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I refer slightly to another thread "Why do we like dick?" and I want to explore this a bit further. Because one thing is to be awed by a woman's penis, another is to have it inside you.

When I had my first transsexual girlfriend I was strictly top - until she told me that there are more ways...

My bottom-life started out fumbly and with a lot of pain and a feeling I had to shit all the time :-( Well, these are merely physical matters to get over quickly.

But what I later realized was the intense closeness of being penetrated by my woman - when she is deep inside and ultimately screams her orgasm out. It's awesome, so beautiful and I believe it gives us, as men, a way to connect even more closely to our women than is normally experienced in hetero-relationships. It's SO different from making love with a cisgender woman. It's so much more intense.

We can both penetrate and be penetrated.

I dunno if any one can follow me here, but holding her close when she's shaking from orgasm is purely wonderful. Kissing her, rolling her over, kissing her again... loving her intensely...

So yes, penetration is part of connectíng, as I have experienced it...

What do you think?

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I refer slightly to another thread "Why do we like dick?" and I want to explore this a bit further. Because one thing is to be awed by a woman's penis, another is to have it inside you.

When I had my first transsexual girlfriend I was strictly top - until she told me that there are more ways...

My bottom-life started out fumbly and with a lot of pain and a feeling I had to shit all the time :-( Well, these are merely physical matters to get over quickly.

But what I later realized was the intense closeness of being penetrated by my woman - when she is deep inside and ultimately screams her orgasm out. It's awesome, so beautiful and I believe it gives us, as men, a way to connect even more closely to our women than is normally experienced in hetero-relationships. It's SO different from making love with a cisgender woman. It's so much more intense.

We can both penetrate and be penetrated.

I dunno if any one can follow me here, but holding her close when she's shaking from orgasm is purely wonderful. Kissing her, rolling her over, kissing her again... loving her intensely...

So yes, penetration is part of connectíng, as I have experienced it...

What do you think?

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I think that the psychological attachment to said partner in tandem with the intense feeling of unexplored nether regions serve to make an intense physical and emotional experience and will create an addiction(kinda like crack, but in this case it is good for you! :P)


Then again I have been known to be wrong in these cases...
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wow Hank, as an anal virgin, you make it sound absolutely fantastic to be on the receiving end lol... even as a top, I can identify with some of what you talk about.... that moment when the active partner reaches climax can often be quite intense, and can serve to bring both partners closer together emotionally... but I think that climactic feeling can be reached in a number of ways. Obviously, penetration will be the best way, but I think even good oral or assisted self-stimulation can achieve the same results. As long as its done between two people who are really into each other, and in the right mood, then almost any orgasmic experience should be a special intimate moment.

Still, you brought me a step closer to taking my first shemale cock lol!
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I gotta chime in here. For a long time, since I was young, I've been fascinated by the pleasure woman seem to experience by penetration. Woman in general have fascinated and I find them bewildering at times. I did not quite understand it for a while, maybe cause I am man. I couldn't see the pleasure in it. It seemed more satisfying to do the penetrating until I thought about what it was women must be experiencing. The feeling of another person's body (or flesh) entering your body. Yes, that connection you all have previously mentioned, but also the physical sensation.

Then my voyage to discover began. It took some time to appreciate oral sex (giving head), but porn helped that as I watched women enjoying that pleasure also (giving head). I gradually began to appreciate and admire the cock, though it is only the female form that turns me on. Now, I long for a woman's cock. I want to feel the sensation of that cock entering me. To feel it going in and out of my (gee, I can't think of an appealing or erotic word for my anus). To accept her and draw her close to me, to my body. To exchange that passion and intensity.

That is why I like it. That intense passion and closeness, both physical and emotional intimacy that can be shared when a woman enters me. It feels wonderful. It is transcendent.


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Still, you brought me a step closer to taking my first shemale cock lol!
Oh please, be my guest! It's so lovely!

However, I cannot say that I have any physical orgasmic pleasure from being screwed - some guys do, they say, but I don't. Actually, our rectum is without nerves, so when you read that "I felt her hot sperm HOSING my hungry man-hole", it's likely untrue and a pure matter of imagination and creative writing :-)

But that doesn't make the psychological intimacy any less.

It's beautiful! It's sweet! And it's real! And I have gigantic orgasms upon that - not via her screwing me directly (I or she stimulate my penis, while the act is going on) but qua the amazing intimacy of the interaction.

In my time I've met quite a few "dick-shy" trannies - some are (quite a few, to be honest), but it's an amazing victory to make her realize that her transsexuality is NOT to be limited by her penis but on the other hand to be enhanced by it (as my wise Fey said: to be succesful as a trans*woman you MUST accept your masculinity - if a penis at all IS masculine...)

Did I ever tell you about sweet Gina, my sweet little Malaysian Goddess and one of my first trans*lovers? The first time I blew her and she shot in my mouth? It was just SO beautiful and to some degree cured her of her bad feeling about her penis. Her "forbidden orgasmic yell" was awesome and a liberation! After that she got SO forward ;-) I hope the lady still is.

As a man I feel the same when she orgasms inside... it's a total closeness that's greater than when I orgasm inside some one. There may be some submissiveness to it, but it's just totally amazing to witness your lover over you in complete pleasure and extacy. When her thrusts get uncontrollable and she yells her pleasure out to the world.

I kinda enjoy that ;-)

You will too... ;-)

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I guess my point is, that once I was reeled in by my transsexual lovers and friends I learned and felt that a penis is no longer a masculine thing. Yes, if placed on myself or Barack, but most certainly SO not when on Bionca, Fey, Gina and them all... then her penis becomes one of her most feminine attributes.

I remember a funny story, when I was with the sweet Natz... she was in a rather short skirt and I was in a restaurant with her lovingly carressing her... "Hank, don't make me embarrassed with a hard on when I have to go to the ladies' room" :-)

Those were, of course, wise words, but they also made it SO clear that NOTHING is hotter and more real and more feminine than your girl with a hard on! Because THEN you know, that you have it all and are with a true woman!

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That's a really interesting take on femininity and how the penis is perceived... I haven't thought about it that way, but it does make sense... although normally it's the definitive sign of masculinity, when attached to a female/shemale form the penis simply becomes a symbol of sexuality in general, and even femininity.

Lol, I love the idea of a shemale becoming visibly aroused in public, how sexy is that?! You're right, that's something that most women can't do

In fairness, although I initially said that your comments have brought me closer to becoming a "versatile" partner, I'll amend that statement a bit... your comments have increased my anticipation of the experience, but they have also encouraged me to share that first experience in the right way and with the right person.... almost like a young GG would with her virginity lol. I've always said that if I was in a good relationship with a TG, where trust and love had been built up, THEN I would experiment with being a bottom. The way you talk about the intimacy and closeness of the experience makes me feel even more sure about waiting to find the right TG to share it with.

Still looking forward to it though lol
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