I have never had anal sex. Well yet, but I have played with my wife's anal plug that vibrates. I will say I have the most incredible orgasms when I use it and masturbate. it's intense. At first, it was tight, of-course, but once it's inside, wow!.

My GF and are going to try this, I mean she using a strap on on me !
So really big thanks for what written. We will see how it goes, but we love each other so it will be done gently and lovingly. I am very excited xx

Lately I've really felt the urge to be passive and let someone screw me! But as a virgin (to anal sex), I might stick to practicing with a small dildo & lots of lube (gotta get some practice in for the big day:yes:).

Sometimes it can be a bit painful but it is always enjoyable for me.

This is my opinion as a t-girl that has been having anal regularly for about five years. Besides having a partner who is STD, HIV and otherwise trustworthy the most import thing regarding anal sex is preparing your tush for receiving a cock. I diddled my ass for years with various toys and objects before I attempted the real thing.

The first thing you want to do is make sure your rectum is empty before engaging in anal play by yourself or with a partner. I know this aspect isn't for the squeemish, but it's reality. I eat a high fiber diet which is a good idea for anyone but particularly anyone that wants to enjoy anal play. I don't think it's neccessary to do enemas before anal play but I usually cleanse my ass with an anal douche I bought on line. This is especially important if you become a "Size Queen" like me and develop a penchant for big black cocks! If you take a 9" cock balls deep in your ass you had better be clean "down there" of the results are pretty yucky!

Start by getting comfortable fingering your ass and exploring it gently with a lot of lube. I suggest purchasing an "anal trainer kit". It consists of a small, medium and large butt plug to train your tush for accomodating a dildo or a cock. I purchased one at the recommendation of Mandy Mitchell when I decided to date a partner with a large cock. Mandy correctly stated that it would "help stretch me out down there" I generally use the medium size to "prep" my tush for anal sex. I want to remain tight for my partner but not feel like they are going to "split me like a log" when they slide their cock inside me. If I'm feel horny before I go out for the evening I prepare my body for anal in the shower and insert a butt plug before going out for the evening. I also have an "anal jewel" which is a stainless steel butt plug that features a green rhinestone that protrudes from my puckered ass. I like to surprise new partners with it. When I'm buns up and they work there tongue between my cheeks they get quite a surprise! Yes, I know I'm kinky .

Dildoes are a lot of fun and come in a variety of sizes. My favorite is an 8" latex brown cock with a set of balls. They are fun for solo play or with a partner(s) Jelly dildoes are hot too but don't look as realistic and seem to be harder to clean. It is a must to clean your toys with hot water and soap after use. I generally use condoms on my toys and always if I am playing with partner(s). Toys are a lot of fun and can enhance anyone's sex life! The choice is up to you and your preferences.

Once you decide to let someone butt fuck you prepare your ass with a good cleansing and shower before you have sex. Don't eat anything that will give you gas either! LOL! Farting is natural sometimes when your parther is really giving it to you but there is no reason to encourage it unless that is your thing! I usually squirt a liberal amount of Astroglide in my asshole unless I know my partner is going to rim me. In that case I have some flavored water based lubes that I enjoy.

I recommend straddling your partner at first. That way you can control how much of his cock enters your asshole. When you begin anal session your partner has to take it slow and so do you! Make sure he's wearing a condom and use a plently of good lubricant like astroglide. Take his cock head in your hand and push it gently into your bum. Bare down on it like you are pooping. This action helps relax your sphincter ease down on his cock slowly and it should slide painlessly into your derriere. Just remember to take it slow! Most guy's cocks are around 6" or so I wouldn't recommend taking on some hung stud for your first anal experience. There will be time for that later!

Once your ass is accostomed to having a cock inside it you can begin to ride your partner and move up and down. The rythym of his cock sliding in and out of you is very stimulating you might get a raging hard on and or ejaculate while your fucking him. This is natural and part of the pleasure. Once you are used to the idea of a cock in your ass you can switch positions. Whenever you switch positions check his condom to make certain that it's in place and hasn't torn.

I recommend trying doggy or lying on your back. Doggy is good if you really want your partner to give you an incredible fuck and you should most assuredly get a total body orgasm. Also try "reverse cowgirl" like in the photo. It will give his cock a different angle inside you ass making for a different sensation for both of you. Once you experience your first anal orgasm you'll discover a whole new aspect of your sexuality. Good luck and let me know if this helps.

Have fun!

Sheer pleasure! The best part is when youl cum without touching yourself... handsfree;) Guess its time to get some:blush:

I love anal sex!
 

I have been fucked in the ass many times. I wish I had been doing it when I was a teenager but first did it when I was in my 20s. Best experience ever. I get off more being a bottom than being a top. That's just me. But I will also please any tgirl that wishes it. But man! Receiving a nice cock in my ass is just heaven! :)

anal sex is good if thats what she wants
 

I will give my ass up to any girlie cock if thats what she wants, but I perfer to please her orally !

two words for you JUNGLE JUICE http://www.powerpoppers.com/jungle_juice_poppers.shtml

I think it's been answered many times before but let's give it away one more time:That depends.

Not enough lubrication,tension,clumsy partner,lack of experience,big cock and anxiety can make it hurt.

Lube your hole,relax,tell your partner to take it easy and if it still hurts just take it in slowly.

Doesn't matter if you can't take a cock all the way in,that comes naturally after a while.It takes patience at first but your hole will eventually relax.

If your partner has a big dick practice with dildos first to stretch the hole.It's THAT simple!

With the right partner and the right cock its pure pleasure and the best orgasm you can get. I love that feeling and cant get enough.

I've no experience with a "living" penis, but my girlfriend does me from the back with a strap-on and I use dildo from time to time. What I can tell that the length is not that important, the width (girth) is very important. But the most important thing is the prior to the whole thing, you have to be relaxed and it has to start slowly. And of course the lube. After a bit of starting thrusts, I can only feel pleasure, yet to have orgasm because of that (we've only started pegging just now), but it's great

Oh yes it is, i really enjoy the feeling of being fucked by a big dildo, so intense. It's reallly a different way to feel pleasure for a guy, and its really turn me on :drool:

If adequate amount of lube is used then it shudnt be painful.. But it depends upon how tight ua anal spinc n mscls are.. As for me d nly time i felt pain ws on acc of lack of lube.. Apart fr dt.. Js cant get enuf


Now dats some thrilling ideas.. Wantd to kno in ua years of experience if you found one particular type of position to be the most stimulating & which resulted in a handsfree prostate orgasm? Or if you exp orgasm faster ??

For me....I've not been with a real one, but my wife uses a good sized strapon. I'll be honest and say I don't usually last to long. The orgasms come quick and are very intense. Easily the most intense and best I have.

jus came bk frm an anal session.. :yes:cowgirl has bcm my favorite.. He drilled me without touching my cock..:drool:.. n neither did i touch it.. I jus let it hang out n in a semi errection, i wanted the anal feel more.. ;).. Seems lk d pain side is getting lesser.. Im learning..

As stated in my original post:

"I recommend trying doggy or lying on your back. Doggy is good if you really want your partner to give you an incredible fuck and you should most assuredly get a total body orgasm. Also try "reverse cowgirl" like in the photo. It will give his cock a different angle inside you ass making for a different sensation for both of you. Once you experience your first anal orgasm you'll discover a whole new aspect of your sexuality. Good luck and let me know if this helps."

anal is heaven - pain???
 

pain? only if a cock exceeds your capacity, then the pain hopefully turns to pleasure as the lubed penetration continues - if the cock is normal sized there is no pain or almost none - lube is important for entry and for long sessions -cheap lubes dry out quickly - if your anus is small or normal, it should be gently widened by using a butt plug previous to penetration, an 8 inch dildo inserted slowly after a 20 minute stretch should fit comfortably and assure you that adequate douching has made you totally clean - get fucked as life is short and pleasure is a release

Have to say BOTH (Physical and Mental pleasure)

There is some pain at first, but turns to pleasure / Bliss after :turnon:

Puts Lots of Lube at the tunnel, then drive up the Hershey Highway :coupling: :cool:

I just got fucked the other day. OMG it was amazing. Smallish to medium sized and it was just perfect. I even cummed without ever touching my dick. First time ever. I'm almost considering buying a toy :)

It is intensely pleasurable. I'd far rather be on the receiving end than the giving end. I've taken many cocks from small to quite large and I've never felt any pain or discomfort. It is important to feel comfortable with your partner and be relaxed. Contrary to some opinions expressed a great amount of lubrication is not necessary.

The most pleasurable experiences I've had have all been bareback (not recommended unless you know for sure that your partner is 100% STI/STD free).

Agree :yes:

I have to agree, I enjoy anal from a medium sized cock, it's such a natural euphoric feeling that will take you to another level. I will cum without him touching my cock at all. Recommend knowing for sure he is disease/std free. I only let 1 guy fuck me who is std free I'll let him cum in me which is a whole other feeling.

It is incredibly pleasurable. For me there's nothing that can beat the feeling of a hard cock sliding in and out my bum. I've not wanted to quit ever since my very first time and I'll keep doing it for as long as I can.