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hurleur · #1 05-11-2010

I have been seeing a shemale for a while now. I pay for the service but the encounter is always very passionate (more than the other paid experiences i have had) and we get on well. I would like to see if i can take this out of the paid service experience but not sure how to do that.

Like suggesting to go for drinks?

what do you guys think; any similar experience?

JodieTs · #2 05-11-2010

Well I'm on the other side of this so to speak
[Ts Escort]

"In for a fall" is a saying which comes to mind....
You pay us to make you feel the experience really means something. We are sexual actresses, so it will probably never be more than a pay date for you.

Then again, 2 years ago I had an invite for a coffee in a local deli from a client
(we met once professionally, the previous moth, & really clicked big time)
He made it clear he only had 30 minutes for a social coffee.
Well, we met for a coffee or lunch 3 more times,
before he started to book another session with me.
I advised him that I could no longer see him as a client,
as I now viewed him as a friend
and that any further sexual liaison was now "friends with benefits"

We are now really close. & he is now single
but I'm now with my current partner for the last year.
They know about each other & sort of tolerate this.

TBH, I've got the best here, as I like them both a lot.

If he had been single 2 years ago, then we would now be an exclusive item
[relationship wise]

hurleur · #3 05-11-2010

Thanks Jodie.

So why is she asking for more at the end of the 'session' when we both came? some sexual acting, again?

I see what you mean. this type of relationship can get complicated.

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JodieTs · #4 05-11-2010

I do that with a lot of my clients
Its called going that extra mile, which most escorts don't do.
So we stay in your mind as special, & different to the other escorts you may have seen.
It makes you more likely to be a repeat client.

Simples.

IronCity · #5 05-11-2010

I say if you are interested in a real relationship/dating..... just ask her.At least then you know where you stand, right? The worst she can do is say no and if your still into her it can remain a payed sexual encounter.