Why do we learn to like being penetrated?

[hankhavelock]

I refer slightly to another thread "Why do we like dick?" and I want to explore this a bit further. Because one thing is to be awed by a woman's penis, another is to have it inside you.

When I had my first transsexual girlfriend I was strictly top - until she told me that there are more ways...

My bottom-life started out fumbly and with a lot of pain and a feeling I had to shit all the time :-( Well, these are merely physical matters to get over quickly.

But what I later realized was the intense closeness of being penetrated by my woman - when she is deep inside and ultimately screams her orgasm out. It's awesome, so beautiful and I believe it gives us, as men, a way to connect even more closely to our women than is normally experienced in hetero-relationships. It's SO different from making love with a cisgender woman. It's so much more intense.

We can both penetrate and be penetrated.

I dunno if any one can follow me here, but holding her close when she's shaking from orgasm is purely wonderful. Kissing her, rolling her over, kissing her again... loving her intensely...

So yes, penetration is part of connectíng, as I have experienced it...

What do you think?

H