being together without losing her

[crsd1970]

Through some business contacts at my office I have met a wonderful girl . Although she was born in a male body through her efforts and determination she's become the beautiful confident woman she is today. At first I was struck by her features to be honest, but over time I've gotten to know her, and we've found common traits, like interests and senses of humor and ways to look at the world.
She is absolutely beautiful and I think the world of her. She eventually told me that she was a TS woman, which I proudly thought was a sign she wanted to know me better.
I confess my first interest in Transsexuals was through films, but now that I'm in my 30s and after meeting her I'm really looking to have a straight Man -TG woman relationship. She has also mentioned at times she likes the idea of marriage, and that she might one day adopt children ("If I meet the right guy" she told me).
I have doubts because in my heart of hearts I really want to have intimate relations between us, but I'm not sure if she is keen. We have kissed and even made out, but I'm having constant thought of Finally being with her the way it should be: a man and a woman making love. I think I'm falling for her, and I'd like a future together, but If I mention my sexual urges I think I might lose her. How can I solve my problem?

Sounds like you have a met a wonderful lady and you two like each other and you?re letting things proceed naturally. Obviously she has told you she is transsexual and knows you are OK with her. Also you mention that you have kissed and ?made out.? I wouldn?t hurry or force the issue of sex--not that I am any ?expert? or anything it?s just that what is ?right? differs from couple to couple and when you two are ready it will happen.

Best wishes to you and your friend!

[The Conquistador]

I'd wait until you are asked about such desires. It is always best to err on the side of caution.

[crsd1970]

First of all, thank you to those that gave advice. I can tell you that I did talk to her, and she got kinda emotional because I said I was afraid to hurt her, which got me emotional as well. We went out and had a long conversation, but let me just say that we are now both on the same page. And, she told me openly that my fears were all wrong.
I'd rather keep the details to ourselves, but let me just say that we had the most intimate and downright beautiful experience you can probably have as a couple. I'll let you know how it all develops, but I'm so glad I told her how I felt . Thanks to all for your advice.

[merelypink]

be carefull so you dont get hurt

[franalexes]

A man chases a gurl until she catches him....

open conversation will always be the best way to go , people that talk are people who can be together

[JodieTs]

Go with the flow.
You come across as a really nice person.

It sounds all good and yes her telling you about her "T".....yes that is a huge deal & an expression of her trust in you.

I wish you all the best as do the others reading this,

Misha. xxx