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#1
10-17-2007
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Intolerance
My family-life has been a permanent fight against intolerance and prejudices. My father is an ultra-catholic who reputes all the differences dangerous for the society; my mother is not so superstitious but she's equally obtuse and intolerant.
The nicest thing my mother said about my sexuality was: "It's not your fault: you're ill". She usually says i'm a pervert and a dissolute. When my father knew my love for shemales he said: "Your mother told me something terrible" ( that's the most idiot sentence i've ever heard). At the moment i've broken all my relationships with my father and i'm looking for a permanent job what allows me to abandone definitivelly the house of my mother ( perhaps i'm very close to find one  ). Some parents are a disgrace. They can't understand that the love for a ladyboy can be so strong, tender and wonderful as the love for a girl. In my love for Luiza they see only illness and perversion. I find very hard to understand their attitude. During their marriage they were always unfaithful, till they got divorced, whereas i (the "depraved" son) love my girlfriend with all my love and will never cheat on her. This fact is paradoxical ...  I hope your family is a bit more open-minded ( and less idiot) as mine
Last edited by eliogabalo; 10-17-2007 at 03:04 AM. 
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#2
10-17-2007
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I sympathise with you my friend. Society is full of such intolerance, from religion right down to the clothes you wear and the food you eat. It seems the majority of people are insecure when faced with anything that's different from what they know and expect. It's caused most of the wars in history and seems set to continue.
I guess when faced with intolerance there are three choices: 1. Fight it and try persuade your opponents of (at least) your right to your preference. I find this is usually a complete waste of energy. People who start with closed minds seldom open them. 2. Submit to peer pressure and either abandon your preferences or subvert them underground. I think many of us on this forum are forced to do this to a greater or lesser degree, depending on personal circumstances. 3. Simply ignore your critics and go do what pleases you. Obviously this is the ideal route - and it seems the one that you've been forced into - but one has to be in a very strong economic and social position to do this and it takes a lot of balls; it's a bit of a luxury for most of us, but it's the most liberating choice when you can do it. Best wishes and keep it up (figuratively and literally)!
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#3
10-17-2007
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I sympatise with you on your family situation. My advice is to do what you are happy and comfortable with.
DON"T WORRY, BE HAPPY
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#4
10-18-2007
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i can sympathize with you on this. my father, while not an uber-catholic, is basically THE most prejudiced man i have ever met. if you can be against something, he's against it. inter-racial relationships, homosexuality, different religions, different races, tattoos, piercings - he hates them all. an example of how "traditional" he is - i got my left ear pierced when i was 8 years old, and my brother (who was 10 at the time) also got his pierced. my father, who drove us to get it done, called us homos all the way home. thank god he left when i was 10 haha. ironically now i have 2 earrings in both of my earlobes, and i had a labret ring for about a year. my mother has said many times that she will always love her children no matter how they are so i can't really relate on that one, but she doesn't know i'm a 'paratrexual' (for explanation and definition of this head here: http://www.reneereyes.com/Webdocs/ad...ientation.html), but i doubt she will cut all ties with me when i tell her. my advice, like everyone else's in this thread, is just do what makes YOU happy, and damn everyone who says it's wrong
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#5
10-18-2007
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Don't expect family members to support you. They are not only close-minded, but are embarrassed about you. This is the way I see it: If your family cannot accept you the way you are, they are a piss-poor family, and you do not need them.
If it were me, I'd move away from them as soon as I could, and not look back. I had a parent that was shunned, not because of anything in particular, but I think it was because she was prettier than the rest of the family. And they hated her for that. Yet she wanted to have something to do with her family, because she had low self-esteem, and no friends. That was sad. But, if a family accepts some people for who they are, bravo to them. My mother asked me if I were gay, because I wanted to go to a friend's house all the time. It was not for gay reasons. We liked to get drunk, and party, but I guess my mother was jealous I had friends. I never really considered wanting cock (I liked mine, but not anyone elses) but I always bought tons of girly magazines and masturbated 2 or more times a day. Then last year I saw a picture of a beautiful girl, with nice tits, and ass. But then I saw the cock. I grew to accept shemales. I still don't like men men. If they look masculine, or have hair on any parts except the head and crotch, I don't want it. Sickness is a matter of opinion. However, child molestors are sick, and I'll tell you why: Children are too young to consent to sex, and are not ready for sex. Sex is fine, between consenting adults of any combination of genders, as long as it's not in public. And as long as no one or no animal is harmed. PS., I used to hate gays, and drag-queens, and mixed races. I used to be the biggest bigot on earth. But since I live in a glass house, I've learned not to throw stones. I do have SOME prejudices, but they are a lot less then they used to be. I try to accept everyone, as long as they treat me and others decent. I don't care what they do, as long as they don't cause harm. But I would prefer people have sex in private, unless of course, I wanted to watch, then I'd want to join in, or at least masturbate.
Last edited by tgirl virgin; 10-18-2007 at 08:22 AM.
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#6
10-18-2007
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In my life i've known 2 different kinds of intolerance. The first kind hates all the differences and think they're perversions; the second kind confuses difference with illness and think we are sick.
The first kind of intolerance is typical of many moralists and of the "religious" people. The second is typical of some "good idiots", who always worry about you and always feel sorry for you. The first kind of intolerance can be terrible, but the second is more dangerous and insidious, because it assumes the appareance of the compassion and of the pity. I think the second kind is even worse than the first. These idiots think you're ill only because you are "different" and more open-minded than they are. I'm not ill and don't want their stupid pity. Love for shemales is a wonderful feeling, bordering on the human aspiration to beauty, completeness and perfection. Homophobia and stupidity are the real illnesses.
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10-18-2007
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#8
10-19-2007
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i am no lover of religion, but let us (the non-religious people) not get smug. atheists can be as intolerant as any fanatical religious maniac. a short look at the 20th century says enough. to be truly tolerant is not easy. every day, every moment we have to check our attitude to others.
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