Having a relationship with an escort ? yes

[hankhavelock]

Having a relationship with an escort ? yes

There?s another myth I would like to puncture ? namely the one that once an escort, always an escort ? aka ?you can take the girl out of the bar, but you cannot take the bar out of the girl?.

This is a myth that flourishes on many fora ? and it is untrue ? clear and simple. Also (and maybe especially) when it comes to trans-escorts. Btw, why would I necessarily WANT to take the bar out of her?

It is most likely a myth by men who would have trouble finding a woman (of whatever gender) anyway, is my thesis. Thus, they naturally turn to being bitter and nasty. Anyways... never mind them...

Admittedly, I?m not a guy who has roamed the bordellos for sex ? none the less, I probably know more (about) escorts than most ? I have most likely more escorts as my deepest friends than most ? and I have presumably had more very deep and honest love-relations with escorts than most. Not as a client but as a man.

Why? Perhaps because I consider escorting and being a hooker a highly respectful job ? especially if the girl likes it, of course. That would go for any job.

If we take love out of the equation just for now: my absolutely best friend who is currently overseeing my company and my entire stay in this part of the world is, indeed, an escort. A ladyboy escort. Successful and gorgeous ? and never did I receive greater loyalty and friendship. It goes back since I came here. She?s the only one I fully trust. In Asia you quickly learn to mind your money ? my trans-friends and among them escorts have been the most trustworthy and loyal.

The old punters (a ?punter? is a person who uses the services of a prostitute) would now say: yes, you?ve just been lucky and besides, Hank, you?re an asshole, a bleeding heart liberal and we dislike you... Well, the bule/farang punters for sure mostly dislike me, because I dare challenge their socalled ?wisdom? (and basically, they consider me an idiot who has not understood even the tiniest bit of anything) ? which is based on an economy-trip to the tropics (or maybe 20 economy-trips once they get smitten), so I cannot take that too seriously ? I cannot deny it either that I?m most certainly an arrogant prick with an attitude. And I normally don?t find the ?punter-wisdom? particularly wise ? not because they are punters, but because they often make their own limited experiences into ?gospel? ? the same way muslim radicals do, actually ? and don?t u dare challenge their limited little sphere of ?knowledge?...

But the fact remains, again by my empirics, that escorts are, indeed, most often sweeter, kinder and tons much deeper than their non-escort sisters.

Have I been lucky? You bet. And am I using my experiences as my statistical foundation ? right again.

Shoot at me now!

Peace

H

PS: I used to be active here a few years ago - tonight I just felt an urge to post again. I expect most to disagree - that's usually the deal.

[aguy]

I've been visiting brothels for over 10 years now

I also had sex with a large number of escorts all of which where quite fine.

Having a relationship with an escort? That's a no...

No need to elaborate,just don't do it!

Sure you can get lucky but there's a big chance you won't!

(The best sex I had so far was with an escort by the way)

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by aguy

Having a relationship with an escort? That's a no...
No need to elaborate,just don't do it!

Very wise words.
Most Escorts have long term partners who would get really pissed off
with any punter trying to form a non-commercial relationship
with their other half.

[aguy]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Very wise words.
Most Escorts have long term partners who would get really pissed off
with any punter trying to form a non-commercial relationship
with their other half.

I KNOW most escorts already have partners.I never said otherwise.

And I know how much escorts like stupid clients who try to form relationships with them (easier to take more money from these poor guys)

That's exactly why I said it's NOT a good idea for a client to try to form a relationship with an escort.

Simple as that.

[hankhavelock]

These replies and words to their effect are EXACTLY what was expected - guys with a whore-house religion that to them is gospel. It's amazing!

Let's hear some more wisdom...

And I really appreciate your responses, gentlemen, I really do... :-) Please continue!

Thx

H

[aguy]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

These replies and words to their effect are EXACTLY what was expected - guys with a whore-house religion that to them is gospel. It's amazing!

Let's hear some more wisdom...

And I really appreciate your responses, gentlemen, I really do... :-) Please continue!

Thx

H

Clearly you're missing the point

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by aguy

I KNOW most escorts already have partners.I never said otherwise.
And I know how much escorts like stupid clients who try to form relationships with them
(easier to take more money from these poor guys)
That's exactly why I said it's NOT a good idea for a client to try to form a relationship with an escort.
Simple as that.

No, most 'sussed' Escorts, {Both Trans & Bio}
will avoid these types of clients like the plague.
They are needy, demanding and feel their payment of fee/repeated fees
gives them some special rights beyond:
Booking, paying, letting us do our stuff without hassle, then quietly leaving at the session end.
Anything else is drama
and in with me results in a permanent visit to my BLOCKED LIST.
where future calls are met with an Auto-response text message:

AUTOMATIC RESPONSE
I will not meet you, EVER.
You are PERMANENTLY blocked.

Thank god for call blocker Apps.

[aguy]

Many professionals I know told me these clients are the most annoying but at the same time the most profitable ones.

It makes sense because they think the girl actually likes them so they start paying more.

I've seen it happen with a friend of mine,I've seen it happen with many other guys so I have no reason to believe otherwise.

I never said all pros act like that.I didn't say they don't already have boyfriends either.Just to set the record straight.

What I did say is that it's better to avoid trying to form a relationship with a pro because there's a big chance she's just playing you.

Meeting a pro outside the professional context is a different thing.

I met more than one girls (not as a client) and we did have a good time but if we're talking pro then no,I never try to do more than just have a 1-2hour sex session.

[sexyasianescorts]

Many of our Transexual Escorts have boyfriends and for some it works and some it does not. I think that you have to accept that persons lifestyle and not try to change them