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When I first found out that my boyfriend was watching shemales I was a little upset. See I knew he was watching porn and like alot of woman at first felt a bit insecure, but that was because he was jerking off to porno more then he was having sex with me. I felt (at the time before I knew of the shemales) I can not compete with these beautiful woman he is jerking off to. When I found out he was jerking off to shemales, well I said some not so nice things and told him I thought I couldn't compete with the woman you were jerking off to now I know I can't compete because I don't have a dick. Then I asked him if he was bisexual or something. Plus a few other things...
His response was he bought the dvd for me. See what I had done after I found his dvd "she d!cks" Well I went online and bought a shemale dvd and a pretty regular dvd. He kept watching the shemale dvd. I got upset and I threw both the dvds away. Then he obviously went out and bought another dvd. So we had gotten into a big argument and I asked him if I could look in his truck. He wouldn't let me. Well the next night he said...Want to look in my truck..I knew he had moved or gotten rid of the dvd. So yeah I looked and there was nothing in there. But the next day I found "F***ed by a shemale" That's when I had said the not so nice things to him. He said he bought that dvd for me. Which I knew was a lie. I knew he was trying to hide the truth from me. So I went online and read a bunch of stuff on men who like shemales and such. I also read about why men watch porn.
Now that I have a better understanding, well I am more accepting. However, my boyfriend is still hiding his true feelings. Which I don't understand why. I have told him I am here if he needs to talk.
I know I probably should have gone about it a different way from the begining and he still probably fears that if he tells me the truth that I will up and leave him.
In many of our conversations I told him if he can't be honest with me. (cause he pretty much denies he likes shemales) and I found out later that he is lying to me and can't be open and honest with me..The shemale obsession won't be the reason I leave but I will leave cause he can not find it in himself to be open and honest with me. Right now that I know of he doesn't have any shemale porn or any porno for that fact.
But to sit there and blame me for the reason he bought it and blame me for us not having sex well....I had been through that in my first marriage and will not go through it again...
Not all woman are as open to the subject shemales and the men who love them. But I can tell you this...If my bf and I hadn't been together as long as we have and I didn't love him as much..Yeah I would have left..But that is apart of him and I accept that. Woman are more open and accepting to things more then men realize it. When we love someone so much...we accept things that when the love isn't as strong. I told my bf if I didn't accept that of you, why would I still want to marry you? Which is a whole other topic
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BTW is there any more females here?
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It's no wonder he clams up about it after your verbal onslaught and integration of his life, he probably feared the consequences afterwards, now hes afraid to say too much, as ive said its a big stigma for men.
I think you need to give him a some space for little while, his head is probably all over the place.
Watching porn for men is no big deal its just a sexual release, doesnt mean they are cheating.
I now you feel upset by it, when ive watched porn with my gf and shes got aroused by some guy in the video ive become a little insecure and upset, but i know at the end of the day it me who she cares for and its just a porn movie, just fantasy.
You have to accept we all have our secret desires and fantasies outside of our relationships, it normal and there's nothing wrong with that.
He might want this to be privet, mabey he doesnt want to shear it with you, is that so bad, can you accept it if it is what he wants?

My question for you - How do you think my gf will react if she found out i like shemales, how would she feel about me?
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I can not really say how your girlfriend would react..Personally if she loves you and cares for you and you have time together....I would say something like..I watched this show today and there were shemales on there...and a guy told his girlfriend and she was completely accepting of his "obsession" see what she says...if she says gross...blah blah blah..then you might just have to keep it a secret...If she says anything that leads towards acceptance..then tell her....I love my bf and even if he wanted to wear womans cloths or whatever it maybe..I would accept him.
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I like the fact that you are so open (well sounds like now you are) and I like your little picture of a strap on...I used to watch a lot of lesbian porn involving strap ons and I guess after that I moved to watching shemales. My wife has used a strap on on me so I think she might be open to the idea of me liking to watch shemales...what do you think? She is very open and always ready for new ideas but i dont know if this one is maybe too much. I would love it if she watched shemale porn with me and just make it our fantasy.
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I think if she has used a strap on, on you before then I don't think she would be horrorfied by the idea that you like shemales.
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I had dated this guy awhile back after my divorce. There was something about him...We got along so great...Everything was perfect and stupid me I started to fall for him. He was "different" then most men. I really haven't been with alot of people..my current bf is the 3rd person I have ever been with. But anyways. This guy I was dating...He was very fem...He shaved his arms and legs...Though I have seen men do that. So I didn't give it a second thought. He also had long nails and I thought cause he was on the chubby side..well I figured that's why he had boobs..Not big but they were there. Well one day I went over to his house and he was completely dressed as a woman...I mean completely. He looked wonderful and everything..I kept my date and even a few weeks after that we were still seeing each other. I accepted him. I cared for him a great deal and if that's what he wanted to do then I am all for it. He told me he wanted to become a woman...He would start out by getting boobs and he said he would have to wait to get his packaged "removed" that he would basically be a shemale before that happened. I told him I would accept him and support him in anything he wanted to do. Well later one down the line...He just slowly kept going away...not calling etc...I later found out that he did that because I was too good to be true. But to be honest I think it went much further then that. After I found out well...He was talking about being with men. So I think that's what he wanted....
I wanted to understand what he was going through so I went to a TS/TG forum and there I met someone and we talked about everything and such...We have been friends for 3 years I guess. On this forum I seen where alot of men who have actually gotten boobs, and have beautiful faces and still have a package, they have "fallen in love" with themselves and have changed their mind about going through with srs. ( though some still go through it....anyways...Alot of men who do become tg feel there is no one out there that would love them because they have fem uppers and male bottoms....
I know I can not be the only woman out there that would accept their partner for their love of shemales.
I love my boyfriend and have since the first day I layed eyes on him. I accept anything and everything about him....The only thing I could never accept is..If I found out he was with a shemale or another woman while we have been together....Other then that...I am open and I feel very accepting....
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