dont know what to do

[Shufukr]

Hey everyone , so im in a bit of a pickle . I've been into tranny porn for about 12 years now , in the past few years I have been seeing a tv. I love the sex we have and the time we have together. The problem is my girlfriend of 8 yrs. I have not been into her for quite some time I love her to death , but its like I'm not sexually attracted to her anymore. I lost my girlfriend before this one because she found out I was into tranny porn . I'm just torn and dont know what to do . Any comments and or suggestions would be greatly appreciated

[Thick|head]

Wow, that's a tough one, it's like you're stuck between what your heart really wants, and what you may think is the right thing to do (hide your desires). It's not easy, and depending on where you live, it's probably not that accepted either.

[Smoothie]

Lets all be adults here, and figure out which person you wish to be with. It's uncool to cheat, but do you enjoy the person that you are cheating with more than your current partner? Your sex life is just as important as your non-sex life.

I'm not going to get biblical here, but wouldn't it be wise to be dating someone that you wish to be the most intimate with? The ones that I care for but don't peak my sexual interests would be those that I would make as just friends.

If you enjoy the TV more than your girlfriend sexually, you must figure out if that is someone that you can date and be happy with. You will inevitably be losing one for the other.

A 12 year addiction is nothing to blink an eyelash at, it's a fact. Poor sexual attraction does not ever make a good relationship or marriage.

I wish you the best of luck.

[thegirlinblue]

Seems to me that if you have been seeing this other girl or tv as you put it for a few years and you are more attracted to her than your current girl then you should stop beating around the bush and just end things with your girlfriend. Thats seems like it would be the best thing for everyone.

[Devora_la_devi]

While a person is in love with another and still being in love with her not attract it sexually that relationship eventually ended badly.
even though it says no sex is important in the relationship and is a matter of time that leaves the problem