Man, what happening to me

[bigdog23]

I like most of you am a t-girl admirer, I meet with a t-girl the other day an I was very excited, when she pulled out her cock and pull hand toward it, soemthing took over me, she put me on the bed then I blew her cock(no condom) I begged her to fuck me...she did, she was very nice,she even gave me a hot wahs cloth afterword etc etc...and she wasn't a prositute, well atleast I didn't pay...anyway I just dont understand, i'm 23 i've been infacturated wiht t-girls for the last ten years....I fuckin love it, but its hindering my ability to be with other women, any advice on how to mybe control this.

[smc]

Originally Posted by bigdog23

I like most of you am a t-girl admirer, I meet with a t-girl the other day an I was very excited, when she pulled out her cock and pull hand toward it, soemthing took over me, she put me on the bed then I blew her cock(no condom) I begged her to fuck me...she did, she was very nice,she even gave me a hot wahs cloth afterword etc etc...and she wasn't a prositute, well atleast I didn't pay...anyway I just dont understand, i'm 23 i've been infacturated wiht t-girls for the last ten years....I fuckin love it, but its hindering my ability to be with other women, any advice on how to mybe control this.

What does "hindering my ability" mean? What does "control" mean? Why do any of those things matter?

This kind of stuff has been discussed ad infinitum on this site. Why don't you just give yourself over to whatever your preferences might be and quit worrying about inane shit?

[AdmirerSteve]

If it is somehow hindering your ability then maybe that is just a natural signal telling you that you enjoy t-girls over genetic girls.

I honestly wouldn't say that is a bad thing. If it doesn't make you happy then simply make an effort to interact with some genetic girls and see how that goes. You love t-girls so much so you might as well embrace it

[JodieTs]

I hope she used a condom when anally fucking you.

[merelypink]

Yes i hope she used a condom... ALways use a condom

[MxKanAmrKan]

Well seems to me like you have answered your own question. After having sex with her you have realized that you like t-girls more than girls, so go with that and maybe one day you go back to liking girls more than t-girls, or not.

For me, not to insult anyone but watching t-girls and transsexual porn, its just a fantasy and would not do anything as I am married and that is as far as I want to take it, just a "porn thing"... for those of you that have taken it further, awesome for you...

[smc]

Originally Posted by MxKanAmrKan

Well seems to me like you have answered your own question. After having sex with her you have realized that you like t-girls more than girls, so go with that and maybe one day you go back to liking girls more than t-girls, or not.

For me, not to insult anyone but watching t-girls and transsexual porn, its just a fantasy and would not do anything as I am married and that is as far as I want to take it, just a "porn thing"... for those of you that have taken it further, awesome for you...

In the text I've bolded above, "t" in front of girls should be an adjective. However, if you don't similarly use an adjective in front of the other kind of girls, one might surmise that you are distinguishing "t-girls" as not "girls." I do not think that is your intent, but the post does provide an opportunity to remind all of the importance of language and, especially here, of not using ungendering language.

[JodieTs]

To be pedantic.
All the porn models are over 18, so shouldn't he have referred to us as
T-women?
And you then pointed out this distinguishes us from women....
....which of course, pre-operative Transsexual women are {plumbing wise}
and for the sake of clarity on a trans-porn site, this seems reasonable.
Otherwise everyone will have no idea whether the person being referred to here
is a woman
or a woman with a transsexual element (Pre-op & non-op only)
(post-op Ts women acknowledged)
In real life however......grrrrrr!

[smc]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

To be pedantic.
All the porn models are over 18, so shouldn't he have referred to us as
T-women?
And you then pointed out this distinguishes us from women....
....which of course, pre-operative Transsexual women are {plumbing wise}
and for the sake of clarity on a trans-porn site, this seems reasonable.
Otherwise everyone will have no idea whether the person being referred to here
is a woman
or a woman with a transsexual element (Pre-op & non-op only)
(post-op Ts women acknowledged)
In real life however......grrrrrr!

Jodie, I know you know the point I was making, so I'm just going to let my post stand without a further response.

[MxKanAmrKan]

I am sorry, I do not mean to insult anyone and before I typed it I kept thinking "how can I type it to where I dont use any offensive terms but also be able to get my point across of telling the difference between the two women I am writting about"

I apologize if I offended anyone.

I re-read the "ungendering" post and as I understand it the OP used the term "transwomen" and "women" so is that the correct terms I should use?

[smc]

Originally Posted by MxKanAmrKan

I am sorry, I do not mean to insult anyone and before I typed it I kept thinking "how can I type it to where I dont use any offensive terms but also be able to get my point across of telling the difference between the two women I am writting about"

I apologize if I offended anyone.

I re-read the "ungendering" post and as I understand it the OP used the term "transwomen" and "women" so is that the correct terms I should use?

As I wrote earlier, I did not think you intended to offend anyone. My post was not aimed at you, but for everyone. There are women, and within that larger group there are transwomen and genetic women or GGs. The point is that they are ALL women.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by smc

The point is that they are ALL women.

Quack!

[SluttyShemaleAnna]

But that duck has NO legs!

[parr]

Originally Posted by bigdog23

I like most of you am a t-girl admirer, I meet with a t-girl the other day an I was very excited, when she pulled out her cock and pull hand toward it, soemthing took over me, she put me on the bed then I blew her cock(no condom) I begged her to fuck me...she did, she was very nice,she even gave me a hot wahs cloth afterword etc etc...and she wasn't a prositute, well atleast I didn't pay...anyway I just dont understand, i'm 23 i've been infacturated wiht t-girls for the last ten years....I fuckin love it, but its hindering my ability to be with other women, any advice on how to mybe control this.

You have come to the fork on a road, choose your direction, can't
have it both ways.

[smc]

Originally Posted by SluttyShemaleAnna

But that duck has NO legs!

But Jodie is a duck, and she does have legs. Ask her.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by smc

Jodie, I know you know the point I was making, so I'm just going to let my post stand without a further response.

So often here we see the un-initiated stumbling over the right or wrong words to describe a feeling or situation they have never had to deal with before. Correctly stated or maybe not; it isn't worth fighting over. So someone has discovered transexual sex! Whoop-dee-freekie- do

All points noted.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by franalexes

So often here we see the un-initiated stumbling over the right or wrong words to describe a feeling or situation they have never had to deal with before. Correctly stated or maybe not; it isn't worth fighting over. So someone has discovered >>>transexual<<< sex! Whoop-dee-freekie- do

All points noted.

SMC,
I don't want to make a big issue about this ............much
Fran has misspelt the word "Transsexual"
Can you tell her off, or somting...

You like T girls, find one and be happy.....

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

SMC,
I don't want to make a big issue about this ............much
Fran has misspelt the word "Transsexual"
Can you tell her off, or >>>somting... <<<

Jodie has misspelled a word here. Tell her off, on, up, down or sideways.
But do it with class.
Please.

[randolph]

Hopefully, everybody here knows how to spell fuk.

[SluttyShemaleAnna]

Very naughty, especially as Firefox has a spell checker, if you are using Internet Explorer then that's very naughty and you should be spanked.

[JodieTs]

Um....I use Firefox that as you say, Spellchecks.
So I'm bad & you're just gonna have to spank me.

[SluttyShemaleAnna]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Um....I use Firefox that as you say, Spellchecks.
So I'm bad & you're just gonna have to spank me.

You know how you get those spanking paddle that say SLUT or BITCH and stuff on them in reverse so it end up as a red mark on your butt? I've made a special one to punish you with.

[Melissa Pink]

Originally Posted by bigdog23

I like most of you am a t-girl admirer, I meet with a t-girl the other day an I was very excited, when she pulled out her cock and pull hand toward it, soemthing took over me, she put me on the bed then I blew her cock(no condom) I begged her to fuck me...she did, she was very nice,she even gave me a hot wahs cloth afterword etc etc...and she wasn't a prositute, well atleast I didn't pay...anyway I just dont understand, i'm 23 i've been infacturated wiht t-girls for the last ten years....I fuckin love it, but its hindering my ability to be with other women, any advice on how to mybe control this.

Maybe you are just being honest with yourself. I repressed my bisexuality for years and finally let my bi side and transgender side emerge nearly four years ago and I have no regrets. I suggest that you go with the flow and have fun, however please practice safe sex. That means condoms are a must for anal sex and use a water based lubricant like Astroglide. I also use flavored condoms for giving head if I am the least bit uncertain about my partner being HIV and or STD negative. Enjoy!

Melissa

[bigdog23]

I'm 23...i've been with more than 68 trannsexuals...i've sucked cock... i've been fucked in my ass...I pretty much feel like a pussy..... I thought I was straight, but now I find it extremely hard to get sexually excited by biological females or hetreo porn. I started watching shemale porn around 13-14, and haven't been able to stop, and had my first experience at 20...and since then have been hooked, I've met so many different transsexuals. I'm from NJ some I can basically go to NYC whether and meet some of the absolute most gorgeous transsexuals in the world at the t-girl bars. I've meet them off craigslist backpage the t-girl bars....i'm about 6'5 black looks like an nba or nfl player, so I generally dont have to much trouble pulling t-girls, as I've found they are generally alot easier to pull then gg if your attractive(my opinion) if they just want to have sex. All my friends are straight, I've lost my interest in gg, and I want it back, but t-girls have been dominating my mind....i've become extremely soft.....I think t-girl porn is the easiet way for a man to become submissive and lose his dominant...watching porn is one thing...but the adrenlane from having a confident Big cock tranny is another...anyway I want to no if any other guys have had a similiar problem an mybe you could help get my attraction back to women.... and less of t-girls....


p.s. sorry for the spellign errors, yes i no I am insane
my job right now: I am a junior in college,

[Sophie Sparkles]

Originally Posted by bigdog23

I like most of you am a t-girl admirer, I meet with a t-girl the other day an I was very excited, when she pulled out her cock and pull hand toward it, soemthing took over me, she put me on the bed then I blew her cock(no condom) I begged her to fuck me...she did, she was very nice,she even gave me a hot wahs cloth afterword etc etc...and she wasn't a prositute, well atleast I didn't pay...anyway I just dont understand, i'm 23 i've been infacturated wiht t-girls for the last ten years....I fuckin love it, but its hindering my ability to be with other women, any advice on how to mybe control this.

I totally understand what you mean. I personally love to dress up, and interact with both men and women when doing so. Although, I do also like to interact with women in a solely masculine way, so I have women in my life who'd make a suitable Mother to the children I want to have one day.

It does sometimes mean living a bit of a double life, but if you're struggeling to find time to struggling to court genetic women, it could just be that you're not that into them. It could also be that you find it easier to court transgender women though, not having the approach anxiety that is inherent when first approaching genetic women.

I think you should explore meeting genetic women if you feel like it's something that you want to do, but if it turns out not to be that interesting, then don't worry about it and just focus on spending as much time enjoying yourself as possible!

Sophie.