Beautiful Women
 

I have been attracted to non-generic girls ever since I saw my first Brazilian "shemale" in a video some many years ago. And, when I got a wind of "ladyboys":yes: I was blown away. The thing that I most like about these girls - and they are girls, not boys in their minds (I've since had the pleasure of meeting and talking to some in person at area bars and clubs where I live) - is their beauty and femininity. Too often in today's society, generic girls/women appear to want to be men (in terms of their behavior) and, in a since, have lost sight of their feminine side. I love the fact that the non-generic girls that I have met take pleasure in showing their feminine side. I know that they were physically not born girls, but there is something attractive about their dressing and behaving in very feminine ways. By the way, I am very spiritual and fight almost on a daily basis against this attraction. For I know that it is very taboo in many circles. But, it is an attraction that is very hard for me to get rid of. I have not had sex with a non-generic girl - and more than likely never will - because I know how much that goes against my spiritual belief. But, I truly enjoy their company when I'm out at the clubs. And, I am very glad I found this site because I have a place I can communicate with like people. Further, it is not easy confessing this attraction, but I find comfort in knowing that many people on this board have similar attractions - for various reasons. And, I've found a home where I can get a better understanding of and communicate my feelings about these girls.

It's nice that you can write "they are girls," but what a colossal waste of emotional energy to try to fight your attraction for some "spiritual belief." Surely, if transwomen are real, then they are god's creatures, too (Note: I don't believe in god, but it seems as if you do). Would god thus relegate them to a status in which you cannot have a relationship with one of his creations? Of course not. Only humans create asinine barriers like that, and they do so to control you.

By the way, you use "generic" oddly. Do you mean "genetic"?

+1

Let me start out by saying that I also am an atheist but I have lots of faith in science and human beings.

I don't think a faith, religion or a spiritual belief should stop you from getting what you desire and what you believe to be true. Free Love. It's kinda like if your spiritual belief would stop you from playing an instrument because your religion does not accept musicians. Nothing wrong with playing an instrument. It makes YOU happy, it makes you FEEL good, give you HOPE, boosts your self-esteem, as long as you don't hurt anyone else or yourself in the process..then what's the big deal? Be happy, do what you want..when you want but just don't INTENTIONALLY hurt anyone or yourself. That's where my morals come from.

Does your spiritual belief say you will go to hell?

Yes, I meant genetic. Thanks for catching that. And as for my faith and belief. Yes, I am Christian...thus making it difficult for me to fully accept this attraction. I often have prayed to God about this (my strong attraction to non-genetic girls). And, no matter how much I try to distance myself from the attraction, it always resurfaces. In my mind, I feel that it is wrong to have such an attraction. Yet, knowing these girls in their minds feel that they really are girls and not boys really takes me for a loop. Also, I often feel that it is unfair that these girls have had to live the life that they have - "trapped in a body that they wish they never had." I've had some beautiful conversations with the girls - oftentimes seeing them tell their stories with tears in their eyes. I am not one to question God's work. For, I truly believe He makes no mistakes. But, transsexualism is one of those issues that I guess falls into the category of "we will understand it better on the other side." Subconsciously I feel that the attraction is OK, because I am attracted to their female quality, not male. As far as just letting go and let my feelings flow, so to speak, it is easier said than done. At this point, I'm not there. Call me a coward, confused, etc. But, it's just not something that is in my DNA. In closing, I just want to say, it really feels good to be able to get this off my chest. Thanks for your response too.

I'll be blunt: this all sounds like rationalization for not being true to one's self. Forget the god crap and live your life, and if there is a god the deity will reward you for your truthfulness and honesty -- to yourself.

+1 again to smc's comment.

How can you be attracted to shemales and still think it is wrong? Are you sure you are the one thinking it's wrong or has it been the christian doctrine? Your priest? Your christian peers?

Can you not accept reality? Not christian reality.

If you truly believe that god makes no mistakes how is it unfair? Transsexualism is completely comprehendable but you really do have to accept reality and not christian reality.

I thought you said that in your mind it's wrong? I think social constructs, norms, and religious doctrine have won here. :(

The christian religion is full of ignorant, intolerance bigotry that makes me sick to my stomach. I respect you man but lately I've had a hard time respecting religion, especially christianity. Why can't you be true to yourself and accept this is something that you like? Can you not be christian and like shemales? Are shemales going to hell? Are gays going to hell? Yes, I like strawberries and shemales. BIG DEAL.

If being attracted to t-girls is the biggest stumble block you ever hit in life, then consider yourself fortunate. A lot of folks, for whatever reason, when they're attracted to t-girls seemingly have a hard time facing up to the desire, and it's not just religious people. Heck, on this forum alone there were so many "am I gay?" topics that the threads wound up getting merged, so that should be an indication in itself that you are not alone.

But as a Christian myself, (yeah yeah, devilish looking avatar, I know, but it's from an old pinball game I loved as a kid) the best thing I can tell you to do about this or any other emotional dilemma you may face is to pray about it. You got it off of your chest, you got some friendly words of advice from a couple of really good guys about it, take their words into consideration of course, and then take it to prayer and stop worrying about it. I know that's always easier said than done, but as a Christian I'm sure you believe that only you will have to answer to God for how you live your life, and other people will have to answer for how they live their lives. See how the Lord touches your heart over it...in other words let go and let God (I'm sure there's a bumper sticker with that saying on it somewhere, I know I didn't come up with it)...but in my opinion the last thing you need to do over this is beat yourself up over it.

I hope this helps. :cool:

The attraction is a Transgender is more feminine than a biological woman..

Is it just sex!!!!!!
 

MMMMM,i am still confused as hell as to why i am so sttracted to shemales,ladyboys,transgender et al,i just know i am.I f it were just a gay man then nothing,the thought of it does nothing for me,but i look at a transgender girl,then wow,i just melt.The thought of physical love making with them seems a wonderful natural thing and the thought of sharing the rest of things in life seems good to me.
What it comes down to is that a transgender girl is just looking for someone to accept them for who they are and not just something different to fuck.

Exactly! Just the words I'd say as well!!! :respect:

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Originally Posted by jimudon
T-girls offer it all and more. they give and receive. I just love the beauty of the shemale. But the cock is what it is all about. Beauty with a cock!! Shemales just put real girls to shame. Pussy is overrated.[/QUOTE]

Please allow me to respond:
http://forum.transladyboy.com/showth...449#post181449

I like them because they different, they are totally unique in the world. They are beautiful, sexy, and made to be a fantasy come true. They have all the perks of gg's with none of the hassles.

The attraction for me is vicarious. A masochistic idea of becoming feminine. Yet a body with a vagina is too distant for me to identify with.