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New to this and a little nervous
A few nights ago I stumbled upon a TS/ladyboy website and noticed I was turned on by the TS. I'm a straight guy that has never liked men
(in fact i'm married to a female), so I did a little research online about men who like TS and noticed that the majority seem to be or claim to be straight. I'm really glad I found transladyboy.com, this forum has really helped me feel better about my love for TS. It's the third night since I discovered this fascination and I'm a little nervous. It's all new and weird to me and I'm just trying to cope, maybe I'm just thinking too much. Are any of you living through this love for TS secretly like me and have you ever gotten depressed/scared by these feelings? PS - Ladyboy Lee is one of the hottest women (TS) I have ever seen!!! |
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Being attracted to ladyboys does not make you gay - very few gays, in fact, are atracted to ladyboys. Obviously, since a ladyboy is a girl.
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You are not alone.
There are lots of men and women out there who understand fully what you are going through, myself included. My own wife is a very open minded and accepting individual on all levels, but even she is creeped out by shemales and so forth and thus my arousal for them.
Unfortunately it has pushed this aspect of my sexuality into hiding, which is never a healthy thing, but necessary under the circumstances. I have given up worrying about whether or not I am "gay" or "straight" or "bi" because of this, and I have a new way of looking at it. We label things to make them easier to understand, but just because we try to put the human being into a fixed category it doesn't mean it will fit. If you like vegetables, it doesn't mean you are a vegetarian. So my advice to you is to relax and enjoy, you've just discovered a whole new world of sensation and experience! |
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to answer your question, yes.. you obviously havn't looked around at the other posts.. there is plenty of talk about this.. in fact like you, when i first joined i posted a similar topic to this one. i too am straight and had trouble understanding my desire for tgirls
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I realised after a long time of ignoring the fact that (apart from liking ordinary girls), I am extremely curious about transexual girls. They make me rock hard horny and I have been applying my intellect to understanding whats happening and what this means.
So I'm new to this too and discovered this site while researching TS porn and other information Unlike you I'm not married so its not so complicated. I dont know how married men feel about this ? Do they cheat on their wives ? or do they have understanding wives? I am trying to figure out how to have my first discreet transexual experience. It aint easy. I ve never been even close to one before. I dont feel right now anyways that I want to go public especially as I dont know what my role is in all of this. And the rest of my life is completely normal. It would shock a lot of people who would never guess this about me. This fact makes me nervous too. Last edited by inadaze; 09-06-2007 at 10:54 PM. Reason: typo i didnt see when posting |
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Why not just go for it? There's nothing neither dangerous nor abnormal about having a good relationship with a transsexual woman. Surely, there may be a little whispering in the corners but the major hurdle is the one you impose on your self :-) |
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Honestly I've wanted to end our marriage for a while but i don't want to hurt her, like I said it's complicated. Oh well I guess I'll have to settle for TS porn and jerking off while she's at work or sleeping. |
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i could care less, gay or straight. i'm embracing it.
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I too am new to this. Not new to jerking off over shemales, ladyboys and tranny's but discussing my fantasies with like minded people. I've read a few of the posts and it apprears that i'm not the only one struggling with the issue of being attracted to a woman with a cock. Don't get me worng I love my women, but boy arn't girls with nutts so f**king hot.
ps: i don't see any fans of Allanah Starr |
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I've been jerking to shemales probrably since I knew how to mastrubate. I know exactly how you feel. Can't really let anyone else know about this fetish though because people automatically assume it makes you gay/bi to like trannies..
I used to just like the idea of a female with a penis, but it sorta turns me on now, just the idea to know a girl used to be a guy |
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When I was younger, I used to go out with this gorgous Tgirl who was a total flirt. If we were in a club and she'd had a few drinks she used to love getting chatted up by unsuspecting guys. Sometimes I'd come back from the toilet and she'd be on the dancefloor with some bloke and his hands would be all over her! I'd get really jealous and often things nearly came to blows but I have to admit I was really turned on also. We'd always end up back at mine and the sex was so much better with those thoughts running through my head.
Even to this day, I always get turned on if my current partner gets male attention. Just a glance or a little comment made by a guy towards my girl and I get hard. |
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Ive had a lot of ladyboy girlfriends.......all very pretty.
I love sex with a ladyboy........much better than a girl. Believe me.........ladyboys are a lot better than girls.......in lots of ways. go fo it......and have fun Kelly |
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aaaggh.... it feels bullshit but Shemales.... let her cum into my mouth Quote:
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I quite like the ladyboys, but I dont think of myself as being gay.
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Nice to know I'm not alone. I've always been attracted to women, but found myself indifferent to breasts & vaginas (go figure)! Discovering t-girls was like having an epiphany. I'm not attracted to men, but I've occasionally been attracted to very effeminate men. Makes life a bit confusing, except for when I'm in the presence of beautiful LB. No confusion then.
Best to you, brothers. |
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same, totally attracted to ladyboys, girls and girly guys...its a bit weird how it works out...but when i pop up, i pop up and cant control it!haha
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I have been looking at TS porn for about a year now and I am becoming obsesed with the thought of taking the next step. Besides online escort sites I'm not really sure how to go about it, any suggestions?
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most beautiful ladyboy's there, along with the PI! You will never look back, I guarantee you
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I certainly am NOT gay. I'm not sexually attracted to men in any way, shape, or form. In fact, it turns me off big time to even consider it. I wouldn't even consider myself bi-sexual. Men flat out do nothing for me.
Women on the other hand are a different matter, they turn me on, I like to look at them, I like to touch them, smell them, taste them, and more. I do enjoy BDSM, and strap-on play is one of the activities I enjoy, and what better way of enjoying strap-on play than with the real thing. All things aside, you need to consider that Ladyboys, Shemales, or whatever you want to call them are human beings just like the rest of us. There's a lot more to them then cocks and tits. Look past the sex organs, and see them for their human side. You'll see a person with likes and dislikes, hopes and dreams, and goals just like the rest of us. Just like the others suggest, kick back, accept your situation, and be grateful that you've just increased your opportunities for relationships....and sex. |
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I dont like crossdressers but the sight of a lovely lady boy really turns me on
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I hate to put the same cookie cutter labels on everything, but I don't think it makes you gay. For instance, I love women (I have a girlfriend, at the moment), and ladyboys turn me on. However, crossdressers and normal men do nothing for me. In fact, they usually repulse me (in a sexual way). So, I think there's definitely something in particular about ladyboys that seperates them in the mind. It truly is the best of both worlds, and because of this I think that's it would be difficult for a gay man to be attracted to them.
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Me too bro!
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so...
....I´m not the only one to feel this way
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I don't think its gay but who cares
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is my love of ladyboys a secret? for now, yes, but i will tell people when im ready. am/was i scared or depressed about these feelings? hell no. im not gay and i know im not. i was a bit confused at first ill admit (didnt know if i was gay straight bi shemale in denial or what) but i know what i am now and im not ashamed of it. you will probably call me a hypocrite saying 'if your not ashamed then why is your love for shemales a secret' well thats quite simple - im not emotionally ready to tell my family that i like them. hell my girlfriend is a shemale who lives in Cebu, Philippines and enters/wins beauty pageants and i love her, and will probably marry her one day.
if your feeling guilt/depression about how you feel about ladyboys then im thinking either deep down you think its wrong and you really dont feel that way about them, or you are feeling guilt and regret because you are torn between your wife and the possibility of meeting a ladyboy and being happy. thats just my 2 cents though
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I am the kind of guy who wants to pleasure someone I am sexually attracted to.
If I can make a regular woman cum, or a shemale cum, it's all good. It makes me feel like I am a good lover. Of course I'd want someone to return the favor, but it's not mandatory. I would get off on getting someone else off. If a beautiful gal just happens to have a penis, that is her pleasure point. I will suck on that penis like a giant clit. But I will give her what I would enjoy someone doing to my penis, after all, males are the only ones that knows exactly how to please a penis (and women, the clit) because we got one, and have had plenty of practice, lol. Her shooting a load is a sign of an orgasm. (I know, a man can ejaculate without reaching orgasm, but a person can usually tell by body clues, I guess, and usually that's if stimulation is stopped too soon) And I would enjoy bring the person pleasure. Technically, I may be bi-sexual, if you go by biology, but if you go by mind, it's still straight sex. |
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I like you are new to this but have been turned on by t girls for a long time, and have alot of fantasys about being with one, i have jerked off alot watching vids.. and would love nothing more than to be with one. i watch alot of vids in another web site, and wow it just runs me on..and im stright i do not think of my self as gay nor am i.. gladi found this site and look forward to psoting more and chatting with you all..
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Cock of shemale is what fascinates. The other part just imitates woman, which is just about normal.
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As an adult webmaster i can tell you that we market tranny niche to straight guys... Any webmaster affiliate program that has their tranny site listed under the "Gay" niche is wrong.
Now that doesnt mean there's not alot of gays or bisexuals who like to fuck shemales, it just means that generally, tranny lovers consider themselves to be straight. On the other hand, the other night when my GF and I were at the fuck show, her TS friend who was with us (as a spectator) ended up going home for a threesome with 2 Swedish guys she met on the 'gay gogo' bar road. Now correct me if I'm wrong, but we can assume since these guys were 'gay gogo' bar groupies, they were a little gay. I mean, no straight guy would hang out there with his buddies, would they? The debriefing we got was they fucked bareback all night, did some yaba (like ecstasy meets speed), and they were kind enough to give her $65 for her troubles. Although she's getting over a relationship and would have done it for free, she lucked out and got paid for it even though she wasn't directly out for it. I love Thailand. |
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Your not alone....in the last few months I have seem to become more and more attracted to shemales. I have not had an experience with one yet and hopefully by registering to this site I can fullfill my fantasy.....by the way is anyone near the Washington DC area?????
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Well you might if you're specifically looking for shemales. In places like Thailand it might be easy to find them anywhere and everywhere but elsewhere it's extremely difficult.
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i don't consider myself gay,i don't even consider myself bisexual.I mean i don't check out guy's when i'm outside,i check out and date females.Still,i enjoy looking at shemales and jerking off to them.The mind is a complicated thing so i don't bother making sense of any of it,i just let it happen and try to enjoy the ride.lol
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I too am 'straight'. i am attracted to, an turned on by women, but their is a strange desire for the cock!?
this sounds odd i know, but i love women, will only ever sleep with women, but love cock!! this leaves me in a strange situation! women, with a cock? YES YES YES, but where? this is a shemale lovers eternal challenge!
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I had my fist shemale late in life. Before this I had many short term girlfriends. I found them to be sexually unfulfilling. Since I discovered my passion for shemales, I had no desire to go back to ggs. So you can lable me straight, gay or what ever but I consider myself to be me.
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I agree with most of the people here. I consider myself straight, but like to hookup with shemales once in a while. They really are great.
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I don't like to put labels on activities or people. What someone may think of me does not matter. I like ladyboys/shemales/tgirls (or whatever they like to be called). They are all so beautiful. I will also not judge anyone else on their preferences - be it gay, straight, lesbian, or shemale lover. It doesn't affect me and sexual preference is not contagious. A person is just who they are and can no more change their sexual feelings than a leopard can change its spots.
Outside of this forum no one knows that I like shemales. Nor does anyone outside of this know of my great desire to suck shemale cock and to be penetrated by them. Someday I may tell someone, but that is a great unknown. |
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Again, a newbie here. I am finding all this enlightening. I had no idea that so many felt the same or similar as I have. I am glad to have found this site. Wishing everyone here the best and thank you for opening my eyes. I don't feel so alone anymore. Thank you all!
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I'm bi or poly, or maybe pan, I prefer in order of preference:
tgirls/ladyboys (non/pre op) ggirls/post op tgirls/lbs fem guys (particuarly thai's/asians) realy hot normal guys (male model types, but not big and muscular or camp) I only date tgirls though, and would love to marry one someday. I'm totaly out and guilt free, guess what i've found? NOBODY CARES! Seriously most people don't bat an eyelid. |
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I'm straight never did anything with a dude but im totally fascinated by this!
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