My Problems with Shemales and this kind of porn...

[FlacoPro]

Hey folks, I'm new here and I'll warn you that this is going to be a very long post. Well, I finally feel happy that I can share my issues with other people privately. Alright, first I'll start off by saying that I'm quite young, I'm a little over 18 but I became aware of Shemales when I was about 13. The day it happened, I was walking back from school late after tutoring and I happened to see a porn magazine in the corner on the street. No one was around and being a horny teen (I still am lol) I quickly ran and picked it up. But this was not the porn I was accustomed to seeing, it was Tranny porn.

I saw photos of Guys banging Trannies, Trannies banging guys, guys blowing Tranny cock etc. I wasnt put off or disgusted but I was just stunned that such porn existed. It didn't arouse me, I was just like "Wtf?". I was really confused, so I just threw the magazine back in the corner and just decided to forget that event. But I couldn't forget, it was always stuck in my mind that such porn existed. After a while, it began to intrigue me, it became like a new world that I wanted to explore.

And, I began to explore it by sneaking on to the house computer while everyone was asleep and checking out Shemale porn. And it began to arouse me a bit, but I dared not get off to it. I still didn't understand the concept of it, and the horrors of if my friends or family found out about my growing fetish haunted me. But over the years I've found ways to enjoy this kind of porn. But I still have problems with it. I seem to go through certain phases with this.

There are times, when I won't be able to get enough of Trannies and Tranny porn. I'll watch as much as I can, have fantasies of Trannies, and enjoy things that have to do with Trannies. This phase usually can last for weeks, and then it breaks. And I hate to say it like this but I feel "free" when the phase breaks, I won't be aroused by Trannies no matter how much I try. I'll be attracted to nothing but the original kind of woman. And to be honest I like this phase because I feel normal just like all of my friends.

But then after a while, then this phase will wear off and all of sudden my lust for trannies will come back even stronger than before. Then the phase will wear off and its back to me lusting only after women. And this cycle continues on and on and on. This has been going on since I was 13. Its just really tough for me, I just don't understand myself. Well, as of right now I'm in the phase where I'm lusting after trannies, so I'll be watching plenty of Shemales banging guys, Shemale domination etc since thats my main fetish lol. But then it'll wear off in a few weeks and I won't be able to watch it anymore. Well, I'm just happy I was able to share my thoughts with you guys. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated.

[Tranny Sore-Ass Rex]

You're young and still trying to figure yourself out. Being an 18 year old male, and not gender confused, I'm sure you're still trying to be (no pun intended), the cock of the walk.

I know when I was your age, I had misconceptions about the definition of accepted sexuality. Now that I'm older (wish I was wiser), I ask "what is normal?" Then I remember normal is just a synonym for traditional and carry on with myself.

Don't worry, as time goes by, you'll find yourself. It may take 20 years or more, then again you might wake tomorrow and realize you're you and there's nothing that can change that. When the time arrives, embrace who you are, and enjoy life.

[racquel]

A lot of guys like being submissive now and then, and watching "shemale domination" porn is part of that. Lets be honest, most porn with aggressive genetic women is ridiculous. It's vinyl-clad dominatrix porn or girls fucking with strap-ons who obviously don't know what they're doing. There are whole niches of porn that I just can't take seriously because what I've seen of it never takes itself seriously -- like most lesbian porn where the best you can hope for is girls that want to show off for the camera but never truly seem to be into what they're doing and end up giggling half the time.

So I get the definite impression that many guys who like shemale porn basically just want a girl who knows how to be dominant. The sad part is that most transwomen (like genetic women) want to be the more sexually submissive ones most of the time, even if roles do get reversed now and then, but most guys want a tranny for their tranny-related fantasies and would much prefer a genetic woman the rest of the time to actually treat like a woman. It's often a borderline taboo-chasing compulsion. They don't actually like transwomen at all; they only like shemale porn because to them it's deviant and exciting. I suppose even guys who prefer to always be in the dominant role still often seem to only like shemales for the dirty feeling it gives them. Kinda like guys like anal more for the taboo than the actual sensation, they like trannys for the taboo and would never have any love/respect for one of the girls.

Get together all the guys in the world who like shemale porn, and 99% of them would never be seen with a tranny unless she was 100% passable (so they can hide the fact that they're with a tranny in the first place), and they would certainly never want to get dinner with a 6'0" girl like me.

I get hit on plenty in a dark bar. Average guys. Hot guys. Rich business guys. None of them want to take me out. They just want to take me back to their hotel, and that's not going to happen. There's a place I go now and then where there are usually other traans girls. Not to brag, but I'm usually getting the most attention. But the only guy who is sweet and wants to actually hang out with me is mentally disabled. Seriously, he's the janitor at the courthouse and he's a little slow. But he's the nicest guy in the world and I usually just hang out with him and play pool with him while I'm there. I get plenty free drinks from guys, but nobody else has asked me out to dinner and a movie.

I guess my point is that you're normal. I didn't mean to get going on a soapbox. There are lots of guys like you. Guys will be guys and even the ones who like shemale porn don't usually really like transgendered women. My advice to you is don't worry about it. Don't worry about whether or not you're normal. It's just porn and you like the feeling different porn gives you at different times. And you don't have to worry that it makes you gay (which is probably what's really bothering you). Gay guys don't watch tranny porn. Gay guys don't like sex with girls whether or not they have a penis. Were you in show choir in high school? Do you want to make out with a man with itchy stubble? I didn't think so. So lighten up.

If you are going to worry about something, worry about being a good person. Remember that these girls have feelings and have often experienced an incredible amount of pain because of their gender issues. And don't spend the whole rest of your life around the type of bigots who would beat you up for looking at the porn you want to look at.

[smc]

Originally Posted by racquel

Get together all the guys in the world who like shemale porn, and 99% of them would never be seen with a tranny unless she was 100% passable (so they can hide the fact that they're with a tranny in the first place), and they would certainly never want to get dinner with a 6'0" girl like me.

I get hit on plenty in a dark bar. Average guys. Hot guys. Rich business guys. None of them want to take me out. They just want to take me back to their hotel, and that's not going to happen. There's a place I go now and then where there are usually other traans girls. Not to brag, but I'm usually getting the most attention. But the only guy who is sweet and wants to actually hang out with me is mentally disabled. Seriously, he's the janitor at the courthouse and he's a little slow. But he's the nicest guy in the world and I usually just hang out with him and play pool with him while I'm there. I get plenty free drinks from guys, but nobody else has asked me out to dinner and a movie.

I guess my point is that you're normal. I didn't mean to get going on a soapbox. There are lots of guys like you. Guys will be guys and even the ones who like shemale porn don't usually really like transgendered women. My advice to you is don't worry about it. Don't worry about whether or not you're normal. It's just porn and you like the feeling different porn gives you at different times. And you don't have to worry that it makes you gay (which is probably what's really bothering you). Gay guys don't watch tranny porn. Gay guys don't like sex with girls whether or not they have a penis. Were you in show choir in high school? Do you want to make out with a man with itchy stubble? I didn't think so. So lighten up.

If you are going to worry about something, worry about being a good person. Remember that these girls have feelings and have often experienced an incredible amount of pain because of their gender issues. And don't spend the whole rest of your life around the type of bigots who would beat you up for looking at the porn you want to look at.

Raquel, I have such great respect for what you have written, and thus for you. I would be honored to take you out for dinner if you're ever in the Boston area and show you that some of us out there (as you write) are not just about the "porn." You impress me as the type of woman with whom I could have the types of meaningful, intelligent conversations that I crave.

Originally Posted by FlacoPro

Hey folks, I'm new here and I'll warn you that this is going to be a very long post. Well, I finally feel happy that I can share my issues with other people privately. Alright, first I'll start off by saying that I'm quite young, I'm a little over 18 but I became aware of Shemales when I was about 13.... ...But then after a while, then this phase will wear off and all of sudden my lust for trannies will come back even stronger than before. Then the phase will wear off and its back to me lusting only after women. And this cycle continues on and on and on. This has been going on since I was 13. Its just really tough for me, I just don't understand myself. Well, as of right now I'm in the phase where I'm lusting after trannies, so I'll be watching plenty of Shemales banging guys, Shemale domination etc since thats my main fetish lol. But then it'll wear off in a few weeks and I won't be able to watch it anymore. Well, I'm just happy I was able to share my thoughts with you guys. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated.

First of all everything you have said sounds pretty normal for someone who is 18. When I was 18 it was still 1989! My interests were: girls, football, fast cars, motorcycles, and computers. (read my profile--nothing has changed! ) It was much harder to find porn online and most of it was of really poor quality. Anyway, back to you? I wouldn?t worry too much!

Second, you must realize that ?trannies? are women. It might help to do a little research on the Internet. Maybe start by looking up a few of the performers that you like and learn about them. Many are quite open about discussing how they transitioned and what it is like to live as a transwoman. There is also a lot of information on this forum--and many who are willing to answer questions.

Third, are there any groups in your area that support LGBT teens? You didn?t say whether or not you were in college but most colleges and universities have some kind of student organization on-campus. It might help to meet others your age who share your interests. Also you would have the support of friends as well as counselors, discussion groups, and activities.

Finally, if you do develop problems such as guilt or anxiety over your feelings you should seek professional counseling. Most psychologists and counselors today are more ?enlightened? about gender issues than when I was your age. Again, a school organization may provide counseling or help to point you in the right direction.

Enjoy your life!

Dr. A

[shadows]

Originally Posted by racquel

A lot of guys like being submissive now and then, and watching "shemale domination" porn is part of that. Lets be honest, most porn with aggressive genetic women is ridiculous. It's vinyl-clad dominatrix porn or girls fucking with strap-ons who obviously don't know what they're doing. There are whole niches of porn that I just can't take seriously because what I've seen of it never takes itself seriously -- like most lesbian porn where the best you can hope for is girls that want to show off for the camera but never truly seem to be into what they're doing and end up giggling half the time.

So I get the definite impression that many guys who like shemale porn basically just want a girl who knows how to be dominant. The sad part is that most transwomen (like genetic women) want to be the more sexually submissive ones most of the time, even if roles do get reversed now and then, but most guys want a tranny for their tranny-related fantasies and would much prefer a genetic woman the rest of the time to actually treat like a woman. It's often a borderline taboo-chasing compulsion. They don't actually like transwomen at all; they only like shemale porn because to them it's deviant and exciting. I suppose even guys who prefer to always be in the dominant role still often seem to only like shemales for the dirty feeling it gives them. Kinda like guys like anal more for the taboo than the actual sensation, they like trannys for the taboo and would never have any love/respect for one of the girls.

Get together all the guys in the world who like shemale porn, and 99% of them would never be seen with a tranny unless she was 100% passable (so they can hide the fact that they're with a tranny in the first place), and they would certainly never want to get dinner with a 6'0" girl like me.

I get hit on plenty in a dark bar. Average guys. Hot guys. Rich business guys. None of them want to take me out. They just want to take me back to their hotel, and that's not going to happen. There's a place I go now and then where there are usually other traans girls. Not to brag, but I'm usually getting the most attention. But the only guy who is sweet and wants to actually hang out with me is mentally disabled. Seriously, he's the janitor at the courthouse and he's a little slow. But he's the nicest guy in the world and I usually just hang out with him and play pool with him while I'm there. I get plenty free drinks from guys, but nobody else has asked me out to dinner and a movie.

I guess my point is that you're normal. I didn't mean to get going on a soapbox. There are lots of guys like you. Guys will be guys and even the ones who like shemale porn don't usually really like transgendered women. My advice to you is don't worry about it. Don't worry about whether or not you're normal. It's just porn and you like the feeling different porn gives you at different times. And you don't have to worry that it makes you gay (which is probably what's really bothering you). Gay guys don't watch tranny porn. Gay guys don't like sex with girls whether or not they have a penis. Were you in show choir in high school? Do you want to make out with a man with itchy stubble? I didn't think so. So lighten up.

If you are going to worry about something, worry about being a good person. Remember that these girls have feelings and have often experienced an incredible amount of pain because of their gender issues. And don't spend the whole rest of your life around the type of bigots who would beat you up for looking at the porn you want to look at.

That was very well written, Racquel.

Having read numerous of your posts here, I can tell that you are an excellent conversationalist and I am certain that talking with you over dinner would be both entertaining and enlightening. The guys that are interested only for the physical aspects are missing out on a lot, and that is truly their loss.

[racquel]

smc / shadows:

Thanks! I was generalizing about guys, but I do understand that there are some awfully nice guys here.

And I know you guys have plenty problems yourself if you're trying to date a trans girl. When I'm places where gender-bending folks hang out, it seems like the only people looking to hook up are middle-aged transvestites -- many of whom actually live as men and are married to women! These people say some pretty gross things to me, and even ones I've become friends will get out of control after a few drinks and be hounding me to see up my skirt, or my favorite line from a 50-year-old guy in a dress: "When are you gonna make a woman out of me?" Sorry, if I stick anything in your ass it's going to be my foot. Did I mention I have a handgun permit and I used to bench sets of 300 lbs. because my weight set couldn't go any higher?

I used to be pretty angry at guys. For a couple years I never dated anyone, and the few sexual encounters I had were with people who pissed me off, which I'm sure they liked since it played out like something you'd see on shemalerevenge.com... But I think I'm more normal now

Anyway, most girls you could date are just trying to blend into society, and if you go looking in places known for having t-girls you're mostly going to find prostitutes and crossdressers. So I know you guys have it kinda rough.

For a porn-related forum (or any forum), I'm kinda impressed that a few of you guys sound awfully smart and classy.

[smc]

Originally Posted by racquel

smc / shadows:

Thanks! I was generalizing about guys, but I do understand that there are some awfully nice guys here.

And I know you guys have plenty problems yourself if you're trying to date a trans girl. When I'm places where gender-bending folks hang out, it seems like the only people looking to hook up are middle-aged transvestites -- many of whom actually live as men and are married to women! These people say some pretty gross things to me, and even ones I've become friends will get out of control after a few drinks and be hounding me to see up my skirt, or my favorite line from a 50-year-old guy in a dress: "When are you gonna make a woman out of me?" Sorry, if I stick anything in your ass it's going to be my foot. Did I mention I have a handgun permit and I used to bench sets of 300 lbs. because my weight set couldn't go any higher?

I used to be pretty angry at guys. For a couple years I never dated anyone, and the few sexual encounters I had were with people who pissed me off, which I'm sure they liked since it played out like something you'd see on shemalerevenge.com... But I think I'm more normal now

Anyway, most girls you could date are just trying to blend into society, and if you go looking in places known for having t-girls you're mostly going to find prostitutes and crossdressers. So I know you guys have it kinda rough.

For a porn-related forum (or any forum), I'm kinda impressed that a few of you guys sound awfully smart and classy.

Jeez, Racquel, now you've gone and made me blush.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by racquel

smc / shadows:

Thanks! I was generalizing about guys, but I do understand that there are some awfully nice guys here.

And I know you guys have plenty problems yourself if you're trying to date a trans girl. When I'm places where gender-bending folks hang out, it seems like the only people looking to hook up are middle-aged transvestites -- many of whom actually live as men and are married to women! These people say some pretty gross things to me, and even ones I've become friends will get out of control after a few drinks and be hounding me to see up my skirt, or my favorite line from a 50-year-old guy in a dress: "When are you gonna make a woman out of me?" Sorry, if I stick anything in your ass it's going to be my foot. Did I mention I have a handgun permit and I used to bench sets of 300 lbs. because my weight set couldn't go any higher?

I used to be pretty angry at guys. For a couple years I never dated anyone, and the few sexual encounters I had were with people who pissed me off, which I'm sure they liked since it played out like something you'd see on shemalerevenge.com... But I think I'm more normal now

Anyway, most girls you could date are just trying to blend into society, and if you go looking in places known for having t-girls you're mostly going to find prostitutes and crossdressers. So I know you guys have it kinda rough.

For a porn-related forum (or any forum), I'm kinda impressed that a few of you guys sound awfully smart and classy.

Thank you for the kind words, Racquel.

What you say makes a lot of sense. Love can be found anywhere, at any time. A lot of times it happens at the places you least expect it. A chance encounter at the local library, accidentally bumping into someone in a lineup in the grocery store, seeing someone in a coffee shop and then striking up a pleasant conversation with them. Cliches, I know, but no one can really quantify love. It just is. You just have to hope you're lucky enough to find it.(I am still looking for it myself, unfortunately.)

And I must thank you for the following, as it brought a big smile to my face.

Sorry, if I stick anything in your ass it's going to be my foot. Did I mention I have a handgun permit and I used to bench sets of 300 lbs. because my weight set couldn't go any higher?

[tin]

good thread, much respect to Racquel, lovely post, im sure that helped him out a lot, it must have
good luck to him

[FlacoPro]

Originally Posted by racquel

A lot of guys like being submissive now and then, and watching "shemale domination" porn is part of that. Lets be honest, most porn with aggressive genetic women is ridiculous. It's vinyl-clad dominatrix porn or girls fucking with strap-ons who obviously don't know what they're doing. There are whole niches of porn that I just can't take seriously because what I've seen of it never takes itself seriously -- like most lesbian porn where the best you can hope for is girls that want to show off for the camera but never truly seem to be into what they're doing and end up giggling half the time.

So I get the definite impression that many guys who like shemale porn basically just want a girl who knows how to be dominant. The sad part is that most transwomen (like genetic women) want to be the more sexually submissive ones most of the time, even if roles do get reversed now and then, but most guys want a tranny for their tranny-related fantasies and would much prefer a genetic woman the rest of the time to actually treat like a woman. It's often a borderline taboo-chasing compulsion. They don't actually like transwomen at all; they only like shemale porn because to them it's deviant and exciting. I suppose even guys who prefer to always be in the dominant role still often seem to only like shemales for the dirty feeling it gives them. Kinda like guys like anal more for the taboo than the actual sensation, they like trannys for the taboo and would never have any love/respect for one of the girls.

Get together all the guys in the world who like shemale porn, and 99% of them would never be seen with a tranny unless she was 100% passable (so they can hide the fact that they're with a tranny in the first place), and they would certainly never want to get dinner with a 6'0" girl like me.

I get hit on plenty in a dark bar. Average guys. Hot guys. Rich business guys. None of them want to take me out. They just want to take me back to their hotel, and that's not going to happen. There's a place I go now and then where there are usually other traans girls. Not to brag, but I'm usually getting the most attention. But the only guy who is sweet and wants to actually hang out with me is mentally disabled. Seriously, he's the janitor at the courthouse and he's a little slow. But he's the nicest guy in the world and I usually just hang out with him and play pool with him while I'm there. I get plenty free drinks from guys, but nobody else has asked me out to dinner and a movie.

I guess my point is that you're normal. I didn't mean to get going on a soapbox. There are lots of guys like you. Guys will be guys and even the ones who like shemale porn don't usually really like transgendered women. My advice to you is don't worry about it. Don't worry about whether or not you're normal. It's just porn and you like the feeling different porn gives you at different times. And you don't have to worry that it makes you gay (which is probably what's really bothering you). Gay guys don't watch tranny porn. Gay guys don't like sex with girls whether or not they have a penis. Were you in show choir in high school? Do you want to make out with a man with itchy stubble? I didn't think so. So lighten up.

If you are going to worry about something, worry about being a good person. Remember that these girls have feelings and have often experienced an incredible amount of pain because of their gender issues. And don't spend the whole rest of your life around the type of bigots who would beat you up for looking at the porn you want to look at.

Wow thanks a lot for this advice, I guess I'll just have to see how things go for me in the future...

[FlacoPro]

Hey guys, you may have noticed that I haven't posted in a couple of weeks and that's because I was in one of the phases I mentioned earlier in the thread. For a couple of weeks there, I could only watch regular porn, tranny porn stopped arousing me yet again. But like 2days ago, I suddenly had a tremendous urge to watch tranny porn. This might sound ridiculous to some of you guys, but this is my life. It's just a dilemma. I spoke to a psychologist over the internet about this isssue, and she recommended that I reduce the amount of porn I watch in general. She said she feels like Porn for me is a drug, Its like I'll take the drug for a period of time, but after a while I'll need something stronger.

Which would explain why I would be fine watching basic porn but then after a while I would need to watch Tranny porn. Because in my mind, Tranny porn is stronger. But the thing is I don't even watch porn that much. I watch it occasionally, I'm always busy at school or work. But there are just some days, when I'm really horny + there's no one at home + and I have a computer sitting right in front of me. What am I supposed to do? And my main issue is not even accepting the fact that I like tranny porn, that doesn't bother me too much.

My issue is that how can something arouse me so much one day, and then completely disgust me at other times? Idk, I'm still trying to figure things out. But I have read the previous posts, and I appreciate everyone who has given me advice, thanks and good luck to you guys in the future. I should be around for the next couple of days, maybe even weeks depending on how long this current phase lasts. Catch you guys later...

[smc]

Originally Posted by FlacoPro

I spoke to a psychologist over the internet about this isssue, ...

You actually "see" a psychologist online? This sounds to me like the biggest scam ever, and the fact that what "she" told you about porn being a "drug" is something that you would find in any high-school psych textbook only solidifies my opinion. I hope you're not paying for this "service."

Originally Posted by FlacoPro

...I spoke to a psychologist over the internet about this isssue, and she recommended that I reduce the amount of porn I watch in general. She said she feels like Porn for me is a drug, Its like I'll take the drug for a period of time, but after a while I'll need something stronger...

...My issue is that how can something arouse me so much one day, and then completely disgust me at other times?...

Seriously, when I suggested professional counseling, I wasn't thinking of something over the Internet. That advice sounds like something my high-school football coach might have said. Aren't there counseling resources available to you through school? You can also get your physician to refer you to someone. You sound very normal to me but it would help you to talk with someone qualified.

On a lighter note, the answer to your question is simple... They call it "marriage"! (Sorry, couldn't help it... )

Originally Posted by smc

You actually "see" a psychologist online. This sounds to me like the biggest scam ever, and the fact that what "she" told you about porn being a "drug" is something that you would find in any high-school psych textbook only solidifies my opinion. I hope you're not paying for this "service."

Online Psychology, eh? Well, you could talk to me online if you like - my rates are very reasonable - and I might even provide some pictures as well (for a small extra fee of course) something I bet your psychologist doesn't

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by Natalie_J

Online Psychology, eh? Well, you could talk to me online if you like - my rates are very reasonable - and I might even provide some pictures as well (for a small extra fee of course) something I bet your psychologist doesn't

Sign me up!

[racquel]

If porn is like a drug to you, and shemale porn is "the hard stuff," why would you voluntarily stop? People don't stop shooting heroin and go back to weed.

And the concept of being disgusted with hardcore porn is not a strange one. If you liked BBW porn but didn't actually date fat girls, it would also be just a fetish to you and would disgust you at times.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Natalie_J

Online Psychology, eh? Well, you could talk to me online if you like - my rates are very reasonable - and I might even provide some pictures as well (for a small extra fee of course) something I bet your psychologist doesn't

Natalie, my darling, I need hands-on therapy from you. How can we arrange some of that?

[km1]

Originally Posted by racquel

A lot of guys like being submissive now and then, and watching "shemale domination" porn is part of that. Lets be honest, most porn with aggressive genetic women is ridiculous. It's vinyl-clad dominatrix porn or girls fucking with strap-ons who obviously don't know what they're doing. There are whole niches of porn that I just can't take seriously because what I've seen of it never takes itself seriously -- like most lesbian porn where the best you can hope for is girls that want to show off for the camera but never truly seem to be into what they're doing and end up giggling half the time.

Have to disagree with a lot of this. I'd post a whole wack of vids to prove myself right, but I'd get banned.

[racquel]

Originally Posted by km1

Have to disagree with a lot of this. I'd post a whole wack of vids to prove myself right, but I'd get banned.

It's very childish to say, "You're wrong. I could prove you wrong, but I don't want to."

I didn't say everybody who likes shemale porn likes shemale domination porn. And if you think a lot of guys don't like being submissive, I could show you a "wack of vids."

[WudLuv2try]

Flacopro : You sound just like me.

Except I found out about shemales a lot later than you did.

And except I'm now very comfortable with the whole thing...

It must've felt very good to write the post.

Good luck.

[km1]

Originally Posted by racquel

It's very childish to say, "You're wrong. I could prove you wrong, but I don't want to."

I didn't say everybody who likes shemale porn likes shemale domination porn. And if you think a lot of guys don't like being submissive, I could show you a "wack of vids."

Well, I am immature but I didn't say I didn't want to prove you wrong but that I couldn't, if I posted copyrighted material here I'd get banned.

Also, why would you quote my post, then reply with a paraphrase of my quote (in quotations for that matter) that isn't exactly accurate? Did I say you were wrong? No, I said I disagreed with what you said. Did I say I didn't want to? No, I said I would get banned. Did I say I don't think a lot of guys don't like being submissive? No, where does this come from? Perhaps you're just replying in general or saw what you wanted to see, like what my post actually said. I don't know about "a lot" of guys, but I know about me and what I like, and I'm down with being a sub for a hot girl (t or g).

I see you take offence pretty easily, or perhaps you're just used to people here kissing your ass because you're a hot tgirl, despite the fact that your original post was nothing more than a truism or two...and a generalization or two.

Now, if you like you can tell me I've been a bad, childish, boy and need to be punished for my insolence.

[racquel]

kmi1 -

OK, so you quoted an entire paragraph where I was talking about guys who like domination porn. That paragraph began:

Originally Posted by racquel

A lot of guys like being submissive now and then...

Then you responded quite eloquently with:

Originally Posted by km1

Have to disagree with a lot of this. I'd post a whole wack of vids to prove myself right, but I'd get banned.

You didn't explain what you disagreed with. Perhaps you're talking about my statement that genetic females seem much more inept at domination and much more inept at fucking people with strap-ons than shemales are at fucking people with their penises. Well, that's your opinion, and maybe you have a video of a giggly tranny who can't get it up to support your position. Obviously there is lesbian porn out there that is legitimately hot and not a joke. But most lesbian porn -- including a few entire series that I've seen many parts of -- are basically ridiculous. The only genetic girl-on-girl stuff I've seen that flips my cookie at all is very few videos, mostly ones with Belladonna. Well, I like that old retro artsy almost soft-core Michael Ninn stuff, too.

Originally Posted by km1

Did I say I don't think a lot of guys don't like being submissive? No, where does this come from?

No, you didn't. You didn't say anything about what you disagreed with, and as we can all remember from 5th-grade English class, the first sentence of a paragraph is generally a summary of said paragraph, and I assumed that was the essence of what you were disagreeing with. Hence the confusion we're currently having. If you'd like to contribute, please do, but it appears you're more interested in arguing about nothing than actually saying something.

[km1]

Originally Posted by racquel

A lot of guys like being submissive now and then, and watching "shemale domination" porn is part of that. Lets be honest, most porn with aggressive genetic women is ridiculous. It's vinyl-clad dominatrix porn or girls fucking with strap-ons who obviously don't know what they're doing. There are whole niches of porn that I just can't take seriously because what I've seen of it never takes itself seriously -- like most lesbian porn where the best you can hope for is girls that want to show off for the camera but never truly seem to be into what they're doing and end up giggling half the time.

This is what I quoted before that I stated I disagreed with. So I'll repeat the exact same thing again except let's exclude the first sentence in bold that was quoted but shouldn't have the first time around. I disagree with all that is quoted except which is in bold.

[darkstargemini]

Originally Posted by Tranny Sore-Ass Rex

You're young and still trying to figure yourself out. Being an 18 year old male, and not gender confused, I'm sure you're still trying to be (no pun intended), the cock of the walk.

I know when I was your age, I had misconceptions about the definition of accepted sexuality. Now that I'm older (wish I was wiser), I ask "what is normal?" Then I remember normal is just a synonym for traditional and carry on with myself.

Don't worry, as time goes by, you'll find yourself. It may take 20 years or more, then again you might wake tomorrow and realize you're you and there's nothing that can change that. When the time arrives, embrace who you are, and enjoy life.

> yes u r still quite young just a little over 18 u say u need to l@@k @ this with @n open mind @nd not judge see i am 50 ye@rs of @ge i,ve seen quite @ lot more so t@ke the time to understand wish u luck.

[FlacoPro]

Hey guys, it's been quite some time since I've been around here. I hope everyone is doing well. Well, lately I've been talking to this girl who I've liked for a really long time. Turns out that she's also had feelings for me. A couple of weeks ago she stopped over my house, and we were kissing and then we ended up going all the way. After we had sex, all I could think about was her. And things got really tough for me, because she lives really far away from me. So I don't get to see her much, but we still keep in contact through the web every day. Ever since I started talking to her, I've kinda forgotten about Trannies and Tranny porn. But a strange thing happened about 3 nights ago. I had a dream about a Tranny sneaking into my house, and banging the crap out of me. That wasn't the odd part about the dream though. The odd part was that after the Tranny banged me I was pregnant. Yes, you read that correctly- I had a dream of a Tranny getting me pregnant. I woke up from this dream confused, scared and extremely turned on. The crazy part about it all was that I hadn't even been thinking about Trannies at all prior to this dream. It was so random...

[smc]

It might be a good idea to combine your willingness to think deeply about what all this stuff means, going back to your first post in the thread, with a willingness to consider abandoning such easy use of the termy "tranny," which many girls find quite offensive.

[FlacoPro]

Originally Posted by smc

It might be a good idea to combine your willingness to think deeply about what all this stuff means, going back to your first post in the thread, with a willingness to consider abandoning such easy use of the termy "tranny," which many girls find quite offensive.

Oh sorry about that, I didn't mean to offend anyone...

Hmmm- a very interesting dream indeed. Very revealing...

My online Psychology offer still stands if you want to discuss it - although my rates aren't quite as reasonable as they were. A Gurl has to eat after all, y'know.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Natalie_J

A Gurl has to eat after all, y'know.

Hey, Natalie, I've got something for you to eat. Come to think of it, you've got something I'd like to eat. But you already know that.

Originally Posted by smc

Hey, Natalie, I've got something for you to eat. Come to think of it, you've got something I'd like to eat. But you already know that.

We shall have to do lunch one day (or night)

[The Conquistador]

If we have lunch together, can we do it Japanese style where I eat my meal off of your naked body?

[smc]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

If we have lunch together, can we do it Japanese style where I eat my meal off of your naked body?

I'll pass.

(That's what happens when you don't appropriately quote the post to which you are replying. )

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by smc

I'll pass.

(That's what happens when you don't appropriately quote the post to which you are replying. )

You never know.... But yeah, the previous post was intended for Natalie.

[smc]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

You never know.... But yeah, the previous post was intended for Natalie.

I knew that. You'd have to come to England to join us.

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

If we have lunch together, can we do it Japanese style where I eat my meal off of your naked body?

Well, I don't mind eating out - but I'm not sure I'd want to be used as the table!

Mind you, it depends what you're eating I guess...

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by Natalie_J

Well, I don't mind eating out - but I'm not sure I'd want to be used as the table!

Mind you, it depends what you're eating I guess...

Well rest assured, it woun't be garlic or seafood. I'm more of a sausage man.

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Well rest assured, it woun't be garlic or seafood. I'm more of a sausage man.

I had a feeling sausage would be on the menu somewhere I didn't really have you down as a seafood man...

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by Natalie_J

I had a feeling sausage would be on the menu somewhere I didn't really have you down as a seafood man...

Yes! And I can predict where the sausage will be found on my "table". Culinary aesthetics and presentation go a long way when eating out.

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Yes! And I can predict where the sausage will be found on my "table". Culinary aesthetics and presentation go a long way when eating out.

Everything in its place and a place for everything, eh?

(Another thread totally derailed I think)

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by Natalie_J

Everything in its place and a place for everything, eh?

(Another thread totally derailed I think)

Correct you are on both accounts.

[FlacoPro]

Lately I've had NO resistance to watching Shemale porn. Usually, I battle with myself before and after watching it. Now, I just can't get enough. I can't control it anymore. The best part about this is that I don't feel guilty or "dirty" after watching it anymore. It feels great...

[WudLuv2try]

Eel, anyone?