How "SECRET" is your love of shemales.

[rancor169]

I have been so afraid of consequences and had so many close calls... I know none of my friends would understand...at least the guys.

[transpounder]

Originally Posted by ts_lover

Very secret! Don't know but i think ill never tell it somebody... even not my gf :P

+1 on that same boat for me

[gta]

Originally Posted by TSLuva

Huge secret, I was & still am excited (could hardly sleep the night I first found this site) about finding this forum & finally being able to communicate with others that worship these beauties.

This makes 2 of us.

[storm11]

Very secret for now, dont know if I will ever tell anyone.

[inadaze]

Originally Posted by curiousguy51973

My admiration of shemales goes beyond secret. I work for the government and it could possibly cost me my career, and I don't wish to test that.
I am married and my wife does not like my viewing porn. But we do occasionally go to sex toy shops to look around and see what we might enjoy. The last time we were there, we saw a "Shemale Love Doll" on the wall. Her response to it has led me to believe that if I play my cards right I may be able to introduce her to my love of shemales someday. At least, here's hoping anyway.

I thought most western governments were pro gay and transgender and inclusive since they legalised it all ? Or do you work for a non western government ? I think if you work for a western government your job will be secure and you can fuck around all you want. Even the US military has a policy of dont ask dont tell when it comes to gay/gender bending related issues. So they shouldnt ask you and you are under no obligation to tell them.

As for the shemale doll thing. I dont want to burst your bubble cruelly, (to know and live in your own true reality is the first step to dealing with it) but the reality is it could be wishful thinking on your part. But good luck and my best wishes in any case


The biggest danger facing anybody is if they post a picture and identifying information and then also post how important secrecy is to them. This could potentially lead to blackmail.
I urge anyone working for the government not to fall into any such trap as this as especially if government secrets are involved as it could get extremely messy for you.

[epj290]

its very secret with me....but i mean in NYC perhaps people are more liberal about things like this than other places in the world...still i love these boards for being able to share the same liking of shemales.

[tshorny]

Nobody knows for me, shame

[rollon]

never been with a shemale before but have the most sexy wet dreams of them, going to thailand this winter and hope for the first time I will meet a very beautyful ladyboy like Amy or Moo to have a romance and try sex with one or more.

some of my friends have a litle clue of why I go to thailand of my own even that I`m completly strait. but in my younger days I was a transvestite but allways fell in love with feminine beautyful ladies..

so mabe I will fell in love with a ladyboy but never think I would share that with my friends, they would right away said I am homo..

so wish me luck in february this year

[Aero]

mine's secret, not going to tell anyone. don't got it in me. lol

[ila]

I have never told anyone of my love of shemales, except for those that have read my posts. A lot of people I know would probably not have much to do with me if they ever found out that I have this great desire to suck shemale cock and be fucked by them. There would also be a lot of suprised people if any knew that I would even want to marry the shemale of my dreams.

[tlover]

Isn't it a real shame that over 60% feel we need to keep what is just a sexual desire/preference or leaning very secret.
I think it says a lot about the oppressive nature of the world we live in.

[ila]

Originally Posted by tlover

Isn't it a real shame that over 60% feel we need to keep what is just a sexual desire/preference or leaning very secret.
I think it says a lot about the oppressive nature of the world we live in.

That is too true. There is always the possibility though that things may change in the future. After all look at how the world has changed for gays and lesbians.

[tlover]

Originally Posted by ila

That is too true. There is always the possibility though that things may change in the future. After all look at how the world has changed for gays and lesbians.

Your certainly right ive said this myself but thing like this change very slowly, but have you noticed things change more quickly when its given a label talked about and understand better, possibly another good reason for us to have a label?
Back on the hated subject of labels. I'm becoming obsessed!

[ila]

Originally Posted by tlover

Back on the hated subject of labels. I'm becoming obsessed!

Do I ever know that feeling.

[vibesfan]

Very much in the closet, people around here would NOT understand. I could not express my fantasies or preferences to anyone here. I am very happy that this forum exists for me to voice my feelings to others who DO understand.

[belfagar]

Its my secret. Plain and simple, I enjoy it. i would prefer to keep my secret masturbation hobby to myself. I am happily married and enjoy a normal sex life. This "Hobby" is for me and me alone. I just enjoy watching quality shemale movies and masturbating. It's private.

[sexynova]

i just told my best friend about it ...she was very supporting

[troymcclure]

I'm not totally secretive about it... but I don't want to be too out in the open about it because it's not like the girls I've dated want everyone to know that they are ts either...

[trannycrazy]

It's staying a secret for now, but one day i'm going to tell everyone because i intend to have a relationship with a ladyboy, in fact i've no intention of ever settling down with a gg. It would be quite funnythough to have a beautiful 100% passable ladyboy partner and you go to family functions or sunday dinner and nobody has any idea that she's a t-girl and you're a cock sucker.

[just102]

I would love to tell and share this with my partner

but I dont think it would go over to well

[mrtrebus]

Very VERY VERY secret...so secret even I don't know!

[nmlss]

If people's mind wasn't so closed.... FUCK PREJUDICES!!!

[mrtrebus]

Originally Posted by nmlss

If people's mind wasn't so closed.... FUCK PREJUDICES!!!

True, maybe I should be braver & go public. The only way to challenge prejudices is to be open & honest...?

[Cadian122]

I have told about 2 people I know, and am always worried that they'd say something. I have brought up the subject with a few other people @ work and uni etc, but using my 'mate Alex' who doesn't exist.
This guy I work with, who I'd like to call a mate, that when I brought up 'my mate Alex' and his tranny fetish, his response was so Intolerent (He says if he meets a Tranny he'd kill her), stopped me from planning on 'going out' with the news, really scared me off.
Another thing, I live in Adelaide, South Australia, wich has a small town Atmosphere, someone you know, knows someone else you know, etc, and there are a few people who don't really like me that go to Mars Bar, (The only Gay bar in Adelaide), which makes me kinda scared to go in and try to hook up with a tranny.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by mrtrebus

True, maybe I should be braver & go public. The only way to challenge prejudices is to be open & honest...?

Ain't that the truth!

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Cadian122

I have told about 2 people I know, and am always worried that they'd say something. I have brought up the subject with a few other people @ work and uni etc, but using my 'mate Alex' who doesn't exist.
This guy I work with, who I'd like to call a mate, that when I brought up 'my mate Alex' and his tranny fetish, his response was so Intolerent (He says if he meets a Tranny he'd kill her), stopped me from planning on 'going out' with the news, really scared me off.
Another thing, I live in Adelaide, South Australia, wich has a small town Atmosphere, someone you know, knows someone else you know, etc, and there are a few people who don't really like me that go to Mars Bar, (The only Gay bar in Adelaide), which makes me kinda scared to go in and try to hook up with a tranny.

Well, my man, small-town mind-sets are usually exactly that... SMALL! I can relate to your inhibitions and surely you will be met by laughs, stupidity and even hostility. But no matter what, YOU are the one who is RIGHT! The transfobic neanderthals in your community are mental midgets that will only move forward once provoked and forced to do so.

You'd be happier in a more developed urban place, I'm certain. Leave the "macho" shit-diggers to their rural shit-digging and fat, ugly bio-"women".

Best wishes and full support to you, my friend.

H

[lolbats]

very secret infact these are the only forums it alk about them on.

[PEPE1970]

By this moment this is my deep secret...........

[TheSkronkDonkey]

I don't go out of my way to tell people, but a few know.

My brother is one of them. I was actually looking at some t-girls on this very forum while he was in the same room. He looked across to see what I was doing and caught me checking out pictures of a cute ladyboy. He casually remarked that they weren't for him and carried on listening to his music. My brother is like that. Very matter of fact; no more, no less. He couldn't really care what I like or don't like. If only all relationships were like that, eh?

The other is a friend of mine. Well, more like ex-friend at this juncture. I let him go on my PC for a bit the last time he visited. He said he wanted to use the net and check out the football results (etc). Fine, I said. I went out the room for a bit because I'm not a guard dog and I had other things to do. Of course, he couldn't resist going through my favourites while I was gone. Transwomen this, shecocks that. I guess he got a nice surprise. :D The way I found out is when he made several not-so-subtle comments afterward. But really, if he's going to go snooping on someone else's computer, what does he expect? Sad that he had to betray my trust, though. Give people an inch ...

I think I wax and wane on the issue. Sometimes, I'm very uptight and it's my "big secret". Other times, I don't really care and whatever happens is whatever happens. I did subtly hint about my attraction to another friend, but he was quite snide and dismissive. Par for the course, really. Some people are tolerant; most people aren't. It can be a bit of a crapshoot. That said, if you're leaning one way or the other, lean on the person being intolerant -- more often than not, you'll be correct. After, and during, childhood, when you begin to shore up your beliefs, when the insidiousness of social conditioning has invaded almost every crack and crevice of your mind, when you begin to be convinced of what you know being more important than what you don't, difference is an enemy to your being, provoking fear and disgust, and the common way to dispel what one fears and finds disgusting is to mock, demean and destroy it. Sad, really.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by TheSkronkDonkey

I don't go out of my way to tell people, but a few know.

My brother is one of them. I was actually looking at some t-girls on this very forum while he was in the same room. He looked across to see what I was doing and caught me checking out pictures of a cute ladyboy. He casually remarked that they weren't for him and carried on listening to his music. My brother is like that. Very matter of fact; no more, no less. He couldn't really care what I like or don't like. If only all relationships were like that, eh?

The other is a friend of mine. Well, more like ex-friend at this juncture. I let him go on my PC for a bit the last time he visited. He said he wanted to use the net and check out the football results (etc). Fine, I said. I went out the room for a bit because I'm not a guard dog and I had other things to do. Of course, he couldn't resist going through my favourites while I was gone. Transwomen this, shecocks that. I guess he got a nice surprise. :D The way I found out is when he made several not-so-subtle comments afterward. But really, if he's going to go snooping on someone else's computer, what does he expect? Sad that he had to betray my trust, though. Give people an inch ...

I think I wax and wane on the issue. Sometimes, I'm very uptight and it's my "big secret". Other times, I don't really care and whatever happens is whatever happens. I did subtly hint about my attraction to another friend, but he was quite snide and dismissive. Par for the course, really. Some people are tolerant; most people aren't. It can be a bit of a crapshoot. That said, if you're leaning one way or the other, lean on the person being intolerant -- more often than not, you'll be correct. After, and during, childhood, when you begin to shore up your beliefs, when the insidiousness of social conditioning has invaded almost every crack and crevice of your mind, when you begin to be convinced of what you know being more important than what you don't, difference is an enemy to your being, provoking fear and disgust, and the common way to dispel what one fears and finds disgusting is to mock, demean and destroy it. Sad, really.

As I believe I've said numerous times before here on this good forum: WE are RIGHT, and the fascist trans-fobics around us are WRONG! There is no other way.

Maybe we should make a "come out of the closet club" for worried guys... I never were in that closet, but I'd probably be able to come with a few success-stories to ease the minds of the worriers.

My point is that why would we care what some fat idiot with a yiky unsexy cis-wife has to say about our honest atttraction?

Screw them... screw the whispering... instead smile, be proud and hold her hand a bit tighter. Because she feels the same. And she will hold your hand a little bit tighter too, letting you know that she is your's and you two share a very special and beautiful love.

Kiss her in public, adore her, love her, laugh with her... respect her! And be ever thankful that she let you have her.

Because having the love of a gorgeous trans-woman is, indeed, very, very special.

Sorry, if I keep repeating myself :-)

H

[ila]

No one has ever asked me. If someone does ask me then, without hesitation, I will say yes I do love transwomen. It would be nice if my special girl was with me the first time that I am asked. I will be able to show how proud I am of her and how strong my feelings are for her.

[9yneGuy]

I voted for "SECRET FOR NOW".

I've never told anyone and if the wrong person found out I'd be devastated. If my brother found out I'd never be able to look him in the face again (mainly because he's 12 and at that age where he doesn't fully understand the concept of sexual fetishes and personal interests). Maybe when he gets older he'd be more accepting.

I can see myself telling my girlfriend (if and when I get one) and my best friend. My best friend might not accept it, but he won't make a big deal out of it and he won't judge me for it. But as of right now, it's my little secret.

[ladylover]

My girlfriend kind of knows. I think that she would actually understand. We've looked at online porn together several times. She likes it as much as I do. We checked out youporn.com together one night. She suggested that we search for "shemale, or tranny porn". Of course, I was very excited. She was just as turned on as I was. That night, we had incredible sex. But, we have not mentioned that night since then......

I cannot help it. I love tranny's and I love women. They are the same in my book.........

[ladylover]

Originally Posted by 9yneGuy

I voted for "SECRET FOR NOW".

I've never told anyone and if the wrong person found out I'd be devastated. If my brother found out I'd never be able to look him in the face again (mainly because he's 12 and at that age where he doesn't fully understand the concept of sexual fetishes and personal interests). Maybe when he gets older he'd be more accepting.

I can see myself telling my girlfriend (if and when I get one) and my best friend. My best friend might not accept it, but he won't make a big deal out of it and he won't judge me for it. But as of right now, it's my little secret.

Seriously, go ahead and put your situation out there. I'm struggling with the same thing. BUT, I know that my current girlfriend would be cool about it. I;m no cheater, but I think that is all she hopes for.

[9yneGuy]

Originally Posted by ladylover

Seriously, go ahead and put your situation out there. I'm struggling with the same thing. BUT, I know that my current girlfriend would be cool about it. I;m no cheater, but I think that is all she hopes for.

I really think I'd only admit it to my best friend if he admits he likes something that is, how you say, "not of the norm". That way I'd feel more comfortable sharing my "not of the norm" like to him.

There's nothing worse than your sexual preferences being judged by people who have no "not of the norm" likes. And as far as I know my friend is one of those people.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by tlover

Isn't it a real shame that over 60% feel we need to keep what is just a sexual desire/preference or leaning very secret.
I think it says a lot about the oppressive nature of the world we live in.

Well then, 60% understand THAT secret.
I wonder if they would understand living it?

[chelsea]

Mines vert secret

i've cheated on the wife several times with a shemale

secret unfortunatly

I'm not ashamed of my passion i really don't but Things would be so unnessecry complicated if the world knew

[tim4lb]

I have only told one friend of mine of my interest in ladyboys and I think he figured that it was just a curiosity. I live far from my family and won't tell them although I have shown them pictures of a very feminine, mostly passable ladyboy gf. I won't tell most people I know despite being completely comfortable going in public (dinners, movies, travelling together, beaches, everywhere) with a ladyboy. Part of it is my job and part is that some of my friends are not so open-minded.

[ocinteeni]

Originally Posted by gizmo

I came back from Thailand, and told all my friend's!
They dont believe me? So I dont know what you call it?
I dont care, it's my life, and I'm gonna enjoy it!

thats funny because i would tell me friends how i think trannies are hot and they would laugh cuz they thought i was joking, they eventually realized i was serious. I am totally open with them about it now, I even got one of my friends to come with me to meet kimber james, I think he likes trannies too though, he hasn't admitted it to me but he told me he watched a vid where a tranny did a genetic chick and he said it was alright.

[theantipiste]

Only a few people know, for instance my friend who walked in on me and his femboy friend in the midst of making out... oops.

[trannylover3]

No one knows.

[neeka]

lol....what kind of ques.....*cough* VERY secret.

Be it straight or gay, seems like shemales might have to be the most secret for some people. The secret makes it even more exciting.

I'm straight and shemale bi, I've never found a pure dude attractive, but a dude that's transformed himself into a herself is not half bad...pretty hot.
especially the most convincing ones.

Futanari is also my fav, cause it's 100% female with a dick, no questions asked.

[zetter44]

nobody knows it but me...

[lacey_maxie]

in my case I'm a big admirer of shemales(like most of the guys visiting this forum) and I take any oppprtunity to have a glance or more at the websites with shemales.As far as I'm aware no one knows about my " addiction" and I always try to keep a low profile regarding my interest in shemales.So I want to keep it very secret now and in the future of course:

[scubbf]

very veery scret
note: i love them

[01101101]

Secret for now, but only in the sense that no one really asks. I don't actively hide my interest but I don't go around talking about it, either.

[Theblindestpilot]

You know, I'm so happy I've discovered this forum. For years now I've felt like such a freak for having this attraction, trying my absolute hardest to kick the "habbit". Some times successfully for months, but I always end up back where I started like an excited little puppy again.

Knowing that there are so many other men out there with the same taste is comforting to say the least.

Like most it seems I've never told ANYONE about my attraction and I don't intend to, not in the near future at least. Recently I've been wondering whether actually having intercourse with a transexual would finally feed this strange.. desire? Curiosity? Who knows..

Anyway, hi everyone, hopefully I'll be sticking around.

[kilgoretrout]

Mine stops here.

I voted secret but my wife knows about it. We had a talk about bisexuality and shemales and she understands. She has admitted to me that she is bi. Sje knows about this site and my Tgirl pic collection. She was checking out shemales with me just lastnight. She is the only person in my life who knows of my hidden desire. My family, friends and society in general would outcast me and disown me from the family. They would all hate me. She hides her bi side from her family too.