is it possible to have a Female g/f and be into Trannies?

[Ibuymp3s]

so I been having TS fetish since high school and never had a g/f before. i like some girls and sort of dont want to even approach them because in the back of my mind i know i only get 100% turned on by trannies. does it work that way when you actually have sex with women? does it feel like they just dont give you that "rush"? or is there ways to go around that? just curious cuz women are everywhere, and trannies are rare (at least the type that i want. im picky and dont want any that resemble men, but most do). so im kinda worried whether or not ill ever have a healthy relationship and enjoy sex if i dont get a tranny.

[ila]

You really should read this and then maybe reconsider how you would like to word your post.

[franalexes]

We had (still do I hope) a member here over the past three years that felt much like you. No girl would ever love him.( so he thought) He had the hots for Trannies. But they had to look like girls and not like men. yada yada yada,,,,,
Then a girl found him. ( the end) they are married.
He discovered all sex functions work and work very well. ( baby coming soon)
If you can, get yourself into an environment, ( work or social group) where women are around. You will discover their many differences and you will decide what ones you like.
As for love, you don't find it. IT FINDS YOU.

[Ibuymp3s]

Originally Posted by ila

You really should read this and then maybe reconsider how you would like to word your post.

first of all. what do you mean when you say "ciswomen"? second, i really did mean FEMALES, as in 100% BORN women with vaginas. how is that offensive? how am i supposed to describe what im talking about when anything i say will be scrutinized and offend someone? people put labels on things. thats what they do. its how we can distinguish black from white, yellow from blue, etc.. so just to clarify, am i supposed to refer to t-girls/shemales/transwomen as females? and if i refer to real females as females i am offending the transwomen somehow and in someway? please clarify because i am confused on what i said that would offend someone.

and i read both threads, including the one the girl made inside yours.

i simply said i am picky. and no this isnt just when it comes to tgirls, i am picky with ALL girls/tgirls/shemales/females. sorry if that offended you or anyone, but thats how i am.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Ibuymp3s

first of all. what do you mean when you say "ciswomen"? second, i really did mean FEMALES, as in 100% BORN women with vaginas. how is that offensive? how am i supposed to describe what im talking about when anything i say will be scrutinized and offend someone? people put labels on things. thats what they do. its how we can distinguish black from white, yellow from blue, etc.. so just to clarify, am i supposed to refer to t-girls/shemales/transwomen as females? and if i refer to real females as females i am offending the transwomen somehow and in someway? please clarify because i am confused on what i said that would offend someone.

and i read both threads, including the one the girl made inside yours.

i simply said i am picky. and no this isnt just when it comes to tgirls, i am picky with ALL girls/tgirls/shemales/females. sorry if that offended you or anyone, but thats how i am.

Ungendering is not acceptable, and the excuse "thats how I am" doesn't cut it. Had you read the UNGENDERING thread fully, you wouldn't be asking most of the questions you pose in the post I'm quoting just above. Further, since it's clear from the fact that you post here you have access to the Internet, you could've looked up "ciswoman" -- and it would have made sense to do so, don't you think?

The bottom line is that your post is offensive because it draws a distinction between "females" and transwomen ... and that's not acceptable, period. Transwomen are as much female as any other women.

[optimusmike123]

Originally Posted by smc

Ungendering is not acceptable, and the excuse "thats how I am" doesn't cut it. Had you read the UNGENDERING thread fully, you wouldn't be asking most of the questions you pose in the post I'm quoting just above. Further, since it's clear from the fact that you post here you have access to the Internet, you could've looked up "ciswoman" -- and it would have made sense to do so, don't you think?

The bottom line is that your post is offensive because it draws a distinction between "females" and transwomen ... and that's not acceptable, period. Transwomen are as much female as any other women.

to be fair to the guy had had to make a distinction between the two in order for people to understand what he was asking.

and in answer to his question, yes it is possible. i have a very healthy sex life with my girlfriend. sometimes you just have to get creative with your sex

[smc]

Originally Posted by optimusmike123

to be fair to the guy had had to make a distinction between the two in order for people to understand what he was asking.

and in answer to his question, yes it is possible. i have a very healthy sex life with my girlfriend. sometimes you just have to get creative with your sex

A distinction can be made between ciswomen and transwomen, or genetic women and transwomen, or (as our own JodieTS puts it) first-day women and transwomen, without referring to some as females and implying others are something else. That is UNGENDERING and offensive to transwomen.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by smc

A distinction can be made between ciswomen and transwomen, or genetic women and transwomen, or (as our own JodieTS puts it) first-day women and transwomen, without referring to some as females and implying others are something else. That is UNGENDERING and offensive to transwomen.

Not to mention calling them "trannies" or "tranny".

[Ibuymp3s]

Originally Posted by franalexes

We had (still do I hope) a member here over the past three years that felt much like you. No girl would ever love him.( so he thought) He had the hots for Trannies. But they had to look like girls and not like men. yada yada yada,,,,,
Then a girl found him. ( the end) they are married.
He discovered all sex functions work and work very well. ( baby coming soon)
If you can, get yourself into an environment, ( work or social group) where women are around. You will discover their many differences and you will decide what ones you like.
As for love, you don't find it. IT FINDS YOU.

thats nice to know.

Originally Posted by optimusmike123

to be fair to the guy had had to make a distinction between the two in order for people to understand what he was asking.

and in answer to his question, yes it is possible. i have a very healthy sex life with my girlfriend. sometimes you just have to get creative with your sex

so, does that mean you and your g/f watch tranny porn before/while sex? the hardest thing is to actually tell your g/f you like tgirls. some may just call you a faggot and not be so open minded. does your girl satisfy you, mentally? or do you need tranny porn to feel that 100% rush? cuz im the latter.

[sosed]

They are all girls, so I don't think it is impossible, but it is more about personal taste and about person, which is in your mind.

[ernieone]

i like girls, transgender turn me on and I can happily say had a short but beautiful relationship with one.She opened my eyes so much to her life.20 years on she still blows my mind thinking of her.

[optimusmike123]

Originally Posted by Ibuymp3s

thats nice to know.



so, does that mean you and your g/f watch tranny porn before/while sex? the hardest thing is to actually tell your g/f you like tgirls. some may just call you a faggot and not be so open minded. does your girl satisfy you, mentally? or do you need tranny porn to feel that 100% rush? cuz im the latter.

ive never told her that i like tgirls but we like too experiment and use alot off toys, so every so often she will were a strap on. and yes she does. its all about how you arouse each other and keep each other interested.

[Ibuymp3s]

Originally Posted by optimusmike123

ive never told her that i like tgirls but we like too experiment and use alot off toys, so every so often she will were a strap on. and yes she does. its all about how you arouse each other and keep each other interested.

if i let my g/f do me with a strap on, i would tell her im into trannies. but thats just me.

[teglin]

It is absolutely possible to be into Tgirls and have a girlfriend. I've been married happily to a 'real' girl for thirty years and throughout that time have been attracted to Tgirls.

For me, and I suspect for you, since you mentioned being attracted to very feminine Tgirls, it is all about the feminine allure. What's between their legs is like a glorious surprise and joy, whether it's a penis or a vulva.

The feminine allure is about much more than the genitals, or even the physical appearance. It's about a girl's emotional tenderness, her desire to please her man, her caring about her appearance and purity ... yeah, yeah, I'm sure some will say I'm all wet, but that's the way I feel.

In the final analysis, it all comes down to genetics. We are attracted to whomever we are attracted to, because of our genes. I am almost completely turned off by a macho man, or a burly Tranny. And yet I am attracted to the virility and power and beauty of a penis and balls. I can't explain that. It just is. And to see a Tgirl, who has made a concious, deliberate choice to embrace her femininity while retaining her essential maleness - wow, it just drives me wild.

It's all natural. Embrace your love for Trannies. Embrace your love for 'the feminine.' You can find a girl to love. You may find a Tgirl to love. Both will complete you in their own way.

[smc]

Originally Posted by teglin

It is absolutely possible to be into Tgirls and have a girlfriend. I've been married happily to a 'real' girl for thirty years and throughout that time have been attracted to Tgirls.

For me, and I suspect for you, since you mentioned being attracted to very feminine Tgirls, it is all about the feminine allure. What's between their legs is like a glorious surprise and joy, whether it's a penis or a vulva.

The feminine allure is about much more than the genitals, or even the physical appearance. It's about a girl's emotional tenderness, her desire to please her man, her caring about her appearance and purity ... yeah, yeah, I'm sure some will say I'm all wet, but that's the way I feel.

In the final analysis, it all comes down to genetics. We are attracted to whomever we are attracted to, because of our genes. I am almost completely turned off by a macho man, or a burly Tranny. And yet I am attracted to the virility and power and beauty of a penis and balls. I can't explain that. It just is. And to see a Tgirl, who has made a concious, deliberate choice to embrace her femininity while retaining her essential maleness - wow, it just drives me wild.

It's all natural. Embrace your love for Trannies. Embrace your love for 'the feminine.' You can find a girl to love. You may find a Tgirl to love. Both will complete you in their own way.

With all this love being professed, I hope you will recognize that there should be no distinction drawn between what you refer to as a "real" girl and a transwoman. As you write, "whether it's a penis or a vulva" down there, we are talking about WOMEN in both cases.

[Lycanthropunk]

My fiancee has a pussy and she is happy that I like girls with cocks. In fact she says it's easier to deal with as they have something she can't offer.

[Ibuymp3s]

Originally Posted by Lycanthropunk

My fiancee has a pussy and she is happy that I like girls with cocks. In fact she says it's easier to deal with as they have something she can't offer.

that makes no sense.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Lycanthropunk

My fiancee has a pussy and she is happy that I like girls with cocks. In fact she says it's easier to deal with as they have something she can't offer.

Originally Posted by Ibuymp3s

that makes no sense.

Of course, it makes sense. The fiancee is saying that if it's something she can't offer, she never has to deal with the question of how she "competes" ... and that's the kind of thing people in relationships often worry about.

[aussiepride]

Originally Posted by shadows

Not to mention calling them "trannies" or "tranny".

my gf refers to herself as a trannie or tranny. should i stop her from saying those names to save her from offending herself?

on serious note, only one she says ts people find offensive is "shemales"

as for the original point of this thread, dude, you have to get out there and experience it all.
if you aint had gg or ts before, then pay for hookers, find out if licking pussy just freaks you out, or seeing a cock wobbling around the place on an otherwise sexy girl makes u wonder what you are doing.

my personal story...
i never thought of sex with ts or guys at all until recently. i had a long term relationship with a gg, and was very happy sexually and thought it was my future. through porn i got into ts, and from there i experimented, and from that i am now in a long term relationship with a ts. i dont see myself being without her. shes a stunning sexy woman, but has a cock. i do sometimes see gg girls, but also like to play with other ts. if i had to choose one to be with the rest of my life, it would be my gf. i dont see her as gg or ts or anything, i just see her as the person i love.
living ya life with someone is say like 20% sex. there are plenty of people i have had mind blowing sex with but for wotever reason, there is nothing there other than just sex. when u choose a partner u look for things beyond just a physical attraction. thats why u can have sex with ts and still love, live with, and build future with a gg.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by aussiepride

my gf refers to herself as a trannie or tranny. should i stop her from saying those names to save her from offending herself?

on serious note, only one she says ts people find offensive is "shemales"

aussie, I was just relaying what numerous transwomen on this site have mentioned.