I'm slightly worried about the emerging tone here

[hankhavelock]

This forum has miraculously survived and even developed in a quite frank spirit with generally good-natured postings. And it has done so in spite of the fact that there seems to be two completely separate discussions going on. One about "who has the biggest she-dick", another about more substantial matters - wonderful.

That is not only unique (I've never witnessed another forum like this - and trust me, I know a few :-), it's also important for the brand of this forum. We appear to be able to co-exist in happy recognition of each other - despite our differences.

Lately, however, I think the tone among certain posters is becoming increasingly hostile. That must be avoided as that is the root of any forum's inevitable downfall.

Something quite unique has been created here solely by the intelligent contributors, and I hope this can remain an open-minded forum for broad-minded discussions among folks who may view things differently but who still have the intention of being nice and even the sense to back down when hostility emerges.

We don't really need a forum that is at war.

Think about it everybody!

Peace!

HankyPanky