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#1
12-08-2008
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Help Me ! I Need To Get Over It !
Hi, i'm really into shemales. u know i watch shemale porn, jerking off while watchin, thinking about them so often but i have never had sex with one of them. i can, if i want but i'm really curious about that. i know i'll have really good time but i'm afraid that i will be gay after that or feel so guilty. but i can't stop my interest towards them. help me what should i do? just give advice
 don't say just do it because it's not easy! HELP!
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#2
12-08-2008
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Well for one thing there are many people jerking off to porn. TG are no different. You are afraid you will be Gay. Dude, you either are or, you are not, it's not a switch. As for feeling guilty, can't help you with that. I know people who feel guilty because they forgot to empty the trash can, or send a greeting card. So, what was it you wanted help with ? Do you want to stop thinking about TG women ? Do you want to stop looking at them ? Is it easy to go out and book an appointment with a nice TG escort ? Obviously not for you, I reckon you will just be in the same place for years and years and years, and even more years than that, wondering and wanking guiltily over websites and thinking you might be Gay. Sometimes the door of the cage gets left open. Outside the other birds dive and wheel in the sun and the bird in the cage wonders what it would be like to be out with other birds swooping through the air. The bird in the cage thinks about it for a long time, so long infact that when he decides to venture out he finds someone has gone and fastened the cage shut.
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#3
12-08-2008
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get over it
If you really want to "get over" tgirls DO NOT watch the Bruna Taveras clip on another thread.
 
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"Man's capacity for justice makes democracy possible; but man's inclination to injustice makes democracy necessary." R.N.
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#4
12-08-2008
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Hey Stupid!
Yes I'm talking to you. I have seriouss doubts you are gay. Don't worry about it. If you are in my area, look me up. We'll have coffee. You will either be in love; or you will vomit. 
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12-08-2008
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 maybe there are no shemales to think or help someone in my area they just have sex and earn money... maybe i need someone like you.. shit.. i'm so confused..!
Last edited by etnies; 12-08-2008 at 03:37 PM.
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12-08-2008
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#7
12-08-2008
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Interesting...
It all has to do with your mindset bro. Do you view them as men or women? If you view a tgirl as a woman, you will probably be comfortable with your selection in entertainment. If you think of them as men, you will always be second guessing yourself. If you are that hung up about your sexuality, don' t watch that kind of porn and you will have nothing to worry about. Life is too short to worry about petty shit like whether you are gay or not. Do something about it! Sitting around with your thumb up your ass and complaining will never get you anywhere. My advice is to try it once and see if you like getting bummed by a woman. I went through the same shit and I decided to get fucked by a transwoman. It was a very liberating experience to say the least. Don't hold yourself to anyone's opinion especially the opinion of the"social majority" otherwise you will go through life wondering about what could have been.
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#8
12-08-2008
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"The body is an instrument, the mind its function, the witness and reward of its operation." -George Santayana
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#9
12-08-2008
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I think you're building this up to much. It's not good to obsess. Just get it over with.
And maybe you will get addicted to cocks. What's wrong with that? I think if you ended up being gay and loving cock you'd have a pretty good time, actually. It's a lot easier to hook up at a gay club  Seriously, though, I'm sure you're attracted to femininity. Don't worry so much about being gay or not. Thinking like that makes the world a scary place. That's why tgirls have to worry about some guy being totally into us and then going crazy with guilt and committing some kind of a hate crime.
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#11
12-10-2008
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I too wish you were in my area, love to buy you a coffee, and would look forward to a pleasant chat with you.
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#12
12-10-2008
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Why on earth would you want to get over T-girls?
The only thing I can suggest to ease your turmoil is to ACCEPT IT. I had to do this with a lot of things in my life and my life has been richer for it. Try it. Quote:
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#13
12-10-2008
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I'm with you Justme, it's just a label. If you're lucky enough to find a tgirl go with the flow and to hell with everything else
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#14
12-10-2008
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I spent many months getting increasingly obsessed with shemales... even visiting some clubs in Asia where I'd meet with them, chat - but just couldn't bring myself to take one home...
Then one night in Bangkok I saw one sitting in a cafe, sat down and chatted to her and a short time later we were in a hotel room! It was the first time I'd touched another person's cock... certainly the first time I sucked one. It was all oral and stroking - no penetration - but it was great. I loved it (she came first) and afterwards I had no guilt whatsoever (my major fear). Thing is, I was attracted to her for her feminine physical beauty - not her masculinity. I don't think that makes one gay, although I agree with the above posts that's a label anyway. Since then I've had a second enjoyable experience - in Macau - and I day dream about the third.. and maybe finally penetrating one... But I am still very much attracted to females born females too and watch porn covering both genres. You need to release your tension mate. If you DO feel guilty or bad afterwards (unlikely) time will heal it pretty fast. Good luck!! (Meanwhile, if there are any ladyboys in Sydney who want a quiet discreet liasion.....)
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#15
12-10-2008
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shemale addiction?
You're not alone in your doubts and fears,
I've been confused about my desires and fantasies also. I don't think I'm gay because I'm attracted to women and I am not attracted to men but I'm fascinated by cock, I've only sucked a cock once and I liked it especially playing with his balls but I was not at all attracted to the man that owned the cock. Now some of these shemales are absolutely gorgeous and I am definetely attracted to them and I just know I would love to suck their load.
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#16
12-19-2008
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Bi Now, Gay Later
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Just pulling on prix!!! LOL !! Would being a practicing or non-practicing bi be the end of your world? TAL
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#17
12-19-2008
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Like relax you are not gay, I have a boyfriend and trust me he ain't gay, We are girls we just have a little extra, I look act and think like a girl and i am a girl, And just about every Tgirl feels the same way about thereselves, Gay males are not attracted to Tgirls so just relax and enjoy and trust me you won't start sucking guys cocks my boyfriend never has you are worring about nothing
 Jennifer
Last edited by transjen; 12-19-2008 at 10:30 PM.
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#18
12-21-2008
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. really thanks!
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#19
12-21-2008
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Dude, I went through the same thing. I started getting erections to shemale porn and immediatley started to think "OH CRAP I TURNED MYSELF GAY!" Then my mind started to play tricks on me like saying this guy was cute or saying I'd like it up the ass and so on. I did some research then and talked to some people online and they told me the reason I was attracted to transladies was their femininity. I also learned that 90% of gay men hate femininity and want nothing to do with anything womanly (sexually anyway). After I got all the information, the thoughts went away, slowly but gradually. So the first thing you need to do is calm down, and ask yourself why you like transwomen. Is it because their feminine, or is it because you like them because their men with boob jobs. It all depends on your point of view. I personally like their femininity myself. If you think of them as women YOU'RE NOT GAY! Your just might be a little weirder than most (or not, some straight men like it up the ass with strap-on dildos). And don't worry about turning yourself gay. 1. it's not gay to like cock, it's just an interesting fetish (I personally think cocks are ugly and taste awful, but there is just something about a pretty woman with a dick that turns me on). 2. if you don't like men, you'll never like men. You can't change your sexual orientation, at least not in an instant, maybe over time, like 50 years or so. But if you don't like men now, you probably never will. So I say try it out if you want, you might like it, you might not. Just don't worry about it dude, it's not gay because transladies are women, just with something a little different( I'd say extra, but I don't think there's a lot of similarity between assholes and pussy except they're both holes). And one last thing, if it turns out your do like men, you liked men from the start and there's no changing it, it just means your bisexual in which case Tranladies might just be for you my friend. I doubt your bisexual though, so don't worry about it, just do what you gotta do.
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#20
12-21-2008
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One other thing, I find I actually lose interest in shemales after I take a long break from porn in general and play a video game (like an RPG, since most of them take awhile to finish). Then I go back on porn and after awhile, BAM, i'm interested in shemales again. Try taking a long break from porn, maybe a month or two, and see if you still like shemales. If you don't, it could mean your just interested in them because you need harder and harder porn to get you off. Give it a try, you might find yourself fantasizing about plain old girls, Or not, it doesn't really matter, whatever floats your boat.
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#21
12-22-2008
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- I cherish the fact that the girls I date are braver than I
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#23
12-26-2008
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I meant that if you ever liked guys (not saying you do, I'm just saying), that it meant you were always bisexual. I honestly believe you can't change your sexual orientation easily or completely. I'm not saying your bisexual, just saying that if you are, you are. You get what I'm saying. You don't just start liking guys out of nowhere.
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#24
12-29-2008
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Good Grief
Sexual Orientation is something that is determined at the age or 13. A man or woman decides what they are attracted to then and it sticks with them. Contrary to popular belief that you are just born a certain way people learn what is attractive. Sexual prefance Changes again in people around the age of 20-25. People generally find out what they truly like at this age because they stop factoring in what the maority of society says they should like. T-girls are not technically women or men. They are a unique combination of both. I know I know all t-girls say they are women legally they can't be called women until they get their cock chopped off, and for all you sluts who dont' want to admit it you know it's true so shut it! Anyways Sexuality is not something that is clear cut and you can't draw a line in the sand and be on 1 side or the other. If you want to be truly technical a t-girl is male. and you can only fuck us by sticking your cock in our ass. and all of us started out the same way you did. we just decided that we were more comfortable being more female. bottom line, most homesexuals don't really decide to be more fem. They crossdress and they are fine. Despite what some of these people have said on here a t-girl always starts off as a man. Women who get sex changes never have cocks as nice as t-girls because they had a pussy first. Some psychologists say that men are attrached to us t-girls because they can go out and have all outward appearances of being straight. It is a way to enact their deviant desires without being an outcast. They can pretend to be straight and even lie to themselve and say that they are. psychology they have fooled them selves into believing they are with a woman even though they go home and suck a cock and fuck an anus. in their own deluded minds they truly believe that they slept with a woman. The human mind chooses to believe what it wants to. You can say that you are straigh and fuck a t-girl or you can be straight and let a girl fuck you with a strap-on both are homosexual acts that can be hidden by saying you are staight. Lying and calling it something else will never change the truth of the act. If a doctor examined a gay guys ass hole. A straight guys ass hole who is getting fucked by his girls friends strap-on and a another guy who gets his ass pounded by a t-girl. Guess what all 3 mens asshole are going to look exactly the same, because they are doing the exact samething. They just are doing it in a different manner, but all 3 men are accomplishing the exact same goal. You have to make up your own damn mind what you want to do and what you like. You can lie to yourself to cushion the act and make it better. The truth is the truth. And there is nothing you can do to change that.
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#25
12-29-2008
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It's kinda sad and stressful to have to constantly worry about being "gay" (or not). I mean, for one, one does not have to go around waving a flag or wearing a t-shirt declaring oneself to be gay. Moreover, it's an honest attraction to a particular kind of person and if both parties are willing it's probably not going to be harmful. Sure, people have the right to their own sexual preferences, but it's frightening (not referring to anyone here. It just jogged me some) when people press the status quo so hard that everything out of their idea of the norm becomes something that must be destroyed.
Anyway yeah, don't worry about whether you're gay or not. It's really more about exploring your sexuality and being true to yourself. Who knows, this may be a passing phase, or you may be on the road to discovering what truly turns you on
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#26
01-01-2009
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thanks for the answer mika. i also think that this is a road to discover. i hope i can pass that road succesfully and find the true destination. lol
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#27
01-01-2009
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Nobody wants you to get "over" this. Just accept and enjoy. It is part of you. If you weren't gay before, then you aren't gay now. Consider it like you just discovered a new gurlfriend.
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#28
01-05-2009
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ahhhh...this - I had this - but not scared I'd turn gay...lol bit extreme but hey, I been watching TG porn for 4 years now, and only recently realized Im actually bisexual...
Maybe you are? Maybe you are just one of those guys that likes tranny porn but is totally "straight" otherwise... You like girls...you likes trans girls... There's your answer! Just go and do one - it will take alot of the pressure off I can imagine, I am planning my first this spring. :D Take it easy
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#29
01-05-2009
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who cares do what makes you happy
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#30
01-05-2009
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Hi Etnies ..
First of all my advice would be .. banish all thoughts about being Gay from your mind .. Just consider for a moment what most Gay men are looking for .. Muscles, sweat, moustaches, Bears, Daddies etc ... Then consider what those of us who love Transgendered women are looking for .. Femininity, curves, tenderness etc ... There's simply no comparison ... I agree, it's a lot easier said than done to date a Transgendered woman .. for a start, many of them aren't looking for a committed relationship (being married already etc) .. some are in "Business" .. some are only attracted to other T-Girls .. I would advise registering with one of the more reputable TG Dating Sites (If you'd like to PM me, I'll recommend a couple that I've used successfully in the past) .. What I would say is that once you have made love to and been made love to by a Transgendered woman .. you'll never need or want anyone else ... Bye for now, Orion ..
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