questioning my sexuality. a new member

[hymer]

After decades considering myself 100pc hetro i have discovered shemales on the internet! Fantastic. Do i like them cuz I am bisexual and didn't realise it? They are male afterall. Is it because they look female?........I definetely prefer the effeminate gals. I have always had a fond and close relationship with my own penis. Is it that i fancy sucking and wanking another penis? I think so but the idea if sucking the dick of a "standard box car" gay" does not appeal but a penis on the body of a girl does. I like the idea of fucking a shemale ass but not receiving it. My perfect shemale would be one that looks exactly like a girl but has a dick. where does that leave me? Am I bisexual? or just a bit kinky? because i love foot tickling and mild bondage too. Where do these feeling come from? Can anybody give their opinion as I am new to all of this.

P.s. I hope this is not a boring well worn path of discussion for everyone. like the site. They won`t let me download many pics! frustrating. I have pics of my own . How do I upload them?

[mally]

Hymer i think your just a normal guy with normal feelings i know i am

[hymer]

Thanks for the reassurance that was kind of you. To be honest i am not worried about it. However, if we are normal with normal feeling, why aren't there loads of forums with thousands of members? Why does this forum have no downloadable/saveable amateur vid clips? Is it simply that it is very taboo and in the closet for most men?

[DL_NL]

Loads of people think they have to adhere to wat is perceived by the majority as 'the norm'. As soon as we find out that we're allowed to think for ourselves, we discover our (sexual) self.

[Big_Willie]

Yeah, I know how you feel. Before I saw some really sexy shemales, I was like: "shemales? hell no, I ain't gay!". But after browsing on the net and discovering some cool pictures and videos I started to like what I saw. And frankly, I don't think you are gay only because you like shemales. I mean, I still don't like gay sex, at all but I love watching sexy shemales. And if I had the chance, I'd fuck one too, though again I'm like you, I wouldn't let her do the same to me. Sucking her cock and eating her cum could be allright though.

[hymer]

Originally Posted by DL_NL

Loads of people think they have to adhere to wat is perceived by the majority as 'the norm'. As soon as we find out that we're allowed to think for ourselves, we discover our (sexual) self.

I agree with you. However I think that that most people are " the norm" and that they are not interested in this sexuality.

If you try to explain a foot tickling fetish to a "normal" guy you will find they don't understand the appeal.

But, yes, the more people are exposed to new experiences thje more likely they are to discover themselves.

Compulsory rotating shemale screen savers for everyone!!!!

[DL_NL]

'That's not normal, therefore I won't even consider it'.

[ila]

Originally Posted by hymer

They are male afterall.

I disagree. Transwomen are female. They may have been born with some male parts, but they are female.

[hymer]

Originally Posted by ila

I disagree. Transwomen are female. They may have been born with some male parts, but they are female.

Are they? Only some male parts? I thought they had all male parts. Having said that they are different. from males......but is this hormonal only? I hope i am not putting my foot in it as i have never had any direct contact with tranwomen. Don`t some have ops because they physically are male?

Interesting and thanks for contributing.

[ila]

Originally Posted by hymer

Are they? Only some male parts? I thought they had all male parts. Having said that they are different. from males......but is this hormonal only? I hope i am not putting my foot in it as i have never had any direct contact with tranwomen. Don`t some have ops because they physically are male?

Interesting and thanks for contributing.

I should leave this to someone much more qualified to answer this than I. I can only answer from the perspective of having seen several interviews with transwomen. However, a transwoman has a feminine brain (i.e. thinks and feels as a woman does) and in my opinion that is the heart of what makes a woman. I will have to leave my answer at that as I am a male and completely unqualified to answer this wholly.

[hymer]

Originally Posted by ila

I should leave this to someone much more qualified to answer this than I. I can only answer from the perspective of having seen several interviews with transwomen. However, a transwoman has a feminine brain (i.e. thinks and feels as a woman does) and in my opinion that is the heart of what makes a woman. I will have to leave my answer at that as I am a male and completely unqualified to answer this wholly.

mmmh.........so we are born with feminine or masculine brains?......mmmh........yeah......i can dig that.....well done, thanks.

So where does that leave crossdressing or is that something completely different?

[givemets]

don`t think about it too much just enjoy .

[Here2Learn]

Hello everyone

I'm new here, and I'm glad I found a forum like this with so much information about ts-women. I want to find how other men like myself who consider themselves "straight-hetero" and are attracted to transsexual women, grapple with the supposed "sexual irony" / "contradictions" of such an attraction.

I just turned 40 in feb 2013, and I've never, ever, would've imagined, just a few months ago, that I would be so attracted to the idea of having sex, being in a serious relationship, with a transsexual woman. I retired from the US army in 2011, and decided to go on a tour of Latin America looking for a place to settle down. I've never been married, have no children.

In Costa Rica, a few months ago, there was this transsexual woman staying in the same hostel where I was staying at. When I first saw her, I was quite impressed and attracted to her..She was entirely "passable" as far as her appearance..I saw her at the hostel bar, having a drink and using her netbook. I sat near her ( no to close, that's a bit creepy ), and ordered a couple of beers. I asked her if the WIFI was working fine at the bar..And from there on we just started talking.

A few minutes into the conversation, I could tell..by her voice primarily, that she was probably a "guy", a really pretty looking "guy". Well , the macho-man homophobe in me at the time, just couldn't handle it..As beautiful as she was with her long dark brown hair, green eyes, tan, breasts, very attractive face..etc I just "politely" got my self out of the conversation and Just turned around and focused on my beer/s ( I know, rude, stupid..etc).

Well..here I am a few months later in Baja-California / Mexico, where I decided to settle down. I broke up with my girlfriend about a week ago and when I don't have a girl friend, I watch porn to compensate for the lack of puntang. I was surfing around and I came across a video that had this gorgeous amazon woman (she must have been like 6ft+ tall), towering over this muscular guy that was about to f#$% her....

She was standing at an angle where, I didn't see what she actually had between her sexy long legs. Well, in brief, when I saw her Mr Happy, I was shocked..She had already given him oral ( sexy face..), I saw her boobs, butt ( I watched it all, I already had a )..She was perfect, exquisite... then all of a sudden I noticed she was packing a huge sausage . For some reason, which I can't even begin to explain, I continued watching it and I liked it.

For the past few days, I've been watching this type of porn and also reading a lot about transsexual women. Watching YouTube videos about them, their stories..etc I've been, "psychoanalyzing" my self for the past week, trying to figure out how, why, I find myself so attracted to these (what I consider to be) women ( women with male genitalia ). I haven't come to a definitive answer or conclusion on the matter, but these are my thoughts.

#1 .. I like to give anal sex to women..Spread their cheeks open and pound away. Whenever these shemales are being penetrated (other than orally), it's always her rear. They like it..No summit meetings, no negotiating, no resistance , "i don't like it there it hurts"..etc etc These women are "pure anal"..That turns me on.

I love vaginas / vaginal sex, but most of the girlfriends that I've had in the past weren't into receiving anal, and if / when they agreed to it, it was always reluctantly, just to satisfy me. I've only had a few freaky / kinky girlfriends that were into it. So, I figure, part of my attraction to "shemales" is their openness to anal and the fact that whenever I see one on screen taking it, it's always in the "nasty" rather than in the vagina.

#2 .. Shock factor..Something new and taboo.

A penis on a female body, dangling, wiggling all around while she's being pounded in the behind. The masculine, muscular men who are having sex with these shemales, also have penises, butts...I'm not in any way sexually aroused by them. I'm aroused by the female form, receiving anal sex, and her penis rod dangling all over the place.

When I see one of these men sucking on a shemale's or taking it in the behind, I fast forward and move to another part of the scene (it turns me off). Especially seeing a man mounted, as the so called "receptive" partner. But when I see a shemale being mounted and engaged in intercourse, it turns me on. In spite of her penis and testicles. I've even imagined grabbing her penis while I'm pounding her...Kind of like a joy stick. Point it at her boobs and face and squirt her semen all over her body.

I imagined how it would be to suck on it, in order to give her pleasure, but after the thought, I was, grossed out. So, I've come to the conclusion that, I could grab it, jerk her off (while I have intercourse with her or she jerks me off..), but I don't want it in my mouth. I don't want a woman's toes in my mouth either, and yet there are many men who are into feet. I figure we all have our own personal likes and dislikes when it comes to this.

So, the shock factor..That was # 2..Something new and taboo that I've never experienced before. The contrast between the female form/body and , sparks up my brain. Maybe it's the familiarity of the penis? I have a penis? I touch my penis? I've had a penis for 40 years..I don't know

#3 Many of these "shemales" in the porn videos, look better than "gg" women / genetic women.

They're tall, long legs, great asses, some have big boobs, their wide hips..etc They're amazon women!


As far as me being gay or bi, I doubt it. If I were I wouldn't have a problem with it. I am what I am and I wouldn't be ashamed of it. However, I'm 40 years old, at my age, most of us are pretty comfortable and know what we want sexually. I know I don't want a man, I'm attracted to women...even women with . Put the same dick on what looks like a man and I go .. Just doesn't do it for me. Attach it to an amazon woman, who likes to take it in the "nasty" and it's a .

Alright folks, I know this was a very long post..I'd like to learn something from some of you, so I'd really appreciate your input/insight.

[Boner]

Your post reminded me of myself when I first started appreciating t-girl porn. At first I would try to block out the gir's penis and concentrate on her other features. But as time went by I got more and more comfortable seeing them and began to enjoy it. The sight of guy's penis does nothing for me but put one on a beautiful girl and you've got my attention. In fact, I pretty much gave up regular porn in favor of girls with something extra.

[Boner]

As a follow up- I remember when I first took a serious interest in tgirls I brought home Gia Darling's "Transexual Heartbreakers 5"". It was in one of those giant boxes VHS tapes used to come in and after seeing Gia on the cover I HAD to see more. I'd seen shemale porn before, even jacked off to it once or twice, but this was different.

Anyway, the tape started with the beautiful Gia introducing the first. Even though she was fully clothed and just talking I thought Gia was just about the sexiest lady I'd ever seen. So the first scene comes on and it features Johanna B who would become one of my all time favorites. She struts on to the set and her male costar immediately begins blowing her. I was absolutely grossed out and shut the tape off immediately even though I had a raging hardon. I was thoroughly shaken up and vowed I'd never watch that kind of thing again.

Now I'd with Johanna any day!

[TimCurry]

Homer, I feel the very same as you and there is nothing at all wrong in that I have tried sex with another man and it was not as interesting, or appealing as my imagination let on! But with a shemale, I am head over heals crazy about sucking her cock and make love to them. Perfectly normal. There are no rules anymore. Everyone is different. And just because they may have a cock does na
To make them male. Biologically yes, but they identify as a woman and live as such - so they are women and should be respected as one.

[ross]

I know a guy i used to work with who liked woman/men/pre op and post op ts ladies and cross dressors/hermaphrodites and had been with them all many a time- maybe he's whatever the word is for 6 sexual?

[TSloverboid]

Originally Posted by hymer

After decades considering myself 100pc hetro i have discovered shemales on the internet! Fantastic. Do i like them cuz I am bisexual and didn't realise it? They are male afterall.

Uh these ladies are NOT male.

[tamtam]

Originally Posted by hymer

After decades considering myself 100pc hetro i have discovered shemales on the internet! Fantastic. Do i like them cuz I am bisexual and didn't realise it? They are male afterall. Is it because they look female?........I definetely prefer the effeminate gals. I have always had a fond and close relationship with my own penis. Is it that i fancy sucking and wanking another penis? I think so but the idea if sucking the dick of a "standard box car" gay" does not appeal but a penis on the body of a girl does. I like the idea of fucking a shemale ass but not receiving it. My perfect shemale would be one that looks exactly like a girl but has a dick. where does that leave me? Am I bisexual? or just a bit kinky? because i love foot tickling and mild bondage too. Where do these feeling come from? Can anybody give their opinion as I am new to all of this.

P.s. I hope this is not a boring well worn path of discussion for everyone. like the site. They won`t let me download many pics! frustrating. I have pics of my own . How do I upload them?

I think the definition of "bisexual" is good but not perfectly right.
A better definition could be "imperfect bisexual" or "bisexual with hetero orientation".
A pure "bisexual" must like males, and you don't like males but Females AND females with dick, right?

[aguy]

If you like both guys and girls then you're bisexual.

If you like shemales you're just...a shemale lover.Not bisexual if you don't like men.

I like girls and I also like shemales.I'm both active and passive because I like a cock in my ass but only if it's a shemale cock.

I never liked men,just shemales.

Don't torture yourself

[smc]

Originally Posted by aguy

If you like both guys and girls then you're bisexual.

If you like shemales you're just...a shemale lover.Not bisexual if you don't like men.

I like girls and I also like shemales.I'm both active and passive because I like a cock in my ass but only if it's a shemale cock.

I never liked men,just shemales.

Don't torture yourself

My trans friends would not appreciate you differentiating them from girls.

[aguy]

Originally Posted by smc

My trans friends would not appreciate you differentiating them from girls.

I know they feel like girls and that's what they are,they just have a cock.So your friends would actually appreciate me because I'm the last person on earth to judge anyone.

[smc]

Originally Posted by aguy

I know they feel like girls and that's what they are,they just have a cock.So your friends would actually appreciate me because I'm the last person on earth to judge anyone.

What they'd appreciate is you not making the differentiation in your earlier post, using those words, even if it's not what you really mean.

[tamtam]

Originally Posted by smc

My trans friends would not appreciate you differentiating them from girls.

The difference between tgirls and girls is in the penis.
A tgirl that don't like this difference must be go to surgery.....and she will be an infertile woman, that was a 100% woman with a little handicap........not a very good result, IMHO.
IMHO for me, in my sexual view, a tgirl is in some ways better than a woman, in no ways worst than a woman, and in most ways absolutely equal to a woman.