i think if you like shemales doesnt mean your gay...coz shemales are female..

I've honestly given up trying to put myself into a particular category. I'm probably mildly bisexual in the sense that I adore transsexual women and socalled femboys (sissy gays). Nowadays I find gg less interesting (even though I'm not immune :-) Big, hunky, macho guys don't really rock my world, though... actually, I don't find a penis particularly masculine. To me it's more a symbol of transsexual femininity.

No. Your the one struggling with this and only you can be gay or not. I am not gay. Homosexuals dont like female forms like we do. I just love t-girls.:turnon:

Sigh

An age old question I've read a hundred....if not a thousand times?

Only YOU can answer these questions.

1. Do you get only sexually aroused with the thought of sex with a person of the same sex? If so, you might be gay. Accept it.

2. Do you get sexually aroused with the thought of sex with both sexes? If so, you aren't gay, your bisexual. Lucky dog, you have the best of both worlds.

3. Do you only get sexually aroused with the thought of sex with the opposite sex? Your a heterosexual.

It really doesn't concern me what your answer is. Either way, your life can still be fun and exciting. Thats up to you.

I consider myself heterosexual who at one point mis-identified as a gay man. So, I'm a straight girl with gay-male sensabilities.. talk about the best of both worlds....

Oh god, I'm such a tranny fag-hag

First of all... thanks to all who took the time to reply to my question and to be honest, the more time I spend here at this website, reading responses and questions... I actually feel special and unique because of the level of open mindedness (is that a word?) and honesty of those who visit here.

Thanks again for the responses and after everthing... I am who I am and that's it!

Fags :lol:
Thats how everyone gonna call you if they find out and you better be ready for that. But things going better on this subjects with every hour. We beta testing heterogay term right now ;)
seriously i can't get why every heterogay ask on this forum 'am i gay?'. no one but you know the answer for sure

Its just that I dont want to sound hateful...
But sometimes, its so difficult to SHOW LOVE to some withered souls!

SMLove, cool off!
Here is an easy way--->

So what if a person calls you a fag, of queer if your gay. Its only a shallow label that fails to show your true self.

Are you willing to let a label run your life? Are you willing to allow someone to judge you and abide by their judgment?

As I've said before, THIS is why I have so much respect for TGs, and TS. They are standing up against society's highly inaccurate judgment of them and are pursing their own happiness. Let them be an example for us all.

BRAVO!:respect:

Very nicely put Twistedone. In Show Me Love's defence, he is right though. Once it is determined that your girl is trans, you become a "fag" as far as most people care.

I think that's part of the issue with a lot of guys. Guys who date me and gals like me need to come to terms with that BEFORE they try to date us or sex us up.

In all fairness, I've never been called a "fag" - in spite of the fact that I haven't exactly kept my love for transsexual women a secret :-) The closest I've ever been to such a label must have been when my first x-wife (upon me enthusiasticly elaborating on my new-found love) smilingly asked if I had turned gay at such an old age... :-)

:frown:

Oh, come on now, darling Bionca... it isn't THAT bad! We don't have to come to terms with anything but our very own true way! Who cares what some strangers may whisper behind your back - and if they'd ever be gutsy enuff to confrount you, well, then just SMILE, throw out your arms and exclaim: YES! IM A TRANS-LOVER AND I'M SO HAPPY TO BE! And she loves me too!

Twistedone:
Its really good stuff! Wow, man, Shakespeare would have been impressed by you. You could have inspired Dale Carnegie with that hot hot hot speech!:respect:
This one is pure inspiration. :hug:

:respect: Well put Hank.

It is all down to you

very true i give a damn as long as me and my partner are happy..i was just trying to add up the discussion :)

Well i think if i like shemales, that doesn't make me gay cuz i am attracted by hers feminine looks

Nope, it doesn't necessarily make you gay at all, far from! BUT it just may open your taste for other sides of you sexuality... you may become more bold and daring... and THAT I really suggest that you're open for, pal! Noone thanks you to limit yourself in the dynamic process of being a sexual being. So walk briskly and boldly into this amazing world, and don't focus a lot on which labels others may put on you! They dunno crap anyways :-)

Best wishes! Go get them lill hotties :-)

Peace!

H

Hehe thx hank, there is a whole new world yup :D

I too strugled with this question ever since I discovered my affinity for shemales. And I don't think theres is a straight answer. I found some consolation in knowing that there are others like me out there.

On a side note and related to this, throughout history there have been many accounts of straight men that induleged in sex with other men. Greeks for one were well renovened as "boy lovers". Also I reccount watching a documentary on History channel "Taboo sexuallity" and a segment about a "holyday" in India when straight married men would go out en masse and have sex with trannies, and this is perfectly socially acceptable.

In conclusion, it's like 'whatever floats your boat' thing. :coupling:

/rant.

I think it's a total difference whenever you can look a shemale in her eyes and tell that you love her, or you look a man in his eyes and tell that you live him.

For me I cannot look in a man's eyes and tell that I love him.
But if I look a shemale in her eyes I can fall in love.

p.s. getting my ass fucked has nothing to do with love. :innocent:

That's a nice way to put it actually - when falling in love with a transsexual woman you fall for the woman in her much much more than the man in her. I've had affairs with "non-transsexual-men" as well, but they have all had a very distinctive female quality. I couldn't really and honestly fall for a man either.

However, this to me still means to cheerish the man in her - that's why I believe that there is some bisexuality in this - how else does it make any sense?

For example, could I fall for a post-op transsexual woman? Hmmm... maybe I could, but she would not be AS FEMININE to me as a pre-op trans-woman... I know I speak against common perception of female and male sexual attributes, but her dick DOES make her into "my kind of a true woman" for me.

The truth stands! There simply isn't anything more feminine than your girlfriend with a hard on! Not for me at least.

If your a man and into shemales? Sorry hun but yes, you are gay.

Hugs,
Kirsten

Hey Bionca, you are not hetero, you are divine...
I love your spirit, I'm "married" with lovely Tgal and you have the same irony
and good spirit...:hug:

value diversity
 

I enjoyed the comments from Hank, Bionca and others. In my opinion, we are all different, and to try to classify or peg us as stereotypes, it's not going to work most of the time.

I feel that all of us are subject to criticism, verbal attacks, and attempts at humiliation, no matter whether we are straight or anything else. To adjust our life, our outlook, our relationships, and our behavior largely based on other people's thought and comments is to not be true to ourselves. You can judge how much of a conformist to be, but I suggest we always move toward bettering ourselves during our lifetime.

And to answer the original question "am I gay?", I'd say no. That's not where most of us are, since many of us are attracted to the female form.

Sorry if I sound preachy- just expressing myself.

lots of love...

I agree completely - it would seem that the people who so vigorously need to label us as gay or what ever are the ones who have not really grasped the depths of transsexuality - neither for transsexual woman nor for the guys who are attracted to trans-women.

I usually smile when people present "absolutes" - they just need it to make their lives fit into the little boxes that the moral majority taught them are the true ones.

Besides, who cares if we are gay or str8 or freaks or just ourselves? We are a small minority of folks who happen to have a different outlook on sexuality and gender-identity. And as long as WE can handle it then that's all that really is important.

Peace!

H

I never had sex with a man and after spending my first night with a ladyboy I felt so guilty and was afraid I might be gay.
today I enjoy cocks and cum more and more and I accept whatever I am.:turnon:

I am really not gay although I love shemale cocks. But a shemale always has to look like a sexy girl if her cock isn't visible. So its ok, if she looks like a man - awful, I turn away.

Way to go, my MAN! Screw the prudes and be yourself! :respect: Besides, how many prudes know what they are talking about? Have they maybe ever tried the blissful pleasure of being royally fucked by a gorgeous woman? And experienced her passion and love? Have they ever held her close and heard her whispered and intense stories of an amazing journey of life?

Naaah... me dink not...

So rock on, pal!

H

Hi All,

I'm new and I'll throw in my 2cents. I'm not a psychologist but dated one for many years and we openly discussed the my interests. It's generally accepted that sexuality is a spectrum heterosexual on one end homosexual on the other bisexual in the middle. Most people are somewhere between the two extremes. If you're male and into a cock, whether it's on a "female form" or not you're somewhere in bisexual zone at the minimum. Hetero male is a cock free zone.

To be honest I joined the forum to get some free porn. I'm not trying to start any trouble but I'd like to make some comments about the forum itself. I have lot's of sexual interest - boobs, big butts, latinas, female body builders, amazons, pantyhose and so on. This is the only forum I've read that has a "gay" feel to it. Threads like build your perfect shemale, who has the prettiest eyes, deep voices turn me on. It's pretty subtle but it's still pretty different from your average group on horny dudes.

I've never had sex with a man or shemale and never will. If being attracted to shemale or female body builder makes me bisexual so be it. Ya are what ya are.

Cheers,
Jimbo

very well said :respect: welcome here!

It helps to feel secure about one's own sexuality then embrace it.

The cartoon character "Popeye" use to always say. "I yam what I yam".

Its my strong belief that the character was telling us to accept ourselves as we are.

Just my 2 cents worth.

Who cares what people think or how they want to label us. Shemales are very special people and we are afficionados.

ur not gay
 

im a male, and i was wondering about it too, if i was gay, but im not i think there just hott and sexy.

i also wondered if i was gay but im only attracted to shemales. i dont find guys sexually attractive at all

its actually a really good question .... i'm leaning toward yes .. bi at the least.

What more can I say? You are also right. People will still label you if you stray from what is the norm.

From my own personal experience though, labels cause more problems then benefit.

I'm older, and much wiser now, and I feel this is one reason why I have so much respect and admiration for the TS and TG. They have taken the bull by the horns, said "Screw it, I'm doing what I have to do for my own happiness and peace of mind".

That said, the TS and TG are really powers of examples for all of us.

Absolutely correct Twistedone - labels are only really useful as a kind of mental shorthand to describe groups of people based on commonalities. Aside from that, it's best to deal with people as individuals who happen to embody any number of labels at any given time - and break every single one of them all the time. The joy of personal interaction is getting past what we assume and finding the richness of each individual person.

Well said Bionca. Embrace the individual, their strengths and shortcomings all as one.

Well I think this question was asked millions of times. Seriously why do we care. It's not our sexual orientation that defines our life. We ask these question because we are afraid what others will say about us if they know. If we are gays, lesbiens or we love shemales what difference will it make. We will still be successful people in this society. So I say you careless about other people's opinion and live your life and be happy. We come here only once so enjoy it.

Now to answer this specific question as most here said, we are guys who love girls but with a little extra and as far as I am concerned I like all kind of girls with a little extra or not and I careless what other people say. :respect:

I think so too. :respect:

AMEN! And "phew"... then just mmmmmmmmmaybe I'm not a flaming queen...:eek:

Hank.. embrace your inner sissy-pants .. it's good for the soul ;)

I think what you are most attracted to is being the less dominant lover...thats what attracts me to t-girls...its still an attraction to females...just the curiosity of being on the other end of things...

Does it really matter? Enjoy your attraction and quit worrying what others think and you then you will have a much happier life. You are the only whose opinion matters to yourself.

To be, or Not to be....
 

There are some very good comments here. I think the comment, to each his own is very appropriate here. For me I can look at a nude transsexual women and get totally turned on, but when I look at a nude man it does absolutely nothing for me. It actually turns me off. I think we forget the meaning of the word gay, simply put gay means happy :) and if you are happy with a transsexual great! If you are happy with a man, whatever floats your boat. Most people are generally happy so I would say that most people are generally "gay". Let's stop putting labels on everything and love one another. That will put a stop to all kinds of hate and hate crime. Just some of my thoughts on the issue, take it or leave it. :respect:

James

Hmmm..I'm definitely not gay, nor am I attracted to guys. I guess it's the whole feminine look with breasts and something extra.

Let's face it, guys look at porn. We're turned on to the girl and watching a cock in action. Put the cock on a shemale and there you have it..the best of both worlds!;)

I don't consider myself gay but I wouldn't mind a shemales cock in my mouth.

I seem to be attracted to female bodybuilder like Denise Masino and Renita Harris but I also find women like Brooke Hogan and Brooke Shields ( the way she looks now) attractive because they look like women with a hint of masculinity.

I don't get into guys that look like a guy in any way but I do find that women with the strong cheek bones and jawlines like Erika Andersch (former American Gladiator) a real turn on. I went from FBB to Shemales while I still like "normal" hot chicks like Vida Guerra and Melyssa Ford but I find shemales like Patricia Aruajo, Amy, Anita Costa and Carla Renata equally as attractive.

I feel like the lines regarding sexual physical appearance have become more and more blurred over the years in ways that past generations never had to deal with or even contemplate. We have steroids and growth hormones that can make a very pretty, feminine woman like Denise Masino (she has a 4 inch clit) and turn her into a different hybrid type that didn't exist 20-30 years ago on the level of today. We also have plastic surgeons, great make up techniques and hormone therapy that can make a guy look like the most beautiful women with perfect tits and ass, flawless skin as well as a face that is more attractive than 85% of all "women."

My basic point is that we are in a totally different age and that your grandfathers rule don't necessarily apply in this constantly evolving hybrid sexuality. I am not attracted to a feminine form that appears more than 25% masculine. In the fashion world you see it a lot with models like Fredrique and Brigitte Nielsen and a few others that made a name with an exotic look that had elements of taboo.

p.s.

I see shemales like hot chicks, I would only bang them doggy and get a blow job but I am not interested in touching penis in any way. I do like to see thems jerking and with a erection will they are getting banged or blowing... but that's just me.

We don't live in a binary world, there's plenty between 0 and 1, i.e. hetero and gay. Life gets much easier when you stop pushing yourself into a single -perceived- niche.

I Like Everything I Like !!
 

I was sitting upstairs in a bar the other night in Bangla Road, Patong trying to get some decent pictures for my blog. Suddenly a waitress appeared and pointed out onto the street. "Ladyboys!", she said in a warning tone. "I know", I replied.

"You Like?" she said a little taken aback. "I like everything I like" I responded. That's the truth - and presently includes Ladies & Ladyboys (Pre & Post Op) but not Men.

I've had the same discussion with friends of mine who also have similar interests and the short answer is that none of us believe we are gay. Having said that we don't care what anyone else thinks of us either. Accept us or take a hike is our motto.

My view is that I always take the most beautiful/sexiest whatever. Here in Thailand the Ladyboys are always sexier than the ladies - they just have a particular look and/or are more extrovert or (frequently) have a better build match for the average European.

My other friends who say they are only into ladies have had to agree that Ladyboys are incredibly sexy. So, who's kidding themself. Not me.

I don't consider myself as gay. Possibly, bi-sexual but generally don't even think about it.

Am I Happy? Oh Yes!

For me the process started with a fetish for anal sex. In MF porn I mean. Then kinda got bored of it, so decided to try kinkier stuff-A2M and rimming. One heavenly day while looking at some rimming pics I glanced upon a shemale being rimmed. With that cock of hers erect in full glory and the guy with a raging hard on too, something clicked in my head. Its been two glorious years of whacking off to erect ladyboy cocks. My fetish is to one day lick of my anal juices off my shemale lover's cock and to look deep into her eyes while doing it.....
Sigh when will the day come?

I started looking at shemales when some friends played a prank on me and left shemale porn on my computer. I saw the images and pretended to be in disguist but really enjoyed the images. My love for shemales is a mix of what everyone else has already said.

On a non sexual level, shemales use to be male, so they have some of the tougher characteristics of males - yet also the grace and sensetivity of women. Intellectually knowing what men want to is a HUGE bonus.

I also cannot deny I like cock. I've been hit on by some gay men, one of them very feminine, but have turned all of them down. I live in an area that probably has little to no shemales. My ultimate dream, even though I'm with a gg, is to find a shemale to be with.

So as the cliche goes, I love shemales cause they are the best of both worlds.

There are some simpler reasons guys go for "shemales" too.
Like the internet makes it so easy.
Like if you're old and single, you want more "flavor" than when you were young and horny.
With the divorce rate at 80% in the US now, and workdays for men and women at 10-12 hours, traditional romance is real work.
There are much worse sex lives than being "gay"
Even Rick Blaine and Ilsa Lund had a stormy romance.
There are no ordinary sex lives.

For me it was 2 things that initially got me lusting over shemale porn. Before that, like a lot of guys I was hooked on watching lesbian porn. When I ran across shemales it seemed like a natural. If one of the girls in a lesbian couple had a dick, then they could really have sex. I tossed aside pictures of guys sucking shemale cocks and looked for the ones where real girls and/or shemales were sucking off shemales or especially shemales fucking girls.

The 2nd thing is I like to crossdress, and I liked to fantasize that I am a shemale making love to a woman. Like my sig says... I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

Well, here is my explanation. But before I get into it please keep in mind I speak for myself only and cannot answer for other men. But perhaps my reasons might be the same as other men. Also keep in mind, I've never met a tgirl and have never been with one or even got to speak.

As a child I never went through that period many little boys have. I call it the "Icky Girls" phase. You know, where little boys act as if they hate women.

Nope. Not this ol' boy. I loved the women they moment I was born. But, as a child I didn't have a developed sense of sexuality. I didn't know society's notions of right and wrong when it came to things like sexuality, crushes, attraction etc. I was just a stupid kid who loved girls.

But I also liked boys it would seem. I recall, in the third grade having a crush on on male student in my school. And I even so far as to draw a silly little love picture of him. It was anonymously made and surreptiously left on his desk. And the teacher made such a big deal out of it and demanded who did it. Needless to say I kept my mouth shut and this was when I was first aware of sexual taboos.

But I didn't think much of it being a kid and all.

And so the years pass. I get older. And, like all kids, slowly encounter sexuality and society's views of it. And I repressed everything. Openly, I always liked girl. And I truly do love them. But I liked the boys too. Not as much as I did girls.

Here there during puberty I experimented with my sexuality, even dressing as a girl. But that might have been more kink than actual gender issues or such. I masturbate alot. Introduced to porn as a child. and as I grew older it became harder to ignore the feelings in me. In the past when seeing nude males and such I'd pretend it sickened me. But it got to the point they aroused as much as women sometimes.

This led to me experimenting in college many years ago. I decided at most I am bi. I couldn't be gay now could? A gay man wouldn't love girls. And so I love them. A pity they won't return the sentiment...bitches.:frown:...

But anyway, my only experience beyond only being with women was a threesome with a married couple. He went down on me. Then we did his wife. At the time I wanted this. Afterwards I hated myself for it. Long afterwards I came to accept it.

Tgirls..I didn't know much about them until around this period. I never saw them except the stereotypes you get in movies. My only exposure to them was through the way society would depict them. I knew a girl who was a hermaphrodite but it wasn't quite the same issue. So, to me, tgirls..or trannies, shemales, whatever people call them, were mysterious and as a man I am supposed to find them disgusting.

But I couldn't do that really. Quite the opposite. I found them appealing and interesting. I still don't quite understand my feelings for them. And it would seem rather foolish for a man who has never met one or spoke to one to even think about them. It's like wanting to go to the moon. Yet I do. Over the years my thoughts on them became more refined. Initially I saw them as guys wanting to be girls. Eventually I saw them as women. This was helped by my training as a counselor and through researching and education about gender identity and the like.

And so, I suppose I like them because they are women. And I like women. But as I said I like boys too. But my feelings for boys are only sexual based. Always, through it all, I could only ever be emotionally connected to a woman, including those ones who have a little something else down below. I don't know if it means I'm straight, gay, bi or what. I don't care. I think it is safe to assume anyone who is a male and is attracted to tgirls is someone with complicated and perhaps even painful feelings inside. And for many of us it could well be just a kinky sexual thing. For others it could be an evolution of sexual and emotional attraction. Either way, it's all a moot point for me. As I've not met one. And I have only the one experience with a man. I bring that back up only because the man has a dick like a pre-op. The two are not the same in my mind. But would I feel the same if I did meet one and have some experience or relationship? Would I turn against the idea or finally be at peace? Beats me. If it ever happens I'll let ya know eh?

Wonderfully put. I am new to this forum & that sums up my feelings better than I could haved wrote.:)

You're definitely not straight either :D You have to be at least 30% on hetero----gay scale to love cocks. All the shemale lovers that think they're absolutely totally 100% not gay make me laugh.

I don't know if you're gay or not, but I don't consider myself to be gay and I love shemales. I would never fuck a man and I don't get turned on by them at all, in fact the thought of messing with a guy is disgusting to me.

I love shemales, but iam not gay
i would never allow my arse to be penetrated that shit would scar me for life
but boy would i fuck the shit out of a shemale allanah starr/gia darling would be my dream

its mad i can bust a load watchin a tranny flick then go and watch a hetero porn flick and bust just as hard

.shemalesgetfucked.com----the shit!!!

I like shemales... and girls... but not guys.
Would you consider me gay? Or heterosexual?
Or what? Part-sexual? :P

i also like shemales and girls but not guys.I have never had a cock up my ass,although i've been with a shemale only twice.

i consider myself strait,shemale lover even though i don't like putting labels on any one

This is an interesting thread, and the original question ALWAYS comes up in tgirl forums. It's all to do with how you see yourself, not whether you're "gay" or not. (Also, the definition of "gay" becomes so personal in discussions like this that it comes to a point where it doesn't even matter). Some people will say, there's a cock attached to that person, so it's male regardless of any other physical, emotional, or mental characteristics of said person. Others will say, well yes, there's a cock, but if you didn't see it you'd never know it was there because the rest is so feminine. Others, like myself, will say, my god she's so feminine but has a hard cock...that's just beautiful!

For myself, I answer this question like this: I am not at all attracted to other men, and I have never been with a tgirl, but I do consider myself to have bisexual leanings because if I were lucky enough to get to be with a tgirl I would definitely want to suck her cock and have her fuck me in the ass. (And I have never even so much fingered my own ass so I realize I'd have to "warm up" first!) :lol: But when I watch tgirl porn I love how it looks when the girls are on "top." And the fact that they are so beautiful, I'd really get off myself knowing I was getting them off. (If that makes sense). I guess, as a tgirl admirer from afar, I tend to put tgirls on a pedestal, but that's part of the fantasy for me. I'd treat her like nothing but the lady she is, while hoping she'd get turned on enough to give me a good "seeing to." :eek: All this to reiterate my original point, such labels should only matter to you, and you are the one who needs to come to terms with your own psyche...sexual and otherwise. If we all lived our lives worrying about what others thought of us we'd be miserable indeed. Cheers. (And hopefully this is halfway readable!) :p

Does Anyone Ever Feel Any Guilt About Liking TGirls?
 

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on. I know i do from time to time. I've been into ladyboys since i was a teenager, I'm now 28. Every once in a while i start to feel bad and guilty for liking T-Girls and i try to just look at regular porn, but most of the time it does nothing for me, I just have to come back to shemale porn. As i say it doesn't happen very often just now and then, Just wanted to know if anyone experiences the same kind of thing.

No. I like what I like.

Yea sometimes
 

Yea. Sometimes. Im 24, really starting to come to terms with it, have to really. Was kind of a problem before. I make myself paranoid about it sometimes. Like "what if they knew" sort of thing when I interact with people. Really does my head in sometimes, like I get all nervous and stuff. Doesn't add to my confidence put it that way..

I never feel guilty liking a hot girl with a nice cock.

I love shemales, but I'm not gay. As a matter of fact I'm not sure I can explain why they excite me so. S.Freud may have spoken and written about it. If not...:censored:

But if I'm not gay, why di I love girls with cock?

Same question concerning the pleasure I get when I wear womens clothes...:confused:

no i don't feel guilty .... i can't find a reason

recently,not really.. but yes very rarely i do feel guilt. and not because i am ashamed of liking these beutiful people, but because i think of my family. my dad is very macho, and i dont know what he'd do if he knew about my interest in ladyboys..

I used to but have come to accept how I feel. The guilt feelings were stemming from society imposing its values on me. But we are are own people and we shouldn't feel guilty for a thing such as who we are attracted to.

I do. Im new to the whole shemale thing, it just turns me on but im afraid of what my family & frends would say.


well put, im a confused guy that has just got into shemales.

Most people on this forum are not gay, we are attracted to the feminine features of beautiful women with a little something extra, if you were attracted to hairy arse men then you'd be gay, But there's no way i would suck a mans cock, and that probably goes for most people here, So just enjoy liking shemales, enjoy their beauty, and stop worrying that you're gay.

No. I have never had the opportunity to be with one yet though. I live in a place where there are only a couple and they have lines of suitors lined up so ya. Someday though.

nope

I just want to fulfill my fantasy and actually be with one!

I dont feel guilty. But, the big problem for me right nowis this. I'm into Genetic girls and transexuals. I've never been with a transexual before, and I really want to. However, the girl I'm dating is amazing, but not so amazing as to just let me have sex with someone elde. We've been together for 4 years now, and I'm feel pretty confident I want to marry her. But, the thing that keeps holding me back is that if I do, I'll prolly never get to fulfill my fantasy...

I have no such problems, as I feel just as comfortable with a real girl or a LB. It is just a matter of getting used to it and prepare yourself for the role ahead.

There's no way ever i would go with a guy, As i'm sure most people here wouldn't, I am not even remotely attracted to men. Ladyboys are not men, they are beautiful girls with a little something extra, They just drive me absoluteley crazy, so much so that i have little interest in gg's now, although i wouldn't say no to hot gg.

does it turn you on to look up and see a guy getting turned on a blowing his load because of you?

:turnoff: still am waisting my time with gg's. But I'd love to fuck/be fucked by a cute guy, ideally would fuck a shemale, but since none in my area, I'll go with a sexy man - hopefully someday soon:turnon:

Yes, I do.

hmmm i bet your one hell of a cock sucker!

:turnon:

I do feel some shame, But in a way i get off on it.

Honestly, when I first starting viewing them I did feel a little weird/uneasy/conflicted about how I felt. Overtime though + reading and interacting in a forum like this, that all went away. I now embrace and welcome my love of TGirls with open arms. In retrospect I wish I discovered it earlier. I missed out on so much pleasure.

no more guilt
 

I admit when I was first 'exposed' to ladyboys I was kind of conflicted by my attraction to them. Since then I have been friends with several tgirls and have had a couple of brief relationships. I have to say now that tgirls are my sexual preference. I still like women, but not as much.
I don't feel any guilt anymore. I realize that I just didn't know before, and we're often afraid of what we don't know.

same here I am also new but hey you have to otherwise what is life all about

:turnon:Welllll for me!!

I wish I had as much guilt and shame as I used to because that feeling of having to wait for my parents to sleep and somehow secretly watch and wack off to this great new world of pornography I had discovered with no lock on my bedroom door and a huge family!!!!!......really, really turned me on!

Now before the grand realm of the shemale, I had lesbians which I felt no guilt at all for the whole world to know how drained I would get watching them...oh this began when i was 9 and first found out about my new best friend at the time, the internet!!

Maybe I felt a little shameful after awhile cuz all I could think of was lesbians....then I for some reason prayed to stop thinking of them.....and thats when my prayers were answered...but tragically for my soul, it was a twisted and grotesque revelation (:turnon::turnon::turnon::turnon::turnon:).....:dr ool:

Since then, 2 girl friends...and no ts experience...and Im currently engaged...soooo sadly, all I got now is a few good websites when she aint looking.....buttttt, :D that wonderful feeling of shame may finally return when we move in together :respect:


Sometimes I feel guilty when I go to sleep with a boner...and not do anything about it......just shameful....but sometimessss....I still get wet dreamz so its coool :cool:

I don't feel guilty personally but still I don't go around telling people I like t-girls. There's nothing to be gained by it, and a lot of hell to receive for it.

Between The Ears About Between The Legs
 

If you lived for everyone else, you'd have no life.

The fantasy to reality can lead to another guilt issue, like am I gay?

It can lead to another road, depending on who and what.

I would say that probably nearly everyone here is 100% hetrosexual, We just prefer our chicks to have dicks.:respect:

I wouldn't say prefer in my case. I love pussy, but if she happens to have a dick, I wouldn't have a problem with it. No way I would ever do anything with a man.

like most, i assume, i tend to think of shemales as women, and treat them as such..
the thought of being with a man is totally unattractive to me
i am fairly certain, however, that most shemales are indeed gay (please correct me if i am wrong)

wow interesting results. i like to look at mens cocks as well as shemales i like shemales more but some dudes cocks are just so hot. there are very few men that i am attracted too. mostly just their dicks. but i do have fantasys about men having sex with me. i dont think i would ever persue it. but if i was ever persued i would do it for sure.

im with you maximillian. I LOVE pussy. But if she has a huge cock, I'll take that too. gay male sex is a major turn OFF for me.

I adressed this before...
 

And I'm of the same opinion as many here...Personally I look at T-girls as females with male genitaila, and even some, so called Femboys as a lot of them are really are T-girls in their early stages. That's my take on this question and how I'll always respond to it.

Junior Ladyboy Lover
 

Give it a try. You'll like it, I guarantee.:coupling::coupling:

for me ,l think ,ladyboy is sex monster

i want fuck shemale ,but i think iam not a gay

to help some people thinking of having sex with a shemale is that wonderful space between straight or gay when its neither:lol:

I'm not gay. I had one gay experience while drunk with a friend. I thought, what the hell!? I hated it. I felt as though I needed to take a shower for days after the experience. My friend has asked me to "participate" with him several times since then, but I cannot and will not ever do that again. Even if I'm drunk, lol!

That being said, I did not know until recently that I am REALLY attracted to shemales. My favorite cousin had a sex change operation not too long ago. She (used to be he I guess) likes girls. This really confused me, but now I understand that is the way she feels. She was born a girl, but just had male genitals. She likes girls and that is what makes her happy. She used to be suicidal, but now all of those feelings are gone (since she had the operation). So, to me, she did the right thing by having a sex change.

After hearing this, I looked up shemales both pre op and post op. I was trying to understand why my best friend and closest family relative decided to do such a drastic change. While "investigating", I noticed that I am sooooooo attracted to shemales. At first, I kind of laughed and thought....."NO! They look just like girls! Therefore, I'm not gay and I don't like chicks that used to be dudes!"............

Right now, I'm in a wonderful relationship with a female. She's beautiful and everything that I've ever wanted. BUT, if I knew this before I got together with her, I would've pursued a relationship with either a female or shemale (which to me are females, but I have to be clear about things). My options would've been more open. I'm happy with who I am with though.

Now, when I look at porn, I like to look at females. Guys don't do it for me. BUT, almost every time that I look at porn, I will always check out shemales. There is something that makes my brain buzz while looking at shemales because I think they're beautiful (not all though! we like what we like).

I'll probably never experience sex with a shemale, because I want to spend the rest of my life with the girl that I am with and be monogamous. I'm happy with that. No regrets. BUT, if something happens to our relationship, you bet your ass that I would date a shemale and pursue a life together. But I wouldn't only pursue a shemale. I like girls. Some of them just so happen to have a dick! I'm an equal opportunity kind of guy.......


Sorry for the long post...but I'm glad to get this off my chest. I'm relieved that there are others out there that feel the same way. I hope you guys and gals accept me, and if I say something wrong...I'm sorry. I'm just trying to figure all of this out and accept myself for being...ME!