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probably a dumb question
I have been seeing a TG for a few months and as much as I thought it was just a fantasy, I think I'm falling HARD for her. I think she feels the same.
My question is Is there any advice to make it work? I think there have to be sum things that aren't like going out with a GG. Other than the sex part! Like I said probably a dumb question. |
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I don't think there's any difference - the same mechanisms seem to rule relationships no matter what gender or orientation.
Ofcourse, there may be certain typical pitfalls like the ones we have heard about from Bionca among others. And mostly these seem to come from some degree of uncertainty in the guy - maybe his attraction was actually just a sexual fascination, maybe he wants children at some point, maybe the external pressure becomes too overwhelming etc. Alpha omega is the inter personal attraction and sympathy. I admit that I do certainly consider it an extremely important quality in a woman that she's transsexual, however, that's fundamental. On top of that comes all the individual virtues that form a person. All best wishes to you and your girlfriend.
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I really do think the best thing you could do is treat her how you would any other woman. Because that's who she is and that's how she should be treated.
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Treat her nice, be honest with her, listen to her, respect her as her own person, and the little things like flowers and kisses go a long way.
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Bollocks. Treat em mean keep em keen. It's the only way you can guarantee long lasting love.
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Personally I'd love to be treated no different than a GG. Unless some kind of woman abuser.
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If you ask most experts on dating and relationships (not there are any real experts... but the kind of people who write advice columns and so forth), they often mention the remarkable lack of differences between gay and straight relationships, when you get down to the essential aspects. It stands to reason that the same would be true of relationships involving transgendered people would work similarly.
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Completely agree
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Seriously, why should it be *any* different from *any* other relationship - treat them with love and kindness and respect, caress them, kiss them passionately, look deeply into their eyes and open your heart to them, hold their hand, compliment them, read poetry to them by firelight, kiss the nape of their neck while they are getting dressed, be quick to touch them across the dinner table and slow to release them, hold the door for them, hold their coat, hold their purse, keep any connection you can to them, grieve with them, laugh with them, share with them, love with them. In short, woo them as one would woo anyone one adores. |
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Why should we consider her transsexuality an inconvenient technicality? Why not just honestly adore her for that also? As a heterosexual woman adores her man and a homosexual woman adores her girl? Why should we "explain" our attraction to non-ops transsexual women? Why? I don't have a clue why I'm attracted to trans*women, but the fact remains that I am. I don't want to have to explain that. I don't want to have to hide it or to go easy on the terms. The fact is that her being trans is now a CONDITION for my attraction to her. The same way being a man is a CONDITION for the hetero girl to be attracted to him. And being a girl is a CONDITION for the lesbian woman to be attracted to her. I'm sick and tired of having to explain all the time. The fact is that I adore my trans*women and I DON'T want them to be "wannabe cis*girls". I want them to be just as they are. Transsexual women! It's time we learn to accept and appreciate transsexuality for what it really is and not just as an attempt to be bio-women. This world would be considerably poorer without the magic of transsexuality. H
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