I'm getting an oil massage today...

[WudLuv2try]

I've been thinking about it for many days : I'm going to get an oil massage.

And today seems to be a good day to do it.

Now, what is an oil massage?

It's when you have a massuese pour oil all over your naked body and rub every inch of your body. It's very relaxing and sexually arousing as hell.

I do it in 'spa'... it's not a sex shop, or anything like that, the place is really nice... both men and women come to the spa. There is no prostitutes or things like that, it's just a spa.

But if you know how to talk to the massuese, they will massage your dick until you cum. Rub oil all over the dick, stroke it, play with your balls... rub your prostate... tease your anus...

And usually the massuese is pretty woman... sometimes very young, sometimes more mature...

For the massuese, it's a turn on too. To see a guy, lying on the bed, oil all over the naked body, and a huge erection... I've had massuese finger herself while jacking off my dick.

Anyway... I've been in dire need for some sexual activity, and this is as close as I can get to having a good orgasm without feeling guilty about cheating on my wife.

[The Conquistador]

Oil rubs fuckin rule!

[megalops]

Sounds like fun. Enjoy!

[PI_Monger]

I don't currently have a significant other, but when I did I found that a little "strange" on the side actually made me feel closer to my partner. I know it sounds bizarre, but there's something about scratching the itch that made me feel more at ease and domesticated once I'd gotten it out of my system.

It goes against all of the Puritanical dogma we're force fed in the West, but I truly believe a little side action from time to time will actually prolong a relationship. Or at least make it more bearable. Hard to break free from our Guilt-Based society mindset though. As far as I know, a rub-n-tug has never hurt anyone.

Getting an erotic massage has been on my mind too. I figure it's not full-on sex, but it's a start. If I never lose my virginity, at least I could honestly say a woman touched me sexually.

[WudLuv2try]

I got a huge hard on when she started to rub my ass, but guess what...

I didn't.

I just got the massage, and went home to have sex with my wife.

I still have hard time exposing my dick to another woman.

I was going regularly to the massage parlour. There was a masseuse in there who was Russian and she was beautiful.
When she finished the massage she start to touch my balls and start masturbate my cock while she was exploring my anus
And of course i was exploring her And then i learned she get married and quit the job.
I like massage parlours, you lie on bad naked with a towel and a girl comes and take the towel and you all naked. mmmmm

So sexy !!!!!!!

[WudLuv2try]

tslover : Yup. Oil massage the best...

But after I got married, I'm having hard time doing it... because I feel guilty about it...

And that's why I need a TS massuese. So I won't feel bad about exposing my dick to another woman.

If I expose my dick to another male, technically, it's nothing. Just like pissing in public toilet with another guy pissing next to me. Or taking shower at the golf courses...

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by WudLuv2try

tslover : Yup. Oil massage the best...

But after I got married, I'm having hard time doing it... because I feel guilty about it...

And that's why I need a TS massuese. So I won't feel bad about exposing my dick to another woman.

If I expose my dick to another male, technically, it's nothing. Just like pissing in public toilet with another guy pissing next to me. Or taking shower at the golf courses...

You could win the Olympics with those mental gymnastics.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by WudLuv2try

tslover : Yup. Oil massage the best...

But after I got married, I'm having hard time doing it... because I feel guilty about it...

And that's why I need a TS massuese. So I won't feel bad about exposing my dick to another woman.

If I expose my dick to another male, technically, it's nothing. Just like pissing in public toilet with another guy pissing next to me. Or taking shower at the golf courses...

The comment in your last paragraph is pretty insulting to the many beautiful women who post here(actually, it is insulting to all of the women, regardless of whether they post here or not).

[WudLuv2try]

Originally Posted by shadows

The comment in your last paragraph is pretty insulting to the many beautiful women who post here(actually, it is insulting to all of the women, regardless of whether they post here or not).

I see how my last paragraph could be insulting to women.

But still, it's true. I cannot show my penis to another woman. It's psychological block, sort of. I would feel extremely guilty about it.

I've not shown my penis to another male either, but not having done that, I can imagine, and I imagine I'd be OK with it.

Now, is it OK to say that?

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by WudLuv2try

I see how my last paragraph could be insulting to women.

But still, it's true. I cannot show my penis to another woman. It's psychological block, sort of. I would feel extremely guilty about it.

I've not shown my penis to another male either, but not having done that, I can imagine, and I imagine I'd be OK with it.

Now, is it OK to say that?

Your last statement was insulting to trans women. Your explanation isn't helping. Can you guess why?

[WudLuv2try]

Bionca : Hm... I kind of see it now...

But just to make sure I understand it correctly,

Is it because I sound like I'm thinking, TS = male?

And that I'm thinking TS does not equal REAL woman?

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by WudLuv2try

Bionca : Hm... I kind of see it now...

But just to make sure I understand it correctly,

Is it because I sound like I'm thinking, TS = male?

And that I'm thinking TS does not equal REAL woman?

Pretty much

[franalexes]

WTF ? Is this the start of yet another insult thread?
Be careful children. The last one got deleted if you didn't notice already.

[WudLuv2try]

Originally Posted by franalexes

WTF ? Is this the start of yet another insult thread?
Be careful children. The last one got deleted if you didn't notice already.

No, it's NOT a start of yet another insult thread, I assure you.

[WudLuv2try]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Pretty much

Hm...

My apoligies... if that's acceptable...

Didn't mean to do that...

I was just speaking my mind about how I felt about exposing my sexual organ to other person, whether that be a male or a female.

I guess what I wanted to say was, that I feel uncomfortable showing my sexual organ to anyone except TS.

I feel like I should just keep my mouth shut from now on. I don't know enough about you, to be able to distinguish what is insulting to you and what is acceptable.

May be I should just read... and learn... about your world... for another year, before I actually post things in this site.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by WudLuv2try

Hm...

My apoligies... if that's acceptable...

Didn't mean to do that...

I was just speaking my mind about how I felt about exposing my sexual organ to other person, whether that be a male or a female.

I guess what I wanted to say was, that I feel uncomfortable showing my sexual organ to anyone except TS.

I feel like I should just keep my mouth shut from now on. I don't know enough about you, to be able to distinguish what is insulting to you and what is acceptable.

May be I should just read... and learn... about your world... for another year, before I actually post things in this site.

Now that would be silly wouldn't it?

This isn't my site, so what offends me shouldn't really be an issue a far as what gets said. This doesn't mean I won't comment on things that I see as a problem - just as anyone else will. My feelings and opinions on topics really don't matter in any meaningful way.

I do think that learning about the realities of trans women can be helpful. This why this site and the various topics are so good. They give a chance for people to make statements and receive feedback.