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There have been other threads dealing with the type of relationship that men would like with transwomen. Those threads have been rather broad based. This one is specifically about marriage. For those that live where marriage to transwomen is not legal then substitute long term relationship for marriage.

I would like to get responses from both men and genetic women on whether or not you want to marry a transwoman. I would also like to hear from the trans ladies of the site. Do you want to get married or not?


As for myself more than anything I want to marry a transwoman. I?ve known it and felt it for a long time. I?ll be happier than I ever have been in my life when I do marry a transwoman or at the very least live together with a transwoman. I prefer marriage as it affords her a lot of legal protections.
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Tomorrow my partner & I are off to a wedding of two friends
who have been an item for 10 years.
[S. had SRS, 8 years ago & FFS 4 years ago]

So yes this does happen.
In the uk where if you fulfil certain criteria,
You can obtain a GRC gender recognition certificate.
you are able to alter your birth certificate, along with all other documents.
You can then marry a partner who is opposite your adopted gender.

Paradoxically, a GRC will not be granted if you are currently married to a person of the opposite to your birth sex,
as this would be legally same sex marriage for a couple where one partner has obtained a GRC.
Hopefully this anomaly will alter with the incoming government,
then gay male marriages & lesbian marriages will be allowed.


The important thing for any trans
Pre, non or post op
is that the trans background is secondary & incidental
to the main reasons a person wants a long term relationship,,,
That you want to be with the person.

We all want to be loved. ;-)
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I would LOVE to marry a TS. It's been one of my dreams for a long time, i would be so happy...
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It would be nice but seems very unlikely now.
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I am very proud to live in Massachusetts, the first place in the United States where gender was eliminated as an issue in determining whether you can be legally married. If any of our members in other states want to come here and get married (even though it may not be recognized when you get back home), I will gladly throw you a party!
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you can marry it legal everywhere unless you tell the person one of u is transexual.... they dont know unless u tell them
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You can obtain a GRC gender recognition certificate.
you are able to alter your birth certificate, along with all other documents.
You can then marry a partner who is opposite your adopted gender.

Paradoxically, a GRC will not be granted if you are currently married to a person of the opposite to your birth sex,
as this would be legally same sex marriage for a couple where one partner has obtained a GRC.
Hopefully this anomaly will alter with the incoming government,
then gay male marriages & lesbian marriages will be allowed.
Gay marriage is going to now happen in the UK, within the next 4 years:
www.telegraph.co.uk/Gay couples right to marry
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I'm going to be honest. I love tgirls as much as I love women. To me, there's not much that seperates them. But, it all comes down to me wanting to have the traditional family. Having children the old fashioned way. I can't have that with a tgirl, so I'll simply never go out of my way to find a tgirl to marry.

However, I've never loved a tgirl. I've never really had much experience with them. If I did happen to fall in love with one, the answer may be different.
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I'm going to be honest. I love tgirls as much as I love women. To me, there's not much that seperates them. But, it all comes down to me wanting to have the traditional family. Having children the old fashioned way. I can't have that with a tgirl, so I'll simply never go out of my way to find a tgirl to marry.

However, I've never loved a tgirl. I've never really had much experience with them. If I did happen to fall in love with one, the answer may be different.
Are you suggesting that transwomen aren't women? Surely you realize that transwomen are female and therefore women.

It is possible to have a family while married to a transwoman. Adopt children and you will be able to have your family.
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Hypo_Dude has a reasonable point:
He wants to pass on his genes with a partner....
& with a trans that is just not possible.

If that drive is core to a persons desired relationship,
then Hypo_Dude makes a sensible pre-emptive decision.
Why invest time & emotions in a partner
who is physically unable to ever fulfil that thing.

It's not disrespectful to any trans
nor should we take it to be so.
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It could cause some irritating complications with friends and family and so on, but if you love someone, you shouldn't let anything stop you!
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Apart form the procreation issue already mentioned the answer has got to be yes. I know a t-girl I would marry if she would have me.
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Default Guess I will share ,,,,
My lovely ts pinay g/f, last week said 'YES' so she now my fiance . We're not yet certain of our where or when, but is rumored that soon the Philippines will legalize same sex marriage. If not we'll most likely go to Thailand since I think foreigners too can legaly wed ts girls there.
I'm so excited,,, just can't hide it ,,,, as the song goes, lol.
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My lovely ts pinay g/f, last week said 'YES' so she now my fiance . We're not yet certain of our where or when, but is rumored that soon the Philippines will legalize same sex marriage. If not we'll most likely go to Thailand since I think foreigners too can legaly wed ts girls there.
I'm so excited,,, just can't hide it ,,,, as the song goes, lol.
Congratulations and best wishes!
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If not we'll most likely go to Thailand since I think foreigners too can legaly wed ts girls there.
If that is true, Areeya will soon be mine! :D
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My lovely ts pinay g/f, last week said 'YES' so she now my fiance . We're not yet certain of our where or when, but is rumored that soon the Philippines will legalize same sex marriage. If not we'll most likely go to Thailand since I think foreigners too can legaly wed ts girls there.
I'm so excited,,, just can't hide it ,,,, as the song goes, lol.
Congratulations. I'm very happy for both of you.
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Default Thanks All,,,
I appreciate the congrats very much. I had been searching for over 5 yrs to find my 'miss ts right' (or should that be 'miss right ts' lol (?) ), and I was lucky enough to do so last Dec. Since then our relationship, like any other, (esp so for ld 1's) has had it's ups and downs. But we hung tough through those, and are all the better for it.
Thanks again for the congrats amd support.....
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Don't marry someone you can live with.

Marry someone you can't live without.
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There have been other threads dealing with the type of relationship that men would like with transwomen. Those threads have been rather broad based. This one is specifically about marriage. For those that live where marriage to transwomen is not legal then substitute long term relationship for marriage.

I would like to get responses from both men and genetic women on whether or not you want to marry a transwoman. I would also like to hear from the trans ladies of the site. Do you want to get married or not?


As for myself more than anything I want to marry a transwoman. I?ve known it and felt it for a long time. I?ll be happier than I ever have been in my life when I do marry a transwoman or at the very least live together with a transwoman. I prefer marriage as it affords her a lot of legal protections.

Honestly I can not understand you people ...
What does "legally"?
The law is a gateway to a field just go crazy over it ..
Heh heh heh.
If your heart leads you to someone, what is the problem?
Why so insist on a written paper?
So you need the approval of society to love and live with someone?
Strange ...
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Honestly I can not understand you people ...
What does "legally"?
The law is a gateway to a field just go crazy over it ..
Heh heh heh.
If your heart leads you to someone, what is the problem?
Why so insist on a written paper?
So you need the approval of society to love and live with someone?
Strange ...
Legal marriage, in most countries, brings with it certain rights and protections and financial benefits (taxes, for example) that make life easier to handle in a world already difficult enough to navigate.

Further, while it is true that a piece of paper does not prove love between two people, the absence of that piece of paper -- or, more important, the denial of that piece of paper -- creates the opportunity for other people to discriminate.
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Honestly I can not understand you people ...
What does "legally"?
The law is a gateway to a field just go crazy over it ..
I don't think that even my attorney could make sense of that statement...

SMC is correct. A legal marriage provides real (often financial) advantages that simply "living together" doesn't. Not legally recognizing the partnership can also lead to discrimination. Especially in some societies.
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Well this might probably be possible for you.
I'm used to fight against discrimination directly ...
With my fists.

When i go for a walk with a T-girl , usually happens to me having to defend her...
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Well this might probably be possible for you.
I'm used to fight against discrimination directly ...
With my fists.

When i go for a walk with a T-girl , usually happens to me having to defend her...
Well, I guess we can't all achieve the lofty heights of a true whorelover.
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