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flyguy44 05-24-2009 07:50 AM

www.matets.com worked for me! Thanks to everyone for all of the great help here.

Ryder143 05-28-2009 05:39 PM

Thanx for the post...

its a valuable subject..

cheers..

SheridynCD 06-02-2009 08:17 AM

Hi does ant one know of a place in melbourne australia?

sexchannel 06-12-2009 02:12 AM

You will see a few on adultmatchmaker

Globolin 06-12-2009 04:23 AM

Try to find some social network sites, look around whatever are your likes and preferences and get in touch. Be patient. Its the very same as with any other personal contact in this world. Then whenever you want to travel to the Philippines or doesnt matter where (maybe UK, no not definitely not Ireland Lol) meet her if you like each other. Dont forget to bring a gift ;) For me it just happened out of the blue and to be honest, in the first instance I really thought its a girl and of course I did not mind about when she told me she is a ladyboy. Nothing more nice could have happend in my life then to meet her. Dont know if I can enter a link here. Better not. Dont wanna get kicked off as I like this site much.

dsr 06-15-2009 04:16 PM

hey kelly
 
great post, very informative. it is also interesting to note that many of the ladyboys in asia are well versed in the english language, which, of course, makes it easier for us guys here in the U.S. or other english speaking nations. hope that information is also helpful along with kelly's excellent post.

SheridynCD 06-20-2009 09:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sexchannel (Post 89129)
You will see a few on adultmatchmaker

Hi thankx will give it a look!

sexchannel 07-01-2009 12:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SheridynCD (Post 90430)
Hi thankx will give it a look!

no probs , all states seem to have some stunners , i think sydney has the best ?:inlove:

sceicco9000 08-05-2009 07:13 AM

ladyboy
 
best place in the world to meet beautiful ladyboys is Thailand......:turnon:

spike_40 08-05-2009 10:22 AM

Thanks
 
What great assistance this will help me and I guess others that read and are true to their desires Many thanks

TGKateHerts 08-06-2009 04:23 AM

thailand is good

TGKateHerts 08-06-2009 04:26 AM

to meet ladyboys. we western tgirls don't stand much chance against them lol

LadyBoyLive.com 09-06-2009 08:16 AM

After 12 years in the Live Cam biz.... Im finally turning up a new site for some LB interaction.

DSL 09-12-2009 02:01 PM

How and where to meet a shemale
 
anyone know of any shemale clubs or bars in Massachusetts area?.

wildts81 09-16-2009 05:57 AM

hello guys,

im may , shemale from jakarta.

iam 29, tall and slim, smooth fair skin, sexy lips and very very very feminim

i'd like to know guys who is mature, macho and TOP guys only.

sorry, im pre op but just consider i dont have "that thing" ok...
and i only like a guys who want to explore my "she" more than my "male" part.

trannydate 09-23-2009 02:03 PM

I found Tranny Date.com a few weeks ago and it has been good to me so far. I thinks its new so its growing but I like it.

black Stallion 10-05-2009 03:20 PM

Any Tgirls In Idaho
 
Looking for a tgirl in Idaho somebody please help me out just moved to Idaho from Cali.

PI_Monger 10-15-2009 06:38 PM

There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

For us lucky enough to live in Asia, the hotspots are Pattaya, Bangkok and Manila. Thailand's famous ladyboy clubs are mostly on Walking Street and Soi 6 in Pattaya; Nana Plaza in Bangkok. Manila now has its first GRO barfine ladyboy bar on P.Burgos St in Makati called the Shampoo Bar. Korea and Japan are opening up more but its very expensive. Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

randolph 10-15-2009 08:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PI_Monger (Post 111941)
There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

For us lucky enough to live in Asia, the hotspots are Pattaya, Bangkok and Manila. Thailand's famous ladyboy clubs are mostly on Walking Street and Soi 6 in Pattaya; Nana Plaza in Bangkok. Manila now has its first GRO barfine ladyboy bar on P.Burgos St in Makati called the Shampoo Bar. Korea and Japan are opening up more but its very expensive. Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

In San Diego there is Lips and the SRO Lounge, lots of TVs and TS. Khloe Hart used to work at Lips. ;) ;):D

aw9725 10-15-2009 09:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PI_Monger (Post 111941)
There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

I'll have to try that. Not sure Indiana's a good place to be--maybe it's time to revise my "Myspace" page! ;)

Maybe a mistake to share personal info--I did it on here in good faith and something happened to make me change my profile info and pictures to something silly. :(

Thanks for the advice--I'd really like to meet someone! :cool:

The Conquistador 10-15-2009 10:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by randolph (Post 111961)
In San Diego there is Lips and the SRO Lounge, lots of TVs and TS. Khloe Hart used to work at Lips. ;) ;):D

Randolph! Are you in SD?

randolph 10-15-2009 10:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman (Post 111971)
Randolph! Are you in SD?

No, but close. ;):cool:

Some reviews of Lips.
I love it!‎
Rated 5.0 out of 5.0 By Amy H. - insiderpages.com - Nov 17, 2008‎
I had the absolute best time here. The drinks are great, the food is great, the service is great and the show is absolutely hysterical! This is the place that everyone should visit at least one time...with an open mind! ...‎
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Lips is the "Ultimate in Drag Dining",...‎
By BrentS2965 - zagat.com - Aug 1, 2009‎
where the Boys are Men and so are the Girls! This is a place you go with your friends to get away from the world for a couple of hours. Turn off the cellphone, grab a drink and entree named after a famous drag queen, like RuPaul, and enjoy the show! Birthdays, Ladies Night out ...‎
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Frommer's Review‎
Rated 1.5 out of 5.0 By frommers.com - Jul 7, 2009‎
This drag revue supper club has a different show nightly, like Bitchy Bingo on Wednesday and celebrity impersonations on Thursday. Dinner seating is at 7pm Sunday and Tuesday through Thursday; weekends have two dinner seatings (6:30 and ...‎
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Mediocre, but Expensive Food - Okay...show.‎
Rated 2.0 out of 5.0 By Frances C. - insiderpages.com - Dec 19, 2008‎
Food is mediocre and expensive...actually, I didn't even like the food, but I ate it cuz I was so hungry... The service was nice though...I felt that they pressured you to buy drinks. Our waitress didn't really leave our table until we ...‎
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Count me in...‎
Rated 5.0 out of 5.0 By Candyce F. - insiderpages.com - Nov 8, 2008‎
This is a must see! All ages and orientations will LOVE this one. They have great food and a wildly entertaining show. Your in for a surprise if you don't know about it before you get there. It is a drag queen show. ...‎
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JodieTs 10-20-2009 05:11 AM

Try Eros or craigs list.
for a professional experience, ;)

ChefJayWalker 10-22-2009 07:58 AM

i would like to get to know some ladyboys
 
but where can i meet some?

mrtrebus 12-14-2009 04:11 PM

What about Escorts in britain, the south east? any tips? Any reviews of particular escorts would be good or sites etc.
thanx

pretty_ladyboy 01-01-2010 01:23 AM

why is it everyone when talking about shemales always pertaining to sex...???

does anyone here care for shemale to be in serious relationship?

ila 01-01-2010 08:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pretty_ladyboy (Post 125270)
why is it everyone when talking about shemales always pertaining to sex...???

does anyone here care for shemale to be in serious relationship?

You will find many on here that want a serious relationship with a transwoman.

shadows 01-01-2010 11:32 PM

I agree with ila, there are some of us that would love to find ourselves in a relationship. Whether or not that happens is another thing, but we certainly aren't all here looking for some booty.

MatchlessG9 01-02-2010 12:25 AM

Escort Services
 
Came across a very good site
www.vicesisters.com
No need to join anything
Just select a country and then it asks you for a city.
I live in Indonesia and it came up with some very remote towns - Last night I checked a couple of the phone numbers given against the girls - they were real.
So if you live in an area, where you find it difficult to find a ladyboy - try the above site.

virtualflower 01-27-2010 09:29 AM

Ladyboys in Bali
 
Does anyone have recommendations on where to meet working ladyboys in Bali?

alix 05-07-2010 11:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlueRaven88 (Post 21027)
ummmmmmmmmm everywhere? seriously dude just hit up Dragoncastle.net or TGPersonals.com and search for LB in philippines (on TGP you can search for city or keywords aswell i believe)

seriously asking where to find a ladyboy in the philippines is like asking where to find a muslim in australia (yeah the fucking cunts are everywhere now:frown:)

please , how ican meet ladyboy in sydney

backstabber89 07-05-2010 05:13 AM

Chatroom
 
Mates,there is a wondeful chatroom that i happened to visit n joined.
its name is
www[dot]tsgirlfriend[dot]com
I love it very much. If you love TS from ur heart you can be a member there.You cant chat there for just sex,of one night stand.
there you be banned if you say "s**m**le".
chat friendly...also u have to ask a member in the public chat whether or not he/she IM.never ask for asl also....
being an core TS admirer i love it....since i look for a TSgirlfriend.
all that u should need is to show R.E.S.P.E.C.T

zanna54 07-14-2010 04:48 PM

italy
 
in italia the best trans on the word:turnon::turnon:

DocFeelGood 07-30-2010 09:39 AM

Vacation
 
Well guys, in a couple of weeks I am taking a vacation to Thailand and finally I will meet with a friend, she is a ladyboy, I will tell you how it went when I returned

Enoch Root 08-04-2010 01:31 PM

Where could one find a nice transsexual woman in Puerto Rico?

JodieTs 08-04-2010 07:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by merelypink (Post 39418)
you can try www.matets.com its a shemale dating site:) and its where i always hook up

Yes me too!

JodieTs 08-04-2010 07:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rachel (Post 51100)
I joined that site and it seems I am the only TG in New Jersey. No GG women either. I guess I will have lots of male suitors then lol.

That is truly astonishing!

smc 08-04-2010 08:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JodieTs (Post 154458)
That is truly astonishing!

My god, Jodie, now that I've seen your new avatar you're the only shemale I ever want to meet!!!!!!! :lol:

Enoch Root 08-17-2010 08:36 AM

Anybody have any idea where one could meet a nice tgirl in Puerto Rico?

yumyum 09-18-2010 09:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by zanna54 (Post 152182)
in italia the best trans on the word:turnon::turnon:

I went to straight club in Rome the other week and at about 3am, 5 gorgeous t-girls come through the doors. I did a bit of arse pinching but my brother was there so I couldn't get away with any more. Hot girls they were.

Orchard towers in Singapore is one place. There are too many in Thailand to name. Patong was pretty good. Soi Crocodile. I live in London. Lots of places here such as Wayout, Trannyshack. And there are plenty of escorts if you want to pay. I would love a proper relationship.

jigenbakuda 11-02-2010 12:41 AM

Can I get some transsexual admirer tips?
 
I am getting comfortable enough in my love of transsexual women that I want to go out and start meeting them locally in my town (or maybe take a trip to another close by town...). But I'm not exactly sure how to proceed. I'm not big on paying for a relationship with anyone... But I'd still love to meet and befriend some transsexual ladies out there. But here lies the problem, I have absolutely no idea how to do this. I don't live in new york, las vegas, or LA, so transsexual ladies aren't as bountiful where I live.

But how do I go about discreetly inquiring in my area, about places that transsexual ladies frequent? So I start in gay bars, or should there be a transsexual union in my town or something? How do transsexual ladies in my area know to meet where ever they meet?

Basically I'm just trying to find out, how one finds out about the transsexual activities in their area.

no1000 11-02-2010 01:10 AM

Gay bars are a good place to start. I would actually try and find out what theme nights they have. They have have a drag or trans night etc. But yeah not a bad place to start looking.

smc 11-02-2010 06:40 AM

There is a Sticky thread on this topic: "How and where to meet a shemale." Your thread has been merged there. I suggest you look through that thread.

tsfever 11-07-2010 03:43 AM

If any one is traveling to Sao Paulo Brasil, a Great place to meet a latina TS is at a club called "Love Story" in the "Centro" Neighborhood... you can also try any little bar within a 5 block radius of there.

JodieTs 11-21-2010 03:52 PM

How do you actually get to meet a transsexual woman?

Most Transsexual women meet partners who know our history.
Maybe they knew us before we transitioned.
Maybe they ?read? us
Maybe through work, where gossip outed us.
Though we mostly meet though trans friendly spaces:
be it a tg forum /chat room,
trans club/bar,
or from a group of friends and friends of friends...where the suitor had the heads-up on our past,
or they used to date a friend of ours who is also a Transsexual woman...
And so on.

My man said the easiest way to date a Transsexual woman, is to interact with us on trans boards.
Post on areas of common interest. Avoid sex topics.
See if you click.
Assess which Transsexual women are slightly deranged
and which are very deranged
(Accept that to a degree we are all bonkers)
And private message anyone you find interesting.
Later, suggest phone / social contact.
If later, things move on to friendship and then romance,cool.
My man wooed me for six months after our first meeting before I relented.


Oh, be prepared to put lots of time and ? or $:
Think flights, hotels, food, car rental
Because of our rarity, you will probably have to put a lot of effort into travel and resulting costs.
My man lives 1400 miles from me,
Yep, he had to go that far just to meet for an afternoon, to see if we would be friends. He combined the trip with some work stuff.

pretty_ladyboy 11-23-2010 10:27 AM

^
very well said Jodiets... thats the things you must avoid, know, improve, portray, and keep in heart if you want to meet us.

and also the tsdating site i love that site too... too bad admin blocked ts from asia because they are only allowing ts located in US i think.

its very hard to find a guy who can risk everything for you... a guy who can sacrifice things just to be with you... maybe that guy is just a part of fairytale stories :)

Trogdor 12-30-2010 12:40 AM

How about Michigan? Finding a cutie, or a place to meet cuties over here makes finding a needle in a haystack look like child's play. :p

And ALL the dating sites have given me piss-poor results and so-called 'matches'. Dating Sites are made out of epic failure.

JodieTs 12-30-2010 03:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trogdor (Post 169741)
How about Michigan? Finding a cutie, or a place to meet cuties over here makes finding a needle in a haystack look like child's play. :p

And ALL the dating sites have given me piss-poor results and so-called 'matches'. Dating Sites are made out of epic failure.

Well. the truth is this:
If we look totally like any other woman, you will not know we are Ts
{cuties are only a small % of Ts women}

I never get taken to be anything other than a Day-1 woman,
which makes me totally invisible to potentially interested men.
I'm in a long tern relationship so that fact does not bother me either way. But if I was single I still wouldn't care. I want people to like me for the person I am, not because I have a penis.
A penis is a rubbish reason to date. Sure, its funny when I walk through my lounge, naked, on the wat to my shower, waving my penis up and down, making:woo woo woo noises.
It's even funny the second or third time...:lol:
But after then, you really need a lot more to base a relationship on.

Long term relationships....well a lot of my friends met their partners when they didn't quite look the way they do now. Didn't quite pass. Early days. Still some / a lot of their male past apparent.
Their male partners dated them for who they were not for the external appearance.
Would you date a recent transitioned trans woman if she occasionally had a 5? clock shadow...


Finally, I only know a few trans friends who go on trans dating sites.
They are there to EXCLUSIVELY date other trans....

The rest of us don't need to
or more importantly, don't want to meet a man who we perceive to be fixated about that part of our bodies we loath...

Trogdor 12-31-2010 03:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JodieTs (Post 169751)
Well. the truth is this:
If we look totally like any other woman, you will not know we are Ts
{cuties are only a small % of Ts women}

I never get taken to be anything other than a Day-1 woman,
which makes me totally invisible to potentially interested men.
I'm in a long tern relationship so that fact does not bother me either way. But if I was single I still wouldn't care. I want people to like me for the person I am, not because I have a penis.
A penis is a rubbish reason to date. Sure, its funny when I walk through my lounge, naked, on the wat to my shower, waving my penis up and down, making:woo woo woo noises.
It's even funny the second or third time...:lol:
But after then, you really need a lot more to base a relationship on.

Long term relationships....well a lot of my friends met their partners when they didn't quite look the way they do now. Didn't quite pass. Early days. Still some / a lot of their male past apparent.
Their male partners dated them for who they were not for the external appearance.
Would you date a recent transitioned trans woman if she occasionally had a 5? clock shadow...


Finally, I only know a few trans friends who go on trans dating sites.
They are there to EXCLUSIVELY date other trans....

The rest of us don't need to
or more importantly, don't want to meet a man who we perceive to be fixated about that part of our bodies we loath...

sorry, did not know wanting to be with an attractive person in arelationship was so evil and horrible. Did not realize how selfish I am. :frown:

JodieTs 01-02-2011 09:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trogdor (Post 169867)
sorry, did not know wanting to be with an attractive person in arelationship was so evil and horrible. Did not realize how selfish I am.

What's in it for your potential Ts date?
{She may be reading this}
You don't even have a face pic up and all you do is moan.
What would you bring to a relationship?

Interact on here and other boards.
Make FRIENDS only.
Remove dating from your mind.
Interact, and only consider more,
if there is a spark between you and hopefully a Ts.
Because you actually like each other
rather than because she is a "cutie" who has a penis.

If it is just the latter, no Ts would ever date you.
That is the reality
I apologise for being so evil and horrible for speaking the totally obvious truth.

JodieTs 01-02-2011 10:14 AM

Anyway, I met one of my partners off a trans board
based in the UK
He had the mindset of my last post.
We are now together for 2 years and totally in love.
A number of people on this board are now dating as a result of meeting on this very site.
I know nothing about how they started dating,
but I'm sure it was because they interacted, got on, liked each other,
and then dated.
Not coz of a cutie factor with anatomy in bold highlight.

ila 01-02-2011 10:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JodieTs (Post 170021)
Anyway, I met one of my partners off a trans board
based in the UK
He had the mindset of my last post.
We are now together for 2 years and totally in love.
A number of people on this board are now dating as a result of meeting on this very site.
I know nothing about how they started dating,
but I'm sure it was because they interacted, got on, liked each other,
and then dated.
Not coz of a cutie factor with anatomy in bold highlight.

I would say that interaction is the keyword here; that, and respect go a long way towards establishing a relationship.

I'm pretty sure that haste doesn't help anyone's cause.

JodieTs 01-02-2011 11:45 AM

That is so true.
My man chatted on a forum for six months,
three months of phone conversations,
a 1400 mile flight for a meal with me and several of my friends,
then three separate weeks just hangin' out, being friends
before I thought about dating him.
{He decided, a fair bit earlier, though...:inlove:}

aw9725 01-02-2011 01:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trogdor (Post 169867)
sorry, did not know wanting to be with an attractive person in arelationship was so evil and horrible. Did not realize how selfish I am. :frown:

You really need to start by asking yourself what you are looking for in a partner. I can’t speak for everyone but my own list would be something like this:

Physical attraction between us
Caring personality
Similar interests
Sense of humor
Emotional stability

Notice that list does NOT state whether or not my partner should be cis or trans, blonde, brunette, or redhead, how much they weigh, how much money they make, or what they look like. You also need to look at what YOU bring to the relationship. What are your best traits? How would you describe yourself? What do you like to do? What is your job? What are you most proud of doing in your life? What would a potential partner see in you?

Also I don’t know how old you are--it sounds like you had a few bad experiences in high-school. Most of us have. You need to focus on what is ahead of you. Also, as others have said, it takes time to build a real relationship. Unless you are interested only in “one night stands” you can expect to invest a lot of time into finding a true partner. Good luck! ;)

Trogdor 01-02-2011 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JodieTs (Post 170018)
What's in it for your potential Ts date?
{She may be reading this}
You don't even have a face pic up and all you do is moan.
What would you bring to a relationship?

Interact on here and other boards.
Make FRIENDS only.
Remove dating from your mind.
Interact, and only consider more,
if there is a spark between you and hopefully a Ts.
Because you actually like each other
rather than because she is a "cutie" who has a penis.

If it is just the latter, no Ts would ever date you.
That is the reality
I apologise for being so evil and horrible for speaking the totally obvious truth.

You'll get a face shot of me shortly. Most boards I have been on have a "Post what you look like" thread, just looking around for that first.

From my own experiences, once a person is a friends, say bye bye to dating, because every girl I've experienced do NOT date friends, aka, the dreaded 'friends zone'. I have seen people, and been one of them, where if a long time friend of a girl walks up to her and asks her out, she gets weired out, as if her own brother asked her out. I used to think otherwise, but by the time I was 20, I had so many friends who girls and yet no girl friends, it got not only embarrassing, it was down right frustrating.

I want a girl with a good head on her shoulders and so on, but I don't see why wanting to find one who's cute is so bad. You girls wanting someone tall and handsome is not evil, I think.


Quote:

Originally Posted by aw9725 (Post 170041)
You really need to start by asking yourself what you are looking for in a partner. I can?t speak for everyone but my own list would be something like this:

Physical attraction between us
Caring personality
Similar interests
Sense of humor
Emotional stability

Of course I am looking for all that in the list. Problem is one particular poster getting upset when she reads I want the girl I meet to be very cute, also. It's like a struck a nerve with her or something. I don't get upset when a girl says she wants someone tall and handsome, or someone who has (insert famous personality's features).


Quote:

Originally Posted by aw9725 (Post 170041)
Notice that list does NOT state whether or not my partner should be cis or trans, blonde, brunette, or redhead, how much they weigh, how much money they make, or what they look like. You also need to look at what YOU bring to the relationship. What are your best traits? How would you describe yourself? What do you like to do? What is your job? What are you most proud of doing in your life? What would a potential partner see in you?

Also I don?t know how old you are--it sounds like you had a few bad experiences in high-school. Most of us have. You need to focus on what is ahead of you. Also, as others have said, it takes time to build a real relationship. Unless you are interested only in ?one night stands? you can expect to invest a lot of time into finding a true partner. Good luck! ;)

31, going on 32. Oh yea, I had a rotten time in high school, no high school sweet heart, no senior prom, etc. In fact my first date ever did not come till I was smeggin' 20. Also, many g-girls don't bother waiting to build relationships, they just go and run off with anyone with the "Mr. Bad-Ass" vibe going on....you know the type....that guzzles a lot of alcohol, has skull & snake tattoos on his forearms, wears a lot of bling, does some sort of drugs, has been arrested at least once, and part of some no-name rock band that's never going to take off, and will end up abusing the girl both physically and verbally. Or in the very least o off with some stranger they just met in a club or bar. Least that's how it is like up here in Michigan.

The point is that all I am saying is that I am no longer interested in genetic females anymore, I posted earlier here or on another thread that they simply hurt me too many times and that I've had enough (if you eat something that makes you sick, and/or are allergic to it, you won't keep on eating said food, right? Of course not, you go find something else. Same with jobs, if you're in a job you hate for whatever reason, be it bad pay, the boss treats you like garbage, crappy benefits, etc.....you go try to find a different job, right?)
I don't see what everyone's up in arms about that. And as I also said, ts girls have treated me much better than any genetic female ever has done, I have great conversations, get along well with them, none of them has hurt me, and so on.

I feel I am being reasonable. Though I am sure some folks here want to find a plank for me to walk on.:rolleyes:

ila 01-02-2011 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trogdor (Post 170054)
You'll get a face shot of me shortly. Most boards I have been on have a "Post what you look like" thread, just looking around for that first...

Scroll up the page from this forum to this subforum "Member Introductions and Pictures"

aw9725 01-02-2011 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trogdor (Post 170054)
Of course I am looking for all that in the list. Problem is one particular poster getting upset when she reads I want the girl I meet to be very cute, also. It's like a struck a nerve with her or something. I don't get upset when a girl says she wants someone tall and handsome, or someone who has (insert famous personality's features).

31, going on 32. Oh yea, I had a rotten time in high school, no high school sweet heart, no senior prom, etc. In fact my first date ever did not come till I was smeggin' 20. Also, many g-girls don't bother waiting to build relationships, they just go and run off with anyone with the "Mr. Bad-Ass" vibe going on....you know the type....that guzzles a lot of alcohol, has skull & snake tattoos on his forearms, wears a lot of bling, does some sort of drugs, has been arrested at least once, and part of some no-name rock band that's never going to take off, and will end up abusing the girl both physically and verbally. Or in the very least o off with some stranger they just met in a club or bar. Least that's how it is like up here in Michigan.

I sense then that you know exactly what you want and aren?t really looking for any friendly advice or understanding. By the way I was born and raised in Detroit.

Trogdor 01-11-2011 10:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aw9725 (Post 170078)
I sense then that you know exactly what you want and aren?t really looking for any friendly advice or understanding. By the way I was born and raised in Detroit.

Only advice I want is point me to a place near where I am with nice t-girls and let me take care of the rest. :cool: And you have my sympathy being born and raised in Detroit. :innocent:

smc 01-11-2011 10:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trogdor (Post 171073)
Only advice I want is point me to a place near where I am with nice t-girls and let me take care of the rest. :cool: And you have my sympathy being born and raised in Detroit. :innocent:

Any other places people might be born and raised that you wish to denigrate? aw9725 has turned out pretty damn fine, if you ask me.

Trogdor 01-12-2011 01:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smc (Post 171075)
Any other places people might be born and raised that you wish to denigrate? aw9725 has turned out pretty damn fine, if you ask me.

Naw, my own neck of the woods is fine. ^_^

JodieTs 01-12-2011 04:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trogdor (Post 171081)
I want Jodie to do all the planning and legwork
for me.

how to move to New York
how to move to
As your superior knowledge places 87% of EVERY SINGLE Ts
in these two locations.

Oh, I know a LOT of other ts women.
What precisely would you bring into
  • any date
  • series of dates with same person
  • relationship
Please keep your reply to one side of A-4 paper,
be concise, include hobbies/ interests, past relationship details,
Job/ career progression
any felony convictions
education
and professional qualifications
picture of your car {you do have a car, yes?}
and aspirations for any relationship.
Will you stay with her and support her financially
when she has SRS & FFS?

Oh, I see you have no face photo.
Please correct this
IMMEDIATELY
on your avatar
or your application will be rejected.

Finally,
in ten words or less complete this sentence:
"A hot cutie pre-op transsexual woman would like to consider dating me because _______________________*



*This last part will be used in the event of a tie-break between you and the other applicants

JodieTs 01-12-2011 05:07 PM

Lastly Trogdor
I see you are into Dr Who.
Have you clicked on my Avatar link yet?
That is a scene from my all time fav Dr Who episode: "Blink"

Trogdor 01-12-2011 06:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JodieTs (Post 171168)
Lastly Trogdor
I see you are into Dr Who.
Have you clicked on my Avatar link yet?
That is a scene from my all time fav Dr Who episode: "Blink"

Believe it or not, Blink is one of my least favorite stories.

Pyramids of Mars and The Dead Planet are my favorites.

katieayanami 01-13-2011 01:03 AM

online!

thats where i find boyfriends

its the safest place i think

sju 01-19-2011 10:23 AM

TS in Puerto Rico
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Enoch Root (Post 154415)
Where could one find a nice transsexual woman in Puerto Rico?


Did anyone tell you where?

bohemas 01-22-2011 05:11 AM

Good dating site..
 
I have met many super nice ladyboys on dateinasia.com too.. it isn't strictly a ladyboy dating site but there are many nice ones there, especially from Indonesia

chrisy76 01-23-2011 04:59 PM

Looking for a TS/shemale
 
Hi there, does anyone know where i should look to find a true TS/ladyboy who does not lie? I want to bring one here to visit me in UK for 3 months...i have been fooled by many TS over 3 years losing lots of money, now i don't know what to do :no:

Trogdor 01-23-2011 08:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by katieayanami (Post 171238)
online!

thats where i find boyfriends

its the safest place i think


Could you help a fellow out and mention what sites?:yes:


Odd, I remember when meeting with someone one found online used to be dangerous. :eek:

JodieTs 01-25-2011 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chrisy76 (Post 172663)
Hi there, does anyone know where i should look to find a true TS/ladyboy who does not lie? I want to bring one here to visit me in UK for 3 months...i have been fooled by many TS over 3 years losing lots of money, now i don't know what to do :no:

Hiya
This is in answer to both this and your similar PM to me.

As you have found out, most are scams to take your money.
The few trans women {ladyboy is just plain offensive} in SE Asia
who may be prepared to visit you would be unlikely to get into the uk.

Basically UK immigration have severe restriction for non EU visitors.
Even more so where there is a huge income average difference between
the uk and Thailand, or Philippines or Malaysia or wherever.
Basically because of the high risk of people coming over to work.

So UK immigration need proof of both a job/career over there,
one that a person would be highly unlikely to throw away just for a visit to the uk.
Also they need a bank account with substantial savings
and proof of how this person is going to support themselves when over in the uk.

So if you can find a very solvent trans woman,
of independent means and wealth,
then yes they would be able to come over to you.

But this person would possibly travel internationally for business and holidays anyway
so I've no idea why they would want to stay with you for 3 months
What happens to their business and their employees and their company's customer base during this time?

Unless you are looking to "obtain" an impoverished,
maybe-desperate person ripe for you to exploit probably sexually.
{A serious mismatch of power here}

From what I've seen you write here and in PM,
you basically creep me out.
Just look at what you've written.
You want the person as an object for 3 months,
for the price of a plane ticket!

I hope no one trusts their pets or children with you.
shudders

chrisy76 01-27-2011 07:14 PM

yeah i can see what you mean Jodie...i don't mean it like that. Really looking to date a TS and bring one over so we can have a nice relationship. As i don't have the courage to meet girls i find myself comfortable with asian TS.
I went in blind first 2 years asking webcam TS more fool me as i lost so much money hoping that TS would travel to embassy. Now hoping to find proper one via dating site and an add on OLX. More normality response i have had. But as i found out from an agency last year and you mention the visa requirements are so difficult for them. Can you tell me Jodie what i should do? I don't want others to think the same way you understood me. Thank you

JodieTs 01-28-2011 08:50 AM

Ok accepting your points on face value
It is still a very unequal relationship
They would only come over to see you in the hope of a better life
{think desperation}
Your reasons are wanting them is for a generic desire
rather than a desire for a specific person
this too is fucked up

Its like me wanting to date chrisy76 coz you live in Manchester
rather than
I want to date chrisy76 who happens to live in Manchester

Now do you see the general problem?

Ok a harsh reality for you
Either way, you will not be able to import a Thai or Philippine Transsexual female, for the reasons in my last post.

Any company or organisation claiming to offer you this service are lying and trying to steal your money.

loing 04-21-2011 01:58 PM

i love what you've posted Jodie in this thread , its help clarify a few things in my mind..thanks

straightguy4fun 04-24-2011 08:55 AM

hi, What about Lady boys in Sydney.. I found it really hard.

davideblaine 05-13-2011 09:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by captaindunsel (Post 14166)
Hey, great forum! I love this place already.

First of all, since this all has to come from personal experience, let me give you a few places and some advice. First the places:

If you're ever in Houston, Texas, the best place to go is a bar called Cousin's.

Cousin's
817 Fairview St
Houston, TX 77006-2807
Phone: (713) 528-9204

Be warned, it's a pretty seedy place and it's swarming with TS hookers, but there are also some non-pros there because, quite frankly, they have nowhere else to go. Gay men (at least from my experience) don't really get along well with those in the TG community, so the girls tend to flock to Cousin's and EJ's.

EJ's Bar
2517 Ralph St
Houston, TX 77006-2428
Phone: (713) 527-0516

Although you'll find more at Cousin's.

Cousin's has a late night drag show on Saturday and Sunday nights and the ladies are gorgeous. I have dated a number of girls I met in Cousin's and had serious relationships with two. (They didn't work out for a few reasons I shan't go into here.)

For online action, a great place is Date In Asia. The message system says that I don't have 10 messages yet, so I can't post a message with a link in it, but the webaddress is dateinasia dot com.

Although not primarily a TG dating site, I was amazed at the number of ladyboys there, especially in the Philippines. One nice thing about that website is that membership is free for the first 6 months, and I mean TOTALLY free! No credit card required.

I'm still wondering about a place to go in Wisconsin. Maybe Milwaukee, but that's a drive and a half from the little fishing village I live in.

thank you so much. im not that far from houston.

fattes 05-15-2011 05:04 PM

hey, please help!
 
I want to fined my shemale on the internet but dont know how to start! help me!!!

davideblaine 05-21-2011 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by captaindunsel (Post 14166)
Hey, great forum! I love this place already.

First of all, since this all has to come from personal experience, let me give you a few places and some advice. First the places:

If you're ever in Houston, Texas, the best place to go is a bar called Cousin's.

Cousin's
817 Fairview St
Houston, TX 77006-2807
Phone: (713) 528-9204

Be warned, it's a pretty seedy place and it's swarming with TS hookers, but there are also some non-pros there because, quite frankly, they have nowhere else to go. Gay men (at least from my experience) don't really get along well with those in the TG community, so the girls tend to flock to Cousin's and EJ's.

EJ's Bar
2517 Ralph St
Houston, TX 77006-2428
Phone: (713) 527-0516

Although you'll find more at Cousin's.

Cousin's has a late night drag show on Saturday and Sunday nights and the ladies are gorgeous. I have dated a number of girls I met in Cousin's and had serious relationships with two. (They didn't work out for a few reasons I shan't go into here.)

For online action, a great place is Date In Asia. The message system says that I don't have 10 messages yet, so I can't post a message with a link in it, but the webaddress is dateinasia dot com.

Although not primarily a TG dating site, I was amazed at the number of ladyboys there, especially in the Philippines. One nice thing about that website is that membership is free for the first 6 months, and I mean TOTALLY free! No credit card required.

I'm still wondering about a place to go in Wisconsin. Maybe Milwaukee, but that's a drive and a half from the little fishing village I live in.

which place is better cousins or ej's?

ila 05-21-2011 08:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by davideblaine (Post 185380)
which place is better cousins or ej's?

It's not likely that you'll get an answer from the OP in your quoted posted as the OP has not been on this site in more than two years. This information is readily available by clicking on the applicable member's username and then clicking on the public profile link.

mr.obsessions 05-22-2011 03:53 AM

I have had some success at outpersonals.com.

Yes it is a gay hookup site, so if you are still having issues within you weather liking TS makes you gay, you may not feel comfortable using the site, especially when you see to guys kissing on the landing page.

I met 2 Filipino TS's, one in Japan that was just a one time hookup, and another who lived in the Philippines who eventually moved to Japan and we have been together for 4 years.

There are a surprising number of TS on Outpersonals, though a lot of them are pros.
But it worked for me.

davideblaine 05-22-2011 01:14 PM

ok heres the deal, me and my girl have this desired fantasy, we both agree on this. as of now we are looking for 2 trans partners. hopefully near Houston Texas. For details please PM me. i think it would be an enjoyable exp for all involved.


i want to make it clear that these 2 partners, i hope will become a casual part of the adventures taken by me and my girl.

optimusmike123 10-04-2011 01:28 PM

essex/uk anyone?

stephanie4life 10-04-2011 07:53 PM

If you're in louisville, ky you can meet me, ill buy you a coke.

al_wien 10-09-2011 02:59 AM

shemale in vienna
 
some idea where to meet shemales in Vienna, Austria?

master2009 10-30-2011 04:26 AM

same here.it felt great having a big dick in my hand and squizing it gently until it went hard

Tommekeh 01-08-2012 08:35 AM

TS in Seoul
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by PI_Monger (Post 111941)
Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

Hi, I'm traveling to Seoul in june and was wondering where to find these ladyboy bars.

Tom

Aussie 02-09-2012 11:42 AM

Bali ladyboy
 
hi, soon il be traveling to Bali and want to hook up with a nice hot L/B with a nice cock, where can I find them?
iv been to Phili and there are thousands of them walking the streets,,
I looked on meetladyboy dot kom, but is there another way or place I can find a beautiful Balinese ladyboy with a nice big cock? :)

ross 03-02-2012 08:30 PM

the following is a social web site there are lots of ladyboys on this site all you need to do is join and its free too

tagged.com

ross 03-02-2012 08:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by straightguy4fun (Post 182626)
hi, What about Lady boys in Sydney.. I found it really hard.

someone said the taxi club in sydney- no real site specific to australia- the onky ones i have found related to escorts- there is a social website called tagged bit like facebook lots of ladyboys on this site its free to change and you can look at the pics of the people and then click on friend request and send a message to them and start conversing- most are very genuine looking for ltr's

tagged.com

me4ladyboy 03-14-2012 11:28 PM

finding a ladyboy depends on if you are just looking for a good time or looking for friend and relationship. I have exclusively dated ladyboys for many years now and been in a 3 year relationship with one. But, many ladyboys you meet on line have been lied to by so many guys, they don't trust easily.

Be honest about what you are looking for. If you are looking for sex, be honest about that. Don't play games. Ladyboys are human beings with hopes and dreams just like everyone else. They laugh and they cry. They are not toys to be played with and tossed aside. Many had had difficult times and deal with prejudice and discrimination.

If you treat a ladyboy like a human being and a girlfriend, in return you will find someone with a great heart and soul. She will love you like no genetic girl ever could. But, if you meet one on line, talk about other things besides sex and asking her to get naked on cam. they have all heard that a million times before and, if you like her, that's a sure fire way to scare her off.

If all you want is "fun" and you are in Asia, find a ladyboy bar and bar fine one. Does not matter if you are in Korea, Japan, Thailand or Philippines, there are lady boy bars. But, in Korea and Japan, most are recruited from the Philippines, they are not Japanese.

If you don't ever plan to meet in person, don't lie and tell her you will. If all you want is an on line relationship, be honest about it.

madelineash 04-21-2012 06:53 PM

I actually met my current girlfriend on the cam website i use. We met each other over 2 years ago and have been happily together since. There's no better feeling than being in love with another tgirl.

NaughtyLittleLover 05-12-2012 12:56 AM

Im only 18. What are my chances outside the bars?

uniquetslvr 05-24-2012 02:42 PM

Where can i fi find a lb in Georgia

jbradhall24 08-28-2012 12:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by uniquetslvr (Post 214776)
Where can i fi find a lb in Georgia

what part of georgia?

Dirtysecrets12 10-20-2012 05:55 AM

Does anyone know the best place in east London to meet up with ladyboys ?

biwonder9 10-29-2012 09:00 AM

hey i was wondering if anyone knows where i can find trans/ladyboys looking for relationships in perth Western Australia

aussiepride 11-07-2012 11:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by biwonder9 (Post 223753)
hey i was wondering if anyone knows where i can find trans/ladyboys looking for relationships in perth Western Australia

try adultmatchmaker and oasisactive, im in sydney.

amm has a ton of ts, oasis i hear has a lot.
i met 10ts off amm, and am in full time relationship with one now.

if you are looking for a quickie, dont be shocked if they hit you up for coin.

ra002 11-19-2012 11:03 AM

Any idea about Hungary? Like where to find/meet tranny girls? It really seems like I am living in the wrong region of the world :(

sheXIII 01-15-2013 09:28 PM

I live in Southeast Georgia and was wondering where I could find some TS girls. Savannah is a cool town but its LGBT scene eludes me.

PraxisAlexis 01-27-2013 02:46 PM

Hello all ts-lovers:) I just want to share that i had pleasurable experiences dating through webcam on MSN (you wanna meet cyber first obviously ..)

So to find them..i use shemale.nu (was free the first day), only when i travel and so on. but it took a while for me before i actually got out on a date with a T girl abroad.

in Sweden where i live we mainly use qruiser.com, not free aswell, for transsexual dating, however shemale.nu is international, so very good for travel;)

//PraxisAlexis

Sailersam07 02-09-2013 11:43 PM

I am traveling to NY in 2 weeks, and want to meet a ts. Where is the best place to find them?

TS Carmen Melbourne 02-28-2013 10:12 PM

TS in Melbourne Australia
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SheridynCD (Post 87002)
Hi does any one know of a place in melbourne australia?

WHat about my place? lol


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