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transmatic 01-14-2011 06:21 PM

far away
 
i actually have gf but she is thousands miles away from me. she lives in thailand. and i missing her and didn't seen her for ages. she is from laos, very shy and not really keen on computers. so it's big deal for her to use skype. so i would rather say i'm almost alone here :(

if somebody lives in phuket on permanent basis, i would really aprecciate you help me to manage netbook for her and teach her computer and english basics. i can send her money to cover expences.

if not - i'm just happy to share with you my emotions :innocent:
she is cutiest babe in the world! :heart:

Thor1989 01-14-2011 06:55 PM

The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...
The only transsexuals that exist are escorts...:(

smc 01-14-2011 07:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thor1989 (Post 171490)
The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...
The only transsexuals that exist are escorts...:(

This is a ridiculous statement. Your country undoubtedly has roughly the same percentage of transsexuals in its population as anywhere else in the world. It might have been correct to write that the only transsexuals of which you are aware are escorts; anything else is unscientific and patently false.

transmatic 01-14-2011 08:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thor1989 (Post 171490)
The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...
The only transsexuals that exist are escorts...:(

what country are you from? most posh clubs in the capitals of different countries are filled up to capacity with smiling chicks. from 5 to 20 percent of them are tg. almost all of them are in between of getting money for sex and quitting this business for building constant relations and family. :yes: what's special about your world?

JodieTs 01-16-2011 04:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thor1989 (Post 171490)
The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...(

Move to Transylvania

smc 01-16-2011 04:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JodieTs (Post 171753)
Move to Transylvania

I hear the transsexuals in Transylvania get the best "wood".

...

It's a Latin joke. Look it up. ;)

Recrudescence 02-11-2011 03:10 PM

For the same reason I'm not in a relationship with anyone, I prefer being single.

Midori81 02-11-2011 05:55 PM

So, do you all like actual transwomen? I mean not just someone who looks completely like a stunning female.
Is there an attraction to those of us who still have some masculine traits that can't be erased? Can someone be attractive or beautiful as a true transgendered person existing on the cusp of two genders?

I really don't know and like many of have not been able to gauge a response in my daily life.

jolo 02-12-2011 08:09 PM

How ??
 
For me in Colorado, I have no idea where I can be fortunate enough to find a lovely TS to be with. :blush:

Jon

JodieTs 02-13-2011 04:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jolo (Post 175284)
For me in Colorado, I have no idea where I can be fortunate enough to find a lovely TS to be with. :blush:

I hear there are huge numbers of "cutie shemales" in Leonx, Michigan
I highly recommend you move there.

I know someone there who I can put you in touch with.
He has a "shemale cutie" detector, or so I am led to believe! :drool:

smc 02-13-2011 07:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JodieTs (Post 175307)
I hear there are huge numbers of "cutie shemales" in Leonx, Michigan
I highly recommend you move there.

I know someone there who I can put you in touch with.
He has a "shemale cutie" detector, or so I am led to believe! :drool:

It's Lenox. :yes:

Of course, with global climate change Colorodo may eventually get a coastline, which -- as we know from the Lenox sage -- will result in thousands of shemales suddenly living there.

johnny_love 02-14-2011 12:41 PM

I would like me and my half to be one, like a ying/yang...I entrust that love has no boundaries, no matter what the people say, because I am not in love with people, but with "the one"...I would love her for who she is, not for what people think she is...doesn't matter she is transgender or not, because just the way we are on the inside matters...that's my point of view, so be happy and be loved!:respect::)

LibertyHarkness 02-14-2011 01:08 PM

i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet :(

ila 02-14-2011 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness (Post 175532)
i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet :(

Oh sorry, Liberty. I can't be your bf because I'm already taken and I'm very much in love with my gf.

LibertyHarkness 02-14-2011 05:42 PM

mehhhh no use to me is it :)

JodieTs 02-14-2011 08:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness (Post 175532)
i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet :(

I like men and I like women.
Consequently, I've two partners
and two bunches of roses for valentines day. :)

I hope you find someone (or someone x2) soon. :heart:

CuriousMattUK 02-15-2011 01:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness (Post 175532)
now my question is why dont i have a BF yet :(

That's a very good question and one I cannot personally answer. It certainly surprises me! Maybe there's just someone "waiting in the wings" to sweep you off of your feet? :)

SwedishTsGirl 02-16-2011 12:40 PM

I am shemale cutie myself, but neverless its not easy to find a good partner..drooling men is everywhere..but the special one..not easy to find...

transgenderdate 02-16-2011 01:48 PM

If finding someone special was easy...it just wouldn't be that special. That being said, I think it's fair to say that if a guy really wants to date a transsexual woman he should be doing the exact same thing he would with a GG. Be respectful...learn more about her than what she's "into" and be fully open and honest about who he is and his relationship goals because at the end of the day a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship is just that and it's based on many factors. All of that being said...if a guy can't get past the hurdle of being "out" as a guy who dates TG women then it's probably best for him not to pursue sincere TG women for dating.

And of course...you must be looking in the right places:)

Enoch Root 02-16-2011 06:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JodieTs (Post 175575)
I like men and I like women.
Consequently, I've two partners
and two bunches of roses for valentines day. :)

I hope you find someone (or someone x2) soon. :heart:

Find me two people why don't you!

spacecase9128 02-18-2011 04:08 AM

I am writing back and forth with a lady / transexual from Arkansas. Interesting 2 see how this goes. She accepts my use of androcur around her and is not bothered by my admited use of it. Will see how this goes.

SC 9128

shadows 02-22-2011 11:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness (Post 175532)
i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet :(

Perhaps they are concentrating on only one aspect of you rather than who you are as a whole(that being, a stunningly beautiful woman with a sharp wit)?

I will shake my fist with copious amounts of envy for the future-fellow that will be lucky enough to have you as a girlfriend. *shake-a* *shake-a*:yes:

Sonder 02-26-2011 10:12 PM

I'm with some of the others, there are simply none in my area.

JodieTs 02-27-2011 03:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sonder (Post 177122)
I'm with some of the others, there are simply none in my area.

Wrong!
We walk among you. ;)

murdoc 03-02-2011 12:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Midori81 (Post 175095)
So, do you all like actual transwomen? I mean not just someone who looks completely like a stunning female.
Is there an attraction to those of us who still have some masculine traits that can't be erased? Can someone be attractive or beautiful as a true transgendered person existing on the cusp of two genders?

I really don't know and like many of have not been able to gauge a response in my daily life.

A most emphatic yes on all counts:yes:

DEFENDER 03-08-2011 02:56 AM

I am sure that it has already been said MANY times on this forum,....but please, please never forget that a transsexual is an individual human being,....just like everyone on this planet....with her own fears, loves , feelings, hopes and desires.
In fact, given the challenges that she has had to face by following her true heart?s desire (which is a LOT more than can be said about most of us...and I include myself very strongly here).......I would say that she deserves more respect and admiration in society....even if her choice of gender change and sexuality causes misunderstanding in some circles.
I am the luckiest guy on this planet to have won the heart of a beautiful transsexual and love her without reserve or limit. With her, I have found more happiness and fulfilment than I ever could have thought possible and she makes me want to be a better man....in every way!
What I am about to say now may sound rather difficult to believe but most of the time we are together, I do not think of her ?gender?,......it is HER that I love, respect and desire,......I see a lovely, caring, sensitive and funny girl,....someone who I always want to be with.
We have been together for over two years and every day I find something new about her to love.
I know that I am not alone in that many guys who contribute to this forum also have been fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with THE girl who makes life worth living,.....so I feel sure that they would agree with me when I say,.....when you are blessed to meet a transexual girl who makes your heart beat faster and puts your head in a spin, treat her like the lady she is, gently court her, treat her with respect , take her to special places and be PROUD to be with her.

ila 03-08-2011 05:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DEFENDER (Post 178124)
...I know that I am not alone in that many guys who contribute to this forum also have been fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with THE girl who makes life worth living,...

It is certainly true for me.:inlove::inlove:

JodieTs 03-09-2011 02:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DEFENDER (Post 178124)
Said

That's really beautiful.
I just checked your profile as what you wrote could have been said by my man,
including our time together [also two years]
He lives abroad but is over with me ATM for another week.

Oh, I lived in Oldbrook for two years, on Boycott Avenue
- not the nice end with the newish houses They were building them when I left around 1999.
but the crappy end with the flats.

Are you going to the BNO on Friday?
I rarely do tranny events
and my man definitely doesn't want to go,
but I've two friends going so I may join them.
and hopefully talk him into it too. :yes:

Oh, my real name is Misha. :)

Oh, how did you meet your partner?
I met mine via a trans forum like this one but mainly for the UK

DEFENDER 03-09-2011 08:21 AM

[QUOTE=JodieTs;178211]That's really beautiful.
Hi Misha
Thanks for your lovely reply......its nice to know that my feelings and thoughts are also shared by your partner.....and what a coincidence that you lived SO near to me! My home is actually in a small village just outside the ever-spreading sprawl of Milton Keynes city but know the area where you used to live.
Like your man, I am not too keen to visit "ts/gay" clubs or events but know they suit some people. I had often considered visiting the "Pink Punters" club but was incredibly lucky enough to meet my partner in quite unusual circumstances.......
We first met at an "Asian-Expo" event in London about 3 years ago,..she was working on a stand as a translator for a factory from China and I made an excuse about being a UK buyer so I could talk to her. We met later for lunch and I fell head-over-heels for her. Although she is so feminine in every way, I had suspected her "gender identity" and for me I guess you could say that it was a case of love at first sight. We dated during that first year and moved in together when we just could'nt carry on leading our lives apart.
I'm actually out of the UK this week and missing my girl like crazy but will be back on Sunday (time can go SO slow sometimes!). Take care X:hug:

CuriousMattUK 03-09-2011 10:08 AM

The harsh reality for me is that I haven't looked hard enough. I know it is something, in an ideal world, which I would want. I would love to meet and socialise with T-girls and engage in friendship and then maybe more but at the moment I'm being a lame duck on this front.

I'm not afraid. I simply don't know where to begin or what the best way of going about it is.

sosed 03-09-2011 12:05 PM

It's really nice to read positive experiences with real life relationships with Tgirls, like the one from DEFENDER. This World is too cruel and bitter for trans people, so anything positive would be very welcome. At least could give more hope, that there is some progress in accepting trans people as human beings.

whazizname 03-09-2011 08:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aw9725 (Post 175215)
I can only speak for myself but the answers are ?Yes,? ?Yes,? and ?Yes.?

Add my yeses to the count.
:)

kamsutra 03-09-2011 10:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cockluva (Post 42260)
The absolute lack of transsexuals where i live.

Same here baby. Though you will find lots of gays and CDs and Lesbos but no T-Girls :(

Marcelus 03-10-2011 06:02 AM

Can't wait!
 
I can't wait to have such a girlfriend but it's hard to find one like that in my hometown. I have to travel really much in other countries and towns to find some of these. This is my life.

parr 03-10-2011 09:04 AM

parr
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by DEFENDER (Post 178124)
I am sure that it has already been said MANY times on this forum,....but please, please never forget that a transsexual is an individual human being,....just like everyone on this planet....with her own fears, loves , feelings, hopes and desires.
In fact, given the challenges that she has had to face by following her true heart?s desire (which is a LOT more than can be said about most of us...and I include myself very strongly here).......I would say that she deserves more respect and admiration in society....even if her choice of gender change and sexuality causes misunderstanding in some circles.
I am the luckiest guy on this planet to have won the heart of a beautiful transsexual and love her without reserve or limit. With her, I have found more happiness and fulfilment than I ever could have thought possible and she makes me want to be a better man....in every way!
What I am about to say now may sound rather difficult to believe but most of the time we are together, I do not think of her ?gender?,......it is HER that I love, respect and desire,......I see a lovely, caring, sensitive and funny girl,....someone who I always want to be with.
We have been together for over two years and every day I find something new about her to love.
I know that I am not alone in that many guys who contribute to this forum also have been fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with THE girl who makes life worth living,.....so I feel sure that they would agree with me when I say,.....when you are blessed to meet a transexual girl who makes your heart beat faster and puts your head in a spin, treat her like the lady she is, gently court her, treat her with respect , take her to special places and be PROUD to be with her.

I am very happy for you.

travieso99 05-03-2011 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cockluva (Post 42260)
The absolute lack of transsexuals where i live.

i love the trans and i like married with ladyboy but in venezuela dont have ladyboy for married only fucking by money

no1000 05-04-2011 03:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CuriousMattUK (Post 178230)
The harsh reality for me is that I haven't looked hard enough. I know it is something, in an ideal world, which I would want. I would love to meet and socialise with T-girls and engage in friendship and then maybe more but at the moment I'm being a lame duck on this front.

I'm not afraid. I simply don't know where to begin or what the best way of going about it is.

I'm in a worse position. I know where the girls hang out in my area but I haven't had the balls to go out in a social situation and start talking,

whole 05-04-2011 06:43 AM

I, m not there yet. I only had one sexual experience with a transsexual girl This felt however in a way like a spiritual eye-opener. Everything fell into place
So first I want more transsexual sexual experience, do some savings and then travel the world if I have to, to find my transsexual girlfriend

Curioustsliker 05-04-2011 06:48 AM

I gladly would if I ever met a woman and we got along.

small dick 08-12-2011 07:12 PM

The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country,i live in norway.and i dont think there are any shemales here:(

smc 08-12-2011 08:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by small dick (Post 193554)
The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country,i live in norway.and i dont think there are any shemales here:(

As has been pointed out time and again on this site, there is absolutely NO EVIDENCE WHATSOEVER that the percentage of any given country's population that is transexual is fundamentally different from any other country's percentage. Trans people are all around you in Norway, rest assured. Remember, not all "shemales" are flaunting themselves like porn stars.

darkstargemini 08-12-2011 11:51 PM

why don,y u have a shemale girlfriend
 
> i guess with most pehoo,s it,s all talk and no action it,s not that hurd to find a shemale don,t tull anyone this is my interest i guess they really don,t exist as i was told years ago it,s all fake this is coming from a guy i new years ago that wanted to have sex with another guy:lol::lol::lol::yes::respect::respect:

brainsexual 08-13-2011 03:50 PM

I'm attracted to the female form be it on a man or a woman. I'd happily date a shemale but given that women seem to outnumber them in my city by about 10,000 to one... well, probability rears it's ugly head.

I'm a hard guy to date so I have to meet a lot of people before I find one that things click with.

caminds 09-02-2011 10:02 PM

there are few TS' in my country, and i can't find many sites for casual dating. most are just sleazy ones, but none i can find are for casual chat and maybe more.

Pikachu1989 09-03-2011 12:23 AM

Couple of reasons for me. There are Not to many transexuals that live in The Nebraska-Iowa area in America, fear of family since my dads side of the family is ultra conservative, and the fact that I'm scared to talk to a Girl since I have a speech Impedement. Mainly the last one for me.:(

smc 09-03-2011 06:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pikachu1989 (Post 195522)
Couple of reasons for me. There are Not to many transexuals that live in The Nebraska-Iowa area in America, fear of family since my dads side of the family is ultra conservative, and the fact that I'm scared to talk to a Girl since I have a speech Impedement. Mainly the last one for me.:(

I feel like a broken record, but if I don't post this JodieTS will. :yes:

The percentage of the population that is transsexual is generally the same wherever you go in the world. In the "Nebraska-Iowa area," transsexuals may not feel as comfortable as in some other places, but I assure you that as you walk down the streets of Omaha or Council Bluffs, go into shops, eat at the restaurants, and so on, there are trans people all around you.

JodieTs 09-03-2011 07:03 AM

You just beat me to it, by 10 minutes! :yes:
I snooze, I loose!

uklo 09-03-2011 07:18 AM

I have never even seen a TS IRL (that I know of at least), but I have an premium ad at a TS-dating site, but no real luck so far. :(

I guess I have better chances finding a genetic girl to share my life with.

Tiffany Starr 09-04-2011 03:11 AM

I do!
 
Sorta...I mean she's my ex ATM but I am trying to get her back, besides it's not like its hard for me to find a transsexual g/f, it's just hard for me to find a mentally stable one. Perhaps Kitty Kaiti may be interested? ;-)

JodieTs 09-04-2011 07:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tiffany Starr (Post 195669)
besides it's not like its hard for me to find a transsexual g/f, it's just hard for me to find a mentally stable one.

Ha ha ha ha!
Good luck. I once met a mentally stable transsexual woman,...once.

Men reading this thread:
Quickest way to get lots of transsexual women on your speeddial,
is to transition.
Then you too can spend time dodging speculative mails from hopeful strangers...


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