Does liking shemales make you gay?

[bgalore]

I'm straight as can be, but love shemale body, boobs, cocks, even hairy legs and butts can be sexy and fun if the right shemale feminine look! Hehe

[Maine Man]

I considered myself to be straight. After spending a fair amount of time surfing the net and enjoying the sight of attractive shemales, I wondered if I might in fact be bi. I have had very limited experience with other guys (just two separate incidents) and I can say that while I had gained an appreciation for the sight of a hard cock, I felt awkward kissing another guy. I suppose that would make me bi with strong leanings towards being straight.

[james32]

i dont believe u r considered to b gay. after all they are females just with a little bit extra to play with thats the way i feel neways... each 2 there own

[fuckstudent]

Gay means loving men. I can't imagine having sex with somebody who has hairy legs or arms haha. I like the body of a woman and trannies body looks nothing like men's. So NOT gay. But i like to feel something in my ass and would love to be fucked by a woman (strap on, or tranny).

[twistedone]

Couldn't vote for some reason, but I voted "No".

Speaking for myself, I still enjoy the female body. The male body does nothing for me.

People telling me that I'm gay because I enjoy transgendered women are trying to pin a label on me, without trying to know anything about me.

I say screw their opinions. As the ole saying goes, "Opinions are like assholes, we all got one".

[lancelotq]

I'm straight, but love shemale body and boobs. I don't know, maybe I suck for Raquel Fox, maybe

[tslust]

Am I gay or am I straigh? Here's my no BS answer. I don't think gay or straight really matters. If you go by the dicktionary:D, then you might be gay for sucking cock or wanting to get your ass fucked. I say that it doesn't really matter. You like what you like, just be happy wiht that. Lables don't really matter. Why the question of gay or straight? What's wrong with being bi?

[fuckstudent]

Originally Posted by tslust

If you go by the dicktionary:D, then you might be gay for sucking cock or wanting to get your ass fucked.

Isn't gay by the dictionary beeing attracted by men? And trannies doesn't look like men.

[rockabilly]

If by " Gay" you mean happy ... then yeah i'm gay because my gf makes me happy every day and night. And i love her , and really that is all that matters.

[chelsea]

no........

[The_Void]

No. MtF transsexuals are mentally female.

[PolishMan]

No

[ChrisBlue]

I love looking at pictures and videos of tgilrs, shemales and even some crossdressers and it really turns me on . However pictures of gay sex do nothing for me at all. I would gladly fuck the arse off Joanna Jet, HAzel Tucker or any of the other beauties out there but doing it to a a 'bloke' doesn't interest me. Guess I'm not alone in that.

[erotic]

I love women and pretty shemales - not blokes in lipstick! If they are feminine then they give me the horn but I have never shagged a shemale and dont know if I could but would date one if `she` was a stunner- hairy arsed males make do nothing for me at all - I have a thing for nice asses and some of the shemales have amazing butts (just learnt to ignore the bollocks)

[citoyen]

ARE YOU GAY FOR LIKING SHEMALES: yes

[smlover19]

No but it really depends on what your attraction is towards a Transsexual. If you are just all about what's between her legs then it's possible. But if you are attracted to her femininity and everything about her then its a no.

[streetglide]

Yes, no, maybe? Maybe we're just human, If something is unusual and exotic it's automatically interesting to us. We're curious creatures.
I'll go a step further, I don't have testicles. So technically I'm a eunuch. I look male, I act male, I consider myself straight but technically speaking, am I actually male. Chromosomally I am, but technically,medically, I'm a eunuch.
So what am I like Sweden? Am I neutral? Does that mean I can go either way and it's not gay or lesbian or any other label?
It's the same with shemales, the gender line is smudged, so who's to say whether it's straight or not?
By the way, motorcycle accident, and I found this site looking for info, but found a whole lot more!

[zurggie]

i dont think im gay... but if its gay to love and adore this feminin ts gender, by all mean call me gay.. who cares..

[ErosArtist]

Originally Posted by triumph65

Voted yes.

Although, i hate the idea of having to live under a label.

Having said that, if you enjoy the idea of sucking cock, even on the most beautiful ts, it surely has to be considered the tiniest bit gay!! :D

Personally i don't give a fuck. I love beautiful sexy women and i love beautiful sexy tgirls. The idea of sucking and fucking a tgirl turns me on but gay/straight men don't. I don't see myself as 100% gay nor 100% straight. I am what i am and i like what i like.

Ditto - either way, is the most important thing!

[Hedonistman]

Seems the poll is closed, my vote though would've been 'no'. Sure you can be gay but you're not so because you love ts girls and lb's. Folks are more than 1 or 2 word descriptions,, at least I feel that's so,...

[randolph]

Well lets put it this way. Are you gay if you want to suck your own cock?

[tgsexual]

According to dictionary definitions we are gay.

As a gay has an orientation to people of the same sex and a male is defined as someone with X and Y chromosomes, which includes most transwomen.

But, different people have different opinions on the definitions of gender. For those who accept transwoman as being of a female gender, or predominantly female, the term gay does not apply to men who are oriented towards transwomen.

But I think it's pretty obvious that, while there are parallels, and considerable diversity between gays and ourselves, the differences are significant enough to warrant a different classification.

[jdawg]

We're bi. If you like cock, then you at least have gay tendencies and if you like women at the same time then you're bi and on the straight side of. If you only like shemale cock and like being submissive, then you're probably on the gay side of bi. While some might not be attracted to guys, you still like their package which means you're attracted to a part of them.


Really it doesn't matter, but bi is more accurate than gay or straight.

[wannabecut]

No.

If I were gay, I would like men. I like girls with something more

[Adis]

I agree totally with smlover. It depends on what you think makes men or women what they are.
For me, I like their femininity and the cock is just one part of them and not even an essential one.

[shemaluvr]

I agree with wannabecut.
Personally I won't be able to fuck a guy, neither a transvestite.
But I love fucking girls and TS girls.

[johndowe]

Hi there.

Gay men are attracted to men and their penises.

Straight men are attracted to women and their vaginas.

Bi men are attracted to both men and their penises and women and their vaginas.

OK.

Now, men who like shemales like their feminine bodies and their penises.

It is straight in the body part but gayish in the genitalia part, which would make it bi'ish, but not quite.

So none of the labels fit properly, maby we need a new one?

Like quasi-straight or mostly-straight?

Or maby Trisexual.

But not Quartersexual, then you'd do anything with anybody for 25 cents.

JohnDowe.

[sekretter]

Doesn't make you gay, because I love all flavors of tranny as long as they are feminine and beautiful, but I am not attracted to men.

Although no matter how many times you try to explain the attraction to shemales, the stereotype/public-notion is too strong that it's always going to be labeled as gay no matter what.

It doesn't help that a lot of people associate trannies with grotesque looking (purposely unpassable) drag queen performers (who've undergone no hormones or surgery, etc) who identify as gay men (Completely different than a female identifying MtoF)

You can't wait for society to change, just got to deal with it

[happy69]

I am not attracted to men, in fact watching men kiss each other it is still kind of yucky. Swishy guys giggling and singing show tunes is not my thing at all...well, OK, I do like the show tunes. But lots of hair in way too many places, not enough curves...just not appealing.

There is also a mind set of men...gay, straight, or bi. I have met some t-girls that still have this male mind set but for the most part T-girls seem to act more like brash women than gay men and many here in Thailand are not even brash women. I remember a line, "If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, walks like a duck...it's a duck." I think this is pretty much accurate for describing T-girls. They look like women, act like women, and apparently feel like women. What are they? They ain't ducks... If this duck analogy is true, it falls in line with how I personally feel about sex with men and sex with women. Men yuck, women please.

I think society in general still wants to see the sexes in black and white, man or woman as was pointed out in an astute earlier post. A huge portion of Society (and religions) still view sex as primarily, if not solely, for procreation...not recreation. T-girl sex is not going anywhere when it comes to making babies (although I do keep trying ). It is strictly recreational sex (of course we know it can also be much more; love affection, commitment, and all the other things that go into making up a human relationship). Society in the West still has big problems with baby making sex between genetic men and genetic women...look at the bizarre aberrations that religion has imposed upon sexual relations now and historically! Sex is important and powerful and, as such, it gets lots of attention from folks that want to mold society...usually repressive attention sadly.

I digress. I actually feel t-girls (the majority anyway) are more women than women. GGs are born as girls and just grow up with all that that entails which makes it easy to take for granted. T-girls have had to work hard and have a strong desire to be women. They are studied in the ways of femininity where GGs just ...are. I personally feel that all this effort to become a woman gives them the right to be women and the right for me to see them as women. There is a MAJOR difference between a fem-boy and some dude in drag...even a gay guy in drag. A ladyboy is a woman in her mind and acquires the trappings (and now body parts ) of a women externally. Does one little Y chromosome make that much difference over choice?

So all that being said, are you gay if you love T-girls? Hell, if I know. I'm pretty sure I'm not, but I'm not dead yet and I really hate to predict what path my life will take.

[timhaas]

Well I think if you're gay, you love men, not ladyboys, isn't? Surely, there might be a part of gay men who also love LBs, but the majority of gays prefer men, not girly boys or shemales, I suppose.
P.S. I tried to vote but couldn't. There's maybe smth wrong with the poll.

[Hedonistman]

This ? cums up often and everywhere,,, but it's kinda silly. Nothing makes us gay or st8, we each ourselves decide.

[jimbo46]

I myself love shebabes especially the ones who are very feminine with big tits big butts and a sexy cock. I am never ever turned on by guys but a shebabe like Vanity or Kimber James drives me wild wanting to fuck them suck them and them fuck and suck me. I also get very excited about all females I love pussy very much also. I really love to watch shebabes really hard fucking a girls pussy. No I dont think it makes you gay at all.

[smc]

Wouldn't it be great if all of these polls and threads about whether you're gay if you like transgurls -- which are most often posted, I think, by people who are worried (for some reason) about being gay -- had this option to vote for:

Who the fuck cares!

[TOMR85]

I am not attracted to men....I am attracted to women and tgirls.....I don't know what the hell that makes me, and I don't care! I know what I like and that is all that matters to me.

[tgirlass]

Well coming from someone who has yet to suck a cock. I think once I suck a S.M's cock and if I really love sucking her cock. I would want to suck cock more and wouldn't really care if it was a shemale or fem boy. I'm not really into guy's but hey if I start loving to suck cock who cares as long as I'm getting my face stuffed with cock. I mean really a cock is a cock NO matter who's legs it's hanging between. So who cares as long as it's pumping cum in your face. Hell after thinking about it I think it may be nice going fishing and sucking my buddies cocks ever hour or so. I may have to start looking for the right fishing buddies after giving this some thought. :-)

So who gives a fuck what someone calls me. I wouldn't care if they were calling me a guy little slut while I was sucking their cock or being fucked in the ass by them. Because it don't MATTER as long as I'm getting mine!

[megalops]

I never really worried about labels and believe we are all capable of loving others, no matter the gender. I've always loved pussy and enjoy being with women. I've had dozens of female sex partners. However, I assumed that I was bi because I am attracted to certain males. Specifically, feminine males. I've only had sex with 2 males in my life (and have not yet experienced the delights of a T-girl). But realize that the 2 guys I had sex with were very feminine, that is they were small and petite, had round hips, walked like a female and kept their skin soft and shaved their legs and pubes. Neither was a TV or wore make-up, they were just very feminine gay men. I have never been attracted to masculine men and, frankly, think its repulsive to even consider having sex with a big muscular hairy guy (no offense meant to anyone).

However it is that we're wired, we pick up on the feminine part, even if who we're attracted to is genetically male, and go with it. I loved having sex with these 2 men, sucking their cocks came naturally, and I have met other fem men and T-girls that I have been attracted to and wanted to have sex with but didn't, for various reasons. Anyway, I seem to be rambling, but my point is that we are all wired in a particular way and its irrelevant if we call ourselves straight, gay or bi. Just go with what feels natural to you, be safe and cause no harm.

Like many others, I first encountered t-girls while surfing the Internet. I am a male in his 30's and have never been attracted to men or ever had sex with another man. Not that I think there is anything wrong with it! My relationships with women have included a marriage of almost 15 years.

The t-girls I have seen on the Internet are very beautiful and I find myself attracted to them in the same way I am attracted to "genetic" women. I do not consider myself "gay" and joined this forum hoping to learn a little bit more about myself and my own sexuality. It has been interesting reading the posts on this topic. Human sexuality is very complex and I don't think there is a simple answer to the "gay or straight" question. I believe it was Kinsey who first said sexual behavior falls on a "continuum." More recently, there was a "Klein Grid" that measured orientation.

A few years ago, the TV show "Cold Case" aired an episode where a teenager falls in love with a t-girl and invites her to the prom. Of course, his father and others react poorly and the relationship has a tragic ending. I found the episode to be a good lesson in tolerance and have often wondered how difficult it would really be to have such a relationship or to live as a transgendered individual. Currently, I live in the mid-western United States where things are perhaps not as tolerant as say, Brazil. My own personal feelings are that it shouldn't matter to anyone but the two people involved. It's no one else's business.

[johndowe]

Hi there.

AW9725, you are 100% right about your "affairs" (of any and all kinds) are your busines and those that are involved in them, but there are two things that you are not taking into concideration.

First: Some people aren't happy unless they're sniffing in other people's busines, trying to find some things that they don't agree with or don't understand.

Second: Ignorenace and stupidity are incurable afflictions.

Combine the two and you got a whole lot of needless BS etc.

What can you do about those people? Well they DO have as much right to be alive as you do, even if they don't think you do, trying to reason with them is ususlly a waist of time, and they often resort to violence when they are out witted, civil wars have started like this.

If you have a rationnal solution, i'd be very glad to hear it, cuse i don't.

JohnDowe.

Nice to meet you. This looks like a pretty interesting place to say the least! I put some information about myself in my profile if you (or anyone else for that matter) are interested in learning a little about my background. As you have already read my earlier post, you know my own feelings regarding transgendered women. If you are curious who, specifically, I find attractive, go check out the pictures I have posted! On a more serious note: Even though my career is in higher education, which typically has been tolerant of diverse views and lifestyles, I feel that I can’t reveal too much about myself for reasons of job security. Someone else posted that the “TG/TS” lifestyle is still considered taboo for many and doesn’t get the respect/recognition that even the “gay/lesbian” community receives. Here in the good old “heart of the USA” that is sadly and most likely true.

Without writing a dissertation on it, I believe it has much to do with fear and misunderstanding and perhaps the presence of stereotypes. From my own perspective, I had never thought much about this until recently. In college, I became friends with several gay and lesbian students. I was married and never felt any sexual attraction toward my gay friends or any desire to “fool around.” I did, however, feel close to them--I have always been kind of a “big brother” to my friends anyway and I used to feel very protective of them--I knew the kinds of things they had to put up with and how hard it was to live that way. I am sick every time I hear about some “hate crime” or murder of a gay, lesbian, or transgendered individual. I remember watching the “Cold Case” episode mentioned in my earlier post with my (now ex) wife. We agreed that something like gender identity shouldn’t matter and how stupid and ignorant people shouldn’t rule what one can or cannot do. I personally would have liked to have kicked the father’s ass (but that is another story).

Anyway, what does one do about ignorance and stupidity? As an educator, I believe that information has power and over time, people can (and do) change. Sometimes, change comes slowly. Sometimes, you have to keep reinforcing the point. I used to teach a class in “project management” where we discussed ways to take the fear out of implementing a new computer system. One of the techniques was to get the employees who actually USED the system involved--to seek their ideas and make them feel that they were actively a part of the “change.” How many times do organizations actually DO it that way though? I think that the “transgendered” lifestyle will take some time to be accepted but there are already TV shows about it and people like Kelly Shore and Vicki Richter have been very outspoken advocates and probably quite effective in helping it to gain acceptance. Others will follow. This forum--and others like it--can serve to communicate as well.

As for how to handle people sticking their nose in other people’s business--the phrase “Fuck Off” comes to mind but you won’t find that in most textbooks. In my professional career, I typically recommend that organizations have policies regarding disclosure of information--and encourage them to be as “open” as possible with employees. For more personal matters--I advocate a combination of incomplete answers and “disinformation.” The old “I am not at liberty to disclose that” or a less diplomatic “it’s none of your business” can work as well. Not everyone or every question deserves an answer. This is the place where I tell my students to “think for themselves”!

Anyway, hope some of this helps to answer your questions and I look forward to talking more with you and others on here. This has been a most interesting Labor Day break! Tomorrow I take the bike out if it doesn’t rain and Wednesday it’s back to class.

BTW I LOVED your definition of “Quartersexual” from an earlier post!

Later...

[Sigma]

Hi everyone!:D

I have been watching transsexual porn for a while. I find transsexuals attractive. As a christian this has been very hard on me. I don't find men attractive. I do find genetic women attractive. At times I feel confused about who I am.

I have read my reports about this question. Most legitimate doctors and psychologist have said men who like transsexuals are straight.

Transsexuals are very feminine. They look and act like women. However they do have a penis. They were born men. There has been research that supports that Transsexuals are intersex. The research has found many transsexuals have the brain structure of a woman and some have different hormone levels.

[chelsea]

I dont feel guilt

I have no reason too

[DSL]

well i do like girls too so i would say i am a bi male, i go both ways
but no gay here.

[spike_40]

Originally Posted by luvmedo

IF YOU LOVE TOO SUCK ON SHEMALES ARE YOU GAY, OR JUST KINKY. FROM A NON GAY PERSON POINT OF VIEW ANY INSIGHTS TOO THIS ONE

YES
Why, ?? to want, to be with, or have, or whatever, its yes no matter what way you want to look at the question

I did a lot of soul searching when I became interested and no matter what way I looked at it yes I am gay to want a my partner [when I find her]

[Jenae LaTorque]

No, you should not feel guilty at all. Robert Heinlein said that the only sin was hurting others unnecessarily and all other "sins" were invented nonsense. Also that hurting yourself was not a sin, just stupid.

So it is no sin for you to be attracted to Tgirls. However, it may be a sin to allow others, including your family, to know of this. And like some of the members urged above, it is a passion best kept to yourself. Like the old saying says: "what they don't know, can't hurt them."

Can it hurt you? That is only a question you will be able to answer. If you keep this passion where it belongs and do not allow it to rule your life you will be okay. You might meet a Tgirl you fall in love with or you might not. You may only love from afar. While sex is certainly a driving force in most humans, especially the young with their raging hormones; it is not the most important thing. As you grow older, you will find that it becomes less and less important. Life is too short to be feeling guilty about anything as trivial as sex.

[hector.hector]

Some times I do feel little ashamed from it, but i can't help it, I love it

[patron]

there almost needs to be a new category to describe guys that like LBs, aside from bi.

[CuriousGirl]

I've come to an "understanding" with myself about my interest in T-girls, much the same as I did about my first heterosexual encounter; The guy was attractive, a gentleman, and was fun to be with in or out of bed. "OK", I said to myself, "This went better than I had been told to expect." Of course, multiple orgasms during one's first time MIGHT have contributed to the "OK!" There was some guilt after we parted that night but my Irish Catholic grannie had planted that seed from my childhood. Take THAT, Grannie!
The venture into sex with another female was more difficult to reconcile (Grannie again!) but as with my first guy the experience with the girl was romantic, sensual, and orgasmic to boot. I remember thinking to myself "Well, this may take a little more time to get used to." but that first time had been nice in every way so it was easier than I thought to admit to myself that I am bisexual. Now I have a lusty relationship with a wonderful guy as well as one with the girl referenced in this post. I guess at that point I was "Bisexually Monogamous",
Then....Ruh Roh! I was introduced to T-girls via the internet, guided into it by the same girl with whom I first sampled Sapphic love. She, by the way, is still my best friend and lover.
I'd known that T-girls existed and had even been introduced to one in a bar but that was a world that was poles apart from mine. Then, after seeing some truly intriguing images and vids on the 'net I had to admit that I was more than just amused or mildly curious. I was absolutely fascinated! Seeing my first castrated T-girl really made me moist and giddy.
I remember thinking "Grannie will kill me if she ever finds out." Of course, If she'd found out about my first guy OR my lesbian fun, I'd have been dead long before now.
Now that I've become involved with a true T-girl, an Asian who has been castrated as well, I feel I've reached my limit, both morally and in my "comfort zone". In a way, I feel complete.
Guilt? Yes, at every boundary crossed. Resolution? So far, in that I realize that I am what I am.
NOTE: My parents know of my heterosexual love life and my father knows, I suspect, that my GF and I do more than shop, hunt and fish, and have pillow fights but he treats her like a daughter. She adores him as well and would seduce him if she thought she could.
If, however, either parent learned of my Asian "Ladyboy" and the things we do, not to mention my little kink for castration, they'd probably kidnap me and sequester me in a convent located in the Alps.
"Sister Curious"...has a nice ring to it.

Hey! I just realized that I am Trisexually Monogamous!

I did feel guilt until i dated one for a year. She was a woman in every way bar the obvious, and because she was just like any of my previous girlfriends the guilt went away.
I think you need to see shemales as real women who were born in the wrong body, which is mostly the case, and dont dwell on the fact they were born men. You will be fine then.
I sense you have never dated a shemale before, you need to

[Tsluver23]

I am exactly like u except I'm 25 now. My suggestion is go wit the flow. I'm headed to a tranny party on fri

[The_Void]

No. I learnt not to feel guilty for being who I am a long time ago.