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Old 09-30-2009
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Ok, so I've not had experience or been to somewhere like Thailand..but I know what I like. I have a question. Let take Nana area - are these ladyboys just after money? I mean I know it is probably a stupid question and everyone will say yes of course. But what is their long term ambitions? Could they fall in love with you for real and want a real relationship? Getting out of that place and being a real couple? I'm ignorant about all this but know that to have a ladyboy lover would be such a dream of mine. I've also heard that ladyboys in places like Thailand actually hate westerners at heart, but have to do what they do for money. I'm just curious as to what their long term ambitions are and whether anyone has experience of any of them revealling this?
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Interesting question.

Don't know the answer though I suspect that you may be correct with SOME of them.

However, please keep in mind people are always different to each other. Some may dislike foreigners, others don't .... even like them, prefer them even .
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i read an article some time ago (cant find it now) that interviewed two ladyboys going through transition. they said that they wern't gay nor did they have any deep desire to be female, they were going through this process to earn money from westerners. their intention was to undergo a full sex change. they said that they were supported by their families, who were particularly interested in the money that these "girls" would send back home.

im sure this is a rare case, but it seems to me that money is a very powerful motivator.
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i read an article some time ago (cant find it now) that interviewed two ladyboys going through transition. they said that they wern't gay nor did they have any deep desire to be female, they were going through this process to earn money from westerners. their intention was to undergo a full sex change. they said that they were supported by their families, who were particularly interested in the money that these "girls" would send back home.

im sure this is a rare case, but it seems to me that money is a very powerful motivator.
This is insulting to transwomen. Period.
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This is a rare moment in history. I agree with smc !
The above post (#3) is about as rare as finding a female on a transsexual porn site. It is also offensive and I'm not going to answer here. Although I think in past years I have answered in other threads. You may enjoy looking for it.
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This is insulting to transwomen. Period.
Your personal opinion or assuming how all transwoman think?
The point he makes is interesting and valid, and there is a lot of evidence to suggest that simply woman (or mtf woman) make more money and have better payinng jobs (and non laboring jobs) and hence can provide for their families better in countries like thailand and philipines.

As for the original post, god yes there are plenty of working girls that would leave that life today for their prince.
There is a thread in this forum about ladyboy Dao. She is a gorgeous pre op ts, worked ever night as a pro on the streets of Thailand, even did some Internet porn work, but all she wanted was to save up enough money inorder to follow her other dreams.. And she did.. Found a man.. And has quit the business
. She used to tell me towards the end that she would fake orgasm with guys just to get the business over so they would leave.
If you ever go to Thailand or Phil's and see how people (westerners) behave over there, its pretty appalling how they treat the woman there, I mean the girls there are treated sometimes with so little respect its sad. So who is to say that some of the woman there don't recipricate that behavioir toward the westernsm (lol while still geting as much cash out of them as possible).
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Your personal opinion or assuming how all transwoman think?
The point he makes is interesting and valid, and there is a lot of evidence to suggest that simply woman (or mtf woman) make more money and have better payinng jobs (and non laboring jobs) and hence can provide for their families better in countries like thailand and philipines. ...
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you did not also challenge franalexes, a transwomen, because your posts were likely being written at the same time. She agrees with my assessment, writing:

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This is a rare moment in history. I agree with smc !
The above post (#3) is about as rare as finding a female on a transsexual porn site. It is also offensive and I'm not going to answer here. Although I think in past years I have answered in other threads. You may enjoy looking for it.
I would never speak for franalexes, so I won't characterize the basis for her agreement with me. I will clarify my point, though. My statement that the statement is insulting is not about the fact that people do all sorts of things for money. It was that samshap, despite acknowledging that the example "is a rare case," implies a "yes" answer to the original question that begins the thread. And samshap does it in a matter-of-fact way. The insult to transwomen is the failure to point out that what samshap describes is a form of exploitation. It seems hardly about gender identity at all. It is about exploitation, exploitation, exploitation.
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This is a rare moment in history. I agree with smc !
The above post (#3) is about as rare as finding a female on a transsexual porn site. It is also offensive and I'm not going to answer here. Although I think in past years I have answered in other threads. You may enjoy looking for it.
Sorry, fran, but it's not as rare as you state. It seems to me that you've just decided to make it that way.
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back to the original question,"what do TS girls want?" ; I suppose it could be a lively discussion wether "the business" is a destiny or a path to another goal.
For those that want a serious and non porno answer, I post a link to a serious site that will give you better insight to this question.

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How about....What everyone wants in life. Your question makes it sound like they aren't human.
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In my experience, most if not all want $$$$, in some cases a relationship beyond P4P as this suggests a steady stream of $$$.
This post may be deemed offensive by some but it is formed by years of paying Thai LB's for sex.
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i read an article some time ago (cant find it now) that interviewed two ladyboys going through transition. they said that they wern't gay nor did they have any deep desire to be female, they were going through this process to earn money from westerners. their intention was to undergo a full sex change. they said that they were supported by their families, who were particularly interested in the money that these "girls" would send back home.

im sure this is a rare case, but it seems to me that money is a very powerful motivator.

WTF?????
the above sounds like something the late Rev Farwell would preech
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Well I have never been to Thailand but I suppose that most of them
want what we all want, love and companionship, as I told you in an
earlier post I have recently started dating a shemale and what I have
managed to puzzle together she was rather lonely earlier, she wanted
to meet a decent man and almost everybody she ran into was either
mean to her or wanted to pay her for casual sex, in short no socalled
normal men, as for me I am far from normal but apparently I am a rather
nice person so they say anyway, in short I treated her as I would treat
a woman that I was courting and she seemed to appreciate that.
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Again, it's all in here.

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I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you did not also challenge franalexes, a transwomen, because your posts were likely being written at the same time. She agrees with my assessment, writing:



I would never speak for franalexes, so I won't characterize the basis for her agreement with me. I will clarify my point, though. My statement that the statement is insulting is not about the fact that people do all sorts of things for money. It was that samshap, despite acknowledging that the example "is a rare case," implies a "yes" answer to the original question that begins the thread. And samshap does it in a matter-of-fact way. The insult to transwomen is the failure to point out that what samshap describes is a form of exploitation. It seems hardly about gender identity at all. It is about exploitation, exploitation, exploitation.
i see your point, but i wouldnt necessarily call it exploitation.
who is the one getting exploited?
i mean when i go out on the town i dont have 10+ people coming up to me wanting to fuck me, let alone willing to pay me to do it.
a lot of sex workers talk about the empowerment that comes from being one.
some of these asian ts have many "while whales" (sponsors etc) on the go at one time. they can be quite ruthless in the way they behave.

now me personally, i think its terribly sad the way these girls feel they need to live inorder to make a living, but then again i grew up in a country with a high standard of living, health care, parents that earnt enough money for their children to never want or need for anything.
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i see your point, but i wouldnt necessarily call it exploitation.
who is the one getting exploited?
i mean when i go out on the town i dont have 10+ people coming up to me wanting to fuck me, let alone willing to pay me to do it.
a lot of sex workers talk about the empowerment that comes from being one.
some of these asian ts have many "while whales" (sponsors etc) on the go at one time. they can be quite ruthless in the way they behave.

now me personally, i think its terribly sad the way these girls feel they need to live inorder to make a living, but then again i grew up in a country with a high standard of living, health care, parents that earnt enough money for their children to never want or need for anything.
The point is about exploitation, and your last sentence proves the point. There's personal exploitation and the socio-economic exploitation of an entire nation or people.
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i read an article some time ago (cant find it now) that interviewed two ladyboys going through transition. they said that they wern't gay nor did they have any deep desire to be female, they were going through this process to earn money from westerners. their intention was to undergo a full sex change. they said that they were supported by their families, who were particularly interested in the money that these "girls" would send back home.

im sure this is a rare case, but it seems to me that money is a very powerful motivator.
Ok my post relates to Whoring, only.
In Thailand that is often a factor with escorts be that trans or Day-1 females escorts.
There is a culture of don't ask don't tell when it comes to families
receiving money from their children who escort.
Some ladyboys are in it for the Coin, only.

Oh, also in London too.
I know several shemale escorts from Btrazil who whore.
They send the money back home and in due course intend to retire
get their breast augmentation reversed, and go back home and retire, living as gay men.
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