Going back to girls after a tg relationship

[WillR]

To make a long story short, I had a relationship with a transgender girl, and now have found a hard time getting back into dating girls since then, and am looking for any advice. If you're interesting in all the details, I've written them following:

I always considered myself straight, and had/still have no attraction to men. I've dated many women and had your usual experiences, fell in love with a couple, had some one night stands, had some that didn't go anywhere but were fun, had a couple psycho exes even.

About ten months ago I was single, and a girl came up to me at a bar and started talking. We hit it off and eventually went back to my place, where she started performing oral on me until she stopped and told me she had something to tell me. You guessed it, she was a guy. I freaked out, angry that she decided to tell me only after we made out and she put her mouth on my dick. I ended up paying for a cab to send her home and that was that. Until she used my address to google my phone number and called me up the next day, apologizing. We ended up talking for two hours and decided to be friends.

We hung out as friends for a month. Went to movies, bars, the library. She was everything I wanted in a girlfriend personality wise and beautiful on top, and eventually after a month of hanging out and her telling me to just treat her like a woman, I gave in and decided to try going on dates with her.

We ended up having a relationship for six months and like she said, I treated her like a woman. I was always dominant in bed with girls before her, so I was with her as well. I didn't want to do anything with her penis and she said I didn't have to. We made out, had great sex, had a great relationship.

Unfortunately she got a job in another country and had to move away. We decided to break up but remain good friends.

My problem is when I decided to get back into the dating scene with women, I couldn't get turned on. Girls I would've been desperate to get into bed before weren't doing anything. Even porn wasn't getting me off. For the last three months I've tried to go back to my regular sexual life, and I haven't been able to.

I don't get what is going on with me. It's not like when you try pizza for the first time all other food tastes gross to you, yet after one relationship with a transgendered girl, I can't get interested in anything I used to be able to. Does anyone else have any experience with this or explanation for why this would happen?

[smc]

Originally Posted by WillR

To make a long story short, I had a relationship with a transgender girl, and now have found a hard time getting back into dating girls since then, and am looking for any advice. If you're interesting in all the details, I've written them following:

I always considered myself straight, and had/still have no attraction to men. I've dated many women and had your usual experiences, fell in love with a couple, had some one night stands, had some that didn't go anywhere but were fun, had a couple psycho exes even.

About ten months ago I was single, and a girl came up to me at a bar and started talking. We hit it off and eventually went back to my place, where she started performing oral on me until she stopped and told me she had something to tell me. You guessed it, she was a guy. I freaked out, angry that she decided to tell me only after we made out and she put her mouth on my dick. I ended up paying for a cab to send her home and that was that. Until she used my address to google my phone number and called me up the next day, apologizing. We ended up talking for two hours and decided to be friends.

We hung out as friends for a month. Went to movies, bars, the library. She was everything I wanted in a girlfriend personality wise and beautiful on top, and eventually after a month of hanging out and her telling me to just treat her like a woman, I gave in and decided to try going on dates with her.

We ended up having a relationship for six months and like she said, I treated her like a woman. I was always dominant in bed with girls before her, so I was with her as well. I didn't want to do anything with her penis and she said I didn't have to. We made out, had great sex, had a great relationship.

Unfortunately she got a job in another country and had to move away. We decided to break up but remain good friends.

My problem is when I decided to get back into the dating scene with women, I couldn't get turned on. Girls I would've been desperate to get into bed before weren't doing anything. Even porn wasn't getting me off. For the last three months I've tried to go back to my regular sexual life, and I haven't been able to.

I don't get what is going on with me. It's not like when you try pizza for the first time all other food tastes gross to you, yet after one relationship with a transgendered girl, I can't get interested in anything I used to be able to. Does anyone else have any experience with this or explanation for why this would happen?

I'm sure some of our trans members will chime in, but as far as I can tell you have a FETISH. Most trans women I know wouldn't have anything to do with you, since instead of simply seeing them as women who happen to have a penis you draw a distinction between them and what you call "women" and/or "girls."

[Sabrina]

i don't think you have a fetish. i think you are still in love with this one girl.

[joedirty313]

Originally Posted by Sabrina

i don't think you have a fetish. i think you are still in love with this one girl.

Like your answer!

[transjen]

Originally Posted by Sabrina

i don't think you have a fetish. i think you are still in love with this one girl.

Bullseye my sister

Jerseygirl Jen

[franalexes]

Yup. You have a relationship, respect and it is way more than just the sex.

You're in love stupid!

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by WillR

To make a long story short, I had a relationship with a transgender girl, and now have found a hard time getting back into dating girls since then, and am looking for any advice.
We ended up having a relationship for six months and like she said, I treated her like a woman. I was always dominant in bed with girls before her, so I was with her as well. I didn't want to do anything with her penis and she said I didn't have to. We made out, had great sex, had a great relationship.

Unfortunately she got a job in another country and had to move away. We decided to break up but remain good friends.

My problem is when I decided to get back into the dating scene with women, I couldn't get turned on.

I don't get what is going on with me.
after one relationship with a transgendered girl, I can't get interested in anything I used to be able to.

Does anyone else have any experience with this or explanation for why this would happen?

You're not interested in bio-women now, but it's not coz they don't have a penis as that wasn't part of, or a major part of your relationship.
Ok, I'm going out on a limb now.
I'm betting that if another possible trans date came along,
it would be indifferent for you and no relationship would develop.
Thats coz you only want to go out with your ex.
You are in love and not over her.