Here's my question....

[lacey_maxie]

I'm pretty sure that the most of you guys love not only looking at nice lingerie,hosiery and all the stuff but also love wearing it.Possibly some of you are married(like me),some have girlfriends,etc.I love wearing all this nice lacy stuff(that's why my nickname is lacey maxie) and not only.I also love wearing different sorts of ladies' shoes like high heels,boots,etc.Now,my question is:how do you buy it?Or maybe to be more precise,what precaution do you take to avoid any embarassment of being caught by your wife or girlfriend?Whether your order is sent to your home address or your workplace? Personally,I find extremely difficult to order something sexy to be sent straight to my home.I appreciate any comments,tips on this thread

[ila]

Is it possible for you to rent a post office box or something similar to that where you can pick up mail?

[lacey_maxie]

Thanks Ila for the tip.I had the PO box arranged by the Royal Mail(UK) for some time but I had problems with them.The messed up with one delivery at the local depot and the package was sent straight to my home address(this is not a joke) and I was lucky that I was on my own that day,otherwise you can imagine what would happen if my"better half" was at home.Anyway,I decided to cancel the agreement after 6 months as I wanted to avoid any further cockups.So I'm afraid this not a solution for me but again,thanks for your advice

[Arthur]

Definitely a problem and I have looked into the solution as a business proposition. Most of the time the goods are sent back to the post office and I pick them up personally, sometimes they end up in a neighbours hands . There has only been one time when something landed and my wife picked it up (nothing too embarassing and she knows I do have an enema fetish so thats not too bad, I think lacy knickers might have been a step too far, although to be honest if she did a bit of search it would not be that difficult to find them ).

[Cyborg]

Originally Posted by lacey_maxie

I'm pretty sure that the most of you guys love not only looking at nice lingerie,hosiery and all the stuff but also love wearing it.Possibly some of you are married(like me),some have girlfriends,etc.I love wearing all this nice lacy stuff(that's why my nickname is lacey maxie) and not only.I also love wearing different sorts of ladies' shoes like high heels,boots,etc.Now,my question is:how do you buy it?Or maybe to be more precise,what precaution do you take to avoid any embarassment of being caught by your wife or girlfriend?Whether your order is sent to your home address or your workplace? Personally,I find extremely difficult to order something sexy to be sent straight to my home.I appreciate any comments,tips on this thread

What makes you think that most of the guys here love to wear lingerie? I never did such thing.

[cr8tive]

Hey Lacey Maxie.

Have a look around just outside your own area......there are often 'Postal Addresses' for hire.........similar prices as a PO Box.

These 'Postal Addresses' are usually small shops, mostly a newsagents, that offer this service to you. I've used this kind of service in the past with no problems. Have a look around

[lacey_maxie]

Thanks cr8ative

I had a PO box once and I wasn't too happy with the service but thanks anyway for the advice

[lacey_maxie]

Thanks for your comment and I must admit that you were very lucky that your wife didn't find the knickers.I also had a PO Box and despite that the local post depot people messed up with my order by delivering it straght to my home address.I was lucky that I was at home that day as my wife was at work. I have decided to cancel the agreement since then as I don't trust them anymore

[orion]

Hi Maxie ..

Have you considered having your parcel delivered to a reliable & sympathetic friend .. for later collection at a mutually convenient time ?

I went out with a Girl once who had ordered a pair of "Chicken fillets" online ... and had them delivered to me (but addressed in her "Femme" name) ...

The "Postie" queried the name on the parcel (as he knows me) .. but I got round that by telling him it was a surprise "prezzie" for a mate and his wife didn't want him to see it ..

Bye for now,

Orion ..

[T-licious]

Why not just go to a lingerie store, pick out what you want and ask to have it gift wrapped? They'll think it's a present for your mistress (or at least you can delude yourself into thinking so).

[miss_kandy]

hi lacey_maxie

i too adore lingerie and girly clothes and struggled with hiding it from my wife.
well, as many have experienced, the day finally came when she asked me just what it was I was doing with such a collection of lingerie and clothing stuffed in the back of a closet... so I just told her the truth. I told her I loved to wear and preferred to have some cute soft panties on under my jeans than ordinary guys boxers. I expected the worst...but I actually got a pleasant surprise! No yelling... no tears... no throwing me out of the house with a rubbish bag of panties following me! She said she had no problem at all..as I didn't appear to be hurting anyone and in reality - who the hell cares what you have on under! She actually was more upset I hadn't told her - keeping it secret for so long - and suggested we even play dress-ups together!

So maybe this little anecdote may not help you in any way, there could be a possibility that just being slightly open about things...(baby steps at first) could lead to more secure and fulfilling fun later

As for purchasing...I have always bought at department stores and lingerie shops. Before the sales assistant has a chance to look at you differently, just ask "can she exchange these?" or "do you gift wrap?"

Good luck I have been there and it was not easy.

[lacey_maxie]

Originally Posted by miss_kandy

hi lacey_maxie

i too adore lingerie and girly clothes and struggled with hiding it from my wife.
well, as many have experienced, the day finally came when she asked me just what it was I was doing with such a collection of lingerie and clothing stuffed in the back of a closet... so I just told her the truth. I told her I loved to wear and preferred to have some cute soft panties on under my jeans than ordinary guys boxers. I expected the worst...but I actually got a pleasant surprise! No yelling... no tears... no throwing me out of the house with a rubbish bag of panties following me! She said she had no problem at all..as I didn't appear to be hurting anyone and in reality - who the hell cares what you have on under! She actually was more upset I hadn't told her - keeping it secret for so long - and suggested we even play dress-ups together!

So maybe this little anecdote may not help you in any way, there could be a possibility that just being slightly open about things...(baby steps at first) could lead to more secure and fulfilling fun later

As for purchasing...I have always bought at department stores and lingerie shops. Before the sales assistant has a chance to look at you differently, just ask "can she exchange these?" or "do you gift wrap?"

Good luck I have been there and it was not easy.

Hi Miss_Kandy

I really appreciate your advice and You have very understanding wife I must admit but I don't think that the same applies to my wife ,I'm afraid.I know her very well and she wouldn't be very happy about my crossdressing,actually she would be furious.Once she found a pair of knickers in my jacket and I was lucky that the tag was still attached to it(new pair) and it took me plenty of time to convince her that it was a gift for her.But thanks anyway for the advice

[miss_kandy]

hey Lacey!

You are more than welcome... It is a shame about your situation. I guess I am very lucky and I appreciate my better half understanding me. I do hope one day things work out for you

All the best!

[lacey_maxie]

Originally Posted by T-licious

Why not just go to a lingerie store, pick out what you want and ask to have it gift wrapped? They'll think it's a present for your mistress (or at least you can delude yourself into thinking so).

I do that sometimes but it costs me lots of courage.

[aquatoes83]

When I would order things trying to be extremely discreet, generally the online shop will have a comment or additional information box. I would usually ask to use discreet shipping, and not include the name of the company in the return address, maybe replace it with a persons name at the company. This made the "ebay" excuse easier to use, and it never got me caught.