see how this plays out. We love each other, what can I say. Life is good.
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an overseas relationship
As a frequent travelor to Asia, I have seen many a happy guy married to a delightful ladyboy. To a man, they say they dote on him and he is so please to return the doting. No one raises an eye in Thailand should you have a beautiful ladyboy on your arm. Not so in the Philippines although there are so many nice ladyboys in Angeles and Manila. Now if you have someone so passable, such as Amy ( Emma ) on tap, no one anywhere in the world would be the wiser. Of course Emma, will cost you a pretty penny to spend time with.
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Wanting her forever
I'm head over (high) heels in love with a wonderful Philippines LB, recently back from visiting her, I'm married, scared to ask for a divorce but know i can't live without my beautiful pinay. Help! Has anyone successfully got there asian girl friend to the UK, if so please share how you managed it!
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I'm one of those "jaded" girls. When you constantly get stared or leered at all day, molested by sexist co-workers, hit on by immature "boys" at your fav afterwork bar or groped on your way to the bathroom, have dates fall apart on you, pestered on fb for "add-mes", have to deal with penis pics as a FIRST MSG by new guys (btw wth is up with that? if i had a dick that was shrinkly, short, warty, hairy, bent, had acne, covered in yellow or green goo, looking black and diseased, had tattoos of chewie on it or just plain freaky, i'd seriously consider another way of getting a girls attention. Even being built like a porn star only gets a quick comment before being deleted and unfriended!). Be original, actually care about the girl HERSELF and be a gentleman. TRUST ME, you'll stand out from the other 99% of the guys. Bianca is right, continually wading through the filth doesnt make it easy to find a serious relationship. Having a guy wade though all that muck, deal comfortably with the tg issues and steal her heart is rare to find (I would so treat THAT MAN like a king!). And I do feel bad for the "real guys". It's overwhelmingly stacked against you. Don't give up though. If you are genuine, your girl is waiting somewhere out there for you!!
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when ?real? sounds too much like ?perfect?...
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Normally, i try to avoid giving gratuitous advice 'cause it makes me feel like an old fart, but when i see people getting disappointed when they notice that the world they live in is not up to their standards, it just screams to me they haven't (yet) understood that ?reality? and ?perfection? will never walk hand-in-hand:no: Look Angela, as i read your post i could almost smell your frustration and (believe it or not) i see your point: over the years i have met quite a few perfectionists and i didn't get a happy-person "vibe" from any of 'em... Lots of people have tried to make this world a better place and how many have succeeded? :confused: Afterthought: you know what? I'm ready to bet even those you label as "real guys" do have some sort of black cloud following them (from a distance so you may not see it on the first few dates). ______ Dennis. |
lolol I didn't realize I was giving the impression i wanted perfect. Everyone has baggage and I can deal with that. No one is perfect. And frankly I don't want perfect. I'd settle for just being happy.
I think you missed the point though. My "reality" as you put it, goes something like this: Guy1 hey baby, youve got sweet lips, i'd love to put.... Guy2 Your gorgeous, you wanna get out of here and f***? Guy3 Hey, i knew you from before as a guy, since you changed you must get f***ed alot. Guy4 Thats a cute ass, I'd love to f*** it! Guy5 (co-worker) I've had fantasies bout a girl like you..you wanna f*** after work? but dont tell my wife. Guy6 Your a tranny right? You wanna fwb? Guy7 Gawd i would so do your ass. C'mon i'll make it worth your while.(money) Guy8 blahblahf**kblah I could go on and on and on. After awhile, you overload and simply get jaded. You blank, but you smile and move on.And that's just what i call the "little boys"! And then there are the "straight" guys you date, who want a tgirlfriend but are afraid of being seen in public with one. You don't meet their friends, coworkers or family. He takes you to late night movies, picnics at secluded beaches, long drives to nowhere or grocery shopping but you have to stay in the car. You never go anywhere together that might be "too public". You end up feeling like a 2nd class girlfriend. I'm grounded and as down to earth as you can possibly get. I don't expect perfect. And I certainly don't expect a knight in shining armor to scoop me up and save me. But it would be nice to be seen as more than a sex object. To know that i mean more than that to someone. To be with one, who doesn't care if others see if we hold hands. And isn't afraid of what others might think. Maybe i'm asking for too much..maybe that's perfection? If it is, then i guess, beam me up. now if oyu dont mind, i have a box of tissues calling me again... |
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oh and top of all that..she still has to deal with her own tg issues as well.
Spending way more time shopping than a gg would. (Because nothing fits!) Spending more money than a gg would..seamstress, hormones, counselor, doctor, voice training, ffs etc. Trying to find a job. Trying to find a job with insurance that'll cover you. Keeping your job. Being hassled by cops because your sex on id doesn't match how you present. Coming out issues. Losing friends. Losing family. and on and on and on. Self doubt. Questioning whether dealing with all that, is really worth it. So yeah, your tgirl already has alot on her mind BEFORE you even approach her. Tending to jackasses is NOT the highlight of her day. I'm actually starting to get a little steamed here. You can keep your "gratuitous advice". I have enough on my plate, thank you! |
I guess I might be one of the “good guys.” I don’t know. You’ll have to ask around and read some of my older posts and decide for yourself. I left because of my dissatisfaction with the number of insulting, ignorant (often ungendering), and just plain stupid posts that were tolerated (newcomers responding to 5 year old threads without checking for example). And the number of people who fall for “merelypink” never ceases to amaze me. Until my account was closed I had over 1000 posts as “aw9725.” Tried to come back and found I couldn’t “re activate” my account so here I am under a different name.
My desire when I joined TLB way back in 2009 was originally to learn more and also meet a transwoman for a long term relationship and marriage. I am active in the LGBT community and have many gay and lesbian friends. Over the years I have developed friendships with both M2F and F2M transsexuals but have never been in a relationship. I consider myself “straight” but as you know human sexuality is so much more complicated than that. I related a story here about a possible “missed opportunity” from when I was in college. I’m sure you can find it if you are interested. Somewhere along the way I met a very beautiful and wonderful ciswoman who shares my interest in LGBT issues and we were married in March 2011. I have remained active here on and off primarily due to friends like ila, smc, Fran, Bionca, Dauls, shadows (where did he go anyway?), the conquistador, and many others. To anyone who is new here and looking for friends, here’s hoping you will stay. :cool: |
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Marriage
to a real girly girl would be the best.
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Casual Sex
casual sex all the way, i am in my early 20ies to young for marriage and i have never meet a girl i would want to have a relationship with.
I love the fact i can do what i want when i want, never have to apologize or explain myself, got complete FREEDOM and i don't think ill be giving that up just yet :innocent: |
Marriage for me!
Since I decided to man up and let everyone in my family know that I'm attracted to transgendered women and not so much to genetic women, I'd like to eventually get married one day and maybe start a family with her.
I realised I deserve to be happy and I don't want to be one of those guys that ends up getting married to a genetic woman, has kids and then decides to sneak off to wherever and have an affair with a TG and possibly ruin their marriage because they were living a lie. I wouldn't be able to live like that. It would be unfair to me and to the woman I truly want to be with. So it's out in the open now and I'm happy to say that I can now think about having a future with the woman of my dreams, wherever she may be! WAHOO! |
Serious tgirlfriend for me I'm in a relationship right now and wouldn't have it any other way at the moment but if I ws still single I'd go to marriage
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