Telling your partner of your love for shemales

[chelsea]

Telling your partner of your love for shemales, whether its your wife, fiancee or girlfriend, is it a good idea?

I'm thinking of it.

Anyone got any experiences of doing so?

[fuckstudent]

I think 90% of the people will say you are weird. Probably only 10% people think this is normal.

Sadly...

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by chelsea

Telling your partner of your love for shemales, whether its your wife, fiancee or girlfriend, is it a good idea?

I'm thinking of it.

Anyone got any experiences of doing so?

Before I truly realized my love for trans*women I actually played out fantasies with my x-wife... needles to say she was as open minded as I am.

Personally I think it's always a good idea to come out of the closet, unfortunately 90% of the world tends to disagree with me.

But what's the worst that can happen? She'll slap you, call you a freak, and leave you... but would she then be worth holding onto anyway?

Your choice, my man.

H

[charlietwobeans]

TOUGH decision. Of course, as others will say, it really depends on your relationship and the type of person she is. In my situation, I never could dream of doing such a thing, until it was slapped in my face after my wife caught me with some evidence of a meeting with a Tgurl (some text messages).

End result? We are still together, she hopes that my "fetish" has been put behind us, or at least relegated to only thoughts and no action, and we both sense the "big elephant in the room" that's always there because we have yet to address the 'why' of my interests.

I hope it comes some day, when we can have an open and honest discussion about it, but it has not happened yet.

So, please be careful and hope that, if you want to stay with your wife, that she is open and kind and forgiving should you decide to say something.

[JoeBaker]

I think my wife got the idea when I put a 9" strapon on her

[justin84]

Originally Posted by JoeBaker

I think my wife got the idea when I put a 9" strapon on her

LMFAO!!! would love my mrs to strap one of them on and jam me, but unfortunatly she isnt likely to understand my fetish, lifes a bitch

[wonderinghart]

I told my wife. She was pretty understanding and wasn't really shocked by it. If this woman is your partner for life you should be able to tell her anything and everything. As long as she is secure in your relationship there should never be an issue.

[chelsea]

Tanks for the responces, i'd still like to hear nore tho

[She-Cock Obssession]

Originally Posted by chelsea

Telling your partner of your love for shemales, whether its your wife, fiancee or girlfriend, is it a good idea?

I'm thinking of it.

Anyone got any experiences of doing so?

i once told my girlfriend about my love for shemales and she wasn't suprised in the slightest...i think she already knew cause she has a cock and i have sex with her all the time

[tgsexual]

Well I had a girlfriend and it was getting quite serious, but I had to find out if my attraction for transwomen was any more than just a sexual curiosity, so before committing I found a transwomen and spent a few days with her.

Pretty soon it was clear to me that I was never going to be satisfied with a genetic woman. Upon returning I told her (the genetic girl) and she was none to pleased. We ceased any intention to be more than friends.

So for those thinking they might be satisfied getting the best of both worlds, you may in fact discover that your partnership with a genetic girl may be on the way out and she may get a sense of this and feel insecure about satisfying you.

That said, everyone's different and it all may work out cozy. Still, while it may not work out, there is some comfort in being honest to oneself and to those we're close to.

i wish i can say it to my girlfriend but i don't know how she reacts ??
May be later i can say but we are newly together and need some time to say, i think !!! May be i will never say and live it secretly

[barry]

Originally Posted by chelsea

Telling your partner of your love for shemales, whether its your wife, fiancee or girlfriend, is it a good idea?

I'm thinking of it.

Anyone got any experiences of doing so?

there was a period of time where i bought about 3 toys from online (all anal) for myself and i didnt say anything until they arrived - she saw them and was a little shocked. she knows i like playing with asses but wont let me play with hers and wont play with mine so im left to my own devices hence the reason i made the purchases. we talked about it and somehow the conversation made a turn and she said something like, well its not like you want me to have a cock right?

deny deny deny

from that point i knew i had to keep it to myself

[thespacedog]

I told my girlfriend early on in our relationship but was pressured as we were having problems in bed because ive spent so much of my life thinking and jerking off to tgirls.

She got upset, asked if i was gay and cried her eyes out for like half an hour. We managed to work it out but she thinks its all in the back of my head and im forgetting it. I have to hide my mass collection on my HD but she still sticks a dildo up my butt.

[beavisimo]

My wife has an idea. It's interesting because you are hearing more and more about transgendered people in the media. I always tell my wife about porn in general "I'm not the only person keeping the industry open." She says "She does not care where I get my appetite as long as I eat at home."

[Mussio]

I have a polyamouric relationship in which BDSM plays an important part. Both my girls know that I like T-girls and what for. They are ok with it and I even might have a go if I really want to. It is very tempting! I also know it is not JUST t-girls that get me arroused. Both of my girls can pretty much make me crazy

[michael39]

I haven't told my wife and I don't think she suspects. I'm quite sure I won't tell her either. I know her well enough to know that it would be the end. That in itself wouldn't be so awful, but I have a young daughter and I want to be in her life everyday. That's the main reason I'm still in this relationship. I dream daily of leaving and finally pursuing my dream of living with a transgendered girl.

[timhaas]

My girlfriend knows and has accustomed to it. What else could she do? For me it's absolutely normal and she knows I'll never be against her loving a lesbi girl (though she's straight). I think it depends on everybody's relationship, on whether it's deep or not. And if your GF loves u, she'll understand, I'm pretty sure!
So c'mon think it all over and go ahead, guys, the truth is always better!

[kizzykan]

My wife knows all about my love of all things TS. She has posed for me in photo shoots wearing a strap-on under her panties, naked, etc. She thinks it's cute. She is Bi and has a girl lover (she would be considered the "femme"). Anyway, try to tell her about it - in this day and age, most women will be okay with it - if they like/love you enough, that is - make sure to woo her with a fine dinner, wine and gifts before telling her!

[agedwards63]

Girls don't react well to competition for their magic pussies

[WudLuv2try]

I've not been covering up the trails behind my internet use, and my wife soon tracked me down to this website.

Of course she doesnt know my user ID, but she knows I'm downloading pictures from this site, and she was puzzled.

So she asked me one day,

"Are you gay? Do you want to be fucked in the ass?"

And I said,

"May be, never tried so I don't know. Can I try?"

And she said,

"No way! It's dangerous, you know?"

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Now, I think there's a slice of hope in that. She didn't freak out, she didn't say,

"You do it and I'll kill you."

She was just... worried about the safety issue, which means if I can take care of that, then may be there's a chance.

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Some time after the first conversation, she asked me again,

"Why do you like TS?"

And I said I don't know. And she asked,

"Is it because you want to have sex with other people besides me, and you feel less guilty if you had sex with another male, rather than a female?"

And I said,

"Would it make you less angry if I had sex with a TS?"

And she said,

"No. I'll still be angry."

And I said,

"Honey, I'm just curious, that's all."

And that's where we stand right now.

[km1]

Good luck WudLuv, hope it all works out for you. I really have no advice (not that you ask for any) as I'm not married and do not have a serious girlfriend.

[WudLuv2try]

Thanks, km1!

I wasn't going to ask, but I had to.

Seeing you're not married and don't have serious girlfriend, have you... ?

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by agedwards63

Girls don't react well to competition for their magic pussies

Top post....we like

[chrero]

No, she wouldn?t understand it. She would accept (I believe) a "normal" gay orientation, but not my longing for shemales.

[ila]

She's not my partner yet, but my lady knows of my love for transgender women. She wholeheartedly approves because she is a beautiful sweet transgender lady.

[sucka.free]

Originally Posted by chelsea

Telling your partner of your love for shemales, whether its your wife, fiancee or girlfriend, is it a good idea?

I'm thinking of it.

Anyone got any experiences of doing so?

....i have been busted twice by my fiancee with both pics and vids on my hard drive..she freaked out..told me i was sick and weird..moved out for 2 weeks and cried on her pals shoulder the whole time....but i was like..well at least the truth is out now...

..2 yrs on..she opens up her asshole to me all the time..because she believes i like fucking the ass....which i do..

..3yrs on and she took it a notch higher by first sticking her finger(s) in my ass as we had sex..but also bought butt plugs to stick in my ass as we did it..

...i look back and i am happy that i was busted because it also brought out the freak in her,and i love it...and believe me...i realize day by day what a freak she is..she loves risky,public domineering sex...she cums and gushes like never beofre...and i love it!...and i love her..she is a GG.

..being busted somehow made my life and sex life better....

but i still love TS's ..always will!

[Risquevania]

It's as bad as telling your partner that you crossdress I believe. Which have broke up marriages or turn out to be fine both ways. Just hide it if the other person is really up tight. I know a lot of Americans like that.

[LatexAndy]

My partner knows and she doesn't like me watching TS orientated porn

She accepts its but doesn't like it