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Smile Why t-girls don't like to fuck guys?

If they are blessed with a dick then why to avoid using it? Or they just can't do that because it doesn't work anymore?
If you think as female - it's OK. Girls use strapon to fuck another girl or a guy. And females still remain females. It's OK to change roles sometimes. Lets be open-minded in sex.

P.s. 2 shemales: if you let your bf to suck your cock and don't let yourself to fuck him then you're teasing him cause a lot of guys would like to be fucked...at least one time in their lives.
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Hi Jared ..

I have to disagree with you on several points, let me explain why ..

Firstly, the majority (though by no means all) T-Girls are fundamentally Women & therefore Female in their outlook and expectations .. they want to be "courted" like any other woman .. Certainly the Girls I've dated or have had relationships with fit this criteria .. they want to be "loved", taking the female role in lovemaking ..

Secondly, the Penis only actually stops functioning as such (other than due to natural causes) if it's owner takes the Female hormone, Oestrogen .. which counteracts the Male hormone, Testosterone .. and therefore inhibits & eventually stops the production of Semen ..

Thirdly, a large percentage of Transgendered women do not see their Penis as a "blessing" at all .. hence the number who elect to have SRS (Sexual Re-assignment Surgery) ... Many consider it a "curse" and wish to be rid of it as soon as is practicable ..

Not every T-Girl, without a functioning Penis wants to use a "strap-on" to Anally penetrate a man .. they may however do so to please their partner .. but I think we need to differentiate between "real life" & what we see being re-enacted in Porn movies ..

I'm all for "open-mindedness" within sexual relationships .. but it's incorrect (and somewhat unfair) to say that by permitting a man to fellate them .. T-Girls are "teasing" that man ... Many men (me included) .. have no desire to be Anally penetrated by anyone or anything and get our pleasure from making love to T-Girls as we would with any other woman ..

All that said, I'm not de-crying your (or anyone else's) desire to be Anally penetrated nor denying that you may well derive great pleasure from it .. but as the old saying goes .. "Each to their own" ..

I wish you luck in your quest & hope you find a nice T-Girl who can fulfil your dreams ..

Best regards & Bye for now ..

Orion ..

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I don't like my cock to be sucked. Well not so much dislike it as have no interest. It does nothing for me. I never cum through oral. I don't really like my cock and wish it was gone. I preferred when the man never touched me there. It was surprising how many didn't. One guy had me perform anal sex on him. It did nothing for me. I just pretended to cum for his benefit.

I do like other people's cocks though.
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.. but as the old saying goes .. "Each to their own" ..
Quite right, but I think you misunderstand what jared is trying to say. He is addressing the fact that some girls are seemingly afraid to use their (functioning) penis in the belief that it would somehow make them less feminine. That in my view is definitely not so.

Having been mainly into women these last few years, I've met several who just loved to strap it on. One even confessed to me afterwards that for one hot moment she regretted not having a penis. It did not make these women in any way less feminine, so why should a transsexual girl not benefit where she's at an advantage.

Having said all that.......I personally prefer to be on the receiving end.
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dear t-ladies, another question that is bothering me: lets imagine that you have a passion night with your lover and during sex your bf asks you to top him. Would you agree or refuse?
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Hi Marie ... you sum up one of the points I was trying to make .. thanks .. :D

And Hi Franalexes .. your point is well made & I wouldn't attempt to even begin to claim that I understand or could explain what goes on in any woman's mind .. which is why you're all so endlessly fascinating & captivating ... I can only speak from my own personal experience ..

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I think Orion's post was pretty well informed. Most trans*women have a complicated relationship with their penis. Some can't wait to have it reformed into a vagina, some don't care either way, some like to use it sexually.

As far as using it orally, but not fucking with it. I'm in that camp. Even before the hormones the act of penetration simply freaked me out to the point I'd lose erection. Oral stimulation, for me, is easy enough to get through. I still don't like it, but I can manage. I can enjoy that it pleases my partner, but it really does nothing for me ... my penis is simply the least sexualized part of my body.
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I think Orion's post was pretty well informed. Most trans*women have a complicated relationship with their penis. Some can't wait to have it reformed into a vagina, some don't care either way, some like to use it sexually.

As far as using it orally, but not fucking with it. I'm in that camp. Even before the hormones the act of penetration simply freaked me out to the point I'd lose erection. Oral stimulation, for me, is easy enough to get through. I still don't like it, but I can manage. I can enjoy that it pleases my partner, but it really does nothing for me ... my penis is simply the least sexualized part of my body.
Hi Bionca,
These posts are interesting and present a problem. Most of this forum presents transsexuals (shemales) as hot and super horny with raging huge cocks shooting cum all over the place. This doesn't jibe with the reality you are discussing, its like there are two different types of transgendered people. Or is shemale hypersexuality an illusion? Thanks for your personal honesty.
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Or is shemale hypersexuality an illusion? :
Hey! This guy is catching on. There is hope for the male species.
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Or is shemale hypersexuality an illusion? :
Just like all sexuality in porn is. The differance is that you probably have real actual relationships with genetic women that are not begun and ended at a bedroom door. So, while you may have a fantasy about a naughty librarian, you have seen real life actual women in a library.

Men WANT transwomen to be super-extra sexual so that's what porn gives you. Remember, on planet porno Ron Jeremy has more sex than all of you put together.

I can't speak for all trans*women and what a gal does with what's in her pants doesn't make her any more or less woman. I can only relate how I feel and what I like. It should be remembered that just like anyother single human, one should not assume much about what they like sexually.
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Dear Bionca,

Your comments are so perceptive and forthright. You, Fran, Transjen and other real transgendered women are caught up in this porn drenched frenzy over hyper sexed shemales. I must admit I indulge in the erotic frenzy. My libido goes nuts over big cock shemales, I don't know why. Well, I do encourage it because I like it.
I know its not real, that porn is a fantasy. What I did not know is how transgendered women really feel. Good sex for you seems just as problematic as for the rest of us. The porn is a release from the ho hum.
My question is why do you transgendered women participate in this forum?
Do you also enjoy the fantasy? Do these sexy gurls excite you?
These are very personal questions, I mean no disrespect.

Also, it saddens me that the porn fantasy men have in their minds makes It difficult for you to have a normal relationship with them. What are the alternatives?
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DO NOT TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE TRANSEXUAL MIND. FREUD DIDN'T LIVE THAT LONG.
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DO NOT TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE TRANSEXUAL MIND. FREUD DIDN'T LIVE THAT LONG.
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to kiss a cute tranny on her hot plump fanny
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i'm living full-time as a female for two months now
and i really enjoyed to use my penis ( oral and fuck) ( wondering if this is going to decrease)

altough i prefer to be submisive and being fucked ,i really would be sad that i couldn't use my thingy anymore because of the female hormones

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For me I don't mind using my cock because sex is about satisfying eachother so if my boyfriend wants me to fuck him then I do, I am still a woman but am just trying to satisfy him the way that he satisfies me. However I still prefer taking than giving
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I personally can't stand my cock and can't wait to eventually get srs. I'd dislike it being sucked or anally penetrating. In fact I hate it when a cute guy wants anything to do with it durring sex.
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Wow ... Thanks all ... This opens my eyes EVEN MORE now. I still have much to learn, but that is half the adventure and fun!
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I am not an expert, but when it comes to sex, I would not do, or let do unless I am willing to give my partner the same oppurtunity.
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It's weird...the ts's I've met have ALL been different. The first one loved being top and I really didn't like that since I like to be in control so I stopped seeing her after a few visits. The second absolutely HATED having her cock touched/looked at/wanked/sucked you name it she was ashamed of having it and couldn't wait to have it removed. This girl that I just met last night she is a mix of the two. She loves getting fucked and fucking. I will ask her next time I see her since the yesterday was about getting to know each other and making sure either of us wasn't a weirdo or anything lol. She only speaks Spanish, has a very pretty face, great tits, awesome ass and she's latina!!!!!!!

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When I'm with a guy, I'm completely passive. I'll let him suck me off, if he wants (most guys won't do it because they don't wanna be "gay"), but I don't fuck guys.
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personally, i had srs because in my mind, soul, in that dark place that doesn't have a name and only a few people go, the penis i was born with was a body defect, much like a third arm or a siamese twin or ..whatever other medical condition is out there. now i have a vagina, great 38C breasts, and i love my body. regularly...

i am in a life relationship with a womyn, and we love each other. just...the feeling of a penis inside me is something i've yet to experience. is it morally wrong of me, is it cheating? yes. i do feel guilty about it. but it is something that i need to have to complete my experience as a woman. i will not leave my partner. but untill this happens, i cannot be complete.

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candypops you recently changed your profile pic. i liked the one you had before!
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If you suck my cock,
just enjoy the experience,
But don't look at my face.
Or you may notice that I'm imagining myself to be somewhere else,
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The t-girls I've met really liked to be top. I haven't met that many though (only 4), but 3 of them preferred to be top and the other didn't really mind much.. I think she slightly preferred being bottom over top.

I know 2 of those 4 are also happy to still have a penis. Perhaps girls who're happy with their penis are more likely to be top.

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