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Old 09-24-2009
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Hi my name is birth name is Dan, but i wanna be Elizabeth.Recently i have seriously begun considering become mtf. I am 24 and dont want to become to old and too male before the hormones have a chance to help me.I have always wanted to be a girl since about 10, my mind jus always thinks from a female perspective. I never cd'd b/c i have a large family and didnt want to get caught. but i finally scheduled a appt with a gender therapist next week and would like to start hormones maybe. problem is i work construction and would certainly lose my job and still live with my parents. i have about 30,000 saved up but the transition would consume everything and leave me broke. Also i have five brothers and sisters and would feel bad/embarrassed to tell the i am tg. Anyone have any similar experience/advice? i've also never been with a guy but really want to and wont do it till i start to transition. so confused !?!
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That is way to much to try to handle all at once. Do this one step at a time. There is no rush. True, HRT is most effective when you are younger. That said, you are not exactly in a position where you can safely transition.

My advice: See your therapist and talk about all your different issues. Use some of your money to move to your own place. I don't know where you are living, but I know a couple trans women in the US who work construction - so that could work out for you.

Use your therapist to set goals and work through your family and your shame in telling your siblings. There is nothing to be ashamed about in transitioning.

It is easy to see the big picture and all the things you need/want to do. It gets overwhelming and is so often the cause of TGs to just give up. Take things slowly and move at your own pace in a direction you are comfortable.
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Bionca nailed it on the head, You have to take it one step at a time you have to be strong i wish you luck
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i met my gender therapist and im goin to start hrt. in the end i jus need to make myself happy. thank you.
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be careful though, I was passing through the same things (I'm 18 now) and, to be honest, it could be confusing.

First, I STRONGLY reccomend that you see a psychologist and that you get help from him. With this, I don't want you to think I'm sayig you're crazy, but the psychologist could give you a very good help with your decisions, and he could become your support for all this.

Don't start HRT yet, seriously, you need to see a therapist before doing all this stuff so you can make sure that you want to do this.

Whatever you do, I wish you the best of luck! and may the force be with you
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years ago i had an opportunity to win drag crown. i imagine audience had to be moved wanting offer me that royality symbol. unfortunately i canot afford transition and feel canot be fully proud of.

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