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Old 12-13-2017
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I've seen a few threads about how people first became interested in transsexuals, and some early experiences with them or that led people to like them. I'm curious, now that you are into trans stuff, has it directly or indirectly led you to become interested in anything else? For me personally, my love of transsexuals has slowly gotten me into watching a lot of gay porn. The guys are usually very feminine, but it's still a change for me. I still find women attractive, but unless they are being really dominant or have a strapon, they don't excite me very much. I'm still not sure what I am (bisexual or just gay), but I know I'm not 100% straight at the very least.

In recent months I've become a lot more active on Xhamster too. I posted a few pics and even some video or me masturbating, and to my surprise people were actually turned on by it. Since then I've started leaving a lot more comments, and even had a couple of hot chat sessions with random guys I didn't even know who thought I was sexy.

Anyone else discover some new things about themselves thanks to their interest in trans girls?
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@elexis666 you are a human. I think most of us, who have broken "traditional" cultural conditioning, have a spectrum when it comes to our sexuality.

My love of trans has also lead me to watching gay porn but limited to twinks. Butch guys are a total turn off to me.

It's also lead me to a fixation with anal sex, in all it's forms. Besides the hassle of cleaning before hand and the occasional mess despite prior cleaning, I love playing with my own anus.

You may have read in another post of mine, that I have yet to successfully penetrate a partner's anus with my penis but I still like playing with their anuses as well.

Another thing I've gotten into pubic hair styles - I find it hot that some gurls have pubic hair - since porn stars are predominantly clean shaven. I also took to manicuring my own pubes for a while but am currently growing it back.

It's hot that you've got good feedback on your Xhamster posts (I might even check them out ;-) but like you, I still find females attractive.

I think that there is a reason that the Rainbow flag represents the LGBTQI community - since sexuality spectrum is so wide and varied. It is your life - make of it what you want. As long as you don't hurt others, go enjoy yourself :-)
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No. Not really. I’ve always “liked what I like” ever since I can remember. My first sexual experience was when I was very young back in the 90’s. She was a totally cute and hot male friend of mine. As she explained it, at about 4 or 5 she “knew she was a girl.” We dated through high-school. She’s the “Stephanie” I’ve written about elsewhere. There was a long story/post about how we met and our first encounter on my WordPress site but since no one from here ever reads that stuff I took the link down. Our parents thought we might be gay (especially mine) but still loved and accepted us as a couple.

I never felt “gay” growing up nor do I now and I’ve always been attracted to ciswomen as well as transwomen. And very feminine males or femboys. I’ve been married twice to ciswomen and have dated both trans and cis women. I’ve always been OK with watching what would be considered gay porn so long as it involves a feminine male. Maybe a younger, cute femboy being sucked or fucked? Through browsing porn sites I discovered “cock milking” and “edging” videos. I am most definitely a "top."

One of my best friends at the university where I teach is gay. We are both advisors for LGBTQ students. We have a lot in common and are both active in the Indianapolis community. He looks a lot like me only smaller. Maybe 6’2”, 200 lbs. Older than me. Fit. Works out. But has a beard and body hair. Otherwise I’d probably have asked him out long ago… He was married and just recently lost his husband to cancer. I am in my 30’s now and currently married to a very beautiful ciswoman several years younger than me. She has many gay and lesbian friends and frequently attends things with me. We have an active sex life that includes oral and anal sex as well as role playing and bondage.

Probably the only thing that has “changed” for me over the years is simply my understanding of new things (like what "pansexual" and “genderfluid” mean) and the recognition that there is more openness and acceptance of gay and trans people today than when I was a teenager. My #1 issue is stopping on-line bullying and violence against gay and transgender people. I experienced some of that first hand with Stephanie when we were together.

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I've seen a few threads about how people first became interested in transsexuals, and some early experiences with them or that led people to like them. I'm curious, now that you are into trans stuff, has it directly or indirectly led you to become interested in anything else? For me personally, my love of transsexuals has slowly gotten me into watching a lot of gay porn. The guys are usually very feminine, but it's still a change for me. I still find women attractive, but unless they are being really dominant or have a strapon, they don't excite me very much. I'm still not sure what I am (bisexual or just gay), but I know I'm not 100% straight at the very least.

In recent months I've become a lot more active on Xhamster too. I posted a few pics and even some video or me masturbating, and to my surprise people were actually turned on by it. Since then I've started leaving a lot more comments, and even had a couple of hot chat sessions with random guys I didn't even know who thought I was sexy.

Anyone else discover some new things about themselves thanks to their interest in trans girls?
I'm very similar. I started watching some gay porn as well after watching transsexuals. I can honestly say that I'm not attracted to men and much like you they have to be on the feminine side. I never would have guessed when I was younger that I'd ever masturbate to transsexuals let alone two guys fucking. I think leaving home for the first time was a real eye opener and I started to discover more about myself and what turned me on.

I've never posted any pics of myself online, but I've had some hot chat sessions with some random guys as well.
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I'm very similar. I started watching some gay porn as well after watching transsexuals. I can honestly say that I'm not attracted to men and much like you they have to be on the feminine side. I never would have guessed when I was younger that I'd ever masturbate to transsexuals let alone two guys fucking. I think leaving home for the first time was a real eye opener and I started to discover more about myself and what turned me on.

I've never posted any pics of myself online, but I've had some hot chat sessions with some random guys as well.
You should try it some time. I was amazed, and really turned on, by the response I got to the pics I posted.

Thanks for all the feedback and encouragement everyone!
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I can't say my attraction to transsexual ladies has evolved into anything else. I'm still hugely turned on by femininity- hair, make up, sexy clothes. I just happen to really like when a pretty lady has something extra!

That being said, I think one of the thoughts a lot of us have when we discover our attraction to t-girls is whether or not liking someone with a penis makes us gay. That question has never been adequately answered in my mind. I don't think a person is defined by their penis or vagina so much as all their other characteristics, masculine or feminine. There's a whole spectrum of defining characteristics with genitalia being but one.

There's also a sexual spectrum with exclusively hetero on one side and exclusively gay on the other. I just have never been attracted to someone of my own gender, which would put me more towards the hetero end of the spectrum. My attraction to a nice cock isn't exactly straight though so I think I am probably father down towards the gay end of the spectrum than perhaps some other people may be. I've come to the conclusion it really doesn't matter though.
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